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Romance › Re: Why Does Rejection Hurt Guys So Much? by socoharley:
Mariangeles:
That is a lie, @bolded.
It's mostly men that do that.
Once a lady rejects them, they get so pained, they start stalking the lady, and wishing them bad, going by what I've read on this platform.

Heck! Men can stalk the ladies that rejected them even years later, to know what became of them.
Even after they (the men) are married with kids o.
(One on here even went as far back as some twenty something years later to know what became of a girl he couldn't even woo)


Unlike ladies, once a man they like comes along, they get so carried away, the others before him never existed.
Did i get angry and snub you when you rejected my advance? I believe i dodged a bullet called "overconfidence" in you and not quite long after that encounter I found "her" so it doesn't apply to every man nne.

Romance › Re: I Generally Avoid Women by socoharley: 1:13am On Sep 16
Riddlemark:
I avoid having romantic relationship with women.I am not gay my mama born me well.It is just that since I was young I have never understood the hype around women.I am not the most handsome but am not ugly either.All the five ladies I have dated came for me and I ended things with them because they were too clingy.I will 39 in November and everybody has been singing marriage to me but like nobody cares about how I feel.I don't want to marry nor have children but I can't say it loud in public.Money is no longer my problem but I want to live alone cos am happier alone.Pls is it normal or can anyone relate with this?
It is normal but having dated only just 5 ladies is not enough experience to get you feeling like that is not so normal...

Business › Re: Having A Male Heir Is Not My Priority - Dangote by socoharley: 5:02pm On Sep 15
Nice2023:
Hmmm guy change ur archaic mentality bro.
Seek knowledge first.

A company can continue to exist and operate under a legal trust regardless of whether the owner has male heirs, female heirs, or no children at all.
only ignorant people think the way you think,so get educated fast.

Business › Re: Having A Male Heir Is Not My Priority - Dangote by socoharley: 3:37pm On Sep 15
Nice2023:
One poor man some where is troubling himself to have a son by all means possible,thereby increasing his poverty.

Like I used to tell some friends including my brother who has three girls...u won't know what u have until u see a family of six boys and none is worth anything of value.

There are many boys wasting away today doing drugs,gambling their lives away and some are armed robbers and bandits,which all derailed from the paths expected of them.

Whatever u are given by natural selection...train them and ensure they are not influenced by the wicked environment and bad neighbors.

"Na poor man dey kill himself over gender matter"
If Dangote doesn't have a son to keep his name alive,then everything he ever worked for will someday go down the drain of history.

Romance › Re: You Rejected Him, So Why Are You Angry That He Moved On? by socoharley: 3:25pm On Sep 15
No is stop and moving on is forward ahead!

Business › Re: 10 Benefits Of The Dangote Refinery To Nigeria’s Economy by socoharley: 7:38am On Sep 15
NNPC is very useless, otherwise this revenue should be generated for country but see who's reaping it now...Dangote!

Politics › Re: Peter Obi To Soludo: Find One Person I Owe, And I’ll End My 2027 Campaign Today. by socoharley: 2:28am On Sep 15
Ofunaofu:
BREAKING: Mr Peter Obi respond governor Soludo

“I left office as Governor nearly 13 years ago. On the day I left office, I was not owing any salaries, pensions, gratuities or any money that the Anambra State Government was supposed to pay. I did not owe a single supplier or contractor. If you find even one person I owed, I will end my 2027 campaign today.”

— Mr Peter Obi, responding to Governor Chukwuma Soludo today following a report by the state government that it is still repaying loans borrowed during his administration.
Soludo is a monumental failure as governor of Anambra state...a man who couldn't even raise a son right undecided....shame on you Soludo!

Business › Re: Dangote: 36th Richest Man In The World Walking On The Street Of Lagos Today by socoharley: 2:18am On Sep 15
floss:
Dangote have done all his assignments and results are showing now
Great man!!!

Politics › Re: Rufai Oseni Reacts To Desmond Elliot Kneeling To Beg Gbajabiamila by socoharley: 6:49pm On Sep 14
Very good for Desmond Elliot, his political career is over just as it started...

Just look at what some men have stooped to?
His male kids watching their "super dad" kneel and beg a real "super man"with tears almost in his eyes...Chai!!

Politics › Re: Desmond Elliot Kneels Down, Begs Gbajabiamila For Forgiveness by socoharley: 2:25pm On Sep 14
gare:
I don’t understand why you guys make such a big issue out of an apology. If he has realized his mistake, acknowledged it, and apologized, then what more are you looking for? People make mistakes; what matters is being able to recognize them, take responsibility, and move forward.
You can never understand why because you are a woman and women don't think deep...you call his actions a mistake??
No wonder men can keep dating a woman for several years and still dump her undecided

Travel › Re: ‎Lagos Commuters Stranded As Commercial Bus Drivers Strike by socoharley: 2:04pm On Sep 14
Terrible to say the least...

Politics › Re: Desmond Elliot Kneels Down, Begs Gbajabiamila For Forgiveness by socoharley: 12:18pm On Sep 14
gare:
there is nothing there, Gbaja, is older in age and senior to him in politics, so what is there, there is no news there.
Who says there is no news there? After thinking he could out maneuver his political godfather then he lost everything....you must not know anything about power.. if Gbaja takes him back politically then he's a fool..

Crime › Re: Troops Arrest Kidnapper In Edo, Recover AK-47 Rifle, Charms, Ammunition by socoharley: 12:12pm On Sep 14
Very good arrest!! Keep it up guys.

Romance › Re: These Girls are Just Weird by socoharley: 12:08pm On Sep 14
Diamond098454:
If you want to work there
I will help you.when I'm done with my studies I will personally choose where to work without stress.you guys can't take what you dish out for few women in this forum

I know you guys will come for me because of that comment and I'm ready

Bullies

Still waiting for 6 others to quote me

You are still asking questions? Find out who is Diamond💎 don't quote me next time[ quote author=ExudeLoveToAll post=140629410]


Are you working with SIDE? Are you earning millions if no why set examples for others that you cannot attain? Don't ladies work with SPDC? Since you are very serious with your life are you now working with SPDC? This nonsense attitude of broke shaming men when they express themselves is total babadash, have you ever said this to a woman woman who come online to voice her opinion on issues concerning her? When its for men that's where you know that people are working with SPDC. DROP YOUR SPDC APPOINTMENT LETTER LET'S KNOW YOU CAN PUT YOUR MONEY WHERE YOUR MOUTH IS.
wow!! That's ma girl! Hit em all!!!

Romance › Re: These Girls are Just Weird by socoharley: 11:59am On Sep 14
Kriximpecable:
What will make you meet girls for the first time on the road on different places and engage in discussion with them(like 3 of them) which they happily gave you their numbers with so much joy and lot of vibe inclusive and promise to respond to your messages when you get home. Only to get home and message these girls and they all snub me and I even tried calling and immediately they heard I’m the one they dropped the calls.

These girls are just so weird . I’m thinking why will a girl give you much conviction of wanting you for the first time and refuse to respond to your texts and calls?

Is there something I need to know here or I’m not getting here? Pls guys with OT shud help out
1. Learn to be investigative about a lady you like,by finding out about places she frequently goes.
2. Make small conversation for the first time but avoid collecting her number.
3. Make sure you dress cool and smell nice but act nonchalant about her even though she's the target.
grin

Travel › Re: 4 Years Ago Today, I Japа’d From Nigeria To The Uk by socoharley: 8:28am On Sep 14
franchasng:
The writer ended up saying nothing.


He gained perspective, no be only perspective, na perseverance shocked


Before expecting others to share their experience, come out clean, you Japa'd for financial success, did you achieved it or not?


Any Nigerian saying he or she Japa'd for any other reason other than financial success and a better future is a liar trying to console himself.


Most if not all Nigerians that Japa'd abroad moved because they wanted better opportunities to succeed financially and for their children to also have better opportunities to make it when they come of age, any other reason is nothing but lies and consolation. Unless you are a wanted criminal in Nigeria that ran away to hide from your crime back home shocked



UK is not abroad, it's a semi-Africa with good roads and working system but it will soon become Afghanistan as Muslim extremist increase in their number and gradually take over the crime-supporting and encouraging nation called UK that enables and support political criminals in Africa to destroy black African nations and bring their loot to UK. Karma will surely catch up with UK whether they like it or not so I will encourage every Nigerian living in UK to plan their exit to better nations before the next 20 years when MiddleEast Mslms will start the full take over of UK.
Brilliant!!

Travel › Re: Abia Driver Returns ₦400,000 And Goods Forgotten in His Bus by socoharley: 6:57am On Sep 14
masterfactor:
This one is eye service. We know you guys that's why there is proverb that says " A leopard never changes is spot"
Let it be eye service, just be sure within you that you will do better...cheers

Romance › Re: What Exactly Do Men Benefit From Sucking Breast? �� by socoharley: 5:37pm On Sep 12
Sirchiboy:
What exactly do men benefit from sucking breast? 🙄🤔
A bid to get the kpekus wet...
Foreign Affairs › Re: Afghan Governor Tells BBC:"Women Are Mindless & Mentally Deficient" by socoharley: 12:22pm On Sep 12
Very true indeed...
Foreign Affairs › Re: Afghan Governor Tells BBC:"Women Are Mindless & Mentally Deficient" by socoharley: 12:22pm On Sep 12
So so true.....
Music/Radio › Re: As A Nigerian Musician If You Can't Freestyle, It's Embarrassing by socoharley: 12:18pm On Sep 12
helinues:
I would have been a music writer long time.ago but you see anything paparazzi, fame, popularity, not just a fan
same mindset i share...I prefer intellectual popularity.
Crime › Re: Edwin Omokhuale Arrested Over $23 Million Fraud by socoharley: 12:34pm On Sep 11
They make money from crime,pump it into legitimate businesses and expect to thrive?
Health › Re: Penile Enlargement; Would You Consider It, Support It, Or Say Absolutely Not? by socoharley: 4:29am On Sep 11
Absolutely not!
Politics › Re: Wike Is About To Take My Father's Land - White Nigerian Cries Out by socoharley: 7:56pm On Sep 10
Heart surgery yesterday...but your slippers is there like you just removed it and climbed the bed?
Romance › Re: Different Nigerian Ladies You Will Meet When You Ask For Their Number by socoharley: 5:31pm On Sep 10
CodeTemplar:
You tried. Those days there used to be tosyn2much.
So where did he go?



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Nairaland General › Re: Life Is Unfair And Its True by socoharley: 12:59pm On Sep 10
rapcy:
Exactly, and my papa na God, you see say you no really think go far abi? You need to dey read books because you only think am base on how far your brain fit go, and e shallow. so you see say education no be scam abi cheesy
This one you claim an imaginary being is your father? Na your mother do this one oooo grin
Romance › Re: Only Smart Ladies Know This Fact..(picture) by socoharley(op): 9:54pm On Sep 09
Word!! Ladies come and learn.

Nairaland General › Re: Life Is Unfair And Its True by socoharley: 7:07pm On Sep 09
Dtruthspeaker:
Hehehehe! As you no fit answer na to insult remain na. grin hahahahaha

And I know you are going to school next week which is why you are thinking it is mummy and daddy that created you. grin grin grin
Now run off..you have something to go masturbate on... undecided
Celebrities › Re: Stanley Ontop Calls Out Regina Daniels After Her Visit To Her Kids (Video) by socoharley: 7:05pm On Sep 09
Diamond098454:
Always rushing to social media to talk
You involved activist, bloggers in husband and wife matter abi? People like you destroyed marriages . I'm waiting for mercy Johnson, Doris, the abroad Lady Mrs onuoha and few others to apologize to senator Ned
For the first time ever I clicked a like on your post grin
Car Talk › Re: How Much Does It Really Cost To Keep A Car On The Road In Lagos? by socoharley: 7:00pm On Sep 09
SmartMaster001:
Many of our staffs now park their cars at home the daily expenses is becoming something else.
It is "staff" and not staffs.
Nairaland General › Re: Life Is Unfair And Its True by socoharley: 6:57pm On Sep 09
Dtruthspeaker:
See am, you no fit answer na why you change post go hin side. grin
Who be this one? kiss school is reopening next week..have you washed and ironed your school uniform?

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