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This is a serious issue. To avoid problems in the future I will advice you quit now. Marriage is beyond beauty and physical appearances

That's exactly what I do already

Opay works but I must admit their customer service is very poor. They hardly respond

There's no business you'll venture into and make good returns that won't stress you more than your job. Relocate simple.

I need a call recorder that is compatible with my A51. Any suggestions guys?

sodiamond:
Dominique help my case o. I need someone to put me through.

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sodiamond:
Pls can someone give me a guideline on how to be a gotv, dstv spectranet and phcn agent. I need it asap

Dominique help my case o. I need someone to put me through.

Pls can someone give me a guideline on how to be a gotv, dstv spectranet and phcn agent. I need it asap

Government of lies. I wish corona catches all this evil polithiefcians. Rest in pieces. Nonsense

ahiboilandgas:
buy tanker if u get mind and earn 500 k monthly

How much is tanker

First puzzle 30

What's all these now. How can your wife disrespect your mum. Telling us she's a difficult and divorced does not mean anything. You are to love your mum unconditionally wether your wife likes it or not. Better warn that your wife o. She has seen you are neutral in the matter and that made her grow wings. I'm not telling her to love your mum, but she must respect her wether she likes it or not. Infact I also do not like my mother-in-law's character but you'll never notice it. You need to see what she did during our wedding. But I still respect her because she's my husband's mum. Someone who's old enough to be my mother. How can she not invite her to her dad's birthday and you followed her to the party. Allow mama to enjoy you pls. You're his first love. My son cannot love his wife more than me o. Do you know how I'm struggling to raise him?
My brother's wife hates my mum too but she can't try nonsense because my bro won't allow it. Last December they had a big fight and my bro invited her people and told them the issue between him and the wife is his mum. That they should help him and ask her how his mum has offended her. She will soon shift the fight to you when mama is no longer in the picture.

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

I don't believe in no sex before marriage. If you are sure he's serious with you then go for the necessary test and allow him

fieryy:
What do you mean by her parents and siblings taking over your home? Are they living with you?

And what kind of order were you trying to restore? What's your definition of order?

Order as in her Lord and Master. Nigeria men and their entitlement spirit. Ever your dad cannot order you like Nigerian men

fieryy:
But you're complaining about losing control.

Are you minding the guy. Women are not slaves. Look for slave and control

Paentera:
She is telling you the absolute truth.

Marriages are economic relationships & for centuries, males who gained economic success used this to dominate the females.

Economic dominance is the only reason males have control of a marriage. Once that economic dominance is lost to the female, what will follow is a change in power dynamics.

The only way males without economic dominance in a marriage will have power dynamics in their favour, is because the female wishes for it to be so. Nothing spiritual here.

Be smart, go get your economic earning power multiplied manifold. The other option is to give up on the economic relationship.

You are wise

pocohantas:
This is why broke horsebands are useless. A jobless wife would try run the home. Nigerian JOBLESS horseband? No way. He will just sit there and be expecting maximum respect for having a prick. What exactly is OP currently contributing? Nothing. Any small thing, they will say emasculating. Oya, go out and make money na



Happy new year to you too.

funmisticqueen:
It wasn't the women who changed, it was simply a role reversal. And men do not like the experience being in a woman's shoes. So they cry and wail that they are being emasculated because they can't take what they mete out to womem

funmisticqueen:
marriage is not about control. Money is what gives control. Stop misquoting me from your place of pain.

Also stop this 'poor me' 'boohoo' victim mentality, it is irritating and pathetic. You are the one emasculating yourself, by allowing yourself to be emasculated.

Most likely money was all you had to offer in the marriage and now that you have lost that, you are just like an appendix in your marriage. Existing without function, but capable of causing hell because no one cares about it anymore.

It is not about bringing more money but showing that you are a leader, and being her support. Give her a reason to trust you by showing initiative. Do you think women like to be bread winners? She is picking up your slack.Of course She will be pissed at you subconsciously.

Be proactive, anticipate needs in the marriage that you can provide and meet them without being told or nagged. Convince her that you are still necessary in your marriage. Get your head out of your asshole and be man.


This is the most candid advice you will get from me or on your thread

funmisticqueen:
fact of life, money changes both men and women because it comes with control. It's human nature

Your wife is not emasculating you, you are just losing control of the power and finances in the family. Do you know how much BS women tolerate from men in marriages because he earns more?

Uncle, go and hustle or give your pants over to your wife and stop complaining

Best advice to op. Forget respect and continue to huslte. What you are facing is the reality of life. A wealthier child is even more respected by his parents than others. There are things you can't change. You are here saying you weren't maltreating her, she's not maltreating you either. Give her some credit abeg. You are sounding like this when you are not bringing food to the table. Only God knows how you treated her when you were buoyant. Whatever gave you guys the impression that a man has the final say in every relationship.

I want to buy from UK. Any suggestion on who can handle that for me

They just want to frustrate the man

Benclever1:
No, I haven't had unprotected sex with her. I'm really confused. I don't know if I should stop seeing her or just take her to a hospital for test then start having unprotected sex with her. But then again, how am I sure she isn't like that with other people.

Pls delete her no and move on already. Why on earth will she refuse condom. Even married women do beg their husbands to use condom if they must cheat. Don't take her for any test, she should not be trusted even if she is free of disease. You are one in a million keep it up. My relation with hiv got her husband through deceit.. Beware guys

Chai muma G!. This age reduction is too obvious. Somebody I use to call Aunty has reduced her age to be almost my mate.

All of you shouting fake pastor as if there are real ones. They are all scammers period!! Actors

Oooops:
Hello Guys,

Kindly assist. I have an 18months old child (1year 6months) but he is yet to talk.

He only makes sounds and gesticulates. He also hum when baby sings are being played or atleast tries to blab along but that’s all.

He has not said any real thing like daddy or mummy or anything at all.

I have met children who are not up to 1yr or even 1yr and some months already talking. This is getting me worried. Should I be worried

Parents pls I need your opinion on what I should do.

Mods kindly assist for broader suggestions. Beginning to get desperate.

His condition will improve with time but pls take that child to see a pediatrician at a general or teaching hospital. It's not normal for him not to be talking at that age... Atleast mama or daddy.. The earlier the better

Offpoint:
He brought his personal life here and thinks offpoint gives a flying fück.


In case you don't know, over 250 divorce has been filled today.
More than 250 break ups has been recorded today.

And the honest truth is... I don't just give a fûck. I've got my own personal problem.

For a every break up and divorce there's always a reason and yours is nothing new.

Lastly, before 24hrs if she's willing to start a new relationship.... there are 100 guys ready DM her INCLUDING YOUR FRIENDS.

Stop acting like you invented breakup...
"Stop to feel like king ontop nothing"

I wonder why some Nigerian guys thinks displaying their stupidity on the internet is one characteristics of an Alpha Male.

Please do us a favor of showing us HER REPLIES... I guess you're damn scared of it.
Who knows she may be the one that dump your azz.

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Since yesterday he's yet to show her replies...
Clearly the girl dumped his aZz and blocked him... he came whining on NL as Alpha Male.

I read one of his comment about her being on his blacklist, how can you block someone and send message then screenshot the undelivered and unreply message here to form Alpha Male.

Her replies begging you would have been more convincing.....

It's unfortunate some dumbass are already praising him...

[sup][/sup] He wants to form alfamale. Very pompous human

Otunba Segun you are mad. How is this the problem we are facing in this country. Do husbands and wives not use the same toilet at home? Most private & public offices do not separate men's toilets from the women's

mikaj:
Is semi orthopaedic vita galaxy (classic mattress) or vita supreme?

I called the customer care and was informed the semi orthopaedic is vita galaxy (classic mattress)

I don't know

Tacha likes controversies sha

Football age.

Can we see the real pictures to know if it's exactly what the models are putting on