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cococandy:
Did you cheat?

Some men do and expect everything to be the same. Some will even claim they can cheat and still love their wives. Have you asked if your wife will still love you after that? Some women may stay because of less palatable options outside of the marriage but they despise the partner.

If you didn’t cheat, then ignore my post

I pray you enjoy your marriage. But which of the house chores do you assist in doing? Does she work? Why should she be the one washing your cloths? Yes she's doing you a favor by washing your cloths. If you like listen to nairaland millenium kids that do not know what marriage is all about. My marriage will soon be 9yrs and I hardly wash for my husband. Yes we have washing machine. I cook, clean, work while he washes every Weekend including my cloths and that of our kids. I only wash few cloths daily expecially when kids wee on themselves. We prepare the kids together in the morning. For example If I'm packing lunch box, he's bathing them.
Gone are the days men sit down and Lord over their wives. If you keep expecting too much you'll continue to get disappointed.
As for the sex part. Pls try to have a discussion with her. I don't want to say I have an idea why she denies you sex, you're the husband find out from her. Let her know the implications and also work on your attitude towards her...

This is pure nonsense. What's even wrong with masturbation. I can see a pastor with little or no knowledge at all. I don't know if these pastors know that they are dealing with human beings with flesh and blood. If you have sex problem, if you masturbate in peace problem. I'm beginning to get tired of listening to religious preaching these days.
If only we know what these so called pastors do behind closed doors... Smh

Tacha= Nightmare

Bimps33:
I would love to become a surrogate mother to any interested couple. My joy is to put smiles on the faces of people. Drop ur comment if you are in

Drop your contact

Pls I want to state it here that a lot of people do not know what being beautiful means. How can someone look at Veneta and say she's beautiful? To the extent of comparing her with Kim! .
She's attractive but not beautiful. Pls note that I do not dislike her. Just my observations.
Also Pls do not quote me if you are born in the 90's. I do not want to argue with some immature minds on nairaland. Peace

Stephani3e:
God forbid!!
If Nelson is the last man on earth, I will turn to a nun.

Me too. I don't know why they say he's handsome. He's averagely ok but not handsome. He's also not lively

I missed Touyo's but it's obviously the least.

Frodd is saved!!!

Northkendal:
Who is tacha sending home?

GoTV:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, i think Nigeria needs to emulate Saudi Arabia by limiting the rights and opinions of Christian women especially. A driving and social media ban for women in Nigeria is good to start with. Women are becoming more bold and their actions if not curtailed with strict rules will keep bringing down men of repute. Biodun is the victim today and I'm ashamed of how we Christians are dragging his innocent name in the mud.

We Christians have a lot to learn from our Muslim counterparts who would rather resolve their differences in private rather than bring shame to Islam and their mosques.

The freedom Nigerian women enjoys breeds the evil and abominable idea of feminism which is the driving force of false rape accusations. Timi and his foolish wife should be locked up and keys thrown in the ocean for bringing disrepute to Christianity.
The federal government should enforce the death penalty for false accusations of rape . Until this is done, there will be more women coming out to bring men down with rape.

You are not a born again christian. You are such a confused person

Layii:
What is the cost of renting a shop at ogba bus stop anyone

It depends on the size of the shop. A not so big shop can go for 500k pa. Small shops are cheaper. Big shops in a good location could be more than that

Xisnin:
Only slaves submit.
Free humans collaborate or go their separate ways.
Make sure you buy an illiterate girl from your village to marry
or even stay single forever.
I don't want to see another thread about "my wife disobey me".

SMH

One in a million G!!

Xisnin:
How will he be ordering her around when she is not a maid?

The same kind of insecure men who call women who depend on them "olosho"
are the ones also crying when they meet an independent woman.

She took him from the gutters but now he wants to become an emperor.
Well, he is free to go his separate ways but he will surely be bankrupt in no time.

This is the risk every woman who marries a poor man takes. Most will never be
secure and will be looking for every opportunity to seize control.

The only reasonable man on Nairaland!!!

sassysure:
U can never be half of who he is. When u see his type out there, u will only wish but your retarded mindset will never allow u to grow.
slowpoke and dunce.
U write like a gateman.

Don't mind the retard. Mumu gateman. I keep hearing respect, even someone with coconut brain needs respect. How many of us will they(men) divorce? They are only good at calling names. My elder brother cooks for the wife and kids and they are happy.

All of you quoting me will get tired because I'm not ready to mention monikers. Op listen
1. Your wife is not your maid
2. She has as much right as you do in that home
3. If your wife insults your family, insult hers back and the marriage goes on
4. Do you think she would have been able to return you if reverse was the case
5 Did you put her in her prepregancyy state before returning her
6 Is she a commodity that you buy and return
7. Did you ask your sisters if they don't reply their husband if he's talking bullshit
8 Do you know you are a difficult person? Even the tone of the write up says it.
9. Did your wife cheat on you
Infact all of you that supported returning a wife after using her for 8years are mad!!
See your mouth like abuse. Nonsense. Even a womanizer needs respect, even the pot bellied that suffer from halitosis needs respect. Infact I dey vex o. Are you her father? If your wife does not face you and tell you your sins what does she gain. That your ego will destroy you. You will soon understand what your dad use to tell you that all women are the same

yemaldo:
Another demon out there is waiting for you, u will never get a perfect woman

My point exactly

Na wa for Nigerian men o. So a wife of 8years can not relax and do whatever she likes again. OMG even someone going to school will graduate after 4years and a whole wife is expected to act like a maid all the days of her life. You guys are not ok at all!!
If she insults your family, insult hers too and the marriage goes on. What are you doing with respect or you want to sell it?
This life is simple o. No wonder my husband says I behave like a boy sometimes because I don't put abusive words in heart. My marriage is 8years + too

MUSAPLC:
She cannot posses me because am a child Of God.

Oga your wife is not your house help. That's the mistake here. She is your wife and has the right to do whatever she likes period. Menn!! I'm enjoying my husband o. I do whatever I like as the madam of the house.

How much? Why does the owner want to sell. Which location was the car used? Atleast I know chevron workers use their cars very well.

This country is a joke. People's sweat. I will rather buy a car for 5m elsewhere than to buy 2m from Custom. Daylight robbery. God forbid!!!

Marbella003:
I took some of the advice from my previous thread and told my husband what happened. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont

I was genuine shedding tears as I relayed my shameful experience to him. I apologized and begged for him to forgive me and I promised to never repeat such again. I thought he'd understand and forgive me. But I was wrong. My husband now wants a divorce. Actually, he has sent me and the kids out of his house. I have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is 2. My husband said he doesn't think he is the father. I assured him that he is and that he should get a DNA test to confirm. But he refused.
.

I warned you!! Those that adviced you to confess can not come and help you now that the Wahala has started. You have to cook up another lie for your husband to accept you back. How many men confess to their wives when they have cheated on them. No wonder men call us fish brain.

oluwaseunla:
Delivered by Adexfem. Naija pix attached.

Pls how much is the total landing cost of this ride

kelvinrhs:
Take it from a guy that's interested in older women
Simply do what makes you happy.
Your husband does not have to know. Ensure the guy is reasonable enough to know how to behave around you and respect you no matter what.
Peace

Marbella003:
I have a main account but I decided to create this one to post this in order to avoid embarrassment or reveal my identity.

I don't know what to do.

My dear don't go and kill yourself o. I will advice you stop now. Do not ever tell your husband anything. I don't support cheating but there are some situations you can not help. Men cheat everyday and nothing has happened so why is everybody crucifying a woman who still has a little remorse.
We are too judgemental abeg! Do you know what the husband does behind her? Infact if you cannot hold yourself go and have sex as many times as you want with the guy until you are satisfied, then you can dump him and face your home! I'm sure that most of the guys criticizing her are real cheats, their anger is that it has to do with a woman. See the way they are analyzing it sef!!

keepingmum:
i dont think your wife played you. I think you both have been sexually active and she sussed that you cannot satisfy her sexually hence she made you a 2nd option.
She only proceeded with the marriage when the better shagger bailed and being richer than you is just a bonus. Nobody wants to be subjected to a life of shitty shags abeg!!

The Fact is sex is very important to both spouses. If you are sexually poor in bed, please and please, sort that issue out because even if your reconciliation doesnt work, your next woman will have issues with you....She may just choose not to be vocal with it.
Alot of 9ja men who complain that their wives dont give in to their demands is because their performance in bed is very very poor and rather than improve, they get a side chick....forgetting that the side chick is ONLY with them because of the money that they give her not because of the poor performance in bed.

Finally, if you wont reconcile with your wife, please allow her to go elsewhere and remarry as shes obviously desperate to have her own biological kids and your hesitation isnt going to help matters

You are very intelligent dear

Chai! Op pls discard all the useless advice here. It's just frustration and anger that's disburbing your wife. Just change your attitude towads her. I'm sure you wont be this patient with her if reverse was the case

At least 23 Nigerians are on the death row in Saudi Arabia for “drug-related offences”, The Nation is reporting.

Citing a document, the newspaper said the Nigerians were convicted for contravening the narcotic and psychotropic substances control law, which is punishable by death.

They were said to have been arrested between 2016 and 2017 at King Abdul-Aziz International Airport, Jeddah and Prince Muhammad bin Abdu- Aziz International Airport, Madinah having concealed the banned substances in their rectums.

The names of the convicted persons were given as

Adeniyi Adebayo Zikri
Tunde Ibrahim
Jimoh Idhola Lawal
Lolo Babatunde
Sulaiman Tunde
Idris Adewuumi Adepoju
Abdul Raimi Awela Ajibola
Yusuf Makeen Ajiboye
Adam Idris Abubakar
Saka Zakaria
Biola Lawal.
Isa Abubakar Adam
Ibrahim Chiroma
Hafis Amosu
Aliu Muhammad
Funmilayo Omoyemi Bishi
Mistura Yekini
Amina Ajoke Alobi
Kuburat Ibrahim
Alaja Olufunke Alalaoe Abdulqadir
Fawsat Balagun Alabi
Aisha Muhammad Amira
Adebayo Zakariya.
This is coming a few weeks after the Saudi authorities executed Kudirat Afolabi for drug trafficking and Saheed Sobade, another Nigerian, reportedly nabbed with 1,183 grams of cocaine powder in Jeddah.

Defending the stance of the kingdom of drug trafficking, Adnan Mahmod Bostaji, Saudi ambassador to Nigeria, said sentences are only administered when there is evidence.

He insisted that the country’s legal system is transparent and fair. Bostaji said that about 1.5 million Nigerians live in the country and are engaged in legitimate businesses.

He said that they are not subjected to any form of molestation.

Husband snatcher!!

042rebel:
INEC postponed the elections in order to obtain specific and final pronouncements from the courts regarding Zamfara state, and maybe Rivers. This has forestalled a possible cancellation if they had gone ahead and the courts later ruled otherwise. Nigerians are just too lazy to think.

Continue to make excuses for them. Will you be able to discipline your own child if he does anything bad with this your mentality?
It's because of people like you that our leaders continue to mess up because they know we'll understand

What a country. Buhari is a curse to this country!! Everything is slow in this country. God why .
May all Buhari's supporters continue to be like Nigeria where things are getting worse everyday when other countries are moving ahead.
I spent2 weeks in Ghana with uninterrupted power supply. Those in Ghana also know that Buhari is the worst thing that has happened to Nigeria. How can our currency be weaker than theirs?
And to think that some people are still supporting this cursed mam.smh!!