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Family / Re: Clarion Call: Suicidal Notes by Soflex(m): 3:05am On Mar 14, 2020 |
I hope you find the help that you need. Be strong. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Wife Is Not Comfortable With My Religious Views by Soflex(m): 7:00pm On Jan 01, 2019 |
@OkunrinMeta, You are very right bro. Religion is a very big bondage/prison in Africa (and the world at large). What makes it worse in Africa, especially Nigeria, are the wicked jailers that we have in the name of greedy men of gods. I always had a good time the few occasions I've been to church here in the States despite being a free thinker. At leaset I never heard their pastor saying silly things like dashing him a whole January salary at the expense of one's family, or cursing because I refuse to part with 10% of my salary. Instead, I heard him announcing that people can come for the receipts of their donations and offerings in case they want to claim it as part of their tax return from goverment. They package enough food items every month for the less privileged in their county every month, I've even happily joined them twice to participate in the exercise. He manages to feed his whole congregation of about 200 every (other) month, just in the name of having family lunch with his Christian family, and most of his members call him by his first name. Even though they are also in bondage of religion, they are doing it in a loving and caring way. But in my fatherland,..........hmmmmm. |
Family / Re: My Wife Is Not Comfortable With My Religious Views by Soflex(m): 5:53pm On Jan 01, 2019 |
Hello mainanalyst, Welcome to the world of freedom and inner peace. I've gone through similar scenerio as yours, though as "christian", so I think I should have a piece of advice for you. I will encourage you to show her more love and care. I believe if she truly loves you in the first place, she will come around and love you for who you are now. Religion claim love and freedom, so why should you force it on anyone or hate them for not accepting it. Secondly, try and get out of naija if you have the opportunity to do so, it will be better if you can take her and the kids along. An opportunity came for me to leave for America (alone) couple of years ago but I made sure I did everything I could to go with my family, and it worked. Now, she knows I'm a better human being now than when I was a Christian and she loves me more for it. And yea, nobody is bothering my life here on why I don't go to church every Sunday. I only go when the kids make request that I should go with them. Hope things work out well for you too bro. mainanalyst: |
Religion / Re: This Generation Shall Not PASS, Till All These Things Be Fulfilled. by Soflex(m): 1:03am On Apr 04, 2018 |
Another dunce with free internet and time on the loose. |
Religion / Re: Seun, Finally I Want To Give You An Undeniable Proof of God's Existence. by Soflex(m): 3:08pm On Feb 16, 2018 |
awesomeJ: It's either you have amnesia or you are just naturally mischevious. Read your own post below which suggest the reason why you absolutely believe in Christianity is that the religion has principles which work. The only example of such principles you gave is that you pay your tithe and you have an overwhelming blessing. Then I tried to force little sense into your ______ that I and millions of people in the world don't pay our tithe and we still have overwhelming blessings. So, your hypothesis and conclusions are both wrong. In case you will still be your arrogant self and twist your own words, I have my own simplest challenge for you: show me ONE benefit (with proof) of being a Christian that is not in any other religion. awesomeJ: 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Seun, Finally I Want To Give You An Undeniable Proof of God's Existence. by Soflex(m): 11:27pm On Feb 14, 2018 |
Martinez19: You will expect someone that has the effrontery to call out Seun (for his belief or disbelief) in the presence of millions may possibly have something convincing to present: like a video of himself and God conversing about the growing numbers of atheist in the world. He gave the least convincing arguments that won't even move a 2-day-old atheist: incredulous testimonies and tithe. He was even feeling pompous ontop unintelligent propositions and arguments. The time he gave Seun to accept the challenge that will convince has passed blah blah blah. 1 Like 1 Share |
Religion / Re: Seun, Finally I Want To Give You An Undeniable Proof of God's Existence. by Soflex(m): 10:21pm On Feb 14, 2018 |
awesomeJ: Stop trying to be smart guy, you aren't. Why would you imply that it's "only rice" that can fill a man and start vomiting gibberish when I countered that I ate yam and I was filled too. I may be technically hypoglycemic at the moment due to personal reason but my sense of logic is still intact. |
Religion / Re: Seun, Finally I Want To Give You An Undeniable Proof of God's Existence. by Soflex(m): 10:02pm On Feb 14, 2018 |
awesomeJ: Do you even think about what you type at all? Giving tithe as an example to validate your non-existing argument is like shooting yourself on foot. You pay tithe, you have an overwhelming blessing, I don't pay and I also have "overwhelming" blessings. So kini big deal? 2 Likes |
Religion / Re: Seun, Finally I Want To Give You An Undeniable Proof of God's Existence. by Soflex(m): 11:53pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
awesomeJ: I love this your analogy bro , I clearly understand and it cracked my up at the same time . Even if you don't see things from my angle, I see from yours: no need for further argument . Best of luck bringing lost sheep back into the fold . |
Religion / Re: Seun, Finally I Want To Give You An Undeniable Proof of God's Existence. by Soflex(m): 11:34pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
segunojo866: I still went to church today though: I love the simplicity of Jesus and true love/friendship the guy preaches. As par the tithe, I stopped paying a very long time ago before the era of free the sheeple when I discovered nearly a whole chapter on the actual acceptable ways of tithing in the bible which I never ever heard any of my pastors preached before (or after) except the dreadful Malachi 3 vs 8-10. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Seun, Finally I Want To Give You An Undeniable Proof of God's Existence. by Soflex(m): 10:59pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
awesomeJ: No doctor's effort as well, just the scientifically designed lamp. Yea, it may be special to you the same way phototherapy curing my child in 3 days was to me. There's no need paying unnecessary due attention to any illogical/fictitious story or well-orchestrated dramas. I've been where you are bro, super-zealous, tongue speaking demon chasing blah blah blah......attributing what not to. Just an advice bro, make out time to watch Grey's Anatomy (it's just 14 seasons so far ), be open-minded about life in general and stop persuading people to take up your religion (most times it's counterproductive). There are 1000s of religions in the world and if yours is the best, let your life preach it and convince others. Peradventure you compulsorily need to 'win souls', come up with some super convincing facts to do so. To the best of my knowledge (facts) christians live, die, go through the same ups and downs of life just as the remaining 6 billion unbelievers. So allow the latter to stick with their choices....the almighty God gave us that much of freedom of choice (free will) if you will agree with me. |
Religion / Re: Seun, Finally I Want To Give You An Undeniable Proof of God's Existence. by Soflex(m): 9:53pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
awesomeJ: Just give it up already bro. Yours is the most incoherent and halfwitted argument I have ever read my entire life, both as a former Christian and an agnostic, no insult intended. You want to convince an atheist with a possible occurrence of life that he can easily get numerous explanations to (from google)? My last child came with jaundice too and all his doctor gave us is a "lamp" that cleared the excess bilirubin from his system, guess I should continue serving her god of science then. 3 Likes |
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 10 by Soflex(m): 12:29am On Dec 23, 2016 |
Fortissimo502: College of Veterinary Medicine, MSU. I need info on off-campus accommodation and hospital my wife can use for delivery. I'm not satisfied with the update I'm getting from "The groove apartment" and "OCH". I wouldn't mind if we can make the conversation private as the issue is peculiar. Thanks for your understanding boss! |
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 10 by Soflex(m): 10:20am On Dec 21, 2016 |
Fortissimo, I greet you bro. Please can I discuss with you in private on my coming to Mississippi? I'm leaving on Christmas day: your inputs are highly and urgently needed. Thanks boss! 1 Like |
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 10 by Soflex(m): 10:08am On Dec 21, 2016 |
Fortissimo502: Fortissimo, I greet you bro. Please can I discuss with you in private on my coming to Mississippi? I'm leaving on Christmas day: your inputs are highly and urgently needed. Thanks boss! |
Health / Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Soflex(m): 3:02pm On Feb 15, 2015 |
I'm so sad right now; rest well brother. |
Family / Re: For Mums Gone To The Great Beyond: Tributes From Nairalanders. by Soflex(m): 6:34pm On May 14, 2013 |
Inspite of my James bond swag and Apostle Paul's admonition that u are in a better place, I don't know why I still cry for u: is it because u died few days after my birthday and three days after my "introduction" party? Or because we slept on d same bed and gist all night a day before your death and u didn't even give me a clue? Or maybe because I promised to call u back few hours to your death due to bad network, which I never had chance to do. Abi na because u no dey my wedding ni, or maybe because u are not here to help take care of my new "maami". I know u have forgiven me; but really, i'm so sorry for not helping to complete your building before u left, sorry for not buying u d new walkman u requested, sorry for procrastinating on changing your glasses frame, sorry I can't keep all d promises I made to repay u back all your care, kind gestures and sacrifices. i'm sorry mum but more than that, I LOVE U MAAMI, love u more than a mouse love its cheese. Continue to rest till we meet to part no more....good to know that u came, u saw and u conquered. 3 Likes |
Crime / Re: Man Strangles 7-year-old Boy To Death In Lagos by Soflex(m): 1:55am On Jan 24, 2013 |
playah P: May justice be done!!Mr Akuri, what do u mean by dealing with a murderer in a "family way"? 1 Like |
Gaming / Re: Game Of Life-words by Soflex(m): 10:03am On Aug 02, 2012 |
bore dear, is an understatement. |
Gaming / Re: Game Of Life-words by Soflex(m): 8:26am On Jul 28, 2012 |
foot ball is your type of game, u better leave this mental game for me and d intelligent ones 'cos i can bet with u, u ain't winning this one. |
Sports / Re: Fire Guts Gbenga Okunowo 's Home In Ibadan by Soflex(m): 7:51pm On Jul 22, 2012 |
JideTheBlogger: lmao...... u guys fit kill person. Sorry bro Gbenga. |
Celebrities / Re: Eucharia Anunobi's New Look: Hot Or Not? by Soflex(m): 7:39pm On Jul 22, 2012 |
kilimanjaro: She look like a ghostHave you seen one before? 2 Likes |
Gaming / Re: Game Of Life-words by Soflex(m): 7:36pm On Jul 22, 2012 |
ayobase: Time never reach!reach! for the prize, hand it over and let me get the hell out of this place |
Celebrities / Re: Goldie Apologises To Nigerians by Soflex(m): 12:03am On Jul 21, 2012 |
I've heard: you've made enough money, u only entered d game in search of your life partner whom you couldn't find in Nigeria. Come to think of it, you should be in kenya (abi, where d prince charming dey stay sef?) waiting for Prezzo to return as an emotional being that you are, instead coming home to explain yourself to most of these your bros that wont understand even if u book d whole advertising slots left in NTA for d rest of d year to tell them how you fell for d supposedly intelligent guy. 1 Like |
Gaming / Re: Game Of Life-words by Soflex(m): 10:17pm On Jul 20, 2012 |
wine tastes great especially when it is chilled |
Gaming / Re: Game Of Life-words by Soflex(m): 10:13am On Jul 16, 2012 |
here is getting deserted since u won't allow a deserving winner (me) to go with d trophy. Why can't u just allow this game to end with this post of mine, abi u be coconut head ni?here is getting deserted since u won't allow a deserving winner (me) to go with d trophy. Why can't u just allow this game to end with this post of mine, abi u be coconut head ni? |
Travel / Re: How Many States Have You Visited In Nigeria? by Soflex(m): 11:13pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
i just checked d map now; it's 18 States altogether. D State i want to visit/live next is 'United'. Eyin oyinbo, e wa fun mi ni visa..... |
Romance / Re: The Best Relationship Advice You Ever Received? by Soflex(m): 10:07pm On Jul 13, 2012 |
don't quickly believe everything u hear or see 1 Like |
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