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Nairaland / General / Re: Why Do People Lie About Their Age? by softguy1: 11:35am On Apr 14, 2021
bluskyee:
seems someone is trying to learn

Actually yes
I really want to learn because waec is no longer granting permission for correction age.
And also heard that in some cases affidavit is not acceptable..
Nairaland / General / Re: Why Do People Lie About Their Age? by softguy1: 11:30am On Apr 14, 2021
illicit:



The same way everybody does lol

Yes, but I really want to learn because waec is no longer granting permission for correction of DOB

Please help
Nairaland / General / Re: Why Do People Lie About Their Age? by softguy1: 10:53pm On Apr 10, 2021
[quote author=illicit post=100675260]


The same way everybody does lol[/quote

Court abi
Nairaland / General / Re: Why Do People Lie About Their Age? by softguy1: 6:34pm On Apr 10, 2021
illicit:
NYSC


I spent 7 years at home before I gained admission


I wouldn't have served, and if I didn't serve, why go to uni

Then how did you reduced it?
Business / Re: American Fast-Food Franchise, Burger King Set To Open Outlets In Nigeria by softguy1: 10:07am On Mar 28, 2021
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright.....
They are welcome.......
Expecting their branch in Benin city......where the king is truly king....

There ain't no obesity son....
Eat burger and drink enough origin bitter....
Then smoke your weed join am.....make i see where the obesity want pass come.....to make it worse...you go come sit down near your laptop dey huzzle all night without sleep....how the obesity want take come...


Lolzz
He never show face just for a day, but always showing his phone just to prove any reasonable doubt grin
U are indeed a real niggar, please carry someone along..
Crime / Re: Herbalist, Bricklayer Arrested In Ogun Over Killing Of Housewife For Ritual by softguy1: 6:11pm On Mar 21, 2021
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Too bad....
Africans are cursed...
They feel you can become rich by ritual

Then why are bombers involved in ritual?
Politics / Re: ₦212 Fuel Price Hike: PPPRA Releases Statement by softguy1: 10:01pm On Mar 13, 2021
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright .....

Nor mind them.....some of them want also buy to make gains or rather resell and make easy money...
The criminality in every Nigerians can not be over emphasized..
That is why I keep on saying it we are not actually angry about corruption...we are only angry because we are not the ones carrying out the corruption
Soon I will write a book titled "the criminality in every human "

Yeah. To you am nothing but a weed smoker, a pussy banger, a drunkard and a bomber...
But let me tell you a secret...am also a knowledge seeker


Wow.
My real nigar, I will be waiting to with my bottle of Hennessy to peruse on that book when u drop it.... cheesy
But I will also like u to put me through something don't know how to chat u privately...
Celebrities / Re: Mr Jollof Buys New Range Rover (Photos, Video) by softguy1: 9:39pm On Mar 12, 2021
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright .....


Who nor go nor know...

Na celebrities bomb pass

Yes they are actually the real bombers, but nobody is investigating them.

Can you see where any celebrity are gathering and the EFCC go there to investigate them? No. Because they are seeing them as celebrities and for that they are discussing about music. Lol

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Properties / Re: You Won't Believe The Babe I Saw In A Face Me I Face You House : by softguy1: 8:50pm On Mar 12, 2021
Why still keeping us waiting?
Crime / Re: EFCC Arrests 57 Yahoo Boys In Ogun, Recovers Two Pump Action Rifles (Photos) by softguy1: 4:43pm On Mar 12, 2021
[quote author=slawormiir post=99827008]Damnnn niggarrrr
My niggggggggeeeeeeeeessssss
But wait a minute
What are they doing with pump action...

But why are they always together, can't each person do it alone, I believe this is the reason why the EFCC is catching them and not by tracking...
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 12:47pm On Mar 11, 2021
luminouz:

That's a female bro

Alright now i see.

Just modified it anyway

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 11:12pm On Mar 10, 2021
Warrgidanairala:
So my guys in the house, how do redpillers demand sex from these women without spending and showing them affection?

Modified: Don't know she was the one

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 1:25pm On Mar 10, 2021
Zabiboy:

The truth is, we MEN have the power to change more than 95% of these things we complain about in women whether it is biological(inherent) or learnt but we ARE NOT READY....
We all know that women can only love you based on what you can provide just the way your fellow guys measure your worth based on how much you have.....it's just the world we live in......CAN YOU CHANGE IT?? NO .....CAN WE ALL CHANGE IT?? YES ....BUT IS IT POSSIBLE FOR EVERYONE TO AGREE TO CHANGE IT NO ...
so let's leave all this women talk and focus on other things...If everyone here had applied the redpill to every area of his life( and not only women) then they would have known that you dont only ignore (F) monikers but also (M) monikers posting something you don't agree with thereby saving all those pages lost to arguments.
Anyways...A lady once said "for every guy forming redpill, there are thousands of other guys begging and spending on a girl for sex and attention" and this is the truth....
So lets leave all these women stuffs and focus on ourselves...topics like
1) How do our fellow men manipulate us
2) How do we improve physically,mentally, socially, financially and otherwise.....
3) Gym and exercise challenges...
4) How to get information's to improve financially and latest job vacancies if possible
5) what to do when we feel Hot or feel like visiting a brothel or feel like masturbating or watching porn ( for those who do)
6) disecting real life occurrences and examples to know how we should act if we're in a similar situation..
7) books that can shape us( a lot has already been recommended here tho)
And other things...
My Humble opinion


ACCORDING TO TRP: IT IS MUCH MORE BETTER TO WIN IN LIFE AND THEN ATTRACT WOMEN THAN TO ATTRACT WOMEN AND LOSE IN LIFE.

The hardest pill to swallow and the hardest truth people rarely tells you is that: it is possible to win in life and then attract women but almost impossible to attract women and win in life.
You can read the above again.


it is already visible even to the blinds that we have gone far with regards to women nature.
and any person who is still interested in learning more about female nature should be able to go through this thread from the beginning to this present page,
or better still they should go through Ubunja, Martinez, and other threads created by redpillers here that is talking about female nature and I will assure them they will be good at games.

TRP comprises of many aspects of which we have learnt more about female nature, and I think it is hard time we move to other aspect like self improvement: which is the major aim of TRP.

With self improvement you we will be able to attract those women and then apply the games you have learnt accordingly.

So if I should suggest I will say that, let focus more on self improvement like: INVESTMENT, GYM WORKOUT, BUSINESSES, DISCOVERIES, EMPLOYMENT OPPORTUNITIES, EMPOWERING OURSELVES and many more. While still touching the female nature occasionally.
Just my opinion though. cool

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Food / Re: 10 Things You Didn't Know About Cooking With Garlic by softguy1: 2:52pm On Mar 03, 2021
ubunja:
unless it's for something other than relationships. I'm not available for dating advice.

Baba drop something nah.

We are even forgetting you self... lol
Business / Re: 1 - Deleted by softguy1: 9:54pm On Mar 01, 2021
TheUndercover:
More hard facts coming soon, stay tuned.

Keep it poping. We are silently following cool

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Family / Re: Is It Right For A Man To Marry His Sister In Law? by softguy1: 7:31pm On Feb 24, 2021
Lol.
What about brother in-law and sisters inlaw marrying each other (the brother of the husband and the sister of the wife). Is that one right?

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 6:20pm On Feb 24, 2021
Saviolamemphix:
So GLYCOLYSIS deactivated his account bcus of that small issue concerning that gel damn.
Glycolysis if u are seeing dis u fukup big tymm.

What happened actually, can someone explain?
Have been offline for sometimes now.

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Business / Re: 1 - Deleted by softguy1: 12:10pm On Feb 23, 2021
This thread is fire ✅

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Celebrities / Re: Omah Lay Wins “the Next Rated” Award At #14thheadies Award Show by softguy1: 1:11am On Feb 22, 2021
He deserves it x100 everything about the guy is too good.

Congratulations! I am very happy for you , more wins coming your way brother.

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Romance / Re: I’m In Love With My Sister by softguy1: 12:56pm On Feb 15, 2021
Bro the only thing you are battling with is porn. Yes as simple as that.
Cut off everything about porn in your life, they have a way of controlling you especially those fetish one's
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 7:07am On Feb 15, 2021
I girl once told me your are good but too religious, I can't date someone like that. cheesy sometimes you just need to be naughty with them. Naughty conversation initially convey the information that you are not there for brother and sisters relationship...

Talk dirty

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Romance / Re: The Red Truth by softguy1: 7:07am On Feb 15, 2021
Dpsychologist:
THE NICE GUY PARADOX

Being a nice guy has alot of ALOT of disadvantage. One is the nice guy Paradox.

A man uses a nice guy approach to converse a woman, however he ends up being criticized, disliked, rejected or ignored … THEN … all of the sudden due to being rejected he get the guts to express his true thoughts, opinions, and objectives in a blunt, straight-to-the-point, unapologetic manner.

Exactly what he is suppose to do from beginning.

But by then, it’s ineffective, done out of anger and more importantly ... it’s too late.


I girl once told me your are good but too religious, I can't date someone like that. cheesy sometimes you just need to be naughty with them. Naughty conversation initially convey the information that you are not there for brother and sisters relationship...

Talk dirty

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 8:10pm On Feb 14, 2021
Asekhamid:
POWER OF EMOTIONAL DETACHMENT

-i know this word must be new to some people here,but this isnt just a word,but when put into action,becomes a very powerful word.

Now what is Emotional DETACHMENT?

Emotional detachment can be defined In Many ways depending on how you understand it...but you can simply say emotional detachment is just removing any form of emotions from an outcome.those emotions include happiness,sadness,jealousy,angry etc

Now have you ever wondered why when you put all your mind and body Into doing something,it sometimes NEVER gives you the result you seek,but when you seem to take your mind off it,RESULT COMES..That is Emotional detachment..
The act of being emotional Detached is called stoicism or indifference..when the outcome of an event cannot affect your present mood..
Emotional detachment is just have that I don't care attitude and accepting that there are things in life you can and cannot control so why stress yourself over it..

Why you MUST BE EMOTIONALLY DETACHED with a woman:-
Women are known as emotional beings as we all know,they get so emotional when things don't go thier way...maybe it is time to the fact that they don't produce as much testosterone as men according to biology.
Men produce more of this testosterone that why we have more and better control of our emotions...
Emotions is considered a feminine trait that is why women get pissed off seeing a man with this trait and simps have alot of this trait in them.
Am not saying it is bad for a man to shows emotions but don't overdo it...be strong to accept life as it hits you rather than whyne about it..

A woman emotion has a direct impact on thier Mood so that is why she can be happy now,sad the next minute,jealous the other minutes and then angry....Trust me when I say the cycle goes over and over again..
Now you are asking what you can do when this happens?...the truth is you can try and be there with her and you might get the result by making her feel better but the question is how long before she become worse again.And if you think that since you helped her once,you can help her again..you will be damn disappointed as she might even attack you for trying to help her...YES,that's how they can be...They reason with thier present emotion and not logic
So if you find yourself in this position. What is the best thing to do..the answer is to do NOTHING..Detach yourself from the situation and make her come to you herself(she will) and by then you will have control and power over the situation...
Don't get mad or angry at them for how they act(except they really pushed you to the wall) and just let her be when she is acting up...DETACH yourself and remove all emotions from the situation you are facing with her.Just go about doing your own thing and she will come back to you..But don't hope or wait for her because by doing that you are still adding emotions..
Funny but Girls find it Attractive and very masculine when a guy is emotionally detached...you become a treasure in thier eyes and they look up to you.. because of this they will decide ways of making you emotional for example by pulling away,calling or chatting with other guys in your presence and using sweet names,delaying your text,ignoring your calls,some may even attempt a fake break up etc...all this just to get you to be emotional (TESTs)..... You become a PUZZLE that they are trying to solve by all means...
But even when all this happens,maintain your guard as a man and be Emotionally detached and this girls will love you more and things will start going in your favour.

Any questions can be asked and I will answer..
My own personal experience on Emotional detachment coming next

Nice write-up

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 2021 Recruitment Into The Nigerian Army For 81 Regular Recruit Intake by softguy1: 7:58pm On Feb 14, 2021
Thomanad:

Are you a NAF pers, or aspiring?
Cos I see that you post stuffs about the NAF on a regular basis

Boss I once chatted you through email but I really need ur WhatsApp number. Will that be available?
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 6:12pm On Feb 14, 2021
CaveAdullam:


AWALT: ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT. AND NAWALT: NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT.

A man will find peace with himself if he first understand himself before stepping his feet outside. Inculcating the knowledge of the redpill without this prior knowledge will lead to different obfuscation within himself and between society of which women are part of.

A man must perform whether he likes it or not. Women are not expected to perform because they lack the natural temerity to be highly creative and productive because their brains aren't wired as Men. For this reason, women and children are taken care of, while men are judge by what they can offer. A man that can't perform is a useless man! Performance here don't mean providing for wives and children, though, it is part of the puzzle. He must become valuable to himself and society at large. A man who society doesn't regard for his power, wealth, status, reputation, is a man not worth mentioning in the lips of any. He's a useless woman!

Men has an avalanche of sperm cells, a high libido because of the "notorious" hormone: testosterone. Men still carried women along in spite of their tenuous days and their expendability alongside the madcap nature of women. Why? Because men love women! And this is purely natural. Millions of sperm cells want millions of women to fertilize. This is purely natural. No social order, rhetoric, harangue can alter this fact because it's purely natural. Preach from now till infinity, Men will want women even if women can only be found in Mars. Both genders are by nature mandated to coexist.

Man is naturally selfish, therefore, he will do whatever to secure his achievements so that it won't fall into the wrong hands/people he hates. This is where the issue of children comes into place. Men want children and there's nothing ANYONE CAN DO ABOUT IT. It's a natural instinct and since men are sacrificial by nature, they will do whatever to have a physical facsimiles of themselves. The issue of vetting wasn't as tedious in the medieval age, because a man has liberty to many women. He wasn't bothered about a woman that flakes because he has resources to go for another woman or many women. Same period, women where under utmost patriarchial guidance. Only few women ostensibly displayed their dirty linens outside. But today, if you microscopically observe this paragraph, you will come to understand that it's the opposite we're experiencing.

Vetting doesn't guarantee an everlasting long term relationship but at least it helps to a much reasonable extent. Getting engaged to traditional conservative women helps in the long run. Relationship has always been a game of gambling! Just that in this era of soy boys/mummy boys men are still hoping for what isn't peculiar to the feminine.
Here comes the issue of children again. Since a man wants his child to be worthy and to carry on with his lineage and achievements, his child must be raised under the auspices of a quality mother and a quality father. Children deprived of such kind of guidance are the problem that rambles the society today. So, vetting! And in this era of degeneracy, children ought to be bridled correctly early.

Vetting goes along with the abundance mindset, a man shouldn't limit himself to just one woman but this still depends on his level of game and resources. Since AWALT, he will get burnt but will not burn totally because he expected it from the onset. It was a gamble! He simply move! This is what spinning plates is: if one falls and break you continue with others. Also this is where the oba/king mindset sets in, he has the influence to many women.

Since the human gene pool must continually flow, but now in the presence of feminism, gynocentric government, destabilization, lasciviousness, debauchery etc. A man who desires children must become a "VETERINARIAN". As far as humans live and exists, quality patriarchy is what it needs. Authority and dominance is not to govern women per say, but to at least maintain decorum in the midst of darkness and fools! The quality of children bred determines the stability of our society. If no proper care is done, all will suffer the colossal damage simultaneously as we're already witnessing.

Play the game or not, he will lose. If he marries he will lose, and even if he remains stucked in MGTOW, he will lose the resources he has toiled hard for when he dies or when a simping government or packs of simps surrounds and barrages him. A man has already been programmed to lose, but good knowledge and awareness will ensure a mitigation of his loses. It will not seem a lose if eggs are destroyed to make omelets. Know this and know peace.

Thanks.


You have said it all! Unlike myself I would have like not to marry knowing the female nature, but the issue of children has proven me wrong LoL.

I want to have children that will take over from me, and I also want them to come from a single woman and experience mother love

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 6:11pm On Feb 14, 2021
CaveAdullam:


AWALT: ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT. AND NAWALT: NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT.

A man will find peace with himself if he first understand himself before stepping his feet outside. Inculcating the knowledge of the redpill without this prior knowledge will lead to different obfuscation within himself and between society of which women are part of.

A man must perform whether he likes it or not. Women are not expected to perform because they lack the natural temerity to be highly creative and productive because their brains aren't wired as Men. For this reason, women and children are taken care of, while men are judge by what they can offer. A man that can't perform is a useless man! Performance here don't mean providing for wives and children, though, it is part of the puzzle. He must become valuable to himself and society at large. A man who society doesn't regard for his power, wealth, status, reputation, is a man not worth mentioning in the lips of any. He's a useless woman!

Men has an avalanche of sperm cells, a high libido because of the "notorious" hormone: testosterone. Men still carried women along in spite of their tenuous days and their expendability alongside the madcap nature of women. Why? Because men love women! And this is purely natural. Millions of sperm cells want millions of women to fertilize. This is purely natural. No social order, rhetoric, harangue can alter this fact because it's purely natural. Preach from now till infinity, Men will want women even if women can only be found in Mars. Both genders are by nature mandated to coexist.

Man is naturally selfish, therefore, he will do whatever to secure his achievements so that it won't fall into the wrong hands/people he hates. This is where the issue of children comes into place. Men want children and there's nothing ANYONE CAN DO ABOUT IT. It's a natural instinct and since men are sacrificial by nature, they will do whatever to have a physical facsimiles of themselves. The issue of vetting wasn't as tedious in the medieval age, because a man has liberty to many women. He wasn't bothered about a woman that flakes because he has resources to go for another woman or many women. Same period, women where under utmost patriarchial guidance. Only few women ostensibly displayed their dirty linens outside. But today, if you microscopically observe this paragraph, you will come to understand that it's the opposite we're experiencing.

Vetting doesn't guarantee an everlasting long term relationship but at least it helps to a much reasonable extent. Getting engaged to traditional conservative women helps in the long run. Relationship has always been a game of gambling! Just that in this era of soy boys/mummy boys men are still hoping for what isn't peculiar to the feminine.
Here comes the issue of children again. Since a man wants his child to be worthy and to carry on with his lineage and achievements, his child must be raised under the auspices of a quality mother and a quality father. Children deprived of such kind of guidance are the problem that rambles the society today. So, vetting! And in this era of degeneracy, children ought to be bridled correctly early.

Vetting goes along with the abundance mindset, a man shouldn't limit himself to just one woman but this still depends on his level of game and resources. Since AWALT, he will get burnt but will not burn totally because he expected it from the onset. It was a gamble! He simply move! This is what spinning plates is: if one falls and break you continue with others. Also this is where the oba/king mindset sets in, he has the influence to many women.

Since the human gene pool must continually flow, but now in the presence of feminism, gynocentric government, destabilization, lasciviousness, debauchery etc. A man who desires children must become a "VETERINARIAN". As far as humans live and exists, quality patriarchy is what it needs. Authority and dominance is not to govern women per say, but to at least maintain decorum in the midst of darkness and fools! The quality of children bred determines the stability of our society. If no proper care is done, all will suffer the colossal damage simultaneously as we're already witnessing.

Play the game or not, he will lose. If he marries he will lose, and even if he remains stucked in MGTOW, he will lose the resources he has toiled hard for when he dies or when a simping government or packs of simps surrounds and barrages him. A man has already been programmed to lose, but good knowledge and awareness will ensure a mitigation of his loses. It will not seem a lose if eggs are destroyed to make omelets. Know this and know peace.

Thanks.


You have said it all! Unlike myself I would have like not to marry knowing the female nature, but the issue of children has proven me wrong LoL.

I want to have children that will take over from me, and I also want them to come from a single woman and experience mother love.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 9:17pm On Feb 13, 2021
Dpsychologist is always dropping bombs. That Thread is fire ....

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 6:35pm On Feb 13, 2021
Femzaremz:
Uhm, isnt it high time we took the redpill to facebook? Because d calibre of simps on that network is mindboggling! Just imagine a guy just posted and i quote 'dat u slept with her before doesn't stop us from marrying her you saw s*x in her we saw future in her' obviously somebody with even a basic knowledge of d redpill can never spew this trash funny enough d 'simp' achieved his aim which was female validation as 90 percent of comments on dat post were females commending him and telling him to ride on!


Lol . Facebook simping go even infect you join grin the rate of simping in that platform is funny and annoying at the same time... The simping and alpha rate there is always 2:8 respectively. so you are no gonna win cheesy cheesy

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Investment / Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by softguy1: 10:59am On Feb 13, 2021
QuinModah:
Have you Download b.niance?


Not yet. Should I download it in Google play store, and after that what?

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Investment / Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by softguy1: 10:54am On Feb 13, 2021
I want to start. please someone with good heart should guide me.

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Romance / Re: Have You Ever Farted In The Presence Of A Lover? by softguy1: 8:54am On Feb 13, 2021
pansophist:
I don't do it, since I derive no mental orgasm by terrorising others, but my ex, one white chick like that, does it. I'll just be in the shower and she will enter and use the toilet alongside, taking up the whole place. She particularly targets when I'm busy to unleash her fart, and all I could do is just stare hopelessly at her, asking God, why me?


grin grin grin
Romance / Re: As A Man If You Need LOVE Provide SOMETHING, My Experience by softguy1: 9:25pm On Feb 11, 2021
GLYCOLYSISS:


You're going to get them tomorrow bro..
Take care.

I appreciate

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