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Romance / Re: As A Man If You Need LOVE Provide SOMETHING, My Experience by softguy1: 8:04am On Feb 11, 2021
GLYCOLYSISS:


Which of them ?



I wanted all boss, but any one you can be able to offer at this time will be appreciated.
Like that book written by Friedrich Nietzsche, (have forgotten it name thou) and also other ones like Rational male 48 laws of power, The art of war and among others.
Just the one you feel is very good to read will be okay by me. Thanks sir.
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 10:45pm On Feb 10, 2021
ubunja:
a new thread will be nice. I also need to post a Meme thread. Memes are powerful teaching aids.



Boss drop some bombs nah cheesy

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Romance / Re: As A Man If You Need LOVE Provide SOMETHING, My Experience by softguy1: 10:35pm On Feb 10, 2021
GLYCOLYSISS:


There is such a gap between how one lives and how one should live that he who neglects what is being done for what should be done will learn his destruction rather than his preservation.” -- Machiavelli

The "dynamism of power " is actually how the world IS and works rather than how we think it should be .
It takes our focus way beyond the good and bad deeds, and refocuses our attention on the key thing driving human behaviours :self interest,and how best to position ourselves to fulfil our needs.

We live in a world were everyone is telling you to be nice, be good and be a cheerful giver, but then, you will notice those qualities, though, sounds the right thing to do, don't get you any where in life .
Rather, more ruthless people are going to take advantage of you to further their self interest, and remain unapologetic about it.
Check those that got to the top in history, the world leaders, top tech companies, the billionaires ,you're going to notice something common among them : Machiaveinism.
Yea, they understand being cunning, ruthless and most importantly, putting their interest first, is the way to the apogee of their endeavours.
But then, these qualities are highly marginalized in the society by the greater masses and even those with those qualities just to mislead many from the reality on play, in the background.
You just have to take a step back, observe people's behavior, and not what they say, you're going to get my point better.

A man who don't understand these will keep wondering why other more ruthless, self centered and cunning men keep ruling the world .
A man must learn and unapologetically embrace those qualities to get anywhere meaningful in life.
I didnt make the rules, nature did.

And some basic on these power play is well explained and listed on in these books :
48 laws of power, 33 strategies on war and law of human nature,all by the same author, Robert Greene.
Check them out, it's going to lay a strong foundation on these "dynamism of power" for you going forward.

Do have a great day.











Bro you are not responding to me since, please I need those books, I don't want to quote you on the main thread. softsam2002@gmail.com
Business / Re: CBN Shuts Down Cryptocurrency Exchange Bank Accounts by softguy1: 9:38pm On Feb 05, 2021
pijay:
If you want to sell your Bitcoins or Ethereums, I am here to buy ooh. Since your bank will soon block your account number. We will negotiate then you will sell it.

Are you not in Nigeria?
Romance / Re: My Life Is Ruined... I Can't Get An Erection!!!!!!! by softguy1: 11:01am On Jan 29, 2021
kalu61:
Nothing to worry about. it's your physc playing with you.

What was your emotional state when you were with the girl?. Having not have real sex is already a big issue for someone who masturbates. It's about self-esteem, fear of touching the girl, how to start, what if she turns be down etc, all these can drive your testosterone dead

You are right, low self esteem, fear of touching the girl fear of rejection is what he is battling with since that is the first time of him having real sex. He should work on his emotions and confidence.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Battle Field Discussion (picture/video) Of African Military . by softguy1: 7:05pm On Jan 28, 2021
So all these spiritual protection do work as been acted on the movie? So you guys are telling me that AK47 is not penetrating on those ESN boys.

Wow I must go collect my own from babalawo grin
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 8:33pm On Jan 25, 2021
343tipster:


A girl I used to disturb before TRP, I met her at cash point p. O. S collected her number, but she doesn't have Android to browse so I start doing the calling, the next day she Bill me money to eat saying she doesn't have anything I was like wow, so soon... We've never even started saying love you love you too grin I told her I don't have, me sef dey hungry, she now called me in the evening to come see her, but in my mind i still dey suspect something dey happen cos I don't know why she wants to see me all of a sudden.. I just gather courage went there

After we greet each she just asked for my phone that she wanted to login to her Facebook grin I was like wow again!! So na the reason why you call me today grin (in my mind) I just gave her the phone, but somehow she forget to log out before someone called her and she started rushing back home....

My brother, my brothers!!!!!! I no fit lie una watin I find for this girl Facebook eh... In there i even discovered how to use agbo to last long on bed
Listen to diffrent type of voice notes

The girl is just too good, mehn if you see guys wey dey rush am ehn

Last last

Hear a voice note that makes me laugh out loudest at the end grin

She tells the man if you can't do more than 3rounds she's not coming in anger voices... And the guyman tell her to bring the agbo along with her that she will surprise her this time...

I saw conversation with her pos boss sef she dey even bleep that one

Fear women cheesy

Lolzz grin grin

Which one is agbo

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Career / Re: Which Course Is More Lucrative To Study In Nigeria? by softguy1: 7:32pm On Jan 20, 2021
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Computer science anyday anytime twice on Wednesday

You can be a programmer...

If programming nor work
Then bombing will be easy for you... or you can do the two simultaneously or rather concurrently
That is my programming room....first picture
And the second picture is my satum( inner room where you bomb and huzzle)
I only use my MacBook pro for bombing...


How much did you purchase that PC on the last frame?

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Romance / Re: I Don’t Last More Than 30 Seconds In Bed – I Need Help Man Cries Out by softguy1: 9:12am On Jan 17, 2021
GLYCOLYSIS send those books to me please! I am really in need of it. Help a brother.

Send to: softsam@gmail.com

Hope u see this.
Education / Re: The medical students and aspirants thread by softguy1: 10:41pm On Jan 15, 2021
samuelpeters:

You are not getting the point.
This is not about on paper. grin

Most universities combined those stages and call it merit list or first batch/primary list.
I am talking from experience bro.

Merit is the highest applicant irrespective of state of origin to the number they want, then CUTOFF others, same with Catchment and ELDs.
Maybe those people with highest score are from some particular state of origin.

Let me tell you this too;
1. An applicant from a university's catchment area and his/her state is also ELDs has 100% chance of gaining admission.
2. An applicant from university's catchment area has 80% Chance of gaining admission.
3. An applicant who is not from a university's catchment area but is under ELDs has 65% chance.
4. An applicant who is not from a university's catchment and whose state is not ELD has 45% chance.

Let me use ABU as an example;
ABU has all northern states as her Catchment area and all these states are also ELDs.

An applicant from any of those northern states, has a 45+35+30=100% Chance of admission.

An applicant from the SE/SW has only 45% chance of admission. Because they ain't ELDs and their states are not in ABU's catchment area.

An Applicant from SS aside Rivers,Edo and Delta has 65% while those states I listed has 45%.
This is how it works!

MERIT/PRIMARY LIST/FIRST BATCH IS STRICTLY MONITORED BY JAMB.
All universities in Nigeria have a Merit list/primary/first batch that is 98-99.9% Unadulterated.

From 2nd batch, Anything can happen. JAMB doesn't care too... So if you don't make it in first batch, it means you ain't qualifed enough. So anything you see from 2nd batch is non of your business. Even if you take it to court, you will lose!

People need to understand this admission process, know their chances of admission, before applying to a University so they don't lose out with a small margin.
Then start disturbing social media.

©️2021.



Bros is these things applicable to state Universities? Or they are being ignored?
Career / Re: Medical Laboratory Scientists Forum by softguy1: 10:08pm On Jan 12, 2021
Can imo state University accept 185 jamb score for medical laboratory science.
Family / Re: Man Reveals How He Punished His Warring Kids - Pictures by softguy1: 3:52pm On Jan 11, 2021
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by softguy1: 1:27am On Jan 10, 2021
Rivers State list is not complete, why did they cut the list to 26 candidates only, not even up to 30 for SSC

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 11:31pm On Jan 09, 2021
mickelkingz:


e be say ubunja smoke Ghana skunk.

The kind of insult you guys are giving to ubunja this time around is very bad, you guys should note that he deserves some respect.
And also note that if not for him many of you will remain ignorant of the redpill. He is long in this game and I believe that he delivered majority of you from simping either DIRECTLY or INDIRECTLY (even if you won't admit it). So give him some respect, he deserves it!

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 9:06am On Jan 08, 2021
ubunja:
that's exactly why I asked him. This word is getting thrown around so much its even making me uncomfortable. Even a boyfriend doing something romantic for his girlfriend is now simping, like WTF!!. Soon even replying to a girl on the street will be called simping. Smh. Some guys must never have been told about the RedPill.

Nice one on Elon Musk. He did tweet telling people to take the RedPill. And Donald Trump's daughter Ivanka responded she also had taken the red pill.

Some people will even go as far as telling you not to do anything for a girl, if not you are simping! grin

So funny, people are missing KINDNESS for NICENESS, as a redpiller you have to be KIND and ROMANTIC and not NICE to your girlfriend.

Rewarding her accordingly when she impresses you or when she really need it the most is KINDNESS... and bending to her directions- agreeing to whatever she says all the time, spending unnecessary on her is what is regarded is NICENESS. Spot the difference and show some KINDNESS to women, they deserve it as humans. Do not completely treat them as trash..

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Religion / Re: Charlie Charlie, The ‘Demonic’ Teen Game Overtaking The Internet by softguy1: 7:56am On Jan 07, 2021
Nothing is demonic here, just that only a small amount of air will be able to rotate that pencil to any direction.

This thing has been existing for years among children in my place. It is a childish play.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 9:06pm On Jan 06, 2021
CaveAdullam:
It is at the heat of this ex topic that those in desire of their ex e.g Ubunja, gold360, softguy1 etc. started mentioning gifts, connections as a reason to still maintain friendship with an ex. Meanwhile, 1/3 of my posts in regards to the topic was when gold360 insists on going back to his ex when he's in "dire" need of sex and food. And of course going back to your ex for "sex and food" still remains absurd and stupid! Why because there were reasons you choose to dump her regardless of the professional sex and savoury meal she once provided you. If she was good, you would have ignored her foibles and continue with the relationship. But no, you ended it on your own terms. (Except this was not the case, that's both of you strolled out of the relationship without official breakup. And if this is the case, she's not your ex. Considering this, your ex is an ex for a reason.

In 2/3 of my posts on that same topic, the first 2 carries leverage purposes or Machiavellic purposes as the major reason for you to maintain friendship with your ex, that's if you perceived she's way better than you and has tighter connections which you can use as an opportunity to upheave yourself. But you must also know that your ex doesn't have the monopoly of helping you in life. Help from other sources is far beyond help from exes. But this is life, life is a game, and you must accept help whether it comes from your exes or allies.

I'm stating this because of the subtle remarks like forming alpha, forming redpill, anger phase, been emotional, dating trashy women, level of redpill bla bla bla that's flying in the air. And if the persons I mentioned has seen the nuances they would have understand that we all are making same points. It is good we have proper comprehension and understanding of nuances.

And by the way, who said you should cut your ex completely and dump her into the lagoon?No! Never!

But if your coming together with your ex is to quench your "dire" need for sex and hunger as at when due, sorry, she's not your ex but your old time f^ck main chick/buddy. She's not your ex, you're only spinning plates. Lol!

I still shalaye why?

Thanks.



Lolzz, grin

I have been mentioning gift right from the beginning.

And please note that nobody said you should be the one to beg or return back to your Ex (if you do, that means you are a simp).
But you have to accept any offer being offered to you by your Ex.

Try and get this right bro.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 4:37pm On Jan 06, 2021
NOTE:

Nobody is saying you should not set boundaries with your Exe once issue arises. Infact you have to ghost her, Delete all her contact from your phone and things that won't remind you of her again.

But once she present a gift or opportunity that is of your own advantage, accept it and don't allow her manipulate you.

That is what redpill is telling you.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 4:22pm On Jan 06, 2021
i926:


Your friend collected the money to build himself, which is aiight by me.

You can't be broke and still be an alpha.

I thought collecting the money was a beta move!
Lol. grin

Some broke ass niggars here will decline an opportunity that will make them rich(more alpha) simply because, it is coming from there Ex. wtf

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 3:51pm On Jan 06, 2021
MrLucifer:


We underestimate this "Anger stage" a lot, and we overestimate our ability to get out on time.

It's stays on you like a faint odour,even when you think you've moved on higher in redpill knowledge, even when you think you've known it all, that anger stage is almost for a life time.
Anger is ultimately an emotion and decision making based on emotions is not part of redpill.
It's a daily struggle, we can't be perfect.

Anger stage = emotional stage.

Many people here, need to work on this anger stage because that is what they are still battling with. They are allowing the 20% emotion on them to surpass the 80% logic . Which is very wrong.

Women need to be more emotional (80%) and less logical (20%) while men need to be more logical (80%) and less emotional (20%) and not the other way round.

If you don't accept gift from your ex that means you are still battling with emotional problem instead of being logical.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 3:38pm On Jan 06, 2021
ubunja:
I was literally having nightmares over that post lol. Cool

Lol grin

They will learn one day.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 3:07pm On Jan 06, 2021
MrLucifer:
I think one thing we should learn from this "ex" topic is to know your level of game/redpill.

I am a living example of why you should not burn bridges, ex girlfriend or not, and I'm not ashamed to say it.

I personally think anyone who insists on cutting off exes, is simply speaking from his emotional side. No logical person will cut off an individual simply because you once dated.

And if you've gotten past the anger phase of redpill, you will realise that the redpill teaches you to put YOURSELF FIRST.
It's a very simple rule, I don't know why most don't get it.
PUT YOURSELF FIRST, but you want to cut off a potential future connection because of your emotions, when you should be thinking in your logical, thinking how you can use such women to increase your SMV whenever such opportunity presents itself.
Come on! What are we really learning here.

Infact, I do the complete opposite of what most guys do. I use my current girlfriend to get my future girlfriend.
Any smart man knows that women are attracted to men other women find attractive. If I keep cutting off all the women in my life simply because we dated, I am reducing my harem, and no woman wants to be in a "one woman harem". When all these women hang around me and I maintain frame, other women see it and want to find out what's going on, they fall in. If this is not an advantage of keeping in touch with exes, then I don't know what is...

I never end my relationships on a bad note, even if I am at fault, I will still manipulate you to believe you ended the relationship, because I know the value of having someone who cares about me as a "connect". In this world we now live in, you are simply cheating yourself if you burn bridges totally.

But that is not to say every man can or should do this, that is why I began this post by saying know your level of redpill.
If you know you are not capable of withstanding her manipulations, my brother run for your life. But do not assume all men cannot, know your level.


You are right man!

Cutting of all your Exes means you are still in the anger phase of the redpill, it also means that you are emotional and redpill doesn't support such.

You just have to be logical as a redpiller and not the other way around.

Accept that gift and don't fall for her manipulative nature. That's all.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 2:59pm On Jan 06, 2021
ElasmoBranchii:


Law 40: Despise Free Lunch.
But I find the reasons you stated above to be insubstantial and puerile.
Accepting a free gift from a machiavellian can be dangerous but if you are a higher mach the danger can be averted.
I agree when ubunja said it all depends on your level in the game and I'm not even a mach.
Accepting the gift doesn't make you a simp or a redpiller.
Let's everyone just do what they feel is best.


You are very right.
Accepting the gift does not make you a simp but falling for her manipulative nature is.
Rejecting the gift does not a make you a redpiller but a beta simp.

Read it again.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 2:51pm On Jan 06, 2021
gold360:
as simple as this sounds, guys Cant understand it,
Its all about your interest, if you're down (which everyone is from time to time) and your ex offers you a helping hand. Grab it, its for YOUR OWN INTEREST... your ex isn't your enemy, the only thing is that by now being redpilled , how manipulative ish can no longer work on you.

Guys saying they Cant roll with their ex anymore are the real SIMPS, because you've not grown balls enough to stand her manipulative skills, so you're still scared hiding behind cut all contacts and draw a boundary crap


I have been saying this but they still don't want to phantom what I am saying. So they should stick to there own level of game.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 2:45pm On Jan 06, 2021
ubunja:
this RedPill thing is making people stupid. Now if a guy accepts R70 000 from an Ex he's a simp. Lmfao. You guys really need to stop and catch your breath a little.

Okay sir grin grin

Am just trying to prove something to those that want to hang you, hence that story.
You are very right.

As for me if my ex offers me something, I will take it and make her go into deep emotion while I remain logical in my doings cheesy

Some people are really beta claiming alpha
I am with you boss. cool

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 10:38am On Jan 06, 2021
[b]STORY


There was this my friend who broke up with this particular babe long time ago (her father is a senator and a prosperous business man).
So this babe came back and was asking for this my guy (her Ex), so they directed her and she later met each other.

According to my guy, before she travelled back they had sex and she gave him 2 million naira gift, which my Guy later use to Start up a business and uptill today he is still exploring with his business.

This my guy was very very stupid to accept sex and such kind of money from her Ex because he was ignorant of the redpill. had it been it was me, I would have rejected such offer because of these reasons:

- I am an Alpha redpiller.
- I always put myself first
-. She is from Nigeria and no Nigerian woman can offer such kind of thing.
- There are millions of women that could offer the same thing ( so why should I accepted it from her)
- and many more readpill reasons.

When he told me he accepted that offer ignoring those redpill reasons above, I was just laughing at his stupidity for accepting such an offer from an Ex.

mhen that guy is a stupid beta simp that need to swallow the redpill so that he will not accept such thing from an Ex again.[/b]

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 8:50am On Jan 05, 2021
ubunja:
people should stick to their level of Game. Stick to the level you're comfortable/experienced with. Otherwise you'll screw up your life. What some of us can do not everyone can do. Because we're all at different stages of our redpill journey. If I start to tell you about the stories some guys are living, how Exes are hooking them up, even tho married, you'll say I'm lying. Stick to what you know. And what you're comfortable with. Redpill is too wide and too broad to be limited by your small views of love and loyalty.
Ultimately the RedPill itself is not enough to explain the reality of the world we live in man. These things are not as simple as ABC.

Eg. Do you know what the latest underground trend in SA is at the moment? Especially in Johannesburg and Durban (among the Zulu), it's men asking other men to fvck their wives while they watch. Cuckoldry. Some guys are busy insulting these husbands because it doesn't make sense. Of course it doesn't make sense. Sex is never about sense. Same as the Exes thing. Don't apply too much sense to it. It is what it is. Why do you think women cheat a lot with their Exes? Why do you think women keep checking up on their Exes? Lol even your GF still has her ex's number on her phone lmfao. And you think they don't talk? Lol Because women know the game. They'll always fvck their Exes. As do players. Boss if you date my Ex just know I'm still messing with her. Period. And many guys feel like that. And do that. How you feel about it won't change anything.

Women are always fvcking their Ex boyfriends. That's why in partenity fraud many cases find that the baby belongs to the ex. It is what is. Make peace with it and move on.



lol
so a player (her ex) will be f*cking my new said girlfriend or the new person i am 4king, in a close door, and you expect me not to Bleep my ex. that person must be joking.

ubunja there is absolutely no how you can convince these people to agree with what you are saying, so let everyone stick to there own level of game.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by softguy1: 11:43pm On Jan 04, 2021
MrSuama:
How i wish they make the list of Doctors separate to better the chances of other dssc candidates.


Is medical laboratory science, Radiology, nurses, Public health included in this your doctor?
Romance / Re: Please Help My Penis is So Small by softguy1: 9:19pm On Jan 04, 2021
naturechild:
To increase ur manhood go to herbs sellers tell dem u want to buy pandoro n Shea butter. Wen u gt home grind d pandoro to powder den mix it with Shea butter n use it to massage ur penis same way u dey mastubate but don't mastubate dis time n do it till u attain ur desire increment den stop.
It might takes u 2 weeks to achieve dis

Lolz
Which one is Pandora and where do they sell it?
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 5:57pm On Jan 04, 2021
mattfeuter:


Are we doing hypotheticals now?

The central bank and 12m analogy isn’t the standard.

How many guys have their exes offered them such ? Lol

I used the above bolded so you could understand better what the gifts implies

Bros every gift na gift, no matter how small it is.
For the fact that you are not the one offering her that gift, but the one benefiting from it. You have to accept it.


I know you guys won't get this right. So i rest my case. Peace

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 5:35pm On Jan 04, 2021
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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 5:25pm On Jan 04, 2021
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