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You don't want to see swollen eyes with tear right?

eezeribe:
Yeyebrities with sunshade inside church Auditorium... Where is Jim Iyke,the founder.

Don't make unrighteousness look cool... If its unrighteous it's unrighteous...no two way about it...sin is sin no small no big.

What happened to Skype ehen??...If u want a meet-up, Pay the bills, else Let's Skype.

ekeroyal:
Ladies and gentlemen, the points I'd be listing below won't be exhaustive. If you've had you experience, don't hesitate to share.

I understand Nigerians are ingenious and capable of taking on very advanced software development jobs. I do as well. However, I have observed with keen interest that some of us are constantly taking advantage of our ability to trust ourselves based on word of mouth. I can authoritatively tell you to stay away any developer who fails the criteria listed below. It's just an advice by the way.


1. Make sure you have the developer's full name.
2. Ask for previous jobs, preferably those related to the task you want them to help you with.
3. Ask for their professional/personal social media handles/links.(linkedin, twitter, facebook, instagram)
4. Ask for their website, check their portfolio section.
5. Ask for a meet-up, if they refuse run for your life.
6. Let them tell you the value of what they are offering. Don't tell them your budget.
7. Try verifying their phone number(s) using truecaller, responsible ones have a traceable name on truecaller.
8. Make sure you pay into a bank account that corresponds to the name you find consistent with your findings.
9. Check how long they have been on Nairaland and checkout their posts/comments. Trusted ones have spent at least a year and have been active, in a positive way.

These rules apply to those who use fiverr, upwork, etc.

Feel free to add yours or share your experience.

na all those omi obe Afonja represent nigeria jareh...

Orpe7:
Who da fvck represented nigeria? Must have been a flat head ipob. That one na biafuro not nigeria o. A confirm nigerian would have won wit a large margin sef

If na you, you go apply? apply faya!

dacblogger:
I dnt think the guy actually applied for a visa

Maybe he's been deceiving the woman all this while

Ashewo!!!

IgboSubmarine:
Girl your beauty is endowed with a brilliant brain



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PM me your phone number and let me know.


I will like to know you better

That you are a failure, does not mean other are...

MyNewJackeT:
Which of the youth are you talking about, is it a selected youth that you've chosen to make it seem like it's the whole youth in Nigeria.

No wonder you are always hungry...very shallow minded homo sapien.

moneyhungry:
absolute hogwash.

JUSTI!!!... Me sef kukuma dey pray same too...lol

justi4jesu:
how i want the rate to sky rocket. Walks out in style..

JA!!!

Caustics:
when i say AFON you say JA....

AFON....

You are nothing but a thei.f...you better marry that girl if you no wan Waka enter Market... Rubbish!!!

isaacsegun:
Please fellow nairalanders, Ineed your urgent advice.
We started dating as far back as year 2007, then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s. I'm her first love, in fact, I was the person that deflowered her. I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted, the abortion almost took her life.

Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine, her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even up till today.

Please guys, should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side, but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything (like attempting to even take her own life)

Put your marriage in God's hands and give yourself peace of mind... By the way, you are not supposed to be judgemental in marriage... Don't get it twisted bro... Marriage is a Blessing!!!

imustsaymymindo:
Yes, the keyword is honesty. But it is not as easy as you make it seem. Marrying a retired sincere olosho would take a great deal of patience, selflessness and non-judgmental attitude. Be prepared to encounter loads of emotional trials, it might make you stronger at the end of the day or damage you forever (this is what happens mostly).

Correct guy!!! The key word is honesty... My own na b say she is respectful and loyal... I fit even marry am if na olosho sef...wetin sef

tosyne2much:
The stench of hypocrisy of guys on this thread is very astonishing. Even the ones that are ambassadors for initiating abortions are claiming how than thou attitude

The bone of contention here is that guys should always learn to cherish and embrace sincere ladies. There are many ladies who have done countless abortion yet they will never be honest to open up to you

Well, as for me, I always view life from a different perspective and of course, I can marry any lady who can be honest enough to tell me her ugly past

Abortion or no Abortion, Womb or no Womb, I go over marry am sef... So long she's got good manners and very loyal.
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Btw nobody holy pass.

We're le leyi o

ShyCypher:
It's even an advantage if she can no longer bear fruit. She knows now that we are fuckin' till thy kingdom come.

And I can cheat too
Afterall, she understands I need a heir. Plus she can't leave me easily. How many dudes will accept her after findin' out?

You're stuck with me!

May your wedding be gatecrashed by 10times the inviteed guests...Amin!

swiz123:
Thread for stingy celebrants

NO 4 is the killer.

Below is why he is my suspect:
1. HE'S Wearing a Red Shirt to match the color of the blood. (Red)

2. Of all the Suspects we can see their Table, he is the only one without his knife on the Table.

3. He neutral face just gives him away ...that look of 'I don finally kill am, nonsense!'

ifa tear u slap ehn...

Keneking:
Programming

The Step-Son owns KONGA...

adewumiopeyemi:
Ok I gues na his husband get konga am I ryt

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Our Police can uncover anything if they really want to work .... so leave that question for one side..

DONADAMS:
but how did they know its used by the badoo group??

Let's just hope it's not what we are thinking sha o..

africandollar:
Something is about to happen o! Anywhere you see the men in power holding closed door meeting with Abubakar or any of the other generals know that it's a big deal! Ha! hope say Bubu never...

Shut up eh... Will you allow a transgender Man Marry your Sister?

PDPGuy:
Trump hasn't seen anything. He will be shocked to discover that Congress can overturn his Executive Order with the necessary legislation.

'Transgenderism' isn't a clear cut mental disease, and as long as the transgendered military personnel are fit to serve physically and mentally, then I see no reason why they should be barred from serving in the military.

Even the top brass at the Pentagon were shocked by the president's sudden move.

Nonetheless, lawsuits against the president challenging the legality of the EO would likely end in a court victory for the president and the military because the US courts have generally given the military deference in such issues.

moneyhungry:
absolute hogwash.

Kini omode re mo? sha koshi lo jareh...

What you should prioritize is PEACE OF MIND... If the girl gives you peace of mind and is supportive, she is not lazy nor lack good manners and good personality, My guy You have a Wife in your hand o... Don't judge her by her past... She has struggled to finally tell you her past... Don't disappoint her and make her regret it... In fact she will love you more and can do anything for you knowing that you did not judge her past and are still willing to stick with her and marry her. Let me even shock you, Do you know that the Great Great Great grand Mother of our Lord Jesus Christ, Rehab who married Boaz was a Harlot? as in Ashawo!!! But God Did not look at that Yet honored her by drafting her into the royal bloodline and by extension, the Mother of Jesus... So You see, it goes beyond marrying a lady becos of a tight Pvvsy or physical appearance... I'm not saying any lady who has had a rough past is a good wife material o (Na Oju kokoro dey worry some)...What I am simply telling you is that If she has forgotten the past and forgiven herself and lives a clean life, don't make the mistake of not marrying her ... cos another man that values her will marry her. Peace

Nerdg:
She told me of being pregnant and later had a stillbirth at the 7months.

The background.
I met her when we were teens and have always loved her. She refused me sex and along the line, her neighbor gave me (who is her relation). She learnt about this and we had our first break up.
We both got admission into different universities and couldn't see again.
We later met again and settled with a condition that there would be no sex. This didn't go down well with me and I called it off. This repeated and there was even a time I walked her out of my house because of this issue and didn't give her tfare. My house is like 1hr drive from where she lives.
The issue:
I love this girl to the extent that anytime I thought of getting married, she will come to mind.
Now I have a good job and she's done with school. I proposed to her and she accepted it.
Is about 3 months now, she came on my birthday 3 months ago. That was all. She doesn't come always because she stays with her elder brother and can't leave house just like that.

Note, we haven't had sex till now.

About 2 weeks ago, I told her about how I got a girl pregnant and we had to abort it and that since then I haven't been myself. That it pains me to this day. We talked about it and she was sorry over it.

Yesterday, we had a very deep discussion and she revealed to me that she had a relationship at school. They were together for 4yrs. I then asked her if she had ever missed her period. She said yes. But not to this school boyfriend but another man. She wanted to keep the pregnancy but her parents refused because the guy is not a good person. The guy wanted the pregnancy but her family didn't want the guy to marry her. She finally had a stillbirth at the 7th month.

I was stunned. I know she's not a virgin, she told me but I was confused. Sex had always been our problem and I never expected that she had experienced something like this. Now she asked me that she hope she won't regret telling me this. I told her no that she won't regret but I'm stunned.

Please should I still go on with this marriage?

It is well with you

durentchigozie:
who's this fool? How old are you? Rubbish.

Nigeria does not have a problem...our Problem is that we think we have a problem all the time.

AgbenuAnna:
Nigeria problem is not entrepreneurship but leadership

Lol

gentlegenius:
How softhands go take tear person slap?

Introvert for this naija?... If a tear u slap once... She go turn parrot...









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funlord:
Escrow?