Travel › Re: Things My Friends Say About Abroad That I Don't Like by sokeril: 5:51pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: It could happen and is happening in Nigeria. The simple thing is that no matter how well you think you're preparing your children for life, you can't choose anything for them in the end.
If you're migrating it's because you personally want more money or whatever it is you're looking for. Your unborn children don't really care, because they aren't born, and because even if you birthed them in a hostel or gilded palace, they will still find their way around life in their own way. true |
Travel › Re: Why There Is No Point Going To The Uk Again by sokeril: 8:54pm On Nov 17, 2022 |
Maysdevices: Life is not hard in.. Canada Switzerland Singapore Japan Luxermbourg Qatar
I could go on but I’m sure you get the drift.
This form of deception is so annoying, I wish I could insult you. Sometimes I wish I had a gutter filled mouth, you deserve some real insults for this trash you just wrote.
Nigeria is not just a shithole. A shithole seems like heaven compared to this place. It is. Even Canadians are complaining. Do you have an idea of how many Canadians are even leaving and emigrating away from Canada? Just today in UK a woman committed sucide by jumping on the rail track with her daughter and was crushed to death because the inflation made her unable to pay bills. Life isn’t easy anywhere faa. That doesn’t mean Canada or UK ain’t better than Nigeria right now but it’s what it is. |
Travel › Re: Why There Is No Point Going To The Uk Again by sokeril: 2:13pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Zahra29: Migrants are not entitled to child benefit or any public benefits such as housing support. Healthcare is free at the point of use, but you pay taxes into the system and migrants pay a health surcharge on top of this Thank you very much. |
Travel › Re: Why There Is No Point Going To The Uk Again by sokeril: 12:00pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
jesmond3945: that average wage is allowance more like pocket money. The average british man gets free health, free school for his kids, he gets child benefits, he gets support for a house or a car, he gets universal credit, he gets support to travel. So all these to that salary you will know a brittish man is balling. When you see a british man complain is in their nature, they are very entiltled. Oh..thanks for more education. Is it the same for the migrants |
Travel › Re: Why There Is No Point Going To The Uk Again by sokeril: 10:32am On Nov 11, 2022 |
Gerrard59: If he is above 35, no point in doing so. Rather, he should save and invest to send his children to some of the best universities in countries where attaining citizenship is relatively easy. Countries such as Canada, Australia and many others. He is 34. |
Travel › Re: Why There Is No Point Going To The Uk Again by sokeril: 9:12am On Nov 11, 2022 |
sihamey: Ask him how much he spend in UK and how much left . Don’t be deceived by social media pictures of your class mate abroad Nurses wages are so damn low. Majority are on band 5 and collect just 1600 after tax per month...average of just 20k-24k per year post tax. Like I was just reading the lamentations of UK Nurses on Twitter and just shaking my head. |
Travel › Re: Why There Is No Point Going To The Uk Again by sokeril: 9:08am On Nov 11, 2022 |
jesmond3945: let me tell you why. Oyibo is a leveller. You enjoy 24hrs light, 24hrs water, 24hrs internet, snow, fireworks, train rides, skydiving, good roads, maximum security, no mosquito, no generator fumes, free school fees and meals, playground for your kids, a lot of parks, a lot of food, international culture, AC standard weather. Whether you are a cleaner, security or you dey pack shit you would enjoy the same thing a ceo in a company is enjoying. Many people in Nigeria will not experience one quater of these things in their lifetime. So when people in abroad complain na these things dey keep them there. I see... Personally all those things you listed are not actually enough to keep me happy. I don’t like feeling out of place anywhere I am. And bro I honestly do not have problems with people who want to travel especially if they just started life and are still struggling here and there. It’s those that really have no genuine reason to travel(other than peer pressure,inferiority complex,greed and unrealistic expectations) One man in my area,47 years sold all his businesses to japa to Canada,it will never make sense to me. I’ve opened a thread on my brother too, he is a lawyer(though wife is a nurse in UK)..someone who already has his own law firm, making money and even has lawyers working under him he is paying yet his wife is putting pressure on him to abandon that and come to the UK. Like abandon a profession he is prospering and thriving to japa to uncertainty. Will never make sense to me. |
Travel › Re: Why There Is No Point Going To The Uk Again by sokeril: 7:44am On Nov 11, 2022 |
Kingsley10000: My class mate, a nurse was earning 35k before the pandemic. He is in Uk now living a good life. The guy is looking transformed Not against traveling per say o but for people who has something doing in Nigeria and are doing well but abandoning it to japaa. |
Travel › Re: Why There Is No Point Going To The Uk Again by sokeril: 7:39am On Nov 11, 2022*. Modified: 9:17am On Nov 11, 2022 |
Gerrard59: What is an economic crisis to westerners is not the same to black Africans. Notwithstanding the economic woes, there are more jobs advertised on UK's LinkedIn than Nigeria's own. Apart from Nigeria and South Africa, I seriously doubt you would see recent jobs in other sub-Saharan African LinkedIns (assuming they it o). Ethiopia, some people were applauding, does not have one. In Bostwana, the most recent job posting is three weeks old. African countries populate the world's unemployment rankings.
But hey, bEtTeR tO sTaY iN a pLaCe wHeRe eVeRyOnE lOoKs lIKe yOu The average wage is not even that much, it shocked me to see the average wage of a British..so so poor. Like how do you even survive on such wages,except you are a banker or in the IT. Listening to British lamentations from my interactions with them, compared to an average Nigerian complaints, to be honest I’ve came to the conclusion life is hard every where. Perhaps all these spending of millions of naira on Uk study visa may not be a wise thing after all. |
Travel › Re: Why There Is No Point Going To The Uk Again by sokeril: 7:32am On Nov 11, 2022 |
AnitaofEurope: Cos it’s is still better that youe shithole Make una leave abroad people alone Nigeria is not a shit hole Anita. Life is hard every where. |
Travel › Re: Why There Is No Point Going To The Uk Again by sokeril: 4:07am On Nov 11, 2022*. Modified: 4:18pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
Very interesting thread. Having first hand experience about the UK from interactions with UK citizens on Twitter and the amount of their struggles and complaints(Nurses are even going on strike right now,same as railway workers) has been making me ask the question.. Why the hell are Nigerians still trooping to the UK with all these UK economic and financial crisis? It is well sha. |
Travel › Re: Is Traveling Abroad Worth It? by sokeril: 7:13am On Nov 07, 2022 |
ariesbull: Who is the man of the house... Wait your wife is telling you to leave your law firm that you are doing well to come over! I don't get it!
You have a law firm doing fantastically well in Nigeria.. Paying lawyers and having great briefs and you want to close shop to live in UK. That will be the GREATEST REGRET of your life! Trust me!
Many in UK especially Kent, Peckham and some other places will pray to exchange positions with you. That is why folks like Tiwa Savage, Dbanj, Don Jazzy, NAIRA MARLEY NETO C and others left their places and came back today they are doing well.
My brother never make that mistake! If you can take that risk so be it unless it's the wife that is feeding you or paying the bills.
Tell her to come home...Nurses are making good money here also... They don't look for jobs but that is not the point. You can be visiting and coming back but to close down a thriving law firm for an unkwown life in UK of all places is a big NO NO for me. Thank you very much sir. Though it’s not me,it’s my immediate elder brother. |
Travel › Re: Is Traveling Abroad Worth It? by sokeril: 9:27pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
ayandee: Since his wife is a nurse in the UK, that means he could work in the UK. He should continue his practice here in Nigeria, write the UK bar exams and get licensed to practice in the UK as well. So He practices in both countries. I know a SAN who practices both in Nigeria and Canada. Thank you sir,I will tell him this. She has been threatening him that if he doesn’t move then they should divorce. A man with a law firm,and making cool money... I’m just scared all his hard work here might go to the drains. |
Travel › Re: Is Traveling Abroad Worth It? by sokeril: 6:23pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
Munamoqel: no way. Aspire to be in like of Ricky tafa and other senior Nigeria lawyers you can see fayose is owing 900m in legal fees . All this election tribunals. You can join care home abi . It’s not me,it’s my elder brother. He has his own law firm already and is doing well in his career but his wife who is a nurse in UK is trying to force him to relocate to the UK. |
Travel › Re: Is Traveling Abroad Worth It? by sokeril: 6:05pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
ariesbull: that is why they go on dreads... They can't afford to barb.. So dread are cheaper Been following your argument sir. What will your advice be for a lawyer ,nine years post bar,34,already has his own law firm and employ lawyers he is paying..he is doing very well here but his wife who is a nurse in UK is telling him to come and relocate to Uk permanently. In your opinion and with your experience sir, should he make the move? God bless you sir |
Travel › Re: Is Traveling Abroad Worth It? by sokeril: 5:59pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
Karlovych: Not everyone is doing shitty jobs abroad. I know. |
Travel › Re: Is Traveling Abroad Worth It? by sokeril: 5:37pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
Karlovych: Don't mind these depressed people, the same ones that don't get adequate sleep and wake up by 3:00am in Lagos just to beat traffic to get to their depressing work and spend a large amount of productive hours in traffic are here preaching about rat race. Not every one lives in Lagos though. |
Family › Re: Please Advice My Elder Brother And His Wife. by sokeril(op): 12:58am On Oct 09, 2022 |
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Family › Re: Please Advice My Elder Brother And His Wife. by sokeril(op): 12:04am On Oct 09, 2022 |
I am not in a position to speak bad of the wife because our relationship is actually very cordial. And she do send me things from time to time from the Uk. But so many red flags already. And to be honest I think my brother has always been too submissive to his wife, it’s so weird. He laid the bad foundation for what is happening today. |
Family › Re: Please Advice My Elder Brother And His Wife. by sokeril(op): 11:54pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Update house: My brother said he has made his decision, and nothing is going to change it, he is never going to close down a thriving law firm and delve in to the uncertainty. Wife says she feels lonely, and depressed and needs her family with her.says her colleagues at work often poke fun at her because she is the only one whose husband remains in Nigeria. He said he can only be going to visit and then come back to face his legal career, he said he can never be happy living abroad, a solution the wife refused totally. Both family members has tried to solve the issue but no headway at all. My brother believes his wife is being altruistically selfish, trying to take advantage of his kindness and gentleness ,says it has always been about what she wants which he has always obliged and never been about what he wants. The wife said if that’s the case then she will fill for divorce and abort her pregnancy,my brother told her to do whatever suits her, but if she abort the pregnancy she should forget about ever having access to their only child(who is presently living with my brother in Nigeria) but for the divorce he will gladly and willingly grant her wish. Mother in law did not also help matters, heaping abuse and laying blames on the husband, calling him insensitive and wicked. Personally I think there’s no going back, this marriage is good as done. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Orezone!? Gold Quest!?: The Sinister Plot Of Qnet. Job Scam In Burkina Faso by sokeril: 2:27pm On Oct 06, 2022 |
One foool who was a football friend was telling me to come to Burkina Faso,bragging of how he make top dollars per week and is now building a house in Nigeria yet he live in a cramp room with so many house mates. Burkina Faso ni kan koo. |
Politics › Re: Is It Accurate To Assume Tinubu Has The Support Of All Yorubas? by sokeril: 8:19am On Oct 04, 2022 |
hotwax: Yes because I don't support your tinubu, I am now Igbo. Yeeeeee...it's official. Millions of yorubas not supporting have now changed their tribe to Igbo.
I guess it was Igbos that voted for adeleke in Osun...lolz... Alainironu Ara galatia That’s sarcasm check his post again and modify. |
Politics › Re: Is It Accurate To Assume Tinubu Has The Support Of All Yorubas? by sokeril: 8:18am On Oct 04, 2022 |
hotwax: We..you can't be we. I saw you award victory to tinubu in ondo state. Tinubu can never win in ondo,infact if there’s a place Tinubu win not win in SW,it’s ondo state. Tinubu has never been really popular in SW. he will definitely win but not with any significant margin. |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by sokeril: 9:15am On Oct 03, 2022 |
semmyk: To avoid more problems for the family, let the family be guided by evidence-based decisions From Sept 2021, there's been some changes to the pathway to getting qualified. That doesn't mean there are no challenges. SQE 1 and SQE 2 (written) can now be taken at test center 'abroad' (outside of the UK). See the link on the Lawsociety webpage where it says ... Find your nearest test centre on the Pearson website If the test centers in Nigeria (or Ghana or Cameroon) are no longer working, let them raise it with the UK Lawsociety. NB: the costs are not pocket friendly! Let the family read the provisions of the legal body and inquire from legal associations. In my view, if SQE 1 and SQE 2 (written) are done before hitting the UK, it 1. Reduces the barrier 2. Should reduce the stress 3. Should make it even easier to take on non-Solicitors roles (such as those in the corporate) 4. Reduce the time to getting fully qualified. NB: SQE 2 (oral) must be done when he gets to the UK. All the best. PS: there's hidden gem in koonbey statement: ... "There's a reason why partner-level lawyers from tier 1 firms are leaving to posts abroad." Let 'em ponder on it. In any case, let 'em move for a reason and not any reason. NB: koonbey is right that ... it's not 'easy' by any means. NB: alongside the three (well articulated) options, there's a latch-on 4th option: starting from 9ja Sir,I’m so appreciative and grateful. Thanks so much. I’ve screenshot and sent every of your posts to him. It’s been really helpful. |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by sokeril: 1:48am On Oct 03, 2022 |
koonbey: SQE cannot be sat for in Nigeria.
Plus, it's not 'easy' by any means. It can be done in about a year plus but it's intense and the person has to be ready to study as if he was back in law School (lawyers will understand). @Sokeril, there are three options:
1. Come to the UK, prepare and write the SQE to qualify as a solicitor and then apply to work as a lawyer.
2. Apply directly to firms as a foreign-qualified lawyer. Many firms recruit Nigerian practitioners since we share the same system of law and they often have cross-border transactions that involve Nigeria. This will only work if he has solid transactional experience in a highly in-demand area of practise - finance/power/construction/tech etc., not stuff like criminal defense, divorce or petty practice generally.
3. Plan to work in roles that are legal but not directly practising as a lawyer as in going to court - so that's things like compliance, data protection, Intellectual property etc. This is the most straightforward and what I would recommend. While doing this he can then decide if he wants to shoot for a law firm using one of the other routes.
As to whether he should or should not, it depends on what his expertise is. If he's doing petty stuff like police station work and CAC registrations, then he'll find it more difficult. If he has solid, internationally-marketable experience though, he should definitely move. His skills will be valued and rewarded much much more financially and otherwise. There's a reason why partner-level lawyers from tier 1 firms are leaving to posts abroad.
Overall though, he would probably be much better off abroad. I don't know his exact status in Naija but unless he's working for a tier 1, it's unlikely that he's earning anything close to what he would be earning in the UK (full-time as a dependent) even if he has to take a junior role to start with, even when adjusted for living expenses. I would say he should just bite the bullet and travel - worst case scenario is he doesn't like it and he goes back. Thank you very much. I’m so grateful sir. The issue is really causing a lot of problems for the family. On a side note sir,he owns his law own law firm |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by sokeril: 4:41pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
bigtt76: Travel visa free to UK, work unlimited hours per week, set up company in the UK etc and at the end, he and family can apply to be UK citizens Alright,thank you. Maybe its not that bad then. Cos he does not want to leave his lawyer work where he is quite comfortable to be doing menial work in UK. Thats his biggest fear. |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by sokeril: 3:00pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
bigtt76: He should take up the offer so he can be dependent to his wife and enjoy the benefits till the get the indefinite leave to remain. If not, he will have to be applying for visitor's visa even if his wife gets the ILR thank you very much! please what are these benefits? he is being reluctant because of his career,considering his legal career is doing good here. the question he has been asking Is about what is he going to be doing in UK in term of job or profession if he moves there permanently. |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by sokeril: 11:14am On Oct 02, 2022 |
humblemoi: If only you had been on this thread a little longer, you'd know better than to quote that alias.
But to each his/her own. alright sir but in this circumstances what will your own advice be? |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by sokeril: 10:40am On Oct 02, 2022 |
Munamoqel: the wind is already blowing in japa hq the original people the uk was built for are prostesting high inflation and cost of living . Japarains from Nijia are selling their properties and resigning from their plum jobs and japing straight into this economic crisis . Most Japarains are just following bandwagon effect of been sold a dummy by the UK and educational agent . bro what of someone like my brother...his wife is a nurse in UK and is pressuring him to relocate permanently,meanwhile he is a lawyer here in Nigeria and not doing badly. what's your advice for someone like him since he is not going there for studies if he relocate?. should he make the move? |
Family › Re: A Chronic Insultive Wife by sokeril: 8:13am On Sep 30, 2022 |
capnies: EVERY MARRIED MAN SHOULD ADOPT A METHOD I CALL {LISTEN BUT DON'T HEAR]
IT WALKS VERY WELL FOR EVERY MARRIED MAN, NOT NECESSARILY FOR INSULTS; MOST WOMEN DON'T INSULT THEIR HUSBANDS BUT COULD SAY OTHER THINGS YOU'RE NOT INTERESTED IN HEARING, JUST BE QUIET AS IF YOU'RE LISTENING BUT BE THINKING SOMETHING ELSE THEN AFTER YOU ASK HER WHAT DID YOU SAY?
Rubbish PRACTICE THIS METHOD FOR AWHILE, YOU'LL BE SHOCKED TO SEE THE LEVEL OF PEACE AT HOME.
FOR EG YOU COME BACK HOME AND THEN ALL OF A SUDDEN SHE STARTS HER GENERATOR AND YOU DIDN'T HEAR ANY, AT THE END OF THE RANTING YOU TELL HER DARLING PLEASE I WANT TO EAT; SOME COULD START ANOTHER ROUND OF RANTING WHICH YOU WON'T HERE THEN AFTER THAT YOU ASK FOR THE FOOD AGAIN, YOU CAN EVEN GET CLOSE AND ATTEMPT TO HOLD HER WAIST. IN THE NIGHT DRAW HER CLOSE AND ATTEMPT TO WANT TO MAKE LOVE TO HER BEARING IN MIND THAT SHE MIGHT RESIST, WHICH WILL MEAN NOTHING TO YOU. BUT WHEN YOU LEAVE FOR WORK THE NEXT MORNING SHE WILL BE WONDERING WHY ALL SHE SAID DIDN'T AFFECT YOU? IF YOU PRACTICE THIS FOR LIKE THREE MONTHS, SHE WILL START FEELING STUPID THAT ALL WHAT SHE'S BEEN SAYING DOES NOT AFFECT YOU SO WHATS THE NEED GO AHEAD AND PUT IT TO PRACTICE. WITH THIS METHOD YOU WON'T LEAVE THE HOUSE YOU WILL BE THERE WHEN SHE'S BACKING BUT YOU WON'T HERE A THING. GOD BLESS YOUR HOME |
Crime › Re: Chaos In Iyana Iba As Rival NURTW Groups Fight With Stones And Cutlasses (video) by sokeril: 7:39am On Sep 29, 2022 |
Fira09: Watch the video of the fight below: [url=] Baba Agbado Lagos legacy.
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Travel › Re: It Is Impossible To Save $30 (₦9,540) Daily In Canada by sokeril: 11:09am On Sep 23, 2022 |
naijaboy99: Nobody is envy of anyone. I am just stating the obvious fact. We also spend billions migrating there and putting more billions in their economy working there. We also spend billions here buying their imported goods. Thanks You should have worded the question better bro- is it possible to save 11000 CAD annually in Canada? |