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The grace that God has given us is in his son Jesus Christ. John 3:16 says " for God so loved the world that he gave his only begotton son, that everyone who believes in him may not die but have eternal life" When we believe in Jesus Christ as our saviour, we strive to abide by his teachings. He gave us the grace of forgiveness from our sins when we trully repent of them. Isaiah 43:25 says "i, am he who blots out your transgressions for my own sake, and i will not remember your sins". What more do we need, if not this grace. Does it then mean that we will be living an unworthy life and claim that his grace has saved us? No, 1peter 4:2 says "from now on, then you must live the rest of your earthly lives controlled by God's will and not by human desires". Let us invite the Holy spirit in our lives to direct and reveal the truth to us. The gospel is being distorted in a way to suit human desires, let us be alert and stand our ground. We are already in the last days.

Couples differ in ways of settling quarrels. And its better one finds a way suitable for ones spouse so that issues may not escalat. My own i think may be different. And if applied by another may not work but it has been workng for us. Initially i usually appologise, but hubby sees it as if because i find it easy to render appology it makes me to always be misbehaving then if i appologise it does'nt seem to go down well with him. Again in our case there is nothing like one partner shouting to the other, because if i shout he would shout back and if he shouts i will fire back immediately saying everything i need to say before it becomes too late. At the end we would have quarrelled. No matter what after that we give ourselves some space for one or two hours. Then we would forget everyting and start conversing again as if nothing happened. After the quarrel, from what we voiced out each person will make amendment towards the others grieviances and we move on. No appologies no regrets from any side and no one is expecting appology. Its from quarelling that we reshape our behaviours to suit ourselves.

I will never forget my mother. Father was a loving and kind heartef man but could not live long. Mother galantly saw us through with the help of God. Can you imagine having to take care of nine children and training seven in universities. They other opted out voluntarily. She is never tired, ever courageous, humble and peace loving. She is the best. I pray God to give her life and good health. Of course she is reaping the fruit of her labours now.

Yes mothers are very strong. If you have not given birth sure you will not understand. When i gave birth to my first child i asked my mother is this what you passed through giving birth to nine children. Mummy i hail you! Trust me if men were to give birth, the will not go more than once. But women can do it over and over again. Mothers you are wonderfully and fearfully made!

Oh! Thanks so much for painstakingly giving a detailed approach to this. I hope many other ladies would find this helpful. You really have done a great job. Thanks once more!

Thanks so much. I like your collections. Can you help me with good pregnancy outfits. Finding it a bit difficult shopping for clothes. God bless you.

I miss my nigerian food. I used to say that when i travel out of nigeria i will acquaint myself with foreign dishes. But now i know better. I miss vegetable soup, afang soup, correct bitterleaf soup with ogiri, porigde yam with ugu leaf, roasted corn and pear, roasted yam with ugba, abacha to mention but a few. All farm produce here are GM. They have lost the real taste and nutrients. Even diary products are not left out. Our nigeria foods taste great.

Why are many niralanders fake? Reading through the comments i obseved that women are claiming they are innocent. Some claimed they are naturally endowed. Although i cant say that everybody use them because i know there are some women who do not use them. But majority of the ladies at least wear push up bras. For me when i was young i never liked foam bra as it was called then. But after giving birth to my first son, my second child, the breast was finished. It was so flat that wearing ordinary bra never did any good to it, then i resorted to push up. As the name goes the push up is really pushing up. My husband laughed over it and said that women are terrible. But for the bum enhenser i cannot try it oooo.

I am not against speaking in tongues. Infact i earnestly pray that i will be given the gift by the holy spirit. But what i hate most is seeing poeple who pretend to speak even when they are not led by the holy spirit. Its only when i recieve the gift that i will speak. I can't force myself. Besides i will continue to work with gifts God have given me.

Go girl! Am happy for you.

ffo: no AFRICAN OR NIGERIAN in the list??

I wonder.

I cannever grudge over giving offerin in the church. I can give even more than ten times in a service simply because God is so generous. When i have something to give it gives me joy. I have a cousin who vowed not to give at all in every service no matter what. Reason beign that the priests are already very rich. He is close to 40 year now and miserable. A graduate of 10 years that cannot lay his hand on any job and bussiness. He keep soliciting for money from relatives even his younger ones. I cannever approach the house of God empty handed and God has never stopped blessing me.

Blame also those who patronise them.

If the presenters are proffessionals in their field, they would have known how better to adress issues. They can say contemporary musicians or better still some musicians. Why the namecalling? Even if they have some beefs with the guys, its not enough reason for them to disrespct them.

La revancha, dont mess with an angel, daddy day care, and dumebi.

Everything in the scriptures concerning rapture and Christ's second comming sums up to the fact that one ought to be prepared. Get ready at all times. Even death which cannot be predicted is enough reason why we should get ready. We should be living each day as if it is the last. But wait ooo this heaven is not soo easy to make ooo. I pray God have mercy oooo!

May God save his people.

Bro you try. Infact over try dey wori you. Kudos!

@ bukatyne, its never your business to know why i stopped in the first place. There is an issue here you can say your mind and stop attacking people. Like you said i dont have conviction of my own, i and hubby delibrate on issues amicably and its working for us. You can as well share your own experience.

@Bukatyne you have really shown a picture of yourself. You can be a reverend for all i care. I dont think you have an experience here. You are not into marriage to prove that you are a strong woman. But you entered because love exists between you two. It doesnt matter whether he said it before of after marriage. I started wearing trousers again because my hubby likes me in that. I was not under duress. I willingly acepted and it never made me feel belated. I am hapilly married and cannever have any regret being with my hubby. I will choose him more than a million times over. This issue is too trivial to cause a break up in marriage. A woman who wants complete love from a man will be ready to reciprocate by respecting your him .

This woman should listen to her husband. There are times a woman corrects her husband. If you cannot respect his oppinion how do you think he will listen to you when when you correct him. You are existing for each other and therefore can correct each other as well.

[quote author=bukatyne]It is women like you who make marriage sound like a bondage. 'She is no longer single, it's a reality she must face.'

It's always good to compare oranges to oranges. Your husband told you before you got married that he loves trousers; the key word is before marriage. He didn't wait until after marriage b/4 shifting the goal post.
If you are mature enough you would have known beter.there is an issue here, you have never tried to profer a solution all you do is make mockery of yourself. I am a mother of 3 with experience in marriage. May be you are still jumping from one man to another and you think you can equate boy-girl relationship to marriage. Beter grow up. Many marriages are in shambles today because of minor issues that got out of hand. When you are married you exist for both yourself and hubby. Marriage is not so easy as you may think. You got to be able to tolerate a lot lest you loose it

Wearing of trousers is not a do or die tin. If she has enough love and respect for her husband she should drop it. Its not a big deal. You can get other good and confortable clothes in the market. Before i met my husband i stopped wearing trousers by myself and when i met him he insisted i should wear it cos he likes it. Then i accepted. You dont have to take trivial matters seriously lest they ruin your relationship. Think and act wisely. Those giving you advice may not be there when your home is broken. Its a reality that you must face. Its not like you are single.

Scam! Uniben and their pranks. In 2009 when i was doing my masters there, they advertised just like this, many people applied. Though i did not apply but most of my colleagues did. They were waiting for them to fix date for test and interwiew, they never did. After some months they secretly shortlisted the names of those they have employed. I am not like trying to discourage anybody but i know uniben used to have corupt system, even in their admission. I still feel that things may not still be the same now. Good luck to the job seeker!

Church prostitutes that jump from one to church to another in search of miracles will have themselves to blame at the end of the day. Don't say i didn't warn you!

I did when i was in my final year in the uni 2004. It was a very critical situation for my little nephew, i was the only option. I courageously opted to donate. The needle was big and bit painful but i endured it. I never regreted i did because the child's life was saved. I can do it over and over again to save life but not to sale.

That money is for me. We use to go to school everyday. I want to shit/piss.

Pretty face, even without make up.

Nonesense!

@ op u r just jobless. Get buzy!

Oshiobaba n rochas all the way.

Myne cant stand me staying out more than 1hr.