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Sometimes, it might be a good thing to hope for the best rather than think negativity of such situations. What if she she could do more with that phone for your family, if she is intelligent enough to sell her eggs...I believe she might have more sense than you think. You know your wife, try give her a chance while you make the best of your own situation too. Deal with things you can handle and don't waste your time with the ones you can't handle. |
The boy is indeed very handsome, judgement or not ...he's a beaut. God bless him and their entire family. |
This same thing happened to me and we are seperated now, she only told you the truth because you probably suspect it already ,secondly she didn't go out with her friends...she went out with him. Sadly, it won't stop ...mine started before marriage and it continued. People may be right that' she's bored and you should spice things up but since every human differs, you would have to find your own truth yourself and try to fix things...otherwise I discovered for a cheater it's often the thrill of cheating and lack of contentment. Find out the truth yourself based on this premise and do what you need to do. Cheers |
Why are you shaking your head , instead of getting people to arrange the guy....Chai it's also because this people know Nigerians can afford to loose their money o .. Oh gosh olaboy33: |
Personally, I think it would be better for you to relax and ask yourself deep questions first. It is good to be your own not just so that your mother will not be the boss of you but in life generally. Find out what truly happened, ask your mother questions along this lines and if the answers are not satisfactory be cautious, also ask your girl if this and other questions is what truly led to the breakup, do not judge a person's true intention and personality by how much help they have rendered to you, even though that matters too, and no matter what try not to bite the finger that fed you but look at the picture as a whole. Do not be in a rush to judge or condemn, when you are certain about what the true circumstance is ,take action.,or sort advice based on that, otherwise you'll take action on hasty decisions. Cheers |
What do you mean by hybrid? GAZZUZZ: |
You should expose this guy on facebook,..if he did this to you,..he is definitely scouting for others and he Is a ritualist for sure. I hope you secured your bank accounts and other stuffs. |
Hmm.... This has been quite accurate so far. |
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Hmmmm.....my 2 cents from my real life experience. I would advise any one in this shoes to ask him/her self this questions. Are you ready to live without peace of my mind? Lack of trust ? Knowing she allowed you to fall completely first B4 telling you., your decisions will always be based on whatever corner she decides to box in you in..Was she raped 2x?Is she mentally sound? Otherwise where or how did she have 2 kids from 2 different men who left her @ d end of the day. Are those the only men she's been with? How many abortions has she done besides the ones she didn't eventually do who have come to be? What experience have you had with her to prove her loyalty, not based on sex but as simple as a simple commitment to you as you have been to her etc? This is my own experience and I'm still living it. Use it wisely. Cheers |
Religion....is the people's Opium,.. though the guy does everything that negates what the Bible stands for. Maybe he will change,..who knows. |
She looks fiercely beautiful. Considering what she does,... She's one of a kind. |
SlimBrawnie:If PDP actually said this then they are criminals... how do you get a parallel voting technology or data,..when actual elections are going on,.. even in America you will never hear of this,.. if this is true,.. then they must have been hacking the card readers, Obviously this makes no sense,.. If anybody can just grab data like this,.. Utter nonsense |
This is fake news. Absolutely fake. |
Your storytelling technique is amazing.... |
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utenwuson:I am sure if she were insulting his parents he would have mentioned it. How can someone be insulting your parents and you go ahead to marry her, trust me a man with this kind of ego would not have done such. |
Interesting, I'm not God but I think if you remove the wool on your eyes you would know you were wrong, your own story even buttresses how you should have titled this how "I intend to dissolve my family with my pride" , yes, she comes from a wealthy family and is probably rude, so what? You were able to work together and nonetheless build a lovable family at least for a while, if these woman was so wicked she wouldn't have bothered about spending on your family's utmost comfort( a house), yes she made the mistake of putting her name alone... It's obvious she has insecurities, which you probably did not address before marriage, psychologically you gave her massive responsibilities often left for a man and she succeeded in them when she could have gone the usual feminine route living large... Correct me if I am wrong but this whole issue was escalated because of one of her insecurities again I.e she thinks you are cheating on her with someone else and when you should have angrily as a man do sth crazy/give her some sort of aggressive assurance, you told her to leave the house! Now she's given you some great info to show you how insecure she was a long time ago, your only bold and wise way to correct this misnomer is to tell her to change it to only your name because a "man is the head of the house abi". Even you should try reading your own story over and over again,... then switch roles, I am sure you would see.. how "Selfish" you have been from scratch, maybe if you told us what you have done for her own parents and others with your money before you even had success in biz even if they were extremely rich. In conclusion, from my myopic married experience... I think a man should strive to bring out the best in a Woman and assure her at every giving opportunity that all is well, do the craziest things to keep your marriage and your children and she likewise, and you will see the stupid documents will not even matter at the end of the day, in fact she,ll do the needful when you are not watching. Hmm, you can do what your ego, her family and your family says by the way after all it's your pride not anyone's marriage. Cheers |
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