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Rest In Peace Dear

Rest In Peace With The Lord Amen!

Bro.. Just Keep Searching You'll find something Physical that'll attract U. People Learn To Love!

Katier00:
It is physical attraction that leads to spiritual attraction. You can't love someone you are not attracted to

Nah..
Just take it from the bottom to the Top!
Spirituality First.

Guess you're always Free Get Busy, Chase Dreams & You'll get over it

Me I think she just looking out for her Future Husband....LOL!!
She Loves U at the same time she's overreacting... Last Last Link Up with her

What's That Song That Best Describes Your Love/Feelings For Someone You Love??
Or That Song You Listen To When You Miss Someone Dear To You??

And In your Mind You're in Love Shey?? Can't You See?? Nigga's Too Selfish To Think About How U Feel!

Seems You're Still With That Same Nigga That X's U Like He Gets Paid For It?? Flee From Fornication Dear You're Too Beautiful For That.. U better stick to Selfwife Advice in your previous Thread Dear!

Ye's Wife 28?

More Life More Love

R.I.P To The Dead

Today, we look at —warning signs of a toxic relationship. While many relationships may display one or two of these, toxic relationships will often feature multiple alarm bells.


Where I've written your partner read it as, you or your partner.


Relationship Warning Signs;


1. You never turn to each other for emotional support. You look to other people first.

2. Your partner actively tries to cut you off from your support network of friends and family.

3. Your partner implies that you are stupid, or that they are "the smart one” in the relationship; they try to dissuade you from trying something new because “you probably won’t understand it.”

4. Your partner doesn’t respect your answer when you say “no” to something.

5. Your partner implies that they only value you for one thing, whether it be sex, your looks, or your ability to earn money.

6. You can’t identify any ways you’ve positively influenced each other. For example, you haven’t adopted any of each other’s interests or taught each other any new skills.

7. You can identify ways you've negatively influenced each other, particularly harmful habits like heavy drinking, laziness, or smoking.

8. Your partner doesn’t make you feel good about your body; they point out your thinning hair or saggy underarm skin.

9. You don’t have a sense of relationship security—you’ve broken up or almost broken up numerous times.

10. You end up doing things you’re ashamed of in the course of interacting with each other, such as screaming at each other in front of your kids.

11. Your partner is dismissive of your emotions, especially fear, such as when you say you’re scared because they drive too fast or erratically but they won’t slow down.

12. Your partner involves you in unethical activities, such as lying on official forms you both sign.

13. You feel worse about yourself as a person than when you started the relationship—you’re less confident and can see fewer positive qualities about yourself.

14. You don’t feel able to get your partner’s attention when you want to talk about something important.

15. Your partner mocks you, such as poking fun at your voice or facial expressions in a mean way.

16. Your partner doesn’t seem interested when you experience success, or they belittle your success.

17. You don’t feel able to confide in your partner. If you were to reveal something that you’re sensitive about, you’re not sure if they’d react respectfully or helpfully.

18. Your partner makes jokes about leaving you or teases you about what their "second" wife or husband will be like.

19. When you’re not physically together, it feels like "out of sight, out of mind.” For example, your partner is on an international trip and says they’ll call when they arrived safely at the hotel but doesn’t follow through.

20. When you and your partner disagree, they insist you do things their way or leave. It’s their way or the highway, and you don’t have a sense that when you disagree you’ll find a way of coming together.

21. You’re not sure how dependable, supportive, or reliable your partner would be in a situation in which you really needed them; for example, if you or a close family member got cancer.

22. You blame your partner for your life not being as satisfying as you’d like it to be—or they blame you.

23. Your partner is dismissive of your interests and projects. They judge the things you do by how important they perceive them to be, rather than how important they are to you.

24. Stonewalling. You or your partner flat-out refuse to talk about important relationship topics, such as the decision to have a baby.

25. You don’t think your partner would make a good parent.

26. There are times you avoid coming home because going to Starbucks, or a bar, is more relaxing after a stressful day than coming home to your partner.

27. Your life together seems out of control; for example, you both spend much more than you earn.

28. You can’t think of ways in which you and your partner make a great team.

29. Your partner is the source of negative surprises, such as large unexpected charges on your joint credit card.

30. You catch your partner lying repeatedly.

31. Your partner goes out but doesn’t tell you where, or fails to arrive home when expected and has no explanation.

32. You worry that your partner might get so angry they’d hurt you.

33. You have a sense of being trapped in the relationship.

34. When you argue, one or both of you always just gets defensive. You can never acknowledge that the other person has some valid points.

35. When you argue, you just blame each other rather than each accepting some blame.

36. You’re very critical of each other, and you feel constantly nitpicked about the ways you’re not “good enough.”

37. Your partner complains about you to their friends or family.

38. You find yourself lying to other people because you’re ashamed of your partner’s behavior; for example, making excuses for why they haven’t shown up to an event as planned.

39. You feel lonely when you’re together.

40. You can’t recall a time when your partner has compromised so that you could take up an opportunity.

41. There is an absence of affection in your relationship—you rarely kiss, touch, or smile at each other.

42. Your partner is coercive when it comes to sex.

43. Your partner sees themselves as having a much higher "mate value" than you. They think you're lucky to have them, but not the reverse.

44. Your partner keeps you at arms length emotionally. You don't have a healthy sense of interdependence.

45. Your partner frequently compares you unfavorably to other people, especially friends' spouses or partners.

46. When you argue, it quickly escalates to ultima threat “If you don't ..., I'll ...”

47. You can think of several friends or colleagues whom you'd rather be in a relationship with.

48. Cheating.

49. The other “C” word, "Crazy." If you call each other "crazy" during arguments, it’s a pretty bad sign. It shows that you’re no longer willing to listen to each other’s point of view because you’ve written it off as irrational.

50. Relationship violence.

51. If you had to rate your partner on a scale of 1 to 10 on qualities like warmth, trustworthiness, and dependability, you would rate them lower than 5.



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Religious Reasons Ke!!?? And U guys Be Kissing, Smooching & Do all sort.. the temptation will be strong nah And U guys are abstaining?? Bro. if U Love Her respect her decision but if she's cheating on U she just Played herself.

U would've Made it Rhyme To Bring Out The Beauty!! But We still Get The Message Perfectly Thanks Brotherly.

Yo! Thanks

Beautiful Song

Chale U for Look sharp tell the Girl the Truth & apologize to her... U fit test how much she Love U self!! just saying Shah

Everybody Dies Rest In Peace Bro...Amen!

I Know he'll be feeling guilty like he moving on would make it look like his cheating on his Wife.. Even his dead wife will wish he moved on with Life & hoping he'll be Happy

Rest In Peace With The Lord Bro!

Two Thousand Nineteen Only Chase Your Dreams & Not These Girls!
Advice; Don't Be In A Relationship With A Girl You Love But With A Girl That Loves You... ;DTwo Thousand Nineteen Only Chase Your Dreams & Not These Girls!
Advice; Don't Be In A Relationship With A Girl You Love But With A Girl That Loves You...



Oyah Back To The matter U started out as friends and she trusted you with her relationship problems cause she needed someone to talk to & the least you could do was give her some advice on how to get back with her boyfriend.... sometimes girls don't tell U their problems so as to get possible solutions from U but just to pour out how they feel! Just be there for her that's all & with time nah she go give U green Light.... As U come Rush her now wetin U gain?? U for chill & be a good friend nah she go Rush U!


You talk about her not wanting to visit U & U haven't seen her in 4 Months# Let's just assume say unah dey the relationship cause for her mind U just dey do yourself... ebe like Unah dey different states¿ Nah U suppose Visit her self abi U want make she come your side hell Naw that's risky for a girl U need to do the visiting for a while at least..

Guy Relationship isn't something that just falls in place U gotta work at it ooh & U gotta be patient with the Girl cause it takes time for girls to feel something for a girl...
#Unedited

Forgiveness Is A Virtue

HyconMojo:
Lol ! I bet you didn't read the headline

To The New Born Baby I Guess!¿

tgmservice:
Thanks the thing is d guy in question was my friend and i feel bad about testifying against him though what he did was wrong.

But from my boss point of view is either is testify or lose my job which i am afraid of

Even If It Was Your Brother Stick To what's Right..
Don't Let GOD, Your Boss & Family Down.
if it was me I might do otherwise Shah No Be say I too Righteous e go hard I fit relate

48%

Just Follow Your Heart Do What's Right Even When It'll Be Hard Believe Me You'll Make GOD Proud If You Get Sacked, At least You Did The Right Thing..

THANKS

Olabode09:
God is Good

ALWAYS

Oops I'm so sorry for U guys!
Bruh' these are times Real friends are needed the most she needs U more than ever to push through this... talking about Love?? it isn't something that just falls in place we all gotta work towards making it work well.! even when we get tired sometimes just try and make some sacrifices for those people we claim we Love.

At least she was honest with U about what really happened some girls will be scared of losing their guys so it's better they lie to keep them boys.. she didn't cause she Loves U Bruh' So reciprocate the Love. Let's put it like this toast again start a fresh cause U are feeling like she cheated on U or something So just forgive her in your mind even when she isn't at fault...LOL! I nor if I make some sense Here shah#Unedited
Take Heart Bro.. Sh!ts always happens

Genesiszero:
Hahahaha...... Lol, dude you're kinda optimistic!
Do you mind if I bless you with one? Hahahaha just kidding.... On a serious note some guys don't really treat women sincerely, never make a woman regret telling you she loves you or making the first move to regret that, it's takes high degree of confidence to so, so when faced with one, treat them with dignity. If a woman approach you herself, trust me she'll never joke in that relationship....... If you don't love her, decline in a polite way

Damn! That Was Deep Bro.. The Last Part Really Got Me. Thanks A Lot For Your Time I Really Got A Lot.