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While we are looking out for ourselves, look out for the younglings too. Grandpa, daddy, uncle, big bro, all of you, don't let that little boy go astray. Cut off nickelodeon and all those shitty programs. Protect his mind!

The matrix doesn't know the meaning of "prisoners". You play or get played.

The question that always bites;



Was it all worth it?
Stay wise!

MJBOLT:

Don't worry I understand
it's either you settled for scraps and want other men to be miserable like you or you're an evening newspaper trying to find a foolish man to wife you up.

If he says he wants to marry a 30 year old and cheat on her, please let him. After all, "life no get manual" . Further effort to make him see your point may lead to name calling and all those shit like that. "If en say na wetin en want, na wetin en want"

The logic;
I want to buy a bad car and keep in my compound and use public transport everyday.

Redpill no be by force.

BigBashiru:
Seems ur stuck in traditional gender roles....times hv changed and gender roles are not set in stone....

Dear BigBashiru sir,

I don't know why these people are trying to force you to bend to their whims and dictations. They don't know times have changed. They are busy asking you to look for young girls that are not ready to settle down. They are not in tune with reality. They are just hiding behind their little screens throwing orders here and there (sighs). Most of them are porn addicts, masturbators and broke little boys and they are telling you how to pick a partner? To hell with that!

We know the only thing that matters is peace of mind, after all. Therefore, if you see any lady that can offer you that, please take it. It doesn't matter whether she is 35 or 50. So long your peace of mind is assured, you're good to go.

You have your plans, just do what's best for you and don't listen to naysayers. We the members of this community wish you the very best.

Best regards, sir

OhBritannia:
About vaemond. Isn't he just a fool?
Because initially i thought that the reason why he was so bold to stand before the king and challenge the king's decision and call Rhanery a whoreeee is because he already has an army and half of his people to support him.

The way he was killed, you can tell all he had was just a name and nothing else.

I don't think Daemon would have ever laid his hands on someone that has a very huge army even if the person didn't have a dragon, because that will mean war against kings landing.

Vaemond is the exact example of an empty drums that makes the loudest noise.

Daemon is cold but definitely not Stupid enough to murder someone that has a very very huge and powerful army in front of his people.

I felt sad for vaemond. His fight was of a good cause but he employed the wrong strategy and it cost him a heavy price.

If Rhaenys had offered her granddaughters to any of Alicent's sons, vaemond wouldn't have had an argument to begin with.

blingxx:
I will keep saying this , viserys is a weakass king with good intention but dude is just not strong enough to hold his own family together

Viserys is the kind of person that thinks the body will still stay alive if he kept the rotting arm instead of cutting it off.

He allowed his daughter bring dishonour to the family name because he's too blinded by parental love to see the long term effect. His own sons and grandsons (the bastards) can't ever seem to get along –a peek into the grand chaos that will ensue.

If he had disinherited Rhaenyra as heir, things may not have looked so bad.

chigomiced:
HoTD series begs to show the need for men to know TRP

You know why I'm watching . I wrote a post one time concerning the different characters in relation to masculinity and femininity. There's more, I'm sure.

DaniWhizbang:
House of the dragon is shit. My anger for their stupid agenda couldn't let me go past the episode 5 before throwing it in the bin. Almost all new series and movies these days are shit. For me I go for series from 2010 downwards and I'm highly selective. Nice list tho

Shit? Maybe. Did i see the agenda? Yes.

Why am I still watching? For study sake. If it becomes unbearable, to the trash I send it. But you're right,movies from 2010 back are mostly high quality.

Learning from someone/something you hate is a skill (but this is not me encouraging anyone to watch shit shows).

satandeterrible:
I read the thread opened by LocalStandard1 and I couldn't agree less.

The ploy is ongoing.

After reading, I was going to ask "are you me?" Because that is exactly what I have done since i swallowed the pill. I used to be a movie freak but now, I still watch movies but I'm super selective.

The kind of shows i watch;
Last kingdom
Borgias
Medici
Vikings
Suits
House of cards
Peaky blinders
Tudors
HOTD

I intend to see Godfather of Harlem and gangs of London later on. But I always test the waters with the first 3 episodes. All these movies I've seen are like the audio-visuals of the 48 laws.

Protect your minds, gentlemen!

heartofcity12:
It’s funny how comments like hers flood the internet by females and some men.
Women are never accountable for their own actions but always quick to point fingers at the man and blame him for everything, I’m not surprised. Dude was all shades of wrong but she was guilty of many things too. #Anikulapo movie.

Most women (because i want to believe at least one can be objective) think the same. I wrote down everything i believe i could get out of the movie and when i see comments like that, I cross check to be sure I'm not crazy because the thought process is funny af.

chikasnight:
She’ll rather spend all day calling men names than actually advising younger women to make the right choices...
She’ll rather watch the younger women fail like she did than watch then make the right choice

"The sisterhood". Thank you very much

Zabiboy:
Imagine spending time, resources, sacrifices to make something work, and the person you do it for wakes up one morning and say she's no longer interested..
This is marriage not relationship of few months.
And then you say someone is accepting "failure" because he decides to avoid such or because he'll rather go for a shared responsibility to reduce the effect if it fails.


Omor.... We move...
Thanks to everyone that contributed
The day we talk extensively about "how men and their ego sets them up perfectly to be used" on this thread e go too sweet..

Let's look at cause and effect for a bit;

- if we all abandoned marriage because "it is not worth it", what will be the effect?

- If we all adopted the way of babymamaism because we want to avoid carrying the responsibility of a grown adult on our backs, what will be the effect?

- If we all chose h0es to bear our progenies because "that is the best we can get", what will be the effect?

- Lastly, if we all decided to commit to chaste females, what will be the effect?

The game gets to us all. How you choose to play is your own prerogative.


To set high standards no hard, why we choose to compromise is what I'm yet to grasp.

PS: I'd really love to engage in that ego argument. I should never miss an opportunity to learn something new.

orchin:
Men love being slaves!!!

This is like saying "a king loves being a puppet", it is not true. In the power game, the real power belongs to the ones behind the curtain, the ones not seen, the puppeteer!

So it is in a sexual relationship. It is not about "being a slave", it is about being aware of where the power is. I will quote frank underwood from house of cards "everything in life is about sex except sex, sex is about power". A man going into such relationships without being aware of the power games involved will be enslaved as much as the king who is not aware of who pulls his strings.

So it is designed. Submission (and by extension, sex) is the ultimate tool a woman has to control a man. The man who knows this and knows how to cut the strings has absolute power in the relationship. Linda from peaky blinders said "keep his balls empty and his belly full". The dopamine release from these two is enough to enslave the man who does not know. Then the little cherry on top the cake, massage his ego (the first law of power) and the puppeteer has full control.

"Knowledge is power. Power is control. Control is dependence". Whatever a man depends on, controls him. If she becomes his source of dopamine and ego booster as lord (what every man craves), she will control him.

When she can't pull these strings, she acknowledges your lordship because it is checkmate. Running away from this truth will only cause more pain or get you deeper into enslavement.

This is why I don't fear the modern woman. She is powerless because she doesn't know her power is in being submissive.


Let me copy uncle cave;
Authority: Be uncontrollable

Zabiboy:
Bro, why did you edit that post about "Ego".
Thats such a good discussion to have.
I had to squeeze some time to come online and reply but cant find it anymore ....

Anyways, the summary of my reply would have been "Ego is the second easiest way to Manipulate a man".

What is the first?

Anyway, I put down my thoughts in a note when i saw the post but I forgot to share.

"I don't see Ego as a man's enemy. I see Ego as a man's sword; to cut down adversaries when necessary but with such care that one doesn't cut himself too. Or as a cloth to put off when necessary to avoid suffocating oneself.

Self respect, dignity, confidence, honour, and all other similar characters are all branched off from ego. We could say the positive spectrum of ego.

Impulsiveness, arrogance (bad pride) and all other similar characters are still branched off from ego. We could call them the negative spectrum of ego.

Like a thumbscrew, these things could be used to manipulate an individual depending on which spectrum he projects the most. The narcissistic man will be finely manipulated with his attachment to the negative spectrum. The "good" man will be manipulated with his attachment to the positive spectrum.

Not letting yourself be manipulated by any side will require that you understand which spectrum you project the most and like sun Tzu "The man who knows himself and knows his enemy, need not fear the result of a hundred battles"."


PS :
Of course for women, it is the constant need to be validated. To be always right,to be in the spotlight, to be the angel, to be most beautiful, to be the sexiest,etc. More like the narcissistic man.

Make her feel less than any of these and her ego is bruised. The woman who cannot be manipulated is the one who knows how to use this sword.

YoobaNesan:
@CaveÀdulllam, just lay my hands on this great works among other books.

Starter pack to becoming "a psychic and clairvoyant".
Goodluck, chief.

ubunja:
it's not like she'll be doing it publicly. you won't even know.

Is that so? I hypothesize that one can know.

If one reads energies/body language efficiently, i believe you can tell when something's up. Only we tend to want to rationalize this thought(s) to avoid feeling "insecure" which upon further gaslighting will make us feel "unmanly". This is manipulative stuff.

Since ability to pair bond to a mate hinges on how many mates she has had prior, it means when she begins to share her pvssy around (that is if she was sexually pure before commitment), she'll begin to act "weirder" than what you have in her energy/psychological profile. Maybe I sound so because I cold read efficiently.

In a money laundering scheme, the money is followed not the individual. In an emotional betrayal, I hypothesize that the emotions are followed instead of the individual.

I don't have enough experience to state what I've written as fact but if you do,please I'm ready to learn.

Thanks.

CaveAdullam:
And please do make some little donations.

Thanks.

I didn't make the donations now but i know I'm indebted. Thank you!

Dtruthspeaker:
You can only that you are afraid of knowing the Truth Full Answer.

Can an iPhone choose the country, family and race it would end up in?

That is why we are creations exactly as the iPhone. You will be wherever your Creator places you.

I expected this analogy. Going by it;

God who is a "loving father" will choose to place a child in a family stricken by abject poverty where it is highly probable that such child will suffer malnourishment and possibly starvation.

or

A war torn community where it is highly a possibility of being hit by bomb blasts or bullets.

Or

A community suffering one of the numerous natural disasters where the chances of survival are almost insignificant.

Tell me, the children who have died of the many wars initiated by human beings are so because "the creator placed them there?"

Funny how you use non- living things to compare with living things.

iykbethany:
According to the bible, God can see the end from the beginning. Does it mean He already knew we would be black people born in a shit hole country and that buhari would be our president and that we will see shege?

Here is how i look at the idea;
God is described as a being who abounds in knowledge. Something mere mortals may seem to lack.

Being able to see "the end from the beginning" will mean He sees the outcome(s) of our choice(s) when we make them. Say for example; I go to a bar and I had enough alcohol to knock me out. I pick up my car keys and I'm ready to drive back home.

What will be the outcome of having a drunk driver behind the wheel?
A sober person can draw up several possibilities and that is "seeing the end from the beginning"

A person has no power to choose;
1. Which family he is born into (rich or poor).
2. Which nationality he is born into.
3. Which race he is born into.
4. What genetic defect/advantage he will inherit.
5. Which religion he becomes adherent to (at least at the time of his birth)

Etc.

Did God choose these for such a person? In my opinion,no! These i believe like a lottery are gotten out of sheer luck.

And he's so cool with all of these? He even watches Boko haram and kidnappers kill innocent people and He can't defend us as our father.

Oh I forgot, the bible say we should be olodo and shouldn't reason like humans. Its alright �

God does not meddle in the affairs of men. Man makes his choice, man reaps the rewards/consequences.

Thanks.

I have not done much but like Bismarck, I prefer to learn from the experiences of others.

- The living experience(s) of the elders.
- The books written by the ones before me.
- The songs sang by the ones before me.
- Even the mistakes of my own mates. (I'd rather they get burnt instead of me).

If the cost of the "mistake" is far less expensive for the benefit of experience, I'd let my youthful curiosity lead the way. Who wouldn't love a tale or two to tell in old age?

CaveAdullam:
Please, don't kill my dream, I'm aiming for the moon, so that I can at least land on a star. And that's why I'm demanding for a half plot in Lekki.

"Why alpha males and redpillers broke like this". Jeez!

Send a DM

I'm sorry I couldn't meet your expectations,sir. My spaceship had a little breakdown when I stopped over in Jupiter on my way to Mars. I came down to earth to seek a worthy intergalactic mechanic.

You know how these spacecrafts used to dig deep into somebody's pocket. But we will smile soon

CaveAdullam:
What can you do?

Talk well, let me order it for you. Delivery fee on me. Lol

After checking my capacity,I'm sure i can wash plate.
If you deliver it and I refuse to follow you to your house to wash plate,hold my shirt and drag me to your house.

I no fit run,i swear

Ahijo1990:
Here's the PDF link https://b-ok.africa/book/3405012/2f87a5

Thank you,chief.

CaveAdullam:
Half plot for Lekki, and I will send it asap.

Deal or no deal?

Winks.

I'll see what I can do

I have searched without success. If anyone could do me a kindness by giving me a link to download the book Sex and culture by J.D Unwin, I'd appreciate it.

Better still, If you have a copy, please send me an email.

Thank you!

Someoneschild2:
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An example in today's society will be a woman who suddenly developed a feeling for her partner's ally (his brother, his best friend or any other guy) and torn between satisfying alpha fvcks and remaining loyal. She doesn't take her decisions independently. Her best friend or "girl squad" is consulted and they will encourage her to "explore" and make it their "little secret". Funny thing is, they know this is a bad idea but they do not want to be ostracized and this secret is only secret so long as they are still allies.If there is perceived betrayal, watch the secrets get laid out in the market square,lol(women have no sense of honour). They know shit can hit the fan faster than their pvssies can even get wet but they won't tell her because they don't want to look bad.

Her partner may find out,act like he doesn't know shit and continue fvcking her ruthlessly while passing her to the "other guy" she thinks he's oblivious of. Time is her enemy and the man knows it. He will waste her time, destroy her pvssy, heck! Her womb may get damaged in the process and then when it's time to settle down, he sends her back to the street. If you think "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, then maybe you've not seen the carnage left by a vengeful man".

When she is discarded, the same tribeswomen knowing how fvcked up she is, knowing that she has little to no chance at securing commitment, tell her "it's okay", "you'll find someone who values you" and the rest of the bullshit just to remain "her friend"
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@Karlifate, i guess this post aged well

Moral of the story;
In your dealings, once you stop feeling comfortable, listen to your gut. This oxytocin thing has made many of us act like that uncle.

God forbid bad thing

heartofcity12:
You said it all

Superiority in intelligence is a crime that is almost never forgiven by low IQ people.

You want to "save a simp"? Leave clues to the truth and let him follow the trail. He will appreciate it more if he found it by himself. Poke holes in his logic and leave him to reflect on it

You want to make an enemy out of a simp? Call him a simp.
His ego translates it as "You are a fool", his ego becomes bruised because "Nobody likes to feel stupider than the other person" and he is mostly likely to resort to violence. (Because that is the only way low IQ people settle disagreements).

It is easier to save a simp with high IQ but how many are there,really?
I cannot come and kee myself o

Peaceyw:
I was scrolling through twitter and nairaland yesterday when I suddenly felt that a lot of people are making noise. Like the internet is just filled with noise makers, people ate just talking all over each other and do not want to keep quiet and listen. Sometimes when some people make a post online, you will wonder why they are even posting. Nobody will think you are dumb if you don't talk. People will make post where they are not wanted, trolling up and down, confusing others. And if you make long post, nobody even bothers to read them pass the third line. It's so hard to maintain focus these days, like seriously, too much noise, noise everywhere.
It's frustrating to say the least. We should all learn to shut the fûçk up sometimes.

As i noticed too. Whenever a commodity is deregulated, it becomes pareto distributed. Information has become so.

For all the information the internet seems to have, only 20% is "gold". The rest 80% is well...... Hogwash.

What i seek;
> Information that will improve my understanding of human relationship.

> Information that improves my ability to provide for myself.

> Information that tells me where civilization is currently headed.

That way, I know how to direct my search and focus.
Seems the world now has more dumb people than intelligent people anyway.

We need the wh0res so that young virgin men can gain sexual experience when their time is right. We need the simps so that they can settle for the wh0res used for practice. Na you wan become "Jesus Christ, saviour of the damned."

Our job is to make sure the knowledge we acquire herein does not make us the simps or our daughters the wh0res.

Respect balance
Do not upset the balance.
See the trend, manipulate the trend and live on cheat mode

I hope I'm not the only one seeing the shrouded narrative in the House of the dragon series.


“How romantic it must be to get imprisoned in a castle and made to squeeze out heirs!”

Translation; Fvck motherhood!

"A marriage is a duty, yes. But that doesn't stop us from doing what we want, from f**king who we want."

Translation; Fvck loyalty!

"Were I born a man, i could bed whomever i wanted, father a dozen bastards and no one in your courts would blink an eye"

Translation; Fvck positive femininity! We girls can choose to be wh0res too

In this show we see female nature(attraction and reaction), feminism, weak masculine frame (viserys) and untamed masculinity (Daemon). But the highlight is on feminism.

Rhaenyra stands as the face of the "modern strong woman, who knows what she wants and fights for it",lol. But in reality what we are seeing is how stepping into the world of men destroys the feminine essence. But many are too daft to see it sha.

The matrix is not taking prisoners . If you are watching because of dragons, na you sabi.

May our lenses never turn blue!

Agelastus:
I no go return to school so?

My boss, if time still dey, collect the certificate o. Make you fit dey charge dem well well for every 30-minute session.

No be we say make dem dey damaged

Honestly eh, psychotherapy is going to be an oil well in the next 10 years because in 10 years we go see .

Emotionally damaged women who have been run through by c0cks, depressed boys who have suffered substance abuse and addiction (dem dey everywhere these days. These twenty something years olds).

See that @Agelastus story he shared. I became almost traumatized reading it

If you get sharp mind, make you arrange become psychotherapist. "The trend is your friend"