Health › Re: Coronavirus: Pharmacy Accused Of Selling A Bottle Of Hand Sanitizer For N19,950 by Somzee(f): 6:10pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
How can a person get a product without knowing the price?
It's a POS transaction, obviously you entered your pin yourself and you want to tell me you didn't see the amount that was to be withdrawn?
Hmmm.... |
Health › Re: Lagos Stores Run Out Of Sanitisers, Face Masks As Coronavirus Hits Nigeria. Pics by Somzee(f): 6:46pm On Feb 28, 2020 |
I have facemask in bulk for supply, you can send a Pm if interested. |
Business › Facemask! by Somzee(op): 5:45pm On Feb 28, 2020 |
I have facemask in bulk for supply, you can send a Pm if interested. |
Family › Re: Run Away Wife by Somzee(f): 8:46pm On Feb 27, 2020 |
Lol...if this story is true @OP then it was bad of her to do such, except if you are being economical with the truth.
No woman in her right senses would just wake up one day and leave with her kids without an issue on ground.
Only you can help yourself, start by telling yourself the truth. Then schedule a meeting to discuss way forward. |
Family › Re: Stereotype About Only Sons by Somzee(f): 6:12pm On Feb 25, 2020*. Modified: 10:45pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
AxelandRed: While I was out on my first date with my girlfriend, she asked me how many sibling I have, to which I replied. She then proceeded to ask the number of males and females. Then I told her I only have sisters. That moment, her face dropped because we were already Into each other, I could tell she was disappointed.
She tried to hide this, but I noticed. This was Probably because that wasn't the first time I would be getting that reaction from people especially women the moment I tell them I'm the only son of my parents.
I queried her on her sudden change of mood and she told me that she has had unfavorable relationship experiences (twice) in the past with only Sons and has vowed never to try it again. She reasoned that only Sons are too clingy to their families, overpampered, emotionally needy and dependent on their families and hardly have a mind of their own. She also accused the families of always trying to pilot the affairs of the guys even to the extent of making life changing decisions for them.
When i was young, I also had friends who thought I was pampered, showered with extraordinary love and care and that my parents can't turn down any request from me. But the truth is that I never got any special treatment from my parents. The same curtain wire, broom, hanger my mom used to whip my sisters, she also used on me.
My point is that it's unfair to lump people together and label them. If an only son happens to be clingy, it has nothing to do with his status. He would have still been that way if he had 10 brothers. Nothing spectacular about that, everyone has their preference in life. The same way some people have reservations for the following people; First daughters, People from humble backgrounds Only child, Single fathers, Single mothers, Orphans, Children from divorced home. To me it shouldn't be an issue but then everyone can't have same reasoning. |
Romance › Re: ........ by Somzee(f): 8:39pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Omar09: It is not my business she couldn't get a husband in her 20s. This guy, shouldn't waste his time too. He can hustle and get married by 35 it's not late. BTW hustle no be only government work. He can do better than that woman he's with rn. He shouldn't settle for less.  So because she's 33 years that means OP is settling for less? Your reasoning is really laughable. I guess it's the average Nigerian men mentality. @Op getting married to a younger woman doesn't guarantee happiness, you wear the shoe and knows how it fits. Think through it and know exactly what you want and go for it. Marriage is like a wrapped gift, only after you've opened up would you know what's in the package, just pray to get married to a good and understanding woman while being a great man. |
Romance › Re: How My Fiancé Caught Me Cheating last night. Photos!!! by Somzee(f): 8:19pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
hakeemhakeem: Tell her a guy called you with her phone while she will be saying a lady picked your call then you both agree that it network issues So lame  |
Romance › Re: SHOULD I Break Up With Him? Reply to Fareee123 About Her Boyfriend [Picture] by Somzee(f): 3:04pm On Feb 22, 2020*. Modified: 8:05am On Nov 18, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Please Your Advice Is Needed Here As Breaking Up Loom. by Somzee(f): 7:35pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
olahero: Good morning nairalanders,
There is this girl we have been dating for the past 1 and the half year, [b]she doesn't fits in but I decided to help her out and marry her which she accepted, [/b]as her MUM is no more and she's her sponsors and no one else from her family.
She's currently working somewhere with a lab and she's being pay just 12k per month.
Then I decided to help her to get a govt job here in my state, her citizenship is not from my state but I decided to get her one due to the requirements of the job, and after she's getting to know that the job is almost click, she has started begging me that she found someone else to marry that her mom said she shouldn't marry frm my place before she died and she want to follow her mum wish.
And the job can be stop or giving to her as I wish, please advise me, what should I do about the job? I am now seeing her as an ingrate and I am not happy about her decision.
What should I do especially about this job?
Thanks. Do it because you want to help her life not for any gain. |
Family › Re: I Am Sorry. by Somzee(f): 11:36pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
This looks more serious than I think.
Don't you think it's time you take a little break off social media and sort your life? Make peace with your creator while you can, I pray you find a way to sort yourself. |
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Celebrities › Re: Victor Olaiya, Is Dead by Somzee(f): 7:34am On Feb 13, 2020 |
A legend has gone home, Rest in peace Sir. |
Romance › Re: 6 States Where Free Condoms Will Be Distributed On Valentine’s Day (names) by Somzee(f): 7:27pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
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Family › Re: Was I Wrong To Leave? by Somzee(f): 8:15pm On Feb 09, 2020*. Modified: 11:00am On Feb 10, 2020 |
This life nawa......@OP be strong, dark days don't last. |
Business › Re: What Business Gave You Your First Million In 2019 by Somzee(f): 7:05pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
justmykel: Oh that? The sky is big enough for all birds to fly! May blessings never depart from you. Amen. |
Family › Re: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by Somzee(f): 12:17pm On Jan 11, 2020 |
streetsoldier1: I tried all I could to save face, just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contacts her ex regularly...
Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still has the guts under my roof to mess up.
Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!! 6 years was messed up!!! Sorry about that. |
Health › Re: Siji Olamiji And Egbemode: Using Paracetamol, Bleach To Process Garri Is Deadly by Somzee(f): 8:37am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Wetin Ekaette no go see for madam hand  |
Business › Re: Scrap Metal Buyers/sellers by Somzee(f): 3:54pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
I'm interested in learning this business. |
Business › Re: What Business Gave You Your First Million In 2019 by Somzee(f): 7:38am On Jan 05, 2020 |
Weedsmoker:

It was metal scraps business,I learnt about the whole idea from a friend.I was moving from place to place looking for condemned iron metals to buy and resell to factories,the good thing about it was that I didn't have to spend my own money as all I needed to do was to act as an agent between buyers and sellers. I would like to learn more about this. |
Nairaland General › Re: What Did 2019 Teach You? by Somzee(f): 11:04pm On Dec 26, 2019*. Modified: 3:30pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
Life na per head!
Never say never! |
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Travel › Re: All TEF Candidates For Canada Immigration, Let's Meet Here! by Somzee(f): 5:18pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Enculer2: Get an online French friend. Join polyglot site and you will get many people to practice with.
That is how I started way back in the days.
Listen to radio. Stop listening to naija stuff that might not benefit you. Spend time immersing yourself in French.
I soacked myself in French.
If you are a Christian, watch youtube videos of French/Nigerian churches. Redeemed church is an example. Plenty of English and French translations.
Watch some movies with subtitles. Thank you so much. |
Travel › Re: All TEF Candidates For Canada Immigration, Let's Meet Here! by Somzee(f): 4:36pm On Dec 20, 2019*. Modified: 5:19pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Mamaroon: Sorry mum, rest o!
Try IEF or depending on what stage you are at, you can busy yourself with Prepmyfuture (there are some grammar lessons on it) until you are strong enough to venture out. Congratulations on your great milestone. Please can you advice me on how best to start,? Been using Duolingo for a while, due to time constraint attending a French class wouldn't be feasible for now. What's your advice for a beginner like me, thanks. |
Romance › Re: Am I Making A Mistake? by Somzee(f): 9:51am On Dec 17, 2019 |
dannyla: I opened a new account to remain anonymous. This story is a bit long but pls bear with me.
I met this man almost 2yrs ago at an event a friend invited me to. The next week, he collected my number from my friend and called me, we began talking from there and agreed to go on a date. He proposed marriage to me on the first date which I rejected. I told him that I can't marry outside my church and from the little I've heard from him, our life dreams differ. I decided to cut him off from that day and I stayed away for about 3months. Meanwhile he got my friend to introduce him to my sis, mum and another friend who happened to be from his place, I'll call her Grace. He made them all aware of his intent towards me and my stand and asked for their help to change my mind. Grace became his biggest ally and convinced me to have another date. He asked that we date for a while and see if we can work out our differences. During the date I noticed he has a very hot and quick temper and he listens to gossip a lot so I do tell Gracethat I don't see a future with him but he was too persistent, Grace always had words of encouragement and considering the fact that for some strange reason, it was mainly married men always approach me for a relationship with stories of how they got married to a wrong woman and they are or are almost divorced, dating a single man with no kids was very tempting and I decided to give it a try.
He asked me to tell him everything about me so there are no secrets between us and I did. Starting from secondary school to that day, I told him everything, from my first kiss, the colleague who tried to rape me, my ex who lied about his marital status and disvirgined me etc. he did the same too and I felt a burden roll off my shoulder.
Few days later I began to notice changes in him especially towards my business. I thrive in a male dominated industry in a ratio of 9men to 1woman. He asked me to show him the pictures of my colleagues which I did, he also asked if they make passes at me which I said is almost inevitable but my boundaries are clear and rigid.
Fast forward to now. I noticed that whenever I drop my phone, he goes through it. Facebook, sms, WhatsApp etc. He even picks my call when I'm not close to the phone. He asked me about a certain colleague who cracks dirty jokes like how I rushed to get married (I told him I'm already married). I didn't think much about it.
He later began to complain about my partners and how I'm sleeping with them like the prostitute I am, called me an unrepentant liar, unsubmisive, manipulating etc. Said he regrets asking for my hand at all and he's just waiting forthe day he'll catch me redhanded so he can dump my sorry a*s. I told him to end it now cus I'm fed up, family came in and I later found out that Grace has been telling a lot of lies against hoping to get him for herself as well as hate filled advises from some aggrieved friends who felt ladies from my tribe are no good and just there to "chop money". Apologies were said and received and we continued.
Another time I visited him and we had an argument, he gave me several heavy knocks on my head and I developed a headache and began to insult him which resultedin more heavy knocks. I broke up with him and left. Later my mum called him to ask why he laid his hands on me, he denied it swearing with his life. Said I insulted him and he lost his temper and insulted me back that he's sorry. He began to drop messages everywhere and I eventually gave in.
3rd incident happened on our way back from an event. He saw a message from a colleague he told me to stop doing business with cus he feels the man has his eyes on me which is totally not true. He flared up, stopped the car and was even threatening to beat me up. I came down from his car and stood by the roadside. He came down too and gave me the insult of my life in full public view and glare and told me to enter the car which I refused. I had no money on me and had to beg a stranger for money. By that time he was coming back, he quickly took a picture of both of us and sent it to everybody of how he caught me in the act with my lover on the road. He called me and said that if he must marry me, I must break my business sim card and look for a wife friendly occupation or sit at home.
He later apologised over it. Meanwhile he and my sis don't flow as before as he once called her a prostitute.
I want to call it quits but everyone around me feels it's a mistake and he is saying everything out of anger and if I'm patient enough, he will change completely.
I must admit that he has changed alot since we met but the progress compared to the timeframe and the heat I face everyday is nothing to write home about.
He loves me to a fault and I don't know if I can find someone who loves me like him but his other attitude is sniffing life out of me. Do I stay or quit? Thanks for reading and pardon any typos Please run as fast as your legs can carry you, you don't need any other signs to tell you that the marriage would be miserable. |
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Travel › Re: All TEF Candidates For Canada Immigration, Let's Meet Here! by Somzee(f): 9:38pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
Amethyst1884: Salut,
We currently have classes for TEF aspiring candidates... We are sure you get more value from our French classes.
IEF French Made Easy 08168338757 Joshua Hi Joshua, is this schedule and prices still same? |
Travel › Re: All TEF Candidates For Canada Immigration, Let's Meet Here! by Somzee(f): 11:02am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Good morning everyone, please any idea of a very good French class around Ikeja apart from AF? I'll appreciate your replies. |
Food › Re: Fabulous Fresh Foods: Yoghurt And Parfait by Somzee(f): 4:41pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
@talltosyne do you have training classes? I'll like to know how it runs,thanks. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Deeper Life Church Suspends Wedding In Bayelsa As Couple Eats From Same Plate by Somzee(f): 1:09pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Inukwa.... Religion would not kill us! |
Crime › Re: Update On Woman Who Claimed Her Husband Wanted To Use Her For Rituals by Somzee(f): 5:25pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
In every rumour there is an atom of truth. The Man should be questioned. |