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This is seriously Bad!

Domestic violence shouldn't be endured.

Just like that?
After frustrating her emotionally, he still topped it up with the physical abuse.

Rest in peace to you Lady.
If only you had known.

Sumk:
I didn't make it one, he was emotionally abusive and controlling before marriage as well but I thought he will change. Sadly, it only got worse. Initially, I tried to communicate with him and explain him but he gets angry and start physically abusing me to which I retaliate by hitting him back.But this time around, it only got worse

Run Run Run!
As fast as your legs can carry you,
Who knows you might not be here to explain next time.

Life is once, there's no duplicate!

The fear of women is the beginning of wisdom!


Fear Women!

nwanneni:
you are not prepared to keep this marriage yet!
Ndi heard from reliable source

Until she dies from emotional trauma or depression?

hopefulLandlord:
Those Christians that refuse to criticise pastors sleeping with their members are wise and know Yahweh's ways are highly mysterious. so mysterious that he might've commanded those pastors to sleep with their members and no one can question him. his wisdom, as the bible said, is like foolishness unto man

Yahweh struck Onan dead for refusing to cum into his brother's wife's vagyna

Yahweh once told the Israelites to kill all midianites but keep young virgin girls as war booty. This sounds wrong to us but whatever Yahweh commands is wise even if it looks wrong in our limited knowledge he has his reasons

Yahweh figuratively destroyed Saul for not totally destroying the Amalekites

Yahweh once told Ezekiel to eat bread baked with human shiit

Same way Yahweh sent lying spirits to Ahab's prophets. This also sounds wrong to us but he has his reasons we aren't privy to and he answers to no one

Yahweh also hardened Pharaoh's heart while using that as opportunity to send more plagues and kill innocent people until all firstborn sons of the Egyptians are dead. This also sounds cruel but that's Yahweh showing us his loving power and nobody should question him

Yahweh's ways are not our ways
its possible Yahweh instructed these pastors to sleep with their members. Yahweh might have his reasons so we should not use our limited knowledge to judge what men talking to and hearing from a being of unlimited knowledge does. those criticising pastors that sleep with members should stop it Beware not to bring a curse upon your lives and future generations by attacking a true men of Yahweh

Are you for real?

Arsenal for the win

Owojuyi:
Flats size 40
Giveaway price of #2500 each

0.9.05961.70two three

Still available?
What's your location?

You're 16,with two hands and two legs, get something to do.
You can wash cars for people in your environment or church,
You can run errands for people too, at least you'll have a little token for that plus maybe free food.

This is really bad, haba!
Let him sow his clothes according to his materials.
I believe you have been the one taking care of their daughters schooling expenses before she graduated? You haven't been bugging them with anything.
Let them work with the cash they have at hand,wedding is just a day o, they can cut down on some things. they shouldn't involve you in this bullshit.

They should have just told you, to assist in whatever way you can.
If it's burial that one is understandable.

Send what you can afford and tell them that's all you have,you have more pressing issues to handle.

Only God knows.

@OP, I've a few questions to ask you,
1. When exactly did you notice this behavior of hers?

2. Has she always been like this before marriage?

3. Did she go through a lot of stress during the delivery process?

A lot of people don't know about post partum depression, it affects a lot of women, and when not properly managed can escalate to something else.
Oh please you loved your wife that was why you married her, don't listen to the advice of some people asking you to send her away.

The best thing you can do is to help her out, remember you took a vow to be there for her, only you can help her

I've seen a lot of this case.
I'll be awaiting your reply

One thing I like about Teni is she appreciates herself more than anything.

For y'all bodyshaming her, she didn't create herself.

Port-Harcourt what is happening?

Just today again, another Man was gunned down at Education bus stop. They collected his money, just a shot in his head and his brain poured out.
Ha... This is terrible.

pianolover:
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1litre ----------N3500
5litres --------N14000

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Price too expensive.

bunbit23:
An interesting article you may like to read, eye opener

https://www.nairaland.com/3848803/truth-nature-giving-resources-eye#57322454

[i]How can we use this herb to cure our long time disturbing stomach ulcer and tooth ache? How possible, question that only knowledge can ask when he set to acquire wisdom.



STOMACH ULCER

Please what's this leaf called

lawman88:
My little advice for you: Never marry an independent woman who is over 30. You will suffer for it.

I always tell men that independent woman who is already doing the job of her dream disrespect alot. To cut long story short, your wife doesn't regard you as husband. She sees you as donor of sperm for her to get baby.

No stupid woman can try that with me. I have the login details of my wife in all her social media accounts. I upload any picture I want, block those I don't like, warn those who talk to her.

My heart goes out to your wife, she's in a cage not a marriage.

weak45:
oh yes,later got the actinomycine and it was sold for 22500naira.

OK dear, it is well.

weak45:
good evening everyone, apologies for replying late. I have been on transit from awka back to makurdi and I have been real time busy ever since I arrived.

I think I have been overreacting and need to take things slow, I met with a doctor earlier today in awka and he reassured me that we v made considerable progress since the amputation has been done and he stated that the chemo will come and pass too once we are ready and will it will be done in six regime after every 21days so we will get the drugs 6times.

I tried to get the costing for the listed drugs in the hospital pharmacy but they said they don’t have them in stock, so it will be impossible to cost effectively, I checked with other pharmacies in town and they were able to provide cost for the drugs except for one (actinomycine )which they said is the most expensive and out of stock.

I will further check that one out by tomorrow or anybody reading might know where I can find one easily, my toughest hurdle after the chemo is successful and if there is no need for radiotherapy will be how to raise money to clear the hospital accumulated ward bill which is 6200ngn per day and we v been here for over 25days and counting. Scary I must confess but i believe I will get a hand to lift me above the ground.

I truly appreciate everyone who v shown concern to our predicament and I pray no bad situation will come to you or your family members.

Have you been able to source for the actinomycin?
That might cost around 30 thousand plus.

lilmax:
take only men advice in here and you'll be alright

You're laughable

Hmmmme....
Such is life!
The one you love and want doesn't want and love you back, while the one you don't love can die for you.

This thing called love is really complicated, sometimes I just wish it never existed.

This is not a cogent reason, ask her if they're other things that had happened in the past if not, let her better ask God to remove the spirit of unforgiveness and bitterness from her.

Sooner or later if she sees you aren't supporting her on that, she might transfer the anger to you, and start misbehaving.

SBL28:
Since you had your accident, how have you been treating her? Have you been a loving husband? In all honesty, has she been taking care of you?

I'm asking all these questions because I read a post on Facebook about two weeks ago, the woman was complaining bitterly about her husband. The man had an accident and has been confined to a wheelchair since then. The wife said the man does not appreciate anything, always raining heavy curses on her. If he wanted to poo and she didn't respond quickly, this man would defecate on himself just to punish her. He would slap her at the slightest provocation. The last one that happened before she sent in the post, the man wanted to poo and he complained that she didn't give him the potty quickly. After doing his 'business', he asked the wife to come and clean it up and then poured the poo on her as soon as she got close to him.

This is a woman who has been doing everything without a maid or any help. They have three or four children (can't remember), the last one still is less than a year old. The woman said she was fed up but she didn't want people to call her names for leaving.

So my question to you again, how have you been treating your wife since your accident

Thank you for this.

When a woman acts up, a lot of people condemn her without knowing what she has condoled.

Imagine a scenario where a man denies his wife of her conjugal rights or treats her as if she's nothing to him anymore, and still feels or sees no wrong in it., tomorrow when the woman starts acting Up or falls into the hands of another man the society calls her shameless and tells the man to send her away.

May God have mercy on you.

Aye buru o,
When I dey secondary school, I no know wetin be boyfriend.
So sad it had to end this way for you.
RIP

Restroom:
Coconut oil business is very lucrative, but depends largely on the price of coconut, which is easily affected by forex. To produce one litre of coconut oil, it will cost between 1500-4000, depending on the price of coconut, your machines and physical location. The market price of 1 litre is anywhere from 5,000. to 10,000 depending on your location.
Usually, the profit is usually times two
During the Jonathan era, I make a litre for 1200-1300 and sold it for 3,000-4000.

Since Buhari era, when forex went up, to make a litre cost me about 2500-3000 and sell for 4,500-6000. So, you see, it is highly lucrative, the more forex goes up. the more your profit reduces especially if you are not using expeller machines.

One producer in zBenin city relocated to Badagry because of price of coconut in Benin, from the time of Buhari.

If you can get fairly big coconut for say 120-200, then, with an expeller machine you can make 1 litre with about 1900-2300. And you can sell your 1 litre for a minimum of 3500-5000.

How does the expeller machine looks like and how much is it?

MrOfficer:
Do you have her phone number? If yes then you are good to go. With her phone number she can be tracked. Go to a police station and make a report. They will place a pay no debit on her account through bankers order. That is the first step. To the tracking part, it might cost you like 50k, this is because the tracking is done by a private company and they don't come cheap. Some police detectives don't know of this, that is why some make a crappy investigation. Those saying police don't work are jokers. I personally has busted several syndicates through tracking. I will be heading to uyo on Monday cos the location of the latest car thief that I'm tracking reads uyo. All the best

Really?

Even the secondary school girls aren't left out in the puzzle

James289:
I love him more than her . She is fat and ugly

Enjoy it while it lasts.

James289:
I really want to tell his wife what he has been doing then maybe it would make her leave him so I can have him for myself

Are you for real?
Do you think she doesn't know that he's playing around?
Your love for him can't be more than her love for him.

The bitter truth still remains, he loves his wife and can NEVER leave her, he's only using this as a bait to hold you down. Please the earlier you realised that the better for you.