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Politics / Re: 27 States Attracted Zero Foreign Investments In 9 Months by sonofthunder: 1:11pm On Dec 30, 2023
Addme:
Foreign investors snubbed 27 states as the value of capital importation into Nigeria fell by 34 percent to $2.82 billion in the first nine months of 2023, from $4.27 billion in the same period last year.



https://www.thecable.ng/full-list-rivers-imo-27-states-attracted-zero-foreign-investments-in-9-months/amp




We/I will appreciate another report about the last time any of these mentioned states received FDI
Food / Re: Cooking Soups With Only Groundnut Oil Instead Of Palm (red)oil by sonofthunder: 9:55pm On Dec 29, 2023
GenderMix:
Dear Family,

I have been having this back and forth debate with my wife regarding cooking soup with groundnut oil as against red oil but she is on the negative. I had cooked Egusi soup with groundnut oil and it taste really nice. I had also done same with okra sea food and its really nice. The reason why I want to do away with red oil is because I have been advised on my cholesterol level and the odour from palm (red) oil doesn't sit well with me these days.

I want to serve my visitors Egusi soup prepared with groundnut oil but she's declined because she's not sure how it will be received....lol

Does anyone have experiences with cooking soups with only groundnut oil and how does it taste. okra, bitterleaf, oha, vegetable, edikaikong, egusi, etc



Most of your claims are coming from a place of ignorance. Go and do better research

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Sports / Re: AFCON 2023: Nike Unveils Super Eagles Eagles Jersey by sonofthunder: 6:11am On Dec 29, 2023
The jersey be looking like metro bro grin grin grin grin grin


Has an old school feel to the design

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Business / Re: BUA Vows To Maintain N3500 Cement Price From January by sonofthunder: 7:47pm On Dec 28, 2023
ijustdey:

Alhaji Abdul-Samad Rabiu, Chairman of the BUA Group, said that the company would maintain its promise of selling cement at the price of N3,500 from…





https://dailytrust.com/bua-vows-to-maintain-n3500-cement-price-from-january



Will this be factory price or retail pricing?


I still think it is scam



Will this be factory price or retail pricing?


I still think it is scam
Agriculture / Re: How I Converted A Space In My Compound Into A Dry Season Ugu Farm by sonofthunder: 5:52am On Dec 28, 2023
Ejehubailo:
1 meter apart


You are saying two different things..I doubt what you measured is up to a metre.
Investment / Re: Mutual Funds by sonofthunder: 4:36pm On Dec 26, 2023
emmasoft:


I'm in partnership with them as a sales rep.

Okay sir
Investment / Re: Mutual Funds by sonofthunder: 12:40pm On Dec 26, 2023
emmasoft:


For money market fund go with Stanbic, for Fixed income go with SFS Capital, for dollar fund go with Norrenberger and for stocks go with Investment one.

To open an account for any of them click the links on my signature. My numbers are also displayed you can call/chat with me for details or a guide.


Okay sir, thanks for this short guide. I'll reach out later. Do you work with any of these organisations?
Investment / Re: Mutual Funds by sonofthunder: 8:59am On Dec 26, 2023
Hello gurus on the house, I'm quite new to mutual funds investment. Can you share some of the good companies to invest with for mutual funds and their current rates?

Thanks
Business To Business / Re: HDPE Dredging Pipes,with Flanges,& Pipe Floaters For Sale..(picture) by sonofthunder: 8:53am On Dec 26, 2023
essienasuquo:
Cj jÁ


We do supply these to some of our clients every once in a while. Kindly share your details let me have for future purpose
Business To Business / Re: Quality Men’s Shoes Golaiman And Goodfellow & Co Men’s Designers Shoes by sonofthunder: 8:51am On Dec 26, 2023
anuoreangel:
New inn

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Brands: Armani, Lacoste, Clark’s etc
Size 40-46

5 pairs above 12,000/pair
Less than 5 pairs 12,500/pair

1 pair 13,000
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Where are you based ma'am?
Business To Business / Re: How & Where To Find Gov't Contract by sonofthunder: 8:42am On Dec 26, 2023
Jossytender:

Have you been looking for contracts published by Government at every level?

Do not worry, Etenders Nigeria is here for you. We publish thousand of contract opportunities ranging from Construction, Engineering services, consultancy, Auction, General Supplies, Travel Agent, Equipment supply, Educational Supplies, Printing and Publishing, Solar and Inverter and many more.

Below are recently published contracts on our website;

1. https://etenders.com.ng/usaid-lagos-urban-water-sanitation-and-hygiene-activity-call-for-expression-of-interest-for-prequalification-of-subcontractors-rehabilitation-of-water-treatment-plants-and-distribution-network/

2. https://etenders.com.ng/shell-petroleum-development-company-of-nigeria-limited-tender-opportunity-corporate-call-off-contract-for-maintenance-and-repair-of-pipelines-for-spdc/

3. https://etenders.com.ng/katsina-state-ministry-of-basic-and-secondary-education-request-for-bids-adolescent-girls-initiative-for-learning-and-empowerment-agile-project-katsina-ida/

4. https://etenders.com.ng/african-development-bank-group-request-for-expressions-of-interest-for-consultancy-services-for-the-implementation-of-the-resettlement-action-plan-rap-for-the-ekiti-state-knowledge-zone-project/

5. https://etenders.com.ng/malaria-consortium-nigeria-request-for-proposal-rfp-for-the-production-and-printing-of-implementation-tools-for-seasonal-malaria-chemoprevention-campaign-in-bauchi-fct-kebbi-kogi-nasarawa-oyo/

www.etenders.com.ng



Are.these like state government contracts? Do I need to register with the state government to partake? Kindly share knowledge for those of us that are novices.
Business To Business / Re: Access Business And Contracts Opportunities At Your Finger Tip - by sonofthunder: 8:40am On Dec 26, 2023
Jossytender:

Etenders is the largest site for Procurement Notices, Tenders and Contract opportunities in Nigeria. It is a publishing platform that helps suppliers, service providers, and contractors to find government and private tendering opportunities. With us, subscribers are able to reduce the amount of time and money spent searching media publications for tendering opportunities information.

Below are recently published contracts on our website;

1. https://etenders.com.ng/usaid-lagos-urban-water-sanitation-and-hygiene-activity-call-for-expression-of-interest-for-prequalification-of-subcontractors-rehabilitation-of-water-treatment-plants-and-distribution-network/

2. https://etenders.com.ng/shell-petroleum-development-company-of-nigeria-limited-tender-opportunity-corporate-call-off-contract-for-maintenance-and-repair-of-pipelines-for-spdc/

3. https://etenders.com.ng/katsina-state-ministry-of-basic-and-secondary-education-request-for-bids-adolescent-girls-initiative-for-learning-and-empowerment-agile-project-katsina-ida/

4. https://etenders.com.ng/african-development-bank-group-request-for-expressions-of-interest-for-consultancy-services-for-the-implementation-of-the-resettlement-action-plan-rap-for-the-ekiti-state-knowledge-zone-project/

5. https://etenders.com.ng/malaria-consortium-nigeria-request-for-proposal-rfp-for-the-production-and-printing-of-implementation-tools-for-seasonal-malaria-chemoprevention-campaign-in-bauchi-fct-kebbi-kogi-nasarawa-oyo/

www.etenders.com.ng



So what are the key requirements to submit a tender?
Agriculture / Re: How I Converted A Space In My Compound Into A Dry Season Ugu Farm by sonofthunder: 8:14pm On Dec 25, 2023
Ejehubailo:
Planting at 1m apart… the pointed part should face the ground, as the root develops through there. Failure to do this delay germination


You mean one foot apart or one metre?

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Travel / Re: 11 Reasons Why You Should Not Japa From Nigeria by sonofthunder: 11:04am On Dec 25, 2023
Princewill1:
This is a rebuttal of this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7936687/11-reasons-why-must-japa#:~:text=11.,life%20expectancy%20is%20very%20high.

DISCLAIMER:
There is a notion that once you present an anti-japa argument, you're automatically an agent working for the govt. I want to state here that I have never supported this Apc govt since their coming to power in 2015. My contrary opinion on japa stems from my detest of youths mass-migration for economic reasons. I see it as an act of cowardice and stupidity.

This is not just for Nigerians japaing alone. I'm also disgusted whenever I see pictures of thousands of able bodied Latino youths who are at the US-Mexico border begging to be allowed entry into the US. These youths coming to together to mass-migrate can also link-up to take back their country via any possible means. Because if their home countries were better, they won't be moving out enmass. One of the reasons why the citizens of the country you're japaing to often discriminate against you is because you have proven to be a weakling seeking an easy excape or an inferior who are incapable of fixing their problems.
The only mass-migration i support is if it's due to serious natural disaster or large scale political persecution like that of Israel-Palestinian conflict. Below are the 11 reasons why you shouldn't Japa from Nigeria.

1.) It's More Easier To Be A Dollar Millionaire/Billionaire In Nigeria:

There are millions of Nigerians in the diaspora who are supposedly living in the first world economy and are working in various fields of human endeavor. But it may interest you to know that non have ever made it into Forbes billionaires list. But those at home keep making the list back to back.
This is important to point out because wealth building is a crucial topic to every real man and majority of Nigerian men moving are doing so mainly due to financial reasons.
Truth is, Nigeria is the largest market in Africa and a developing economy. There are plenty of wealth to be created in a "developing economy" than in a "develop economy", that's why as you are trooping out, Chinese, Lebanese and Indians are trooping in. Nigerians are raising $20k-30k in this economy to Japa while average Americans can't boast of $10k in their bank accounts, they live check to check.

2.) African Communal Living:

Nigeria offers the African social support system that you won't find in the Western countries. You fit run into financial emergency, your family will gather to raise funds for you, if you child misbehaves outside elders go assist you to discipline the child before you return home, if your house is on fire the whole neighborhood will join hands in puting out the fire, if you're cooking late night and ran out of maggi, if you knock on your neighbor door, him go deliver you, if your co-tenant never see you for 2 to 3 days, he go knock for your door to check up on you. All these don't happen in your Japa destination. In the West, you fit dey sick and later kpai inside your room and stay there for over a month nobody go know until your body begins to the smell.

3.) There Is More Insecurity Abroad:

You are 7times more likely to be shot in any city in America than in Lagos. Almost every Western country has violent "Far-Right Groups" who are frustrated and bitter with their Govts for allowing influx of migrants to erode their society and culture. These groups are like a time bomb waiting to go off because they can easily turn violent by attacking migrants especially black people. The big truth is, insecurity especially in southern Nigeria is over-reported and amplified on social media. There are violent crimes in every country. The crime news you read on social media especially in South of the country is commiserate with our population. No one can pull out any data anywhere to show that crime rate in the South has reached an epidemic proportions as believed on social media. In fact if you ban social media for 1year in Nigeria and conduct an opinion poll on insecurity. You will be surprised that Nigerians will tell you that insecurity has reduced. Just recently, a govt minister was robbed on the highway in South Africa. If that were to happens in Nigeria, Japa will be trending in Nigeria for more than a week. Most Nigerians haven't seen a bokoharam militant before but bokoharam will attack a village in Borno State close to the border with Chad, someone living in Lekki will read the news online and tweet that he wants to Japa due to insecurity.

4.) Easy Access To Natural Foods:

Nigeria has abundant healthy cheap natural foods and it's even taken for granted here. The people in the abroad you wants to go are jealous of your menu. Unhealthy and disease-causing canned and processed foods are what you will end up to when you finally japa because you will pay through your nose to place your hands on any organic food there.

5.) Favourable Weather Condition Throughout The Year:

Nigeria has one of the best climate conditions you can find. We have no extreme weather here. No severe temperature, Tornado or Harricane. Weather conditions in your Japa destination can cause sudden emergency situations. It can sometimes cause a whole city to be evacuated.

6.) No Racism:

Truth remains that after you Japa, you and your family will at one point experience both subtle and harsh discrimination based on your skin color or accent and you will never integrate into the Western society not even in a million years. Black Americans that japaed 400yrs ahead of you are yet to be fully integrated and accepted, I don't know who is motivating you that you will be accepted fully or that your own case will be different.

7.) Nigeria Better On Raising Cultured Kids:

If as a Nigerian, you are cautious of how your kids will be raised, you better stay back home, because in the West, your kids doesn't belong to you. They belongs to the government and authorities there are free to teach and instill any idealogy they deem necessary. So don't be shocked if your 7yrs old son are taught how to switch gender or pronoun at school and given free lgtv literature with erotic images.

8.) Nigeria Better On Entertainment And Fun Activities:

You can fall into depression abroad due to loneliness and stress from doing multiple jobs but not in Nigeria. With little money in Nigeria, you can go partying and balling till dawn day in day out. You fit die onto enjoyment.

9.) No Weird Or Crazy New Culture:

Abroad will humble a deeply religious person who is against homosexuality to work as a caregiver for gay couples. You will be forced to embrace trans and gay people, feminism and made to reject polygamy. I doubt if men have rights in the West. You risk losing everything to a woman, this don't only apply to your wife. Even your long-term girlfriend who you are cohabiting with, can be given a share of assets after a breakup by the court. If a random woman accuses you of rape, the system will already treat you as a convict. I recently observed that premier league captain band is now decorated with pride colors (lgtv flag) to support the community. And you know what awaits any player that openly criticizes it or refuses to wear the band. He risk getting cancelled and he should kiss his footballing career a goodbye. They will use his punishment as deterrent to others. All these new crazy woke policies and behaviors are not practiced in Nigeria.

10.) Cost Of Living Is Cheaper:

Thousands of Americans and EU citizens are retiring like kings in South East Asia and South America ie Thailand, Indonesia, Mexico, Chile etc. You can look it up. Not that they don't love their home countries but because they are excaping the high cost of living in the West. Accommodation, transportation, education, local foods etc are still cheaper in Nigeria. The amount you will paid on a match-box apartment in London or New York can fetch you a year rent of 2bedrooms flat in a good location in any major Nigerian city.

11.) No Rat Race Or Extreme Taxation In Nigeria:

You will labour abroad for a month and the rigged system will use "high taxation, high cost of living and the scam credit system" to return everything back to the system in order for you to repeat the circle again. In a bid not to go homeless on the cold streets, and also to put food on your table, you have no other option than to keep repeating the circle until the time you will finish your term of slavery due to old age, then your children will start where you stopped and the circle continues.
Truth is, the entire world is controlled by the globalists in the West, the further away you're from the West and it's entanglements the freer you will become. If the 1% elite in the West removes the rigging in the system you will be able to secure enough bags and retire early. But they stands to lose if people starts excaping the system early, they need your manpower for longer period of time to maintain their industries and establishments. This explains why the more income you earn there, the more rediculous taxes you pays because the system is continously gauging you and the tax system (one of it's tools of control) is strictly and heavily guided, defaulters risks jail term. The system was programmed in a way that you will never get enough in order not for you to start thinking of excaping the slave camp early until you finish your term of slavery.
This is one of reasons why rich and exposed Nigerians don't fancy living abroad. Even most African ex-footballers returns home immediately after the end of their career in Europe. An average Nigerian coming from lack, hunger and extreme poverty and who is daydreaming of Japa won't be able to see this anomaly. Living in Nigeria will provide you the opportunity to excape Matrix.



Patiently awaiting a counter thread on 22 reasons to japa and never look back.




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Family / Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by sonofthunder: 11:00am On Dec 23, 2023
Shalommy:
You can't be a cheerful giver and expect better achievements. She did well. Congrats to her.


You are a shamelessly exploitative insecure fellow. That's why you will support someone duping their siblings. You obviously shamelessly do same.

Birds of a feather are usually cowardly in calling out the wrongs of their compatriots.

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Education / Re: NOUN Student Denied Access Into Exam Hall Over Indecent Dressing (pics/video) by sonofthunder: 9:46pm On Dec 22, 2023
Botragelad:

What's wrong with going braless? Is there a rule against it or are you just trying to act clever?

That's the trouble with most Africans. Focusing too much on appearance. With all your "decent dressing" What has that done for you?

I'm gobsmacked that there are still people like you in the 21st century.


Is there a rule to wear a dress..why not just make a naked appearance? grin grin grin
Health / Re: Unhealthy Eating Habits In Nigerian Culture by sonofthunder: 5:49pm On Dec 22, 2023
GetMeTreated71:
Unhealthy eating habits persist in Nigerian culture due to a blend of traditional practices, modern influences, and socio-economic factors. While Nigerian cuisine is rich in diverse flavors and ingredients, certain dietary patterns contribute to health concerns.

1. High Consumption of Processed Foods: Urbanization and globalization have introduced a surge in processed and fast foods, leading to increased intake of sugar, unhealthy fats, and additives. This shift from traditional, homemade meals to convenient, processed options contributes to health issues like obesity and chronic diseases.

2. Preference for Starchy Foods: Nigerian diets often revolve around starchy staples like rice, yam, and cassava, which, when consumed excessively without adequate portions of vegetables and proteins, may lead to imbalanced nutrition and weight gain.

3. Overreliance on Oil and Fried Foods: Deep-frying and excessive use of palm oil in cooking, though adding flavor, may lead to high caloric intake and adverse effects on cardiovascular health if not moderated.

4. Limited Fruit and Vegetable Intake: Despite the abundance of fresh produce, inadequate consumption of fruits and vegetables is prevalent. This deficiency in essential nutrients and fiber contributes to health issues such as vitamin deficiencies and digestive problems.

Addressing these habits involves promoting education on balanced diets, advocating for increased consumption of fruits and vegetables, and encouraging moderation in consuming processed and oily foods. A cultural shift towards embracing healthier cooking methods and traditional dishes enriched with diverse nutrients can play a pivotal role in fostering healthier eating habits within Nigerian culture.






It's good you helped us identify the problems. Also suggest go solutions to us.
Politics / Re: NNPC Completes Maintenance On Port Harcourt Refinery by sonofthunder: 7:10am On Dec 22, 2023
Nairaland / General / Re: Nairaland Is Partially Back; A Work In Progress by sonofthunder: 5:02pm On Dec 21, 2023
Seun:
Dear Nairalanders and Advertisers.

Nairaland's server was taken down by our host's abuse team because of an abuse report that wasn't attended to on time.

After rectifying the error, we brought the server back for a few minutes, but they decided to take the server down again. Since then, we haven't heard from the abuse team, yet the support team keeps insisting that only the abuse team can help us.

So we had to transfer Nairaland to a temporary host in order to bring it back to you. A VERY time-consuming process. We are not fully back, even though most features of the site are working. We still have a long way to go. Additional downtime is likely; don't let it alarm you.

There's a lot more to say, but I have to go back to work to ensure that our return is permanent. Please forgive us for the stress we caused. We appreciate the love and support that you showed us during the ordeal. Nairaland is too important for us to let this happen again.

Best Regards,
Seun Osewa.



Seun come.and employ me.


I'm a man of progressive ideas 💡💡💡


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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Many Nigerians Are Not Actually Employable Like It Or Not! by sonofthunder: 11:22am On Dec 21, 2023
marienl:
I have had many experience interacting with people who need work
They like to Show their CV and certification which at the end they cant even follow simple instructions right
I wonder how many of them get their qualification?
This nation has a very long way to go no wonder we will even prefer to hire white man to come do work here because of experience.
You people should go and change


You sound like you are part of the problem
Family / Re: Men Are The Cause Of Moral Decadence & Indecency In Our Girls Today by sonofthunder: 6:10pm On Dec 13, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
I came across a post where some men where expressing disappoinment over the high rate of indecent dressing among our girls and thought to make a counter post to let the men understand why it is so and how they are not unconnected to it.

Now, you Men come here to complain about indecent dressing of most ladies meanwhile you're the reason this things are so.

90% of the time, You men are naturally and easily attracted to this indecent girls. I've seen it happen a lot of times. If a decently dressed lady and the slutty ones are placed side by side for you men to make a pick , the tendency to pick the decent girls will be low compared to how you would rush after their slutty counterparts and it is this single act that has driven more girls and even the once decent and innocent girls into dressing slutty just to be seen by men.

In another scenario, a girl will be minding her business and you men will come and start flashing cash before her to lure her into sleeping with you even when your intentions are not pure. Like you don't plan to marry her. It will take extra discipline and grace of God for any young girl to reject such offer and when she gets used to getting this free cash and starts demanding or giving her body to the highest bidder, the same you men will start complaining again. Why are you men now complaining now that they are giving you what you want? Abi na me dem dey dress like that for?

Some men will even tell you they need a Christian sister with a touch of Ashawo vibes. I mean.... these girls see and hear these things and the chicken brain among them who don't want to be left out will begin to conform to such lifestyle.
Others will tell their wife's to dress decently but will go and be running after the slutty ones outside. This is the reason you can hardly tell a married woman apart these days because of the way they too have started dressing slutty just to keep their untamed husband. You men had better dropped this double standard mentality because the woman are no longer having it. What is sauce for the goose is good for the gander.

After this carefully expressed thoughts/ points of mine, it is safe to say that you Men are the cause of high moral decadence in the society cos you're the ones promoting it by your actions.



Good point but poor supporting reasons
Romance / Re: Have I Been Meeting The Wrong Ladies Or Is It A Nigerian Thing by sonofthunder: 12:10pm On Dec 08, 2023
adaperry25:
Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff.

I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication.

While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists.

They can't call u randomly to ask after you.

I don tire o

Trying foreign ladies might not be a bad idea.


No dey fear. It's not so easy opening up to strangers actually unless there is a strong spark.


Also their age ranges and current expectations are a factor. Ladies often feel they have time, so let's say 50 ladies have access to 50 guys and you rank overall as top 6-10, most ladies (40/50) will believe they deserve and will be with the guy's that are top 1-5 even when those they may deserve in reality fall at 40-50.

Only the remaining 5-10 ladies will have the maturity to accept a 6-10 like you even when they truly deserve 1-5. These kind of ladies can even step down to levels 30-40 of those guys without flinching.


Unfortunately, they are very rare.

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Romance / Re: Have I Been Meeting The Wrong Ladies Or Is It A Nigerian Thing by sonofthunder: 12:01pm On Dec 08, 2023
JASONjnr:


Nope, when a woman behaves this way, she's either in a relationship or she doesn't just like you or she doesn't know you.

If you want this to change, meet her physically on a date and if you spoil her well... She might want to have a rethink about how she relates to you.


Lol..... Spoil her well 😜😜😜😜


When money finish you begin beg for attention again. Well done sir 😁😁😁

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Look At What This Engineer Did After We Finished The Contract by sonofthunder: 11:49am On Dec 07, 2023
Ezeeboiy:
Hello! I will go straight to the point

I am a mason (labourer) there's this engineer that hired us to work in his site outside the city where I live far away from my state of residence in the North East we spent 1 month and 5days working at the site we agreed that he will be given us daily feeding allowance but our remuneration will be paid after the completion of the project.

So after the completion of the project we calculated that I have 115k for the period I spent working . Now it has been 5days since we finished the project but yet to pay me I have families that depend on me and he now want me to go home empty handed after this long since I left my family. I have been asking him but now he doesn't even take my call. please how can I handle this issue?




Do you have access to the person/company that employed him. Go and complain to them. If he's money is remaining with them they can withhold until he pays you or pay you from his balance if you provide sufficient evidence.
Romance / Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by sonofthunder: 5:35pm On Dec 05, 2023
Emma513:
WHAT SKILLS CAN I LEARN ?


This is a very difficult question to answer. Depends on you. Are you in school or graduated already. Pick one (a skill) whereby you have access to resources. If possible try and get a mentor that will be willing to guide.... Emphasis on the willingness to guide you.

It's hard to advise because you might be tech savvy or you have gifted hands, etc. Note that things you have interest in and enjoy can actually be difficult for you, and things that you find easy to do might not be so enjoyable.


It's not exactly about finding your passion,, but being passionate about all that you do.
Romance / Re: Age 25+..what Advice Would You Give Someone Age 18-24? by sonofthunder: 3:21pm On Dec 05, 2023
Stephen2324:
Age 25+..what advice would you give someone age 18-24?


Even though Nigeria's economy might grow in the near future, learn a skill dedicate time to be good at it. Don't rely on probability.


This your question is quiet general. Can you narrow it down for better advise or you are okay with what you've been getting so far?
Family / Re: Wife Travelling Without Consent ? by sonofthunder: 2:11pm On Dec 05, 2023
cococandy:
Would you require her consent before traveling yourself? If not, rest the matter


Travelling 600km impromptu is not something that's an afterthought or that you might forget to bring up

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Family / Re: My Husband Tells Me Not To Gain Anymore Weight by sonofthunder: 1:34pm On Dec 04, 2023
Wifeoflgbo:
I was previously heavier at 90kilograms but I didn't look very big. He told me at the time that he liked it. And that he liked my body.

But recently I have lost weight. He told me I have done okay but to not gain anymore weight. But to lose more if I can. Even though I am feeling sick from lack of food. My medication is what keeps myle chubby. So I have to eat very little just to lose weight.

I said "I thought you told me you liked my fatter body?" He told me "I was just trying to be nice. I'm not a mean person. But I didn't like your old body. But this one it bust my head!" I felt really upset by this. So I asked him if he was still attracted to me back then and he said "yes" and I asked if he would leave me if I gained more weight. And he said he would never leave me if I'm skinny or fat. I asked him again why he said he didn't like my old body, and he told me he "never said that" 🙄🙄🤦 after he got super excited about my new body for another 20mins, he told me to stop bringing it up and that he needed to get some rest.

So I let it go. But part of me still feels hurt. Feels self conscious.

My husband is igbo and lives in Owerri and I am a white westerner. So maybe I am misunderstanding or the cultures are clashing here?


Better husband done tire you or you don't think he has your best interest at heart?


If he finds you more attractive now is it a crime or a bonus?
Properties / Re: My Friend Found This On His Land, Do You Know The Worth? by sonofthunder: 1:30pm On Dec 04, 2023
Agbadocassava:
Dis stone plenty for my backyard in Osun


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Family / Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by sonofthunder: 5:37pm On Nov 29, 2023
Smile4mee01:
I have been abroad for a while now and i am curious to know why some of our ladies decline dating or marrying fellow Nigerians in the diaspora. I have tried to date a few any they are often quick to assume i am after them for their papers while i just prefer my own, someone who understands my culture and where i have come from. Even when i try to date the ones that don't have paper, regular work visa holders like me. They seem to want to be with the guys that have papers.

Also, when i am old, i would like to return to Nigeria. Marrying outside would make that transition very difficult.

I study other races, Immigrant groups from India and Asia. they work together well, and don't have these difficulty.

Should i give up on being with a Nigerian or keep trying ?

Regards.


They feel they deserve better sometimes. It's complex but I believe you understand this to an extent as I'm too tired to explain right now.




Some Nigerian guys treat them poorly because they expect them to be desperate seeing that they naturally have a smaller pool of guys that are interested in dating them.
Celebrities / Re: Church Is The Worst Place To Marry, You Deceived The Guy” – Isreal Dmw’s Friend by sonofthunder: 7:03pm On Nov 28, 2023
SAMBARRY:
msheewww just rest


Your comment was quite vague. I had no idea what you were getting at?

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