TheOldGods: Nobody is talking about the big Elephant in the room, which is lack of electricity. This week I've spent 58,000 naira on fuel for my generator for work, that is full tank for alot of cars every week, and the car owners are complaining, what about us that need Electricity to work.
I barely get 6 hours of electricity, I tried buying solar, but the conditions are too much, turn off this, turn this on, don't use this bulb. Mehn, plus I can't turn on AC while working.
Since my work is from home I decided to buy a laptop worth 1million here on Nairaland (thanks to Nairaland) just to ease my work, atleat I get 4 hours of break in severe heated room with my laptop.
How else can someone survive in this country with this low electricity, is there any state that is better? Or is it a must I have to travel to another African country just to get simple electricity to work. My generator just went off and my fuel gone, that why I came here to rant. I'm going to buy feul at 615 naira per litre
Raise small money and install solar. The added beauty is that you can always upgrade the capacity.
Reminderz: Lol the responses might be funny but question is not, let even set the responses aside... Most men will even lay their lives to save strangers let alone a member of their own family...
Men go to war and fight for a cause they know absolutely nothing about to protect the country and the people..
Men will run into a burning building to save people trapped in there, these people are strangers to them...
Men will put their lives at risk trying to protect the streets from notorious criminals..
This same men will be expected to provide and also protect their families... This is even just the tip of it, what about some dangerous jobs where only men are found? And these jobs are the bedrocks of what we are now enjoying...
Men will willingly and sacrificially do all this without looking back...
Now you're talking his wife? Someone close to him? Someone he committed to?? He will do more than that if possible to save his wife... can you say the same thing about his wife? probably not.. Then how do they repay most of these men? Society will castigate him, feminists will wish he doesn't exist in a world he built and protected, and if he's extra unfortunate, his wife will frustrate the remaining soul out of him, while divorce courts will leave him for pigs to devour... Men love sacrificially, women love oppurtunistically... for strangers and families, men did all this... Sacrificing everything along the way... just to be called men, just to be respected but most are treated with dishonour...
You now see why feminists are deluded and foolish... If I was the president, I would decree that any self proclaimed feminist should be immediately sent to the front lines to battle terrorists and protect the people... the ones that said we don't need men will be immediately sent to do the dangerous jobs only men are put into while her fellow feminists in crime will be made to join her...
The question still stands, who will protect men?
Lol
Case study Ukraine. All the feminist are in Europe chopping life while the men are dying In the front lines.
Then those that transition their sex to men have also Japa
This is what a man is literarily expected to do in a relationship (marriage). He's sacrificing his abundant resources to give her a better life than she can give herself. Women are consumers in history while men provide and sacrifice. Even today with all the equality rant and women earning roughly the same with men depending on the field, many women still find it difficult to contribute in a similar sacrificial manner.
If he's not doing it (dying for his wife), either he isn't sure of his duties, or the wife is clearly undeserving.
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Once a woman is facing challenges in her marriage, it must mean she wants a license to cheat.
Her husband isn't frustrated. He's evil. And later men will say that once a woman starts footing bills she begins to announce it. When they got married where in the Nigerian marriage rules is she supposed to foot everything? For a man to be comfortable being an infidel and watching his family sink, he is unbelievably evil. What stops him from working like his wife does?
Gambling with what money? That's a frustrated man?
She mentioned her virginity because it has to do with her beliefs and her experiences. She chose to be a virgin believing in love, thinking it would mean she would have a good marriage and successful life. That's why she's mentioning it and how her promiscuous friends seem to have it better. So clearly she knows why she decided to be one. Yet you traced her mentioning it because she wants to cheat and that is repulsive. Vaginometer.
Oga virginity obsession (in case you are obsessed because you are one, you are not the only virgin), virginity doesn't equate a good life, the discipline only helps when we allow it to permeate all aspects of our lives. These are some of the lies we were told instead of working to improve our situation and environment. She clearly doesn't respect her husband either as a hard worker or a gambler. She simply settled for him as he was what she had available.
I have addressed something similar before and truth is most of these mistakes come from modern day approach to dating and lies we are told.
You can help her pack back to her parents house but I can promise you it will likely bring even more regrets in the long run. It's only a good fix temporarily, to reset the man's brain or make him miss the children. It seems you are one of the men vs women crew so you can enjoy yourself.
This woman was more concerned about appraising herself than finding solution to the challenge.
You have only heard the woman's half of the story. Go ahead and crucify everyone based on that.
I'm adding this after cause I may not reply you after. Check the older generation, they have lots of husband's that misbehaved, but such man always had someone in his life that would let him know he is mad and must get out of the house... Even if for a while, the man will leave the house to do concrete work or anything he has to do.
Clearly the man here has no such people in his life or maybe they existed and she disrespected them, but If you as a lady go on to marry such a man, what do you expect others to do for you if challenges arise?
As per your first question or statement, she is trying to say she did it all by the book, ie the proper way.
Going by the book, she needs to be ready to work it out with her husband...... The proper way has never been easy oh...... The highway to "hell" is wide and smooth.
Why is her virginity more important to you than her gambling, lazy king?
Why is the only thing you can come up with cheating? A woman who has a lazy husband should have her virginity or vagina monitored by you when she says she has a problem with her unmotivated husband, yet you ask why she mentioned her virginity?
Why is your second paragraph as unhelpful a solution as you could come up with as your last paragraph?
Surely you would have a lot to preach if it were the husband with this matter.
Mr./Miss/Mrs. I too know, go and read the op well before quoting me. The op is self righteous, story sounds cooked up.
Sometimes you make sure something is genuine before responding to issues people bring up. So many people are clout chasers. Someone just check the profile self and said op is a man and the best you can do is throw jabs at me
Her virginity is an issue because she seem not to know why she chose to preserve it.
She thinks it's better she lived as a hoe in here younger years rather than being chaste. You also think about that.
The man was working and providing/supporting until he lost the job.... Read her statement, she looked down on the man's earnings maybe even mocked him self but will never tell you that...... She said her man swore to never work for private company again...... You think say na small frustration be that?
It is hypocrisy to only touch areas the woman needs to work upon leaving the lack of finances and the man out of it totally. Do you have partial blindness?
I didn't see you say a man who doesn't take care of his home is worse than an infidel and suggesting that the man like a true father should do should hunt for any kind of job. You bashed the woman toning down her goodness because you want women to appear guilty. A man that doesn't take care of his home is an infidel
Let's stop putting women in horrible state please
You are clearly short sighted hence you cannot see what I'm driving at.
Besides if she's honest to respond, I will give her the best advice and support I can offer but till then.......
You are of your father the devil, and your will is to do your father's desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, and has nothing to do with the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks according to his own nature, for he is a liar and the father of lies.
John 8: 44.
So CNN has now retracted their outrageous fake news attributed to a senior Israeli official claiming that Hamas beheaded 40 children.
Because it was felt at the time that we could manufacture them at home. Then we also at the time had issues with dollar revenue
Besides it wasn't an import ban, it was a ban by the CBN on importers of the stuff from accessing them via its auspices . You want to import toothpick for example ? Fine, just get your own dollars. Don't approach the ceebeehen
Some things on said list are not what we can produce.
And even for so called simple things like toothpick or cotton bud, there are simple things that should be put in place before such bans...... Are we any better today?
preshpraiz: It's 2.47 am here but I can't sleep, I hardly sleep these days.My whole world is crumbling. I have been a regular guest here for awhile now but had to register this morning, I need somewhere to pour out my heart, somewhere to dump my frustrations. I came from a good, not so rich home but my parents were so hardworking.I had a good moral upbringing, went to tertiary institution and graduated with good grades. While in school, I never had a boy friend though I had a lot of "chykers", never went clubbing, didn't socialize much. Few months to the end of my NYSC, I met my husband. We got talking and boom, I fell in love with him. He is my ideal man....he doesn't drink nor smoke, gentle and soft spoken. He wasn't earning much but it didn't bother me. I believe in working hard and growing with my man. Now my regrets... * The "angel" I married has refused to get a job after losing the last one during COVID 19. He said he can never work in a private company again. His target is multinationals. I encouraged him to pick up a job with private company while hoping for a bigger fish at least to support in taking care of the needs at home but he said no. I'm left with taking care of our 3 kids, feeding, school fees and virtually every need at home. All he does is press phone, gamble and sleep. Now our rent is due, no money. I married as a virgin, married for love and not money, work my ass off, doing so many side hustle to shoulder the expenses at home. I'm tired. I regret all these. When I see my "unserious" classmates on social media and sometimes offline, I weep. See them living large. I thought all the sacrifices I made way back will pay off now. I have made up my mind that if he doesn't fix the rent, I will move back to my parent's house. Kindly feel free to advise or bash me. Tankio
So what's the connection between virginity and your current predicament? Or you are in search of a pity party to encourage you to go and cheat?
Typically, when we have a problem, we need the best solution and not the best solution we can come up with.
Moving back to your parents is not a bad solution but do you think there could be better solutions you need to explore?
Dpatriotng: What is the real reason BUHARI used Emiefele to place ban on those 43 Items?
To discourage Higher demand on forex ? To encourage local production?
Or maybe part of an elaborate plan to make a select few rich since those items weren't totally banned from import but you just cannot access forex from cbn, hence you have to get FX from the black market.
Godoverevery: Am currently in a relationship with a 31yr old lady for about 2 month now. She want to buy iPhone 12pro max and she doesn't have the total money. She has being complaining about how her phone (techno phantom) isn't good enough for pictures and videos bla bla bla from the time we met.
In my last relationship I actually helped my ex get iPhone Xsmas, she didn't have the total money aswell and I added about 55k to get it for her which I later regret with every blood in me and now the same scenario is happening again.
I actually advise her to get a lesser iPhone which her money can buy but she is adamant she want iPhone 12promax just to show off to other ladies in her office.
She expecting me to help her get the phone and add the remaining balance. From my calculations she is about 70k-80k short of the money to get the phone and honestly I don't have a dime to give cos only a foolish idiot will make the same mistake thrice.
She emotionally blackmailing me and I can't take it anymore.......at 31yrs I expect more understanding and more important priorities.
Stop investing in women and start investing in yourself.
This is your only hope of ever ending up with a high value woman.
The moment you give in to such, you begin to loose value in her eyes.
Earlier today, the presidential candidate of the Labour Party in the 2023 Presidential Election, Mr Peter Obi, held a surprise World Press Conference where he reacted to the outcome of Bola Tinubu’s certificate saga in Chicago State University.
Addressing the press, Obi charged Tinubu to personally reintroduce himself to the nation and tell Nigerians his real name, where he’s from, schools attended and certificates obtained.
Obi decried the fact that Tinubu’s certificate saga has in the US has caused the world to now see every Nigerian as either a forger, a fraudster or an identity thief.
For those who have been following Mr Peter Obi since he declared for the presidency in 2022, they would testify that this is the most direct he has come at a person as he constantly mentioned Tinubu’s name and challenged him to save Nigeria further embarrassment.
One thing that stood out is that he refused to address Tinubu as “president” throughout his address.
Safe to say that Peter Obi does not recognize Tinubu as president. But should anyone?
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Foreign Affairs / Re: Biden Arrives Israel. by sonofthunder: 10:43am On Oct 18, 2023 
