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Odebayo4010:
Everything a woman does is intentional.
Yes, even when she's ignoring you.

Men confuse silence with confusion.
Women use silence as communication.
If she didn't mean it, she wouldn't do it.

Ignoring you is not accidental.
Forgetting to reply is not accidental.
Pulling back is not accidental.
Attention doesn't disappear.
It's reallocated.

When a woman wants a man, she finds reasons.
When she doesn't, she finds excuses.
Both are deliberate.

A woman who's interested moves toward you.
A woman who's unsure moves inconsistently.
A woman who's done moves away, quietly.

Men ask,
"Did I do something wrong?"
The real question is,
"Did her interest drop?"
Because behavior follows interest, not explanations.

Silence is not confusion.
Distance is not mystery.
Coldness is not shyness.
They are decisions made without words.

Women don't ignore men they desire.
They ignore men they've deprioritized.
No emotion required.
Just hierarchy.

That's why chasing never works.
You can't negotiate desire.
You can't argue someone into interest.
You can only observe behavior.

If she wanted to talk to you, she would.
If she wanted to see you, she'd make it easy.
Confusion is the answer.

Stop asking women to explain.
Start watching what they do.
Because everything a woman does is intentional.
Especially the silence.

All what am teaching you i learned it in hard way.

As a man, just make sure you always invest in yourself and you are constantly moving forward ⏩⏩⏩

Never make anything more important than your God and yourself. It may sound counterintuitive but if you don't practice this then you'll learn the hard way. I'm not asking you to go imbibe some redpill behaviour. Care for loved ones around but do what you think is best and always start that with doing something for yourself.

My 2 kobo.

ddippset:
Wike;; I cannot never join APC cancer party.

Wike; I will never be a minister.

Wike; How can anybody say that want to continue from where Buhari stopped?

Wike; I will never be a godfather like Lagos state, I will do my tenure and go.

People once love Wike when he was building flyover and "insulting" Buhari...... I wonder what happened thereafter

[quote author=Slytiger post=138612657]"The drop of food prices in the market has killed our farmers" - Peter Obi

The drop of food prices in the market has killed our farmers. It has put them into more poverty.

— Peter Obi

pic.twitter.com/J2CuJzxCnY

— High Chief Lawrence Igbins Okoro (@HighChiefOkoro) February 28, 2026

farmers (many of whom are greedy) will inflate prices despite government subsidies, loans, ban on importation and other polices to make farming more viable to the detriment of the masses.

The case of rice especially under Buhari is an easy example.

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Good approach but the amount is too small.

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When Manchester united decided to stick with amorim come hail come sunshine, you saw how they were battling relegation

But once they got Carrick, you can now see how they are battling for top four

Just within a matter of a couple of games

It's all a game of Chance

What position was Manchester United when Carrick took over the job?

Helpfromabove1:
Situation room help you to know if you should change the rigging strategy before it too late

Or to cry foul/orubebe the election once you observed you have been out rigged.

Amotolongbo:
majority of the sexually active young boys in Nigeria were exposed to it by the older ladies in schools, homes and neighbourhood

I remember secondary school, a time when some boys got talking. I discovered a trend, all those that were sexually active all started after being abused by a woman in their life.

Ofunaofu:
This is what we’ve been hammering home all along.
Tinubu hasn’t done anything to warrant reelection, if nothing else, at least for failing to deliver on the promise of constant electricity.

What are the reasons why he shouldn't be reelected?

donleo92:
I like prophets who speaks the truth.

When it comes to coup plotters and anything that has to do with crude oil money watch them take quick actions.

But when it comes to the plight of the people, they turn comedians and jellyfish

You mean you like prophets who speak what you agree with. Most people who usually speak like you have insulted the same prophet in the past.

NaijaPrismata:
starting a business but coming to visit first. Excited to explore Nigeria

Like is this your first time visiting? Where you born in Australia?

It depends where you want to be based and situate your business.

NaijaPrismata:
Thank you for all the replies so far can anyone help me understand why i cannot reply to other posts just my own?

Click "quote" on the post you want to reply to

Melagros:
COMRADES, I will be happy if I can get that link on Nairaland that sometimes ago captioned Nigerian Police as the most corrupt/ worst police in Africa/ world

Sometime ago last year, the WhatsApp account of my friend whom I hold in high esteem was hacked, and the hacker defrauded me to the tune of 200k, after my conversation with my friend. Then I discovered that I was scammed!

However, in order to unravel the identity of the fraudster, then I reached out to the receiving bank and also to my bank for the account to be linked, after that, both of the banks advised me if I want to know who the fraudster is, I should make a formal entry at the police station since banks don't release the information of their customers to the third party. But, the police through the court order can produce who the criminal is

After harking to the piece of the advice, I went to the police station (Elelenwo station, picture below) and made an entry, then the IPO assured me that the fraudster will be apprehended, that this is a simple case, that there's an officer (a tracker) who specialises in handling such cases, so he linked me up with the so-called tracking officer (name below) then the so-called tracking officer booked an appointment with me. After asking of my bank details, he logged on to Google and brought out a certain phone number and claimed that this was the number which was used to defraud me, so to know who the culprit is, it will cost me: 15k (cash) for entry, plus 30k for mobilisation of officers, plus another 15k for a job well done. Without further ado, I made the payment

Do you know one funny thing? The so-called tracking officer didn't know that I am also an experienced car/vehicle tracker (I track vehicles for companies) anytime I asked for an update the fraudster in uniform would googled an image and sent it to me, not knowing that he is dealing with an expert, he would also be telling me cock and bull story blah blah blah blah

After all the drama, this year I decided to escalate the matter at the station, guess what, the police sided with their colleague. When I proved to them that I am also a tracker and their colleague is nothing but a fraudster and I threatened to take legal action against the fraudster in uniform, then all of them washed their hands off the case

It's a pity..... Sorry this was your experience even after a loss and getting defrauded. It's sad that most things are failed in this country.

Paragon311:
Harmless protesters been tear gassed....

Jonathan seems to be the ONLY democrat among these our President.... Humanity is gone to the dogs...

RCCG
WOLE SOYINKA
TUNDE BAKARE
etc are no where to be found now.

What did Rccg do to Jonathan

NaijaPrismata:
Easy going Aussies looking to make new friends to show me the culture. Traveling back and forth from Nigeria for work.

You got family here or what?

Ameboperoo:
A whole Liverpool thread no reach 1page
How are the mighty fallen

Omo..... Lemme try to help with this one here.

ruggedtimi:
I recently discovered that the Goodluck Jonathan administration first introduced the idea of the Coastal Road project, even carried a survey at the time

This has been suggested since before GEJ. Names around this then were Tinubu, Ibori and others

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So I want to understand, is he going to be working under the HR Dept or he is simply a dullard?

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I hope we have proper punishment for such stupid crimes

SlavaUkraini:
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What about the guards that where commissioned? Or was that niger state?

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So canvas is more valuable than Microsoft or Dangote Refinery?

Gunayo:
That is what every sane person should do. Welcome on board Ma. More to still come. ADC is the party to beat. 2015 will repeat itself in 2027.

So long as you keep using shaming tactics, you will never convince anyone to vote for a verified fraud.

Big words don't mean the evidence of intelligence.

Abizz:
That reason you discarded is the most important in the grand scheme of things.
Enjoy!

Explain. Apparently he's Yoruba, living in the south west in his apartment. How does owning another house in another part of the country confuse the daughter?

He spoke on a general note there you know. No specific reasons.

I'm always happy to learn.

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Location is where? Abuja, Lagos, Enugu or Jigsaw?

Abizz:
While building my first home in the South-South was a significant achievement, it was a decision born more out of spontaneity than long-term planning. I had been transferred there for work and, with a piece of free land and available capital, I decided to build. However, looking back with the benefit of hindsight and considering the current socio-political climate, I realized my priority was to establish roots within my own region in the South-West.
My decision to sell and relocate was driven by four key factors:
* Cultural Connection & Security: In light of the current tribal politics in the country, I felt a strong need to be among my people. I wanted to ensure my primary investments were in a region where I felt a true sense of belonging and long-term security.
* Legal Peace of Mind: Though I am not a legal expert, I am wary of land disputes. Witnessing a case where original landowners successfully reclaimed property from an occupant—despite their years of residence—made me realize I didn't want to leave anything to chance.
* Strategic Financial Gain: The offer I received for the property was exceptional. It provided enough capital to purchase a standard house in Lagos, fund a complete renovation, and still leave me with a significant amount. BTW, once the renovations on the Lagos house are complete, I will be saving a substantial portion of my housing allowance, which was previously a heavy expense.
* A Consistent Sense of "Home" for My Daughter: Most importantly, I wanted to provide my daughter with a clear sense of identity. Instead of confusing her with multiple "homes" across the country, I wanted her to have one true home base where she could grow up surrounded by her extended family.


Ultimately, I believe I've traded a spontaneous project for a legacy that offers both peace of mind and financial freedom.

The only solid reason I see is funding your house project in Lagos. What do you mean by " not wanting to confuse your daughter 😅😅😅"

Truth is you don't owe your mentor/boss any explanation but at the same time you do. And given that you feeling pricked shows maybe you should have told her even if in passing.

If you can make the argument strong enough for your house in Lagos, then use that to drop the message for her when she asks why. I say strong enough because I suspect you could have chested the project without selling. Maybe it only takes a year or two more to pay everything off.

Highest she vex then you find time later to tell her "ema binou ma".

Stay safe and congratulations on your new home

Abizz:
Good morning guys, I need clarification on something.
Some years ago, we were paid quite a sum at work, you know one of these unbelievable bonuses. One of my bosses who's always liked me called on me and advised I put the money to good use.
She specifically advised I should start working on building a house and she gifted me a parcel of land in a government reserved area to encourage me.

I have all necessary documents; The original Certificate of Occupancy and Deed of gifts with governor's consent.

The project took off and was completed the following year.
She was happy for me, congratulated me and that was the last time we talked about it. It's been over four years now.

I sold the house some weeks back and I'm wondering if I should have carried her along or engaged her dutifully from some legal standpoint.
Money is never her problem really, I'm just curious if normalcy demands I should have sought her permission before making the decision. One, as a boss who wants to see me do well in life. Two, as the gifter. Three, if there is any legal implications of not involving her or possible breach of intention.

Why did you sell it in the first place? That can form the basis for the conversation.

Was it because you don't like the area, you got another house or you want to Japa?

And for someone so interested in you, she could have counselled you to rent the place, sell it or assist you with funds/loans if there was a challenge.

I can advise better if you state your why.

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Has anyone here successfully used their NYSC year as foreign work experience for Canada PR (Express Entry or PNP)?

If yes, please:
• What job title did you use?
• Did you mention NYSC in your reference letter?
• Did IRCC ask questions about it?

I want to submit mine correctly and avoid mistakes.
Thank you.

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