beekind:
I am the 2nd born out of 2 children, my elder brother has been married for some time with no kids as a result I am super careful with issues relating to fertility.
I am in my late 30s and have been dating a 27 year old lady for 4 months now, the relationship moved so fast as she is a perfect match for me .
I have met her family and she has met mine, we are already planning marriage and have started counselling sessions in her church.

She complained of irregular periods so I told her to do a hormonal profile test and see a gynecologist, turns out she has got PCOS.

I have done my own fertility test and I am fine, I am at a cross road now, I cannot afford to struggle with child birth considering my age and also my only other sibling still also having issues with the wife also still trying to get pregnant after many years.

The only other option would have been to ask her to try for pregnancy before marriage but she is a virgin and wants to keep it that way till wedding, besides if I disvirgin her, how will I be able to walk away incase she doesn't get pregnant ?

I am at crossroads now, its not too late but walking away at this point will be very costly for me since we have already started plans towards the wedding and our families are already in touch.

My heart is heavy and I am confused, I need good advise as I cannot discuss this with anyone.

What did the doctor counsel you guys?

I thought they had treatments she could start up immediately. No go marry woman without PCOS wey done damage her womb oh.

Some women even arrange with doctors to share fake results.

SAMBARRY:
ok so she married herself or e no get who she married?

You are losing your own point sir

Newsmic:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7u_UMndJdkA



Credit: Dr Bush

Chai....and I get dirty clothes plenty


😭😭😭

SAMBARRY:
ok so as both of them are disgracing themselves on social media, what will that achieve?

Ask the woman. Bible says a foolish woman will tear down her home using her very mouth.

Are you seeing a connection??

SAMBARRY:
it's ok to the Doing boy boy for Davido,no problem.at least that's what pays his bills but there is nothing wrong in having a side buisness so girl actually has a point because seasons change in marriage and when seasons change they can stay afloat.

The only thing I see Disturbing Israel is ego, lousiness and lack of wisdom and maturity as a man

Let her go and enjoy her side hustle now.

Seems you haven't heard stories of people who ventured into side hustles that failed in everything.

The lousy one who lacks wisdom is the logistics coordinator for one of the biggest artists in Africa who does shows that "often" rake in over a 100million naira.

Go figure and let that sink in.

Pepperdemisback:

She asked him to have a side income, Asa Ashika has 2 different businesses but still with Davido.
He can beg for money to buy perfume but not to open business.
If Davido parts with him today, where will he start from if he doesn't have a side income? Does Davido not have side incomes? Does Portable not run a bar?

Only a fool will look down on someone who earns more than 90% of Nigerians. How many people earning side income are richer than the affected person?


Is it all rich people that has side income?


I'm not saying he shouldn't have side income but let's think critically before condemning people. You want him to lose a good source of income because he wants to chase side income prematurely or what? There are better ways she could have handled the matter rather than shaming her man.

Tallesty1:
This guy is well known for telling stories, stories that happened only in his imagination

He tells stories of other people sent to him. I don't know if he verifies them though but he asks people to send him their stories for him to share.

emkz:


https://punchng.com/emefiele-pumped-n10tn-into-economy-through-quasi-fiscal-activities-cardoso/?amp

It looks like a simple theft we were just too ignorant to see. He banned importers of certain items from getting forex directly from CBN, meaning they had to get it from the parallel market. If I know you have no other options, I can easily charge you more. I know there are other factors though.



Not to forget that he brokered deals to give some people like dangote forex slightly below official rate, meaning he could have done other things to reverse our forex challenges, even of they were to fail.



Emefiele and his cabal really pulled this one off and would be filthy rich billionaires forever.

dre11:


https://dailytrust.com/how-gandujes-govt-employed-jss-students-into-civil-service-kano-ssg/

But they didn't persecute or jail anybody.

SPAMBOX7:
.

That guy is demonic

See flexing..... Except you are a farmer of course

Sauter:



https://blackinsync.com/cera-3/family-1561051826/forum/topic/10-important-reasons-for-getting-a-dna-test/

What's the cost? What locations can the test be accessed?

envoymedia:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZkwnZo2uymE

Canada Looks Like Isolation Camp - Nigerian Man Laments After Relocating To Canada (Video)

Leave the Canada for refugees and return now.....

Racoon:


https://tribuneonlineng.com/10-key-facts-about-diabetes-you-should-know/?utm_term=Autofeed&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Twitter#Echobox=1700041789

Tour fact number seven is wrong. Sugar and frequent eating are some of the major reasons for diabetics.


The food and pharmacitical giants keep scamming us for profits.

Goodmorning20:


https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/ogun-student-arrested-for-poisoning-girlfriend/%3famp




https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/ogun-varsity-clears-student-accused-of-poisoning-girlfriend/%3famp

I keep telling people and even the bible buttresses this.

If you haven't been involved in certain types of evil engagements before, no matter how tempting it is, continue your best to abstain from it.

Welovetruecrime:


https://lawandcrime.com/crime/its-barbaric-reward-offered-after-beheaded-chickens-dove-and-rooster-found-in-cemeteries-as-part-of-ritualistic-sacrifice/

And here our police and leaders are doing almost nothing about ritual killings and organ harvesting of humans

lexylaw40:


https://www.google.com/amp/s/nairametrics.com/2023/11/15/nigeria-to-import-2-1-million-metric-tons-of-rice-become-top-buyer-globally-in-2024-usda/%3famp=1

This means our production is still very poor.

Bobloco:


You are right bro

But there is need to put this distinction so that we don't mix it up

NLC/TUC categorically mentioned Nation wide strike action

You are just giving the guy what he wants..... Reaction

Bobloco:


I know you did wish that the strike action becomes a failure reason you hurriedly created this senseless thread

Note: This is a nationwide strike action not a nationwide protest.
They are two different things and l know you minions are always jittery when ever you hear protests

A strike action is still a form of protest.

Pamfresh:
Please I need mature minds advise on this topic.
My family recently discovered that my younger brother who has been in the seminary and was supposed to be a reverend father in few years time has a very big gambling issue.

Over the years, he has accumulated a gambling debt of 2M (borrowed majorly from loan sharks). When I discovered about the incidence, I hesitated involving my retired dad and mum because of the shock they might get hearing about this but when I discovered I couldn't pay the debt alone, i had to involve them. Thank God they handled it calmly. My dad and I have offset 700k debts already but I recently discovered that he is still borrowing and betting even recently (someone that has access to his details revealed this to me today). I am totally devastated and I don't know how to relay this to my parents to avoid heart attack. The gruesome part of the whole story is that he is JOBLESS because of his seminary school journey (which he has willingly pulled out from because of this issue).

Please my fellow nairanders, how do I handle this problem? I'm fed up

Get your parents to stop paying asap.

If he steals your identity to borrow, report to law enforcement and allow him dance to his music.

CandidAdmin:
One keeps hearing from the men on NL that they want a submissive woman. Almost every thread about relationships and marriage has that word.

Now, over to the men, what's your definition of submissive?
Is it that when you say A, she must obey and not say B?
Or she shouldn't even give her opinion at all?
Or her choices and prefrences don't matter at all just because you want something?

Men!!! Let's discuss.

Question of the day - True or false, Responsibility without Authority is Slavery?

So you want us to define a submissive woman, then gave us your own definitions that we must choose from.



E make sense for your eye?

Omobude244:

Una go dey Yoruba land dey yarn rubbish and dust

How is obaseki the worst governor in Edo history?
Did u witness lucky igbinedion?

Can you contrast both governors?


Let's see who has more/better achievements

Cooolme:
Greetings everyone, I've been driving for over a year now and I've noticed we don't know how to use headlights in this country even my friend that visited from the US complained same thing.
I don't know if it's selfishness or what but how will someone be on very high beam even when opposite an incoming vehicle, I almost entered a ditch because an SUV beamed on my small Corolla to the point I couldn't even see properly, are there rules set for all these in this country?
God's willing if I don't leave this country within the next 2 years I'm getting a bigger vehicle and I will purposely install massive led lights I will be counter beaming people till they notice their mistake.

You want to solve the problem by becoming a problem?


🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

insidelife22:
Good morning Fellow brethren, I was born in a very religious family, when I was small I enjoyed attending church. I sometimes even slept in the church (back then it was allowed by our church).

In 2010 I went to stay with one of my aunts, she was Catholic, so I started attending Catholic Church with her. Then in 2014 I left and have been staying on my own since then.

To be honest I have not been to Church more than five times, the last time I went to church was in July 2018, don't know why but that's just it.

Today.



Don't be proud of vanity.

Jewessgratitud3:
Some of you will remember this story that happened two years ago to my nephew.
https://www.nairaland.com/6873579/lagos-teacher-removed-nephews-tooth/1#108076292

After the owner of the school apologized and the matter died down, some of the teachers have not been so nice to my nephew. He's always complaining of one teacher or the other beating him but the Mom in order not to appear like a troublesome person decided to talk to her son to always be well behaved and avoid his teachers at all cost as she can't be going to the school all the time to shout.
I remember a few people then asking me where's the father in all this but then I was covering him because I didn't want to expose his weak point in this whole matter. I'm still not going to say why he's helpless and can't confront the school for all the bullying on his child but I believe at this point a Smart thinker will know why.

Recently the boy said the teacher now deviced a new way of spanking him. She does it in hidden places where the marks will not show because he's fair but the Mom again shunned him after telling her.

Yesterday I called her and she told me his class mate s Mom sent him on errand ( they attend the same church) my nephew bought the stuff and brought it to her. The son his classmate now accused my nephew of telling his Mom that he brought money to school or so I can't remember what it was about. My nephew said he did no such thing that he only helped his Mom to get something.

They got to school and this boy went and brought other senior boys that are 10- 12 to come and beat my nephew ( he is 8 ) up for telling his mother on him. They beat him and while all that was happening no teacher came to his rescue or even noticed. I mean for people that are paid to look after children.

My sister went to pick them and her son told her all that happened and immediately my sister called the boys and was asking them why. So she gave them a serious warning never to touch him again and left.

The next thing she got a message from the daughter of the owner of the school ( the owner who handled the first issue died this year) telling her that she has no right to come and warn those children that she took laws into her hands that my sister is no longer allowed in the school premises henceforth. My sister went there the next day and was explaining to her that she didn't touch the boys but only warned them. The woman just kept flaring up saying she harassed the boys then my sister too fired her back and said they should call the boy and ask. She went to the boys class amidst pushes and teachers dragging her not to enter she pushed her way through to the boys class and asked the boy if she touched him the boy said no. The woman was now yelling at her teachers that none of them can talk now that's she here. Meaning they all teamed up and reported to her the HM that my sister harassed the boy.

After all the argument, she threatened my sister with arrest if she sets her foot in the school again and my sister reminded her of the tooth issue that she was going to take up the matter and the owner of the school boasted that she already sacked the teacher and my sister can not do anything..

Their father was called and he came back talking trash every where that my sister went to school to fight.
My youngest sisters husband also went to the school to ask what happened and tried to settle it and all that. Now their father said the school authority said they don't want to see the children in the school again...
As in... I don't get....

She's trying to take up the matter but I said to leave them because now the woman claimed she already sacked the teacher that he chase might be futile. Instead let their father change school for them.

She's feeling bad about the way they treated her children and how nothing was done about the bullying. She wants justice for her children. Please Should she go ahead and take it up against the school because she said the woman didn't actually sack the teacher immediately, after that incidence like she claimed that it took a while and the teacher left of her own accord..

Is that the only school available or they are giving the child scholarship plus feeding and writing materials with transportation and paid excursion and/or holiday trips?


Enlighten us abeg.

DatoDatuk:
Madonna University student gets expelled for joining viral ceiling challenge


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V0MVBt_HonQ&pp=ygUJZGF0b2RhdHVr



https://www.instagram.com/reel/Czb405boQSW/?igshid=MWN1d25vNW1henlwOQ==

The name of her social handle indicates she may not be a student already

timidapsin:
send a dm

Check your mail please. I think I lost your number

mariahAngel:


Won't you (men) turn around to call her a liability afterwards? Keep deceiving yourself.
You want a woman to live her life for only you? How selfish!

And on top of that, you had to top all the nonsense with your signature emotional blackmail. 🙄

Madam there's no blackmail here. If she was a liability, she wouldn't be conservative and yet have 17k plus followers on tick tok. She is a trained photographer with success to her history so only a coward/bully would refer to her as a liability.


She can do minor work from home, she can get back to working when are children start growing and require lesser attention.

You people just jump and swallow sugar coated opinions from folks not as intelligent or accomplished as you are.

P.S. You said "signature blackmail". Please expatiate oh. Do I have a history of throwing blackmail into my comments? 🤔🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈

Blackman7:
Sad

What is sad about her decision?

mariahAngel:
She should just say she's not ambitious.
I mean, she's a (wedding) photographer that doesn't even require much time and energy.

Boredom is waiting for her around the corner.
Only she should not turnaround to blame the man later.

You know nothing on what you talk about.


Most Women who take your advice today are the ones who are bored, engaging in vain and shallow activities to fill the void in their hearts.

She will have more than enough time to enjoy herself both with and without her husband/children.

Many of the women who lived "exciting" lives as youths are today riddled with different diseases like cervical cancer, Diabetes, HBP, etc. But............ you go girl!!!