goodgirl2409:
My husband has really changed. He is so unemotional and revengeful.
I will cook for him severally and he won’t eat. I will serve him food and he won’t eat. I will ask him what I have done and he won’t respond. Every time he gives me the silent treatment.

I feel so pained because I expected more from this marriage but barely 1 year after, he doesn’t seem to love me anymore. Sometimes 1 month will pass, no sex. He would go out and won’t bother to tell me where he is going.



He would come back very late and would just ignore me like I don’t exist.
Although he drops money for me to run the house and communicates strictly with me, it make no sense to me.
I am tired. Is this how marriage is? Is this how men are or am I just suffering?

I don’t have anyone to beg to talk to him,and I was told reporting him to any of his family members is not good. things are getting worse everyday. People who have married for many years and are succeeding please help me. What am I not doing right?

UPDATE.
I want to add that it is not sexual incompatibility.
When he is in his happy mood, I would even be tired of his endless gist. S-x will be very great. He is kind and caring. Such a wonderful man. In fact an angel. He would even wash my underwear’s and clothes.

But when his mood start which is his mood most of the time, he won’t talk to you, he won’t eat. I will finish cooking, he will go outside and buy another food and come and cook. He won’t come back on time. I will ask him what is it, he would not respond. He always feels everything I do to annoy him, i do it on purpose. I am a peace loving person. Everyone around that knows the story
always say that he has a problem.

Do you have a job that take you out of the house? Or are you a house wife?

livinuschukwug:

Love letter will only Come after everyone has taken odvi

Do you know if there has been any other ODVI invite since 14th Batch?

AryEmber:
exchanging words with you is beneath me, have a nice life

A lot of things are beneath you; yet, you do them everyday! You're just a saddest.

AryEmber:
A pig probably thinks every one is dirty as it is, I don't blame you

You just happen to know how a pig thinks, because you're just a pig yourself. I can live with that.

ladiesreject:
Why will God give human beings sexual urges and still say they should not engage in the act until they are married? Why not wait until you get married before He gives you the urge?

It's like you giving me food in the office and telling me not to eat it until I get home even though you know how hungry I am.

What if I die before I get home?


Sex is sweet, infact, it's the sweetest thing in the world.
So, why won't people eat what is sweet?

I'm not for or against fornication as you call it, I'm for doing what makes you happy.

You get to live once, do anything you want to do that makes you happy, provided it's legal.

Imagine not tasting the sweetest thing in world till you death?

I'm celibate though!

Your moniker says it all

AryEmber:
Preach sister, preach!

Yet, you have sex every other weekend.

wisethoughts:
So Ubunja has a son here on nairaland? Lol

Now you know.

Stay miseducated.

Jochabed:
i am a Christian and I am unapologetic about it. God says in his word, that he hates fornication but it's obvious that most people have engaged in the act before. I just need your honest answer, why do you knowingly go against God's commandment by having sex when your not married. I'm not gonna judge you, I just want your honest answer. Or are you like Paul in the bible who doesn't want to do it, but you just find your self doing it?

Are you a virgin looking for a reason to have sex? Google will do you good.

Okoroawusa:
Fornication n sex r not the same thing.


Fornication is what Christians do,sex is what humans do.


So I don't fornicate... maybe the person below me does

This one is funny
Cc ubunja

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Any update guys?

mosgoon:


Thanks for this. Makes things clearer. What question did your friend ask them that brought about this response? Or is this a response to him completing the ODVI if he got the invite?

I'll also like to know this too @Fweshspice

The question should be, why are you laughing?

Guys don't be scared to ask questions... These guys are not god, infact they are more excited when you do.. If things are not clear ask instead of speaking off...

Be yourself..Bleep English... Make sure you communicating though

Thanks for answering. I also haven't gotten feedback post ODVI

Any news on ODVI invite today?

Those who have done ODVI, any feedback yet?

Has anyone who did the ODVI gotten feedback?

ubunja:

Edit: SonOfUbunja may beg to differ.

Let it be known by all and sunder.

gcardcodes:
Look at the photos . one was posted on naira land and the other was posted on WhatsApp by two different people .. These pictures are the same.... Can we say its real ... A question asked

What if it's posted by same person

Johnfiddy:
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U recieved OVDI instead of ODVI...that means the *Two-both* of you are UNREAL..

Typos are also unreal. You're right!

Omotayor123:

My question is in process of uploading, what if d 3minutes elapse due to Internet failure

Uploading happens after you are done with the five questions, so technically that's not possible

gcardcodes:


Is it 1 minute to think or 30 seconds to think ?

1 minute, even though all communications said 30 seconds.

Omotayor123:

Oh! Tnx for the info.
But what happens if there is Internet failure & d time elapse?

Internet failure will have no effect, because you pre-record then upload when you're done.

Omotayor123:

Is the interview a face to face? Or theta drop the question and u video urself answering it

Its not a live interview. You'll be asked a question, given one minute to think and three minutes to respond

Omotayor123:

Can it be done witty our phone pls.?

Yes it can. The Video interview is conducted using HireVue, in my experience, mobile has always been better.

Amicusacuriae:
data intensive in what sense

High speed internet connection plus at least 200mb data.

mosgoon:
so it's confirmed everyone that got ODVI so far got it last sunday. What time did you get yours becuase i have observed a range of time periods to be 1pm to 3pm las sunday.

Anyways, if no new ODVI invites are sent out today. Then things are not so straightforward

Got mine between 1 and 3pm

Scholar94:
ODVi? Test? Can't think

ODVI. I got the invite last Sunday.

Just completed my ODVI. The test is data intensive and will require a very strong internet connection to actually upload. If you are yet to take the test, please try and prepare adequately.

freaknik:


A screen shot wouldn’t hurt

I think it would.

For all I know Shell recruitment team could be here.

OVDI is real.

I got an invite on on Sunday. Barely two days after my test.