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I don't really know If there's a thing like "high maintenance", but if I am not spending my money on her then someone else is doing so, and "he who pays the piper dictates the tune" for this reason, I urge my girlfriend to be comfortable spending my money without feeling like she's high maintenance.

SteveOfu:
mtchew

The same reaction men will have to the question you asked.

SteveOfu:
Why do single men pray for a chaste virgin when they are not virgins themselves?

What is this fascination with having a woman 'no man has touched,' but you have touched many yourself?

same reason women pray for rich men when they are not rich themselves

nanaman:
Did you read where I said, he should learn a skill/trade and make use of the money for such afterwards? I bet, you didn't. Even if it's selling of data as someone suggested, he must learn the ropes. It's not proper and advisable to delve into biz you have no idea about.

This doesn't change the fact that you didn't offer him any advice on what business to start; hence, failing to answer the real question. You basically just gave academic advice as a professor in the university will.

boss1310:
on the contrary to some comments here this is one of the best business advice I have seen online.

The comment begs the question. Which business should he start.... no advice was given. Just a sermon

nanaman:
First, what is your passion?
[s]
Second, develop your passion

Third, create a biz out of your passion

Fifth, if you can't develop your passion to create a biz, go an learn a skill you like.

Lastly, safe the money till you are done with the skill/trade. Don't, I repeat, don't lend anyone, else, OYO[/s]

This is just academics. No practical advise given

Omisbrightdf:
https://www.dropbox.com/sh/fppqyrrz0r27bcd/AACSfJRfAGIH5AdBLwxruOhja?dl=0.

Sorry it's coming late

Thanks, I appreciate

Omisbrightdf:
AlldayHR is Workforce. Go and get Workforce past questions. It is not GMAT or SHL, it is Workforce.

Please where can I get workforce past questions?

chubbyG:
GMAT + SHL
The verbal reasoning and abstract aren't difficult.
The maths is more like SHL

Thank you for responding. Please do you have any recommended material that I can use?

Please what's the test format for alldayhr? Is it based on gnat?

mosgoon:
you are right. I just got to know of someone who got a success mail for final stage (stage 2) after ODVI. Hopefully more mails roll out soon

Great news! Can you confirm when he/she did his ODVI?

I'm noticing that new ODVI invites comes 9-11 days after any batch. Last round came majorly 6th September, next batch was yesterday.
Cc mosgoon

Toyo10:
Maybe the day thing.(october7,september7, november7 etc).... really matters

It could reflect that you will be answered b4 that date.

Dec Nov guys would need to chill well

The date on my dashboard has moved like 5 times. I don't think it matters

mosgoon:
This shows they are working on applications. Let's hope they conclude the ODVI review quickly

My forecast will be another 40 (+- 10) days to move people to the next stage.

TheIjawIdara:
It is taking so long.

Brace up everyone, i just looked at Shell website and turns out application for other countries is open till January 2020.

Someone I know received ODVI invite today.

Prettiedame:
Masturbation doesn't cause hair loss. If it does, I would be as bald as an egg.

It does causes arousal and intimacy issues. You'll wish you went bald instead.

XhosaNostra:
Lol, I have this thing...I'm not sure what to call it (an aura perhaps?) that makes people do & say weird things.
I cannot speak of social media experiences because I'm not big on that. However, I could write a book on the craziest things I've seen & heard in my waking life.

One time I was having a random conversation with a tattoo artist in my area. Out of the blue, he asked if I wanted to see his penìs tattoo & before I could grasp out a response, Jack was already out of the pulpit. It was just bizarre. I didn't find that particular incident annoying though. What I find annoying is the fact that people seem to feel (free?) enough around me to say & do inappropriate things. I'm not talking only about people I'm acquainted with (like the tattoo guy), but also random strangers I don't know from Adam. I've seem more penìses than a whòrehouse wench. Strangely enough, this didn't start now. We moved from my early childhood home because my father beat up a neighbour for exposing himself to me. I believe I was 8 or 9 at the time. It has happened so often that now I almost expect it & that's the annoying part of it.

Hahahhahahaha.... This really cracked me up.
So you're a magnet for penìs situations. That's a whole new level of strange.

Sharptwotwo:
Hey there, I also got the ODVI invite. One of my friends who did his, sometime in July said it's chiefly behavioral questions.
Sent you an email via Nairaland, do well to respond. Hopefully, we can help ourselves through this.

I may not be about of much help, it's been over a month so can't really remember the questions. But Why shell is a given.

Sharptwotwo:
Can I have your contact, I'll need your guidance for the ODVI.
Here's my email Contact@unilag.33mail.com. Thanks.

Replied your PM.

LaExpert:
All the best, guys!

I believe you applied for a technical role. Please confirm this.

cc: Mosgoon

I applied for Commercial Role - Finance and IT. I was among the first batch of ODVI on the 14th July

Congratulations to all those that got ODVI. @mosgoon and co.

Is there anyone who's yet to get ODVI or regret email?

Exactly one month since the end of the application. Any news on a success mail from anyone?

jess2019:
My son will be 9 in October but his behaviour bothers me so much. He acts like a day dreamer. He has turned me into a shouting and miserable mum as I had to beat him after I've exhausted other punishment options. To make this short, I'm going to summarise his behaviour.

He still cannot get himself ready for school in the morning. Either he doesnt cream his body or forgets to comb his hair or doesnt brush his teeth. He forgets to brush his teeth almost everyday. This made me to make a list of step by step sticker. I sticked this on their bathroom mirror and on his bedroom wall. Yet I have to keep reminding him everyday. For example, last week on Wednesday, Thursday and Friday he forgot to brush his teeth and hair. I have to constantly be reminding him every morning. He is the only one that brushes teeth after getting ready. I trained them to brush teeth first before shower but he keeps forgetting.

I have to remind him to do his homework, and put it back in his school bag to return to school on Mondays. The book will still not make it to the school even after constant reminder. We've lost countless of lunch bags. One ended up on school roof. If you give him any form to submit back to his teacher. He will forget in his bag so I now give it to his sister to give to his teacher.

He removes his clothes, shoes, pants, belts etc and leave them on the floor, I bought two laundry baskets for him. One in his room, another in their bathroom, yet all his belongings end up on the floor that you can hardly find a space to put a foot. I dont expect him to be perfect but atleast to try so that his 70% clothes make it to the basket or shoes to their racks. He also has a book shelf and desk yet they also end up on the floor.

He plays so much that sometimes he leaves shops with items in his hands. So I have to always watch out for him. Living in a western country where black boys are stereotyped I fear for him. He can stare at the ceiling for hrs when getting ready for school or spend long time in the shower yet not using soap on his body. This usually makes us late unless I step in to help or keep shouting.

If you ask him to do any house chores, he will not do it instead waiting for us to forget so he can get away with it. When grounded not to watch TV, he will still do it once he knows am inside my room or busy with a baby.

Yesterday we revised all his lesson assignments (5 work books). I specifically asked him to put them in his lesson bag. I pointed at the bag. Now I drop him at the lesson only for him to say oh I think I came with old lesson books. I dont know how he ended up with old books in his bag. It could be he planned it as a way to avoid the lesson. If not I wonder how he will remember it himself as soon as I drop him and his sister as this is unlike him.

I've taken him to a doctor incase there is any diagnosis so I can give him all the help he needs but they said it's just his behaviour because according to the doctor he is smart academically. He is 18months ahead of his year level. So they ruled ADHD out.

Lol. This is exactly how I was when I was a kid. Your boy's personality maybe campaigner, read on Google how to raise a campaigner kid.

Pascopele:
Why is Mama Ndidi (selling Plantain) still holding her Marriage of 20 yrs, but Joy (Bank Manager) is divorced after 4 yrs?
Discuss

Joy is married to her bank job. At the end of the day, she's fagged out from dealing with annoying customers, corporate targets and possibly an annoying boss.
Joy leaves home 6am to get to the office before 7.30am(if she's in Lagos) but doesn't get back home till 9pm. Her body is weak from the stress so sex and intimacy for her has become "an obligation to her husband" so it's basically boring. Mama Ndidi is always ready to roll and available.
Joy spends her best hours in the bank and gives the left over to her family, Mama Ndidi does the opposite.

Joy will not want to "accommodate" flaws in her husband because when women have money they start to feel they don't need men. This is so because most women chose their spouse based on money, prospect or security and not necessarily love. So when you can give yourself the one thing you marry another for the marriage starts to become tiring.

Joy's husband could be a lieing, cheating unfaithful mofo (Joy could have seen this if she wasn't looking at how much more he has or will have), while mama Ndidi got a great man with not so much money.

Joy's husband could be a boring woman beater with no vision than to have his wife take care of him, Mama Ndidi might have gotten a man that's hardworking and committed to her but short of opportunities.

Joy's village people could be alive and active.

JudgeOGBUNABALI:
Local Man has run out of 'can' for this silly no-good programme.

local man will always remain a local man

BeckyChinelo1:
INTELLIGENCE!! And then your dress sense. Especially your shoes. Then neatness.

In other words, money?

Olamsoh:
As a woman what attract you first when you see a MAN..
Mine is height and pockets..
Dudes oya be reading their comments

So the first time you see a man, you already know how much money he has.... That's some super power you've got

Nobodyperson:
you're either daft or you can't use your brain.
I arranged them in order for a reason.

Lol. Pathetic

Nobodyperson:
Beauty
Ass
Personality
Intelligence and so much more.
I'm picky

I wonder how you see personality and intelligence from looking at a person. You're either strange or you don't understand OPs question.

The one with food and water.

Sacrifice him, then immediately use the money to buy food and water before living the village

midolian:
I just feel... REGARDLESS, there are some things in life you don't use to mock others...e.g poverty, lack of children, deformity in children, etc

L9l @poverty. The have nots are always touchy about their status. Oh well, their reward is in heaven