Jobs/Vacancies › Re: DSS Is Recruiting (2016) by sparog(m): 7:22pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
jameshow: The lord that started a good work has finally finished it Any news bro? |
Celebrities › Re: Mother & Daughter Go Naked On Instagram (photos) by sparog(m): 3:07pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
So nice
They are both beautiful |
Celebrities › Re: Ghanaian Footballer Buried In Football Boot-shaped Casket [photos] by sparog(m): 7:50am On Feb 18, 2020 |
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Food › Re: Inside Thailand Slaughterhouse Where Pigs Are Clubbed To Death. by sparog(m): 2:55pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
This is not cool ooh |
Romance › Re: What A Guy Did To His Girlfriend After She Caught Him Cheating On Valentine's Da by sparog(m): 2:53pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: Viral Video Of A Lady Physically Abusing Her Husband In A Restaurant by sparog(m): 2:49pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
justnock: The woman must be the breadwinner or else, the man issa mumu  Weak Men everywhere A true African man won't allow things get this bad before he acts. She even has the impetus to do this publicly. Only God knows what she'll do behind closed doors at home... This is totally un-african, forget the rubbish this westerners are teaching us mbok |
Romance › Re: A Young Nigerian Man Have Been Caught Having Illicit Affair With A Deranged Lady by sparog(m): 2:44pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Let him be made to marry her
If he likes her enough to sleep with her in that state then he should be able to marry her |
Crime › Re: If You Ever Sang Wyclef Diallo Diallo, Then You’ve To Know This. by sparog(m): 2:41pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Naija police too dey do wrong profiling based on looks... God help you, you dress expensively or you lock you hair or you use an iPhone and also carry laptop... You'll be profiled as a yahoo boy and fleeced dry, that's if you cooperate though. If you try to resist them, they'll pull out their guns and end you No questions ask...  |
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Romance › Re: Lady Sleeps With A Friend’s Father For Sleeping With Her Boyfriend, Shares Video by sparog(m): 3:33pm On Feb 14, 2020 |
9jaRealist: If the name fits...  > Don't start what you can't finish man |
Celebrities › Re: See What Beautiful Celine Dion Looks Like Now(pictures) by sparog(m): 9:00pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
Asquare84: that is the effect of lying about your age, no one can cheat nature. when she was singing and claiming 30 years, she most probably be 55 years then, now nature have caught up with her. from the look of her age she should be 80 years old now You're not intelligent |
Politics › Re: Degi-Eremienyo: The Conflicting Names That Disqualified APC Deputy Governor by sparog(m): 8:56pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
TheTrueSeeker2: Only one explanation can be given to his different choice of identity..
Forgery....!!!
Meanwhile the same person that did former Minister Kemi's NYSC Certificate may have done that of this Degi. He should be handed over to the Police or better still he should hand himself over for investigation.
Apart from his names, his very life may'd also been forged... You have sense |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: DSS Is Recruiting (2016) by sparog(m): 7:11pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
jameshow: U just dey make me laugh, u will com back here to swallow ur words You're not even supposed to respond to his comment Time will tell who is right and who is wrong  |
Romance › Re: Lady Sleeps With A Friend’s Father For Sleeping With Her Boyfriend, Shares Video by sparog(m): 9:33am On Feb 13, 2020 |
9jaRealist: I knew SEXIST AND MISOGYNISTIC Nigerians would eagerly show up.... And these samplings are just from the first page (no time to go through all of the pages)! SMH
First, she is NOT a "woman" but a MINOR (including under Nigerian law).... Meanwhile, instead of blaming the PAEDOPHILE man, some are sympathizing that he was "jazzed".
Clearly the KIDS involved here were both failed by POOR parenting (father here being Exhibit A)... But the reactions of many here reaffirms the deep-seated SEXISM ingrained in most of Nigeria's indigenous cultures. > Pls don't be stupid ooh Don't call me what I am not |
Celebrities › Re: Singer Kelly Rowland Releases Sexy Photos To Celebrates Her 39th Birthday by sparog(m): 8:07am On Feb 12, 2020 |
Beautiful legs |
Celebrities › Re: Kemi Olunloyo: Eric Agboegbulem Igbedion's Death, Drug Overdose & The Prostitute by sparog(m): 7:56am On Feb 12, 2020 |
She's says the truth some times but people hardly take her seriously cos of how she goes about it  |
Sports › Re: A Striker With No Goal In His 24 Years Career by sparog(m): 10:14pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
Ndi sharp  |
Romance › Re: Jehovah's Witness,who Is Against Blood Transfusion. See Their Sick Child (video) by sparog(m): 10:09pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
Even Jesus Christ will be amazed at the foolishness of some so called Christians |
Romance › Re: Lady Sleeps With A Friend’s Father For Sleeping With Her Boyfriend, Shares Video by sparog(m): 10:06pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
There's no limit to the foolishness of some women  |
Politics › Re: Bayelse Governor Make History As He Step Down As Governor by sparog(m): 10:04pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
Make I no talk wetin dey my mind  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: DSS Is Recruiting (2016) by sparog(m): 6:16pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
Martionsbillion: Is time we forget this stuff... For those of us that does not have anything doing and ur life is dependent on this job, is time for u to go and look for another thing to do bro and sis.... Just an advice 
Congratulations for life .. Cos with life they is still hope.. Thanks You can forget about it now, no one is holding u back Leave the rest of us to continue worrying about it  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: DSS Is Recruiting (2016) by sparog(m): 6:13pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
Martionsbillion: Is time we forget this stuff... For those of us that does not have anything doing and ur life is dependent on this job, is time for u to go and look for another thing to do bro and sis.... Just an advice 
Congratulations for life .. Cos with life they is still hope.. Thanks You can forget about it now, no one is holding u back Leave the rest of us to continue worrying about it  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: DSS Is Recruiting (2016) by sparog(m): 2:22pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
NosaJBourne: The renovation no dey finish ni?
What exactly are they renovating?
I just don't want to believe this renovation theory or whatever I don't think our not being called for camp has anything to do with renovation |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: DSS Is Recruiting (2016) by sparog(m): 10:26pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Some people may be called this month but it might not be cadets |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: DSS Is Recruiting (2016) by sparog(m): 9:33am On Feb 10, 2020 |
Brosd01: if u know say u want progress no follow yeye post some bad elements dey drop for dis thread...begin dey reason anoda thing,,plenty way dey ooo I don't believe anyone will put his or her life on hold over stuffs that is not certain Most people will have stuffs they are doing or planning to do already, it's just that we are keeping the hope alive |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: DSS Is Recruiting (2016) by sparog(m): 6:57pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
koligs: Lmao, funny dude Any news bro |
Romance › Re: Angry Fans Slam Yvonne Jegede For Showing Off Her Pant In Photos by sparog(m): 12:04pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
aswani: You are right, people just want to see what and react in the way they want.
She wants to trend and that is ok too.
I actually like the picture as it looks classy and empowering. I also like the picture, I like the color of her skin  |
Crime › Re: ATM Card Thief Caught In Hotel He Lodged In With His Girlfriend by sparog(m): 12:01pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Good
Don't mind those telling you to release the girl. She's a thief too |
Romance › Re: Angry Fans Slam Yvonne Jegede For Showing Off Her Pant In Photos by sparog(m): 6:22am On Feb 09, 2020 |
That looks like a Jean bumshort and not a pant |
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Family › Re: I Want To Leave My Wife For My Girlfriend by sparog(m): 6:16am On Feb 09, 2020 |
papaejima20199: This is my first time posting NL , although I've been reading a lot in the last few months . I'll try to be as detailed as possible. I don't even know if I'm asking a question, or advice, or what. I just have to get some things out of my brain.
I’m 36 and my wife is 32. we've been married for 12 years and have two children, twins age 1. I would say happily married. As in, we don't fight, , never any abuse of any kind, no major life disagreements. I love my wife. She is a great mother, a great provider for the family, and we make a great team when it comes to raising our kids. However, she leaves me feeling undesired. Sexually, just intimacy in general, not feeling wanted or desired, missing that flirtatious quality that we all enjoy in a relationship. Our sex life has been on a steady decline, honestly since we got married. Less and less and less every year, and yes, kids make that even more difficult (and provide very easy excuses)
About 2 years ago, I was close to cheating. There was a girl at work that I flirted with often. We started hanging out , and we always seemed to end up talking, touching innocently, flirting, but nothing ever happened between us. The feeling this girl gave me inspired me to tell my wife how I was feeling, what I was missing, etc. I told her how important sex was to me, asked her what I could change, or if she needed to change something. Her response was that she "just didn't really think about it like you do" and that she would try to work on it. Well she didn't work on it, at all.
The flirty girl didn't work with me any more, and I lost that "flame" with her and let it go, and went about life as usual. I've been working a lot of hours over the last six months. I fell into this flirty relationship with one of my coworkers 22 and we just would have a lot of fun with one another. Mad sexual tension. A few months back things happen and she blows me. Its great. Best sex of my life. We set up plans to meet up off work hours and we do.
My coworker is in perfect shape. Its like my perfect woman. I love the way she loves me. She appreciates me, she satisfies me, she matches my sexual drive, and even exceeds it. She is everything I was missing in life, and I'm as happy as I've been in a long time. She is also crazy about me which feels unbelievable. Its been a while since someone has just wanted me to be happy and wanted to please me. I now consider her my girlfriend.
I don't wish to hurt my wife. But I do wish to be happy.
I do not wish for my children to grow up in a home with divorce. I want them to grow up with myself and my wife still being the team we've been so far, doing equal parts to take care of them, and always be there for them.
I realize a lot of what I'm saying are things that can't go together. I want to be with my girlfriend, I don't want to hurt my wife, and I don't want my kids to suffer . I can't have it all. Now I feel stuck
I need help because I can't seem to go through with this alone, and I have no one close enough with the time and level of trust that I can confide in, so I would really appreciate it if you'd offer me some advice.
Thanks for reading Who told you you can't have it all You're an African man mbok, you can marry her as a second wife and live happily ever after  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by sparog(m): 2:21pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Las las, dis thread go reach 2000pages  |