soilsista:

Lol wa go batla just like many others! The only problem is your sharp tongue

I had a good weekend hle! I got enough rest. The weather was great, and it still is. I'm ready for the new week.

Have a great one sthandwa

Not perturbed by that! Keeping cool!

XhosaNostra:


So they fake foolery? Chai! Wetin Chioma no go hear for Aba market? LMFAO.

I don't wanna get into these mudslinging matches, so I'm going to leave it right there.

Abeg, no put sand inside my garri.

XhosaNostra:


Dude, aren't majority of people on this site Nigerians or they start using a foreign sense online?

Babe, this is one of the best documented reasons why online dating is not reliable. My online life is different from my real life.

XhosaNostra:


I spend enough time here too, so no, my conclusion is well thought out.

Staying on a Nigerian forum doesn't entail being in Nigeria! There's a dichotomy between them.

XhosaNostra:


Erm...nah. 50% & that's being generous. A lot of guys don't have sense, they just think they do.

If you said 50%, you may not be farther from the truth! I strongly believe, your opinion is being influenced by SA men!

XhosaNostra:
Lol, you're making it sound like all men are intellectual beings. Some are all sausage, two meatballs & no brain. They'd get a seizure trying to keep up with the empress you're describing

Truly, not all men; but 97%!

XhosaNostra:

XhosaNostra

soilsista:
Hebanna
XhosaNostra, ashi juba ya gago e ne ke bolelang ka yona the other time!
So, because I don't follow you I can't miss you?

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XhosaNostra:


Goeie nag

Burning the midnight oil here, but I'm also about to hit the snooze button. I can hear my dreams calling. Bye.

Meaning: "Good Night," in Afrikaans. That's what Google translate told me.

XhosaNostra:


Goeie nag

Burning the midnight oil here, but I'm also about to hit the snooze button. I can hear my dreams calling. Bye.

I read a lot at night too: Because of the serenity of the environment!

XhosaNostra:


I'm a homebody, I've seen & heard nothing No testimonial to give lol. But okay, little buddha.

Thanks for the discourse! It's midnight Nigerian time: I'm about to go in to the arms of Morpheus. Goodnight, sweet dreams! **praying!**

XhosaNostra:




By whom? 2ndly, it looks like your reign is about to end with all this debutante-style talk from the so-called dashing knights.

You live in SA. You can attest to that. And, many African American women see Nigerian men as demigods!

XhosaNostra:


Hmmmm...

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XhosaNostra:



Look, if you still wanna hang on to your self-proclaimed title as the amorous Romeos of Africa, don't talk gay Otherwise we'll dethrone you & give the crown to people with more testosterone

I do have a flowery style of writing but I never thought it was difficult to understand. That's a 1st.

Yes, difficult to understand; one would have to read between the lines! Edited: "Self-proclaimed" Amorous Romeos of Africa? Not self-proclaimed: we had it bestowed on us.

XhosaNostra:



Look, if you still wanna hang on to your self-proclaimed title as the amorous Romeos of Africa, don't talk gay Otherwise we'll dethrone you & give the crown to people with more testosterone

I do have a flowery style of writing but I never thought it was difficult to understand. That's a 1st.

Yes, difficult to understand; one would have to read between the lines!

72Morale:
It will be foolish of any sane person to believe this crap.

Once a woman start using "Because he asked me out and I refused" as a defensive line in any case, Just know that she's telling lies.

The husband was long aware of it! He said he had been saving up for another apartment! Why are you covering up for the stupid landlord? Maybe, it's a clear case of:"Birds of a feather, flock together!"

XhosaNostra:


Caution your Disney princesses men not to think out too loud

Are you a poetess? Your writings are too difficult to decipher!

XhosaNostra:


Is it a South African man that wrote he wants to be swept off his dainty, glass slipper clad feet & wooed like a fair maiden? Abeg!

Just an insinuation.

XhosaNostra:


Amen. I'm glad this is coming from a guy because I was becoming to worry real men have gone extinct. Please don't leave us with these sissified ones with a Cinderella complex

hahahahahahaha! XhosaNostra is telling us that SA men can't hold a candle to Nigerian men! Really, Nigerian men take a very good care of their women.

adioolayi:
Go ahead and marry her....Just read the beautiful story of Samson and Delilah....Go ahead and marry against your parents wish...I am not saying you are not matured enough to make decisions, after all it's your home, your life.... but then what the elders see while sitting, children don't see even while on tree top.

What happened to Samson in the end?

Mandem12:
I had to open a new account for this, pardon me for Punctuation errors. I have to go straight to the point so as not to bore you... My story goes thus

I'm a young man of 25. I met this very beautiful girl, aged 23 now, we've dated 4 years now. She's so humble, the love grew out of nowhere. She does everything a woman would do for a man and I do everything a man will do for a woman.

I found myself not doing anything without her and she cannot do anything without involving me, we actually love each other very much.

She started pestering me to have a blood oath with her because she was scared I would leave her. I laughed it off cos I knew I wouldn't cheat on her, she is everything I wanted in a woman.

Trouble started when I brought her home to meet my parents, I was actually happy that I had found my wife...

When she left, my father asked me where she was from, and I told him and my father told me I can't marry her because she was from the same village with me and thereby related by blood thereby marrying her is an abomination that she was my sister so to say and said our kinsmen would not be Involved if I insist on marrying her... I felt my world crumbling down like a pack of cards...

I told my girl and she was like, it's an old tradition and nobody will dictate to her who she would marry and she loves me and there was no going back...

As a man, I thought about it and wanted to let her go because I wouldn't want the stigma to be on us and my unborn kids... I showed her some attitude to make her hate me but she didn't, rather she would rather beg me not to leave her even when I'm at fault. I feel bad anytime I do anything to hurt her feelings...

Now, I actually want to get her pregnant and damn the consequences, do a court wedding if the need arises and relocate with her out from our state and start a new life elsewhere...

Another mind is telling me to let her go so we can move on with our lives, or even be a fugitive for her... I however know she will hurt herself if I leave her... I'm very confused about everything, I seriously need help... Why is Igbo tradition this way? I found love with this girl, now everything is about to be stripped away from me, just like that... I seriously need an advice please...

I love this girl so much and she make me happy


Please move this to front page so I can hear from others please...

It's only a stubborn fly that follows a corpse into the grave! He who has ears, let him hear!

Vortex369:
Boko Haram members, if they truly repent and have zero intention of furthering their criminal profession can be encouraged by such Ministry, just as militants were rehabilitated. It worked for Niger Delta, so I see no reason it will not work for the weaponized-amaljiri North.

If Boko Haram can be defeated with Love since we can not defeat them in war, it is better. That way we dont keep getting defrauded by the Military Heads and their foreign arms-dealers counterparts who also supply arms to Boko Haram to create business opportunities.

N/B:
I noticed vituperation from hate generators who are mostly Christians. It bothers me that you are not like your Jesus.

Niger Delta militants got rehabilitated and there is relative peace so I see no reason Boko Haram rehabilitation will not bring peace. I did not compare the level of offence but the peace that can be achieved.

Argue with your Jesus who said you should love your enemies.

Boko Haram and Niger Delta Militancy are different things! Where is the dustbin, please?

Amotekun will be a crass failure: A cheetah is always good at running away, rather than fighting! In a nutshell, it prefers FLIGHT to FIGHT! They rightly used the cheetah emblem to represent what we know that they are: Cowards!

baysherpsyche:
Abroad; six months before graduation, there is employment funfairs which qualifies for an interview in an organization.
That way the rate of unemployment is brought low after graduation.
I believe this is a good idea, except when nepotism and favoritism starts to be practised.

Where are the companies? Many companies are shutting down by the day!

vikkimimi:
This is good news...
this should be the kind of bill our leaders are supposed to be working hard on and not on irrelevant issues like AGENCY FOR BOKO HARAM

Where are the companies?

XhosaNostra:


Why should I? In all honesty though, I don't know how I'd want to look like as a man. It was all in jest. It's a tricky one.

OK!

XhosaNostra:


Mine I'll dress it up the way rich people dress up their little dogs, that's why I want it girthy. You guys are not having enough fun with that extension

What? It's high time you went to bed!

XhosaNostra:

Thickums *eyeroll*

hmmmmmmmm!

XhosaNostra:


I'll make it even more awkward by flashing it on them, preferably with a little moustache drawn on it & some googly eyes. LOL!

hmmmmmmmmmmm! I like to learn from good teachers like you.

XhosaNostra:
A big dìck

Big Dick? But, many girls say it's awkward!

XhosaNostra:

still minding my bizwax, so to speak!

XhosaNostra:
What, no beating for the one getting a slobbering?

XhosaNostra!