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Well, I have gone through this whole thread and from my own point if view, the lady is not really a gold-digger. She took the phone and dumped the op the way she did for holding her down in a sexless relationship. She was tired of being made to act a good girl to please the op and going away with the phone was her way of punishing the op for wasting her bleeping time.
I don talk my own.

Equado:
If you had paid 4 it completely it woudnt be that painful...I say collect the phone and kill the b**ch while you're @ it

Modified.

greatmarshall:
Oboy... You know why I call you "oboy"? Na because Sey you never grow up... Your girlfriend dey mess for you Na im you come create thread for NL begin talk about am...? Believe me, you're not mature, and maybe you no even love this girl... Let me tell you something, a girl like that is an open minded type, such girl can never hide secrets from you...

True if she does it intentionally. But if it is something she is unable to control, then I don't agree with your opinion here.

Rapsainot:
I do appreciate virginity but I hate virgins

You spoke my mind.

All these stupid scammers don reach dis thread again? I wonder who really believe their cock and bull stories.

Justice629:
Yes I would

Be careful what you wish for.

But why were the residents calling Daily Trust rather than law enforcement agents?

Youngpo413:
go back to your ex,you dumped him thinking that all that glitters are gold,now you are regretting,just go and beg him...
Foooolish lady!

No need to beg him, just move on since your shakara don backfire.

This is the typical female hard-to-get bullshit. Guy, you are on the right track. Don't call or text her again until she initiates contact. If she doesn't, just move on. There are many fishes in the ocean.

You are the kind of woman most men dream to have as a wife. Forget your guy, he is not going to marry those crazy babes he hangs around with, he is only using them to catch fun. Pls be yourself but learn to be a bit more social.

I just can't believe a man can give a woman so much power over him. Imagine giving out all his passwords, including that to his phone or may be bank accounts! Them never born the woman wey go try that kind rubbish with me. It is women like the op that will easily cheat on their partners without looking back because they have them all wrapped around their fingers. God forbid.

You shouldn't have brought up the D word. Now, he has you on the defensive. First and foremeost, you have to apologize for that before you both can sit down to address the main issue which is his arrogance or egoisitic attitude.

I no dey close eyes ooo cos I no trust all these naija babes at all at all

pring:
Nigerians now have family pastors instead of a family doctor.

Epic!

These tips are more useful for getting ladies hooked rather than deceiving them. OP, thanks for sharing.

justmag:
hmmmm!! Nahhh...some beautiful girls are like aliens and are not from this world and u have to treat em differently

This is the exact reason why many guys struggle to get beautiful ladies to fall in love with them. Just like the poster here, they see beautiful ladies as aliens or some supernatural beings that are more superior to them and should be specially treated. You only treat a lady specially when she is already yours and even at that, you need to watch out for some red flags so she doesn't take you or your special treatment for granted.
To be successful with women, whether beautiful or not, let them see you as the price they have to win and not the other way round.

Op, you are very wrong. If you play your game well, a beautiful lady will fall in love with you. They are just like every other lady only that guys without experience tend to put them on a pedestal and see them as goddesses. They usually don't like that, relate with them the way you relate with the so called not-so-beautiful ladies, even show them you are hard-to-get if you can, and they will fall head over heels in love with you. This is from numerous personal experiences.

What a great thread by RedEboe! Even as a natural Don Juan, I still learnt one or two things from this veteran .

etunoman76:
“ I would want to affirm that if you my people ask me to lay down my life for the growth, sustenance and and stability of democracy and for the creation of Apa state, I will willingly do that.”

He whould go and die peacefully in his village. We Idoma people do not want him there again.

Iamfrank:
An old man once told me dat gals with fleshy lips have big t.o.t.o

True.

A lady once played hard to get with me and I played along like a mugu for months until I got her. And then I told her I only played along because I liked her and not because of her mind games and she was terribly upset at me. Then I told her to please calm down and stop all the drama because I knew a long time ago that she liked me. Anyway, I haven't set eyes on her since that last communication with her but I assured her that I will be waiting for her because I know she will come crawling back on her kneels.
Wetin concern me with "hard-to-get" ladies when there are 1001 waiting to hook up sincerely.

Update:
She came crawling back like I had predicted after 2months of no contact. Now we are dating on my own terms

This is real, everything is so neat and straighforward. Just got 2Gb a while ago and everything took less than 2mins from confirmation of payment to the eventual data transfer. The good thing is that the Op carries you along all through, there is no awkward moment whatsoever.
Kudos to the op.
Please be free to do business with him, he is very genuine.

Nigerian roads are safer without Police roadblocks. Quite a number of robbery cases on Nigerian highways have been traced to some policemen at roadblocks in the past. We do not need the roadblocks, motorized patrols are better.

Simply smile, walk away and never look back.

arsetalks: Good read. However about this this?

Na so we drag am till the iidiot took me to the police station, even answered my call after forcefully taking my phone and managed to make my now late fiancee scared before the DPO who I happen to know asked him to leave me.

May her soul rest in peace.

dein77: Good morning, Nairalanders

I probably shouldn't have pushed this topic forward on a Monday morning as this, but I felt constarined to do so.
I first met this babe when I relocated to PH from Lagos back in 2008. We became friends. ...just friends. ..I used to assist her financially and never intended to get anything in return. I derive joy when I assist people, especially babe. I later relocated to another community within that axis which means we still saw occasionally. I never stopped assisting her. A few months ago, I met her trekking along the road. I gave her transport fare; she thanked me but insisted I knew her place. I obliged. From her apartment and environment I knew she still never further help. I then fixed some basic things around the house and gave her some more money. My frequent visit led to our becoming pretty close. We became close. I asked her out and she accepted, but nothing sexual had really happened. I barely visited her without dropping some cash. Whenever I called to visit she was always expectant and would arrive home if she wasn't ahome. A few days ago, while with her, we got talking. She complained of having few clothes and when I asked how she would feel if I gave a certain amount, she said she would do with me what she hasn't done. She meant having sex with me. Since sending that cash, she's been avoiding me. All my calls have been unanswered. Was I wrong to have sent the money? Did she play a fast one on me? Did I hurt her ego? Did I insult her pride? Or does she think I want to sleep with her? Do I owe her an apology? Babes are countless in PH, plus being an oil worker, I can get a decent one pretty soon. Also i dont want to live with the fact i offended a lady when i could have avoided it.However I want want o know she's suddenly cold and disrespectful towards me. Ur answers and suggestions would be appreciated.

O boy, you are the last PH virgin! The girl don catch you mugu. Just ignore her and give her "radio silence" (i.e. no phone calls, sms, BBM chat, whatsapp, fb, etc and no visiting her place) for a few days or even weeks if she is the stubborn type and you will see her looking all over the place for you. Women respect men who treat them like sh.i.t.

tunwumi: We have educated illiterate in ph who claimed ebola is political here. He even came up with conspiracy theory that the Governor import the virus because of Jonathan rally.

Well this gives an easy avenue for the virus to spread in ph.

God help the helpless in this time of trouble as promised in your world.

Abeg na who be dat educated illiterate?

Ever since my wife started earning more than me, she keeps telling me she will give me her "final answer" whenever we have any little misunderstanding. I'm still wondering what that means.

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zeongeon: 1. Be SUCCESSFUL in what ever u are doing and have d aura of been a protector, provider and a leader..Women like succeSsful men.

2. Be a womanizer or have other girls around U that either call u, chat u up and hang out with U..Women seem to love u more and stick to u when they have to struggle to keep U.

3. Be very unpredictable..Women like it when ur unpredictable and when a man leaves them gueSsing giving them every reason to be inquisitive.

4. Don't hesitate to scold her or tell her off at any given time example are u mad? Young lady stop acting like a child and behave u age, don't u ever try that rubbish again, if I slap U, get out!!! Its non of ur business.

5. Love with an IRON FIST and treat her like a child.. Scold with the right hand and pull her back with left to show her love.

6. In anything u do with her ranging from sex to hanging out always live in her psychc that u are a combo of everything MAN eg ur her Father, Boss, Husband, Brother, President, Warrior and King.

7. Never u restrict urself when ur with her for example Fart in front of her make it LOUD, Change ur cloths in front of her, spank her ass and are boobs at random times and whe u feel like, Drink ur garri in front of her, play rough with her throw her about, swing her and scatter her hair, hug her when ur all sweaty even kiSs her when u haven't brushed ur mouth, don't go trying to arrange ur room cos she is coming over, let her see ur porn videos... Do these things I u will bring out the true nature of ur gurl, u will make her play on same leveled ground, no forming no deceit.

8. Don't be afraid to tell her the bitter truth, make decisions and stick to it... Example I can't buy that for U and I don't hv d money for such, ur hair/ dress is ugly, I am unemployed, I squat with a friend, I can't afford that restaurant.

Do the above and thank me later.

I like your comment except for the "Farting in front of her and make if LOUD" part.