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Family › Re: Pls,my Friend Needs Your Advice!!! by stan4b(op): 9:53am On Nov 23, 2013
chaircover: here we go again! What has virgin got to do with the matter at hand?

A husband of less than a year takes such a great decision behind your back and we are talking about virgin. He bought a whole company in Malawi, not a loaf of bread at Agege!!! Where was he when he was negotiating on the sale? were you not in his house and his bed every night? only to suddenly out of the blue tell you his decision.

A husband who knows that you are in your final year in school asks you to up and leave school. Has he found you a school in malawi? and will you be continuing from where you left off in Nigeria? Wont the stress of the move affect your studies on top of the pregnancy? Should he be even moving you now that you are 4 months pregnant?

Some marriages really make me "fearful" I tell you

Madam tell your friend to better put her foot down and finish her education . . .I dont know the man, but based on this story alone, She is going to have a long long bumpy ride with this one and although I dont pray for this, she may need that degree at some point to put food on her table, when the man shows his true colours.

I didnt comment on the should undergraduates marry . . .Its late, but my answer is NO NO NO! IMO a woman should be fully cooked in all areas before getting married, cos once you are married, its no longer Me me me but US! This thread is a good reason why one should at least have a first degree or workable skills before taking the plunge.
Bros,its as if u read humanology in school. She is going tru some stuff now,and am thinkin u r really right,she ll really need d degree,because d man is indeed still behaving funny,even after he bought d new company.
Family › Re: Pls,my Friend Needs Your Advice!!! by stan4b(op): 9:47am On Nov 23, 2013
Tanx u all. I told her u guys suggested she shouldn't leave her school. After much talking nd misunderstanding,d man has bought another company in Kaduna,nd he has agreed to allow her finish her school in Nigeria.
So,i guess he ll av to employ someone else to take care of d company in Malawi so he can now stay in Nigeria to manage d new company in kaduna.
Family › Re: Can You Marry,or Allow Your Child To Marry An Uneducated Person. by stan4b(op): 7:26pm On Nov 19, 2013
[quote author=Efemena_xy]Your mum, in her wisdom, is looking beyond the mere physical abilities of reading, writing and making intelligent conversations.

She's look much further and into the character and personality of the person. Basically, her mental capabilities. So for example, she's referring to:

~ An overtly superstitious person (e.g: someone who believes owning scented candles is a sure sign that you're a cult member / devil worshipper), or one who believes misfortunes are caused by people back in the village planning your 'downfall', rather than understanding the cause and effect relationship.

~ Someone with your average Nollywood mentality e.g: The man must foot all the household bills, feed and educate his wife's people, educate all her siblings and start up a business for every male member of her family.

~ Someone who believes ALL mother-in-laws are bad with evil intentions, without even making the effort to know / understand her inlaws.

These are a few examples of what I think your mother meant. Be wise and take heed.

Love get im own levels jare.[/quote]Well said
Family › Can You Marry,or Allow Your Child To Marry An Uneducated Person. by stan4b(op): 3:50pm On Nov 19, 2013
Recently,my mum called me and told me that,if I should bring an uneducated person to her as my wife,that she won't be happy.
According to my own understanding;
An uneducated person is someone that cant read,write,nd cant make a creative contribution to issues.
So,back to my question. Can u marry,or allow ur child to marry an uneducated person,whether he or she loves the person or not?
Nairaland General › Re: Beware, Scam Alert!!! by stan4b(m): 10:57pm On Nov 17, 2013
Ok
Education › Re: Your Favorite Quote by stan4b(op): 6:21pm On Nov 17, 2013
chris viral: Mind you fucking business and keep your ideas of a fun week to yourself :p author: ME
Bros,abeg take am easy. Nobody force u enter d thread.
Education › Re: Your Favorite Quote by stan4b(op): 4:47pm On Nov 17, 2013
Mine is;
The weak can never forgive: Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. Mahatma Gandhi.
Education › Your Favorite Quote by stan4b(op):
Hi friends,its a api new week.
I ll like us to start our week wit fun. So,lets drop our favorite quote,nd if possible,lets drop d author of d quote.
Christianity Etc › Re: GENESIS Chapter 3(who Should We Blame For Our Suffering Now ADAM,EVE Or SERPENT) by stan4b(m):
I tink God already knew dey will eat d fruit. Just as he already knew Judas will betray Jesus.
Christianity Etc › Re: Christians Won't U Stop Worshiping A Metaphorical Son? by stan4b(m): 2:04am On Nov 16, 2013
All I know is,Jesus is a Son of God.

I want u guys to make a deduction for me pls.
The Children of God,are Gods.
Jesus Christ is a Son of God.

Then is Jesus a God or Not.
Computers › Re: HELP: How To Connect Two Wans Both With Public Ips To One Router? by stan4b(m): 2:25pm On Nov 15, 2013
Av u tot about VLAN?
Nairaland General › Re: Things You Need To Know About Coca-cola by stan4b(m): 10:07am On Nov 13, 2013
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Business › Re: Couple Celebrates Their Wedding With Severed Bleeding Head Cake by stan4b(m): 10:43am On Oct 29, 2013
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Politics › Re: FG To Reintroduce Toll Gates Over Bad Roads by stan4b(m): 3:13pm On Oct 28, 2013
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Properties › Re: Should A Man Live In A House Built By His Wife? by stan4b(m):
If my wife will put my name as d owner of d house,den dere is no p.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Teenager Commits Suicide After Parents Banned Her From Facebook by stan4b(m):
I blame d parents. U don't just stop a child from doing wot she enjoys doing,d same way u can't just wake up one morning nd tell a drunkard to stop drinking. If d drunkard drinks 7 bottles in a day,u advice him to reduce it to 3,d next week,u tell him to reduce it to one bottle,den d next month,u ll see him just taking it like once in a month. But,am not talking about anything spirituality or immediate sickness. So,just like d example of d drunkard. If d girl usually stay for more Dan 7hours on fb,d parents should av just told dere daughter to reduce her fb time to like two hours in d first week,den as time goes by,she ll reduce it to 30mins per day. Rip to her.
Family › Re: Is Cheating Normal For Men? by stan4b(m): 3:11pm On Oct 28, 2013
Cheating is common among men nd women,it just depends on how smart d man or woman is.
Politics › Re: Mike Akhigbe Is Not Dead. by stan4b(m): 3:10pm On Oct 28, 2013
Dey should just b prayerful,cos he's not even ok yet. I pray God grant him quick recovery.
Education › Re: How Do Schools Help Children With Attention Problems (ADD) by stan4b(m): 2:24pm On Oct 26, 2013
B ready for a private school den,else,if u put him in a public school,dey will flog him to his right senses.
TV/Movies › Re: Nominate A Film For A Chance To Win N1M by stan4b(m): 2:22pm On Oct 26, 2013
I was here.
Music/Radio › Re: Wizkid - On Top Your Matter by stan4b(m): 10:04am On Oct 26, 2013
Its not bad,but I can't download his songs,his songs r somehow childish to me.
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastors & Imams Come To Consult Ifa – Ifayemi Elebuibon by stan4b(m): 9:57am On Oct 26, 2013
Av heard,but I don't believe wot he said about IFA being bad or not.
Health › Re: Life After A CS Delivery Is So Challenging? by stan4b(m): 9:57am On Oct 26, 2013
I tink its normal,even wen i av a small wound in my body,it itches sometimes,not to talk of u going tru a CS operation. Just b strong for d little angel u just brought to dis world.
TV/Movies › Re: Gulder Ultimate Search Vs Big Brother Africa. by stan4b(m): 1:17am On Oct 26, 2013
Oluwalala: The question isn't which one is child friendly! The question is which is more interesting!!! Read and understand
I tink u should b d one to go back nd read d post well. D op said "which one do u prefer",not "which one is more interesting".
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage And TeeBillz Interviewed At BBC Africa Studio by stan4b(m): 11:11pm On Oct 25, 2013
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Science/Technology › Re: Scientists Find Gold Particles On Eucalyptus Plants In Australia by stan4b(m): 6:34pm On Oct 25, 2013
I tink i should start making plans to travel to d village,may b i ll find d tree dere. As of dis moment,i know d trees in lag r already occupied.
Politics › Re: 24-hour Curfew Imposed In Yobe by stan4b(m): 12:35pm On Oct 25, 2013
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TV/Movies › Re: Gulder Ultimate Search Vs Big Brother Africa. by stan4b(m):
I ll take Gulder ultimate search,cos Big Brother Africa is not something I can allow my child to watch.
I actually made first to comment,wit more Dan 10 likes. This is worth celebrating.
Romance › Re: Secrets That Can Destroy Your Relationship? by stan4b(m): 11:20pm On Oct 24, 2013
Don't know wot to say.
Anyways,its nice being on FP again.
Career › Re: How To Learn A New Skill In 20 Hours by stan4b(m): 4:02pm On Oct 24, 2013
I tink av gotten a new way to cram well b4 exam.

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