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grimandevil:
planmaker my guy abeg let her b .dont spread the video just delete them and free her. i know is not easy but believe me is the best thing to do. i have been in a deeper mess dan u. to show u r a real man let it be. abeg just let d idiotic babe go. play maturity.

I agree with u bro...we all have heard our own cupz of xperience from this bitches buh in times like this I belive maturity remains the sure way to take...she doesn't deserve u...she acknowledged how gre8 of a Man u are here..so still remain that great guy she tagged u to be...call he for a meeting speak up ur mind to her...delete all those videos..wish her well and walk away...I bet u..she will be left to be judged by her conscience....if God should punish us this way according to our daily sin, I don't think a single soul will still be alive on this planet...even in the scriptures if u are a christian u'll agree with me on the event of the adulterous woman...Jesus said 'Let him that have no sin be the first to cast the stone' of all of em that wished the woman dead...none was innocent enough to crucify her....so plan maker my guy...just tamper justice with mercy....I belive she v learnt her lessons....hailing u from my zone...

izaray:
Ok, hope u are not regretting d chance u missed used on her den?

Lol...I reserve my comment here oo!

KELVINXY:
Oh really?
And u kept it to urself since then
Why sharing it now?

Actually forgot abt it...buh I jst recalled today and decided to share with my friends here.

yuncka:
Sorry, I can't be in Ur shoes. Ur shoes is too weird for me.

Lol..ok sire!

izaray:
Hmm, am disputing dat, guy are u sure of wat you are saying?

Lol..what proof do u need? Just recalled the xperience today smiled and thought I should share t here!

izaray:
How old are you ?

Lol..funny question buh i'll give u an answer..am old enough to get married now! Are u contented ?

ronald4lif:
I am trying too hard in restraining myself not to use foul words on you and I hope I achieve this. Without mincing words you destroy your relationship, you unbeknown or ignorantly drove your man away and shut the door on him. I mean who tell their potential spouse such things about their past? Everyone has that thing that we may never want our prince/princess charming to know about us. It was completely irrelevant to tell, there was no pressure whatsoever to do so. I mean men marry non-virgins everyday and never cared who and who they had f*cked, if the brides keeps telling their suitors who they had f*cked many weddings will be called off. Its nothing to do with you f*cking married men, his reaction would have been same even if you had told him there were your fellow students you flirted with. Men knows chances are high that their women may have had a dirty past but would rather not hear about it, once they know it never gets off their mind especially when making love to her. My advice to you is not to bother him, whichever decision he takes is what you deserve. But just so you know be ready to always have him rub it on your face the rest of your life at any given little misunderstanding, that's if he goes ahead with the wedding plans. I am sorry no sympathy for you. An igbo adage says ife onye ara melu onwe ya kariri ife omelu ummune ya which translates as what a mad fellow does to himself its worst than whatever he does (shame wise) to his relatives. I am not in any way referring to you as being mad but your actions was a mad stuff. All the best anyways!

I agree so much with this my brother..dear every one have got flaws....it's only God that we owe such apology and not man cos u know y? Man can never understand like God...Man will never forgive like God...Man will always xhibit those characters and qualities that makes him a Man..I will even advice you never to go ahead with marrying him even if he later comes back to propose...psychologically it will be a hale kind of marriage for you and u know...marriage is never a relationship...it's for better and for worse...he will always make reference to ur past if u eventually do marry him...he will h8 u @ a certain point...the law of diminishing returns will take over him and he will tend to h8 everything abt u..I think the best thing should be to wish him well and move on with ur life...get more close to God and understand him better...he 'll definitely locate u with ur supposed. Man..goodluck!

We attended the same church then..and we where both in the choir.
A lot of odd things as we all know where going on among the youths then in church bt I have a different orientation once am in God's presence..and beside I had my reputation to protect..not as though I was a saint bt that's jst how I live my life.
She was a very pretty girl..and she was so much into me then. she sort means through my sisters to get close to me, we finally became friends bt when I saw the direction the friendship was heading to..i had to withdraw back.
on one of the occasions, she came to my house and as I was seeing her off she turned weird and was asking me to kiss her when I refused and turned to leave she landed a very heavy slap on me...@ first I wanted to retaliate bt I had my senses bk and just left..later that 9t she kept on begging that she didn't know what got over her...I told no person up till now and I cut every relationship I had with her.

If u where in my shoes, what would u have done?

Mprex:
sorry dear. Thats life for you. The ones we love most actually hurt us the most. I hope you forgave him and moved on with your life

Sure I did...left every other thing in the hands of God..

It's something I pray never to xperience again.

My best friend from secondary school to the university who was also my room mate while we where in school...betrayed m.

It got to a point where I started seeing him like a brother...I will never do anything to hurt him even if I unintentionally do it and later get to find out...I often find means to make amends... I was really shocked and surprised...he went behind my back to castigate me and said a lot of false things against me....it was really a painful xperience...had it been twas sm other person that said those things..it wouldn't have bothered me bt of all persons...twas sm1 I saw as a brother considering everything I did for him...each time I recall that betrayal...I jst h8 myself for trusting so much...but such is life...the more we leav the more we learn!

Happy birthday bro...WLLNP!

That's one problem Africans; xpecially 9jeria to be specific have.

Many are in school because every other person has been to school..there's no more purpose or an aim..every person jst want to be around the corridors of a university with no defined interest that's why people don't even kia about the couse of study that they have been offered to study provided they r students of the university it's ok with em.

Bt here ur man has defined himself..he v gat potentials...he jst need a little time to xplode what is in him...had it been u came here and told us that he's an O'level holder and he's idling away, it would have been a different ball game...buh he's committed and hardworking...jst b patient with him, love him for who he is, stand by him and pray for him...u'll be surprised @ who he will turn out to be in the future..goodluck!

Footsoldier:
A man is single until he's married. Right now I'm proudly single. If my gf or prospective gf says yes then I'm married.

And what if they all say "NO" ??

Tymax:
Fa fa fa, FOUL! Na lie. In fact, it gets easier.

Tell em brother!

jnrbayano:
I think we should have a club here.

Who will chair it?

9c idea!

joe17:
Oga sir. Guys are usually single just before/during the festive periods--like Christmas.hehehehe

Lol...r u also a proudly virgin?

A friend of mine jst called it quits with his girl this morning cos the girl was becoming too desperate and my guy doesn't have her in his marriage picture
So I want to find out from my fellow Nairalanders here...whats ur motive of being in a relationship? Is it for marriage sake? Or jst for the sake of the moment and to catch fun?

firstEVA:
can you remind me what the question is again?

Not is...correct urself!

marieolae:
I don't want to fall in d first place

Sorry..buh I made reference to whah u said initially...thankgod u won't fall again!

marieolae:
Who wants to drive bicycle on dis naija road. U go fall inside pothole mtchew

Lol...if u fall ur love will stop his own bike and pik u up...that's true love in practice...Dnt u know?

firstEVA:
Isn't that Solange?

Free who's that and answer the question!

Medunah:
I dont even knw how to ride a bicycle

Ur hubby will teach u nah...that's perfect love u knw!

FLAWLES:
Take it or lv it..........My wedding ll be a simple 1...........Rice abi chicken will ntt b shared...no canopy...in a pavilion or open field..ion need multitude...hehehehe(den family go hold meeting 4my head)

9c1 dear...hope u'll be riding on a bicycle that day as well?

How many Nigerian girls will do dis kind of wedding?

#FACT..Majority of em are after money...not some!

Bro it's a pity...if I where you; I would just leav the house...it's obvious that he does not love u nor want you rather he just wants to frustrate you..but committing suicide is never the best means to prove him wrong...be a man..its a challenge, face it squarely...make something out of ur life...and future..he will definitely crawl begging tomorrow...that's hw it's designed....so find a means...since u still got a mum that kia...let her know with good reasons why u Shld leav the house of most important should be that he might kill or even poison u smday based on how he is going..once she accepts to provide u with the accomodation...leav the house...focus on your studies...reach for ur dreams and achieve em with God's grace u will definitely turn out a victor...Goodluck!

chymystique:
u r stil wondering why?? .. Ve u forgotten u said you sell designers stuffs. Sooooo you know that kin things gals like materially .. Lol.. Am just guessing not sure cause am not in the gal's mind.. Hehe

Hmmmm...I never said that I sold designers stuffs oo! Pls go back to the post and read through the lines!

kirikiristars:
@Op, don't be too sure she left because of the ride. Maybe she has been looking for a way to discharge you and when the opportunity came she grabbed it or she might be using you to while away time until her friends come along.

Lol...mayb u are right mayb u are not...but the question now is..why is she still bugging me with calls and txt msgz?

MrCork:
....ok...so u came to share rejection on nairaland simply becuz babe ignore u.. And then u expet females on nairaland to take u serrrious?


..bro noofense but am goin bak to bed...laters!

*silence*

Dear r u really sure sure it's love? This is one question u need to get right...most times love is confused with so many things....buh in the reality it takes God's grace and patience to decipher real love though it's rare in this times buh I know it's still in existence..

As a guy..if the truth must be said as it is, the fact is that the guy u are falling all over for is jst catching fun with u..and still have the interest of the other girl @ h@ and mayb several other ladies...

So my advice is, since u admire him a lot...u can keep up with him just for fun sake but don't get committed cos @ the end he will definitely break ur h@!

Cholls:
my brother what r u saying Can even comprehend

u'll comprehend when u grow!

chymystique:
Like seriously @ the bolded word?.. People will keep using words they dunnoo the meaning.. Am tryna connect the word with the gals's attitude but Its jst not possible.


Anyways @ ur post, sorry shiiiit happens! Lol.. But seriously, guys don suffer oo..

What's this one saying?...Ooooh! am sorry ma..i forgot that there where many English aunties here buh it's not yet time for English class...i'll inform u once it's ur period! Buh for now if u have any reasonable thing to say aside from the one u said b4...u still have a chance!