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tayoxx: if I die she'll only morn me for 1 week den move on....I'll only die for her if she'll morn me for the rest of her live....when I mean morn I mean serious one o....she go dey wear black everyday....she go dey cry always....no man go near her...she go remain single till she die....if she can do all this I swear i'm ready to die for her over and over again

Lol..maybe you will give her that one as a rule and once she goes against it...u will reincarnate as a spirit and come and teach her a lesson!

marann: Pls o let me ask a question wats is care hw can u show care to ur boy/galfrnd

Care is when u show concern over sm1 u claim to be in agreement with, u share his problems, u share his good times; if there is an imbalance in any of the above, then it's no care!

I once dated a girl that really talked a lot about love, but never showed care and would always want me to feed her with a lot of money after several talks to her and I found no improvement...I ran for my life!

Elkewwty:

Its a NO

But you prophess love to him? That means love doesn't exist here, or we are yet to really understand the true meaning of love!

Liamm: why I go die 4 her? Na me bring her into this world?

But you prophess love for her?

Neldrizzy: i nor go lie, i no feet die for her, but i promise 2 stay alive for her..... If i die for her who will continue loving her ?

Lol...and if she dies, what will be ur xplanatio? is that not infidelity? If u truelly believe in love, why not make that sacrifice for her!!

For those in the house of love, to the best of my knowledge, I understand that true love is all about sacrifice.

I always admire one song by Celine dion.."my h@ will go on" where jack died for rose..and I believe that's love in the actual sense..so I want to know what's your own measure of love for your boo? Can you die for your man/woman? As for me 'NO' is the answer, reason cos from past xperience, I do not believe in love any more!

I used to love..until I was thought otherwise from experience..

That's ladies culture, where I come from, there are so many ladies there and it's a normal thing for em..

It's like a norm now in our present society...was hanging out yesterday with my colleague in a fast food yesterday, saw this old man with two young girls playing love...I told my friend omo ehhh...girls get mind oo! how can this girls be hanging out comfortably with a man that can give birth to them...I tagged it child abuse...my guy said it's the power of cheddarz!

Hbd Sir, Wllnp

It's true you are young but it's better you voiced out your feelings on time, @ least u know that homosexuality is evil and you also know that God h8s it.

Bro, this is my advice..find yourself a girlfriend..even if you do not have sex @ the moment with her...I believe with time as u get more close and acquainted with her you will learn to free those other feelings you exhibit towards your fellow men.

Early indulgence into sex I believe will not even bring a lasting solution to the problem cos your mind is tender..its a youthful stage and u are in for so many adventure...there's more to homosexuality..it has spiritual attachments which an ordinary fellow might not understand, so on this note I advice you to be more prayerful..you can talk to your mum or your dad about it and if you are also close to your pastor you can as well discuss the situation with him..with their combined efforts they will be able to redirect your feelings right! God's grace!

U have already made up your mind, so you just go ahead and make your decision known to her, it will only hurt her for a while that's if she truelly cares oo! But with time she will learn to adapt and that will give her the opportunity to seek for a replacement..all the best. Bro!

My opinion...dear it's not a crime and it will never be after all what a man can do the saying goes that a woman can do that better..buh I think the issue is from our own side of the world...the guy may see it as a joke, u know why? Cos u are pretty and that's a rare thing from this side of the globe too..buh let it not weaken ur zeal for ur choice...go for whatever that will make u happy and be happy ok!

HBD dear..WLLNP!

Bro I think you just have a mind problem...locate any marriage councillor/psychologist, there must be a reason for your recent developed altitude..tell them everything I believe they can help you fix the problem, if after then you still don't have the vibes as u used to..then I advice you quit cos it's better that making her pass through hail when u finally get married to her..goodluck#

Dear it's quite unfortunate, but if I should say the truth..i must tell u that your mum is not actually playing her roles as a good mother no matter what the Explanation might be, let's put it this way..if you where to be the other lady and the guy happens to have put u in the family way, even if not legally married..would you advise him to let u b and go for another maiden?

My own opinion is that u let the guy be and rather than break his home try and help him to fix his home..there are many single guys out there..and I believe u can get yourself one @ your own appointed time..dnt force it!