egopersonified:
op, just forgive her and ask her to be yr gf, then get a second car while she treks, thank me later.

Lol..buh that's a waste of resources for that kind of a girl with a selfish mindset...she's really pretty in the outside...buh that altitude scored her a big F for me and that's how most of this young girls loose out to opportunities! Maybe someday I pray she meets me while on my ride...and then she would be forced to come back to reality...all that glitters ain't gold my dear!

MrCork:



...ok,so becuz babe ignore u,it means she egocentric?...my brother...serrriously,truthfullly plus honestly....u need yor head re-examine by a qualified witch doctor.

....is it a crime to step up yor swag if females ignore u? ( noo ofennse)

Oga what's ur own? I only felt like sharing my encounter with matured minds here and not ur kinds...and besides it's not mandatory that u must comment here..come to talk of swag...hw sure are u that u have got it better than myself? Why not check tru my profile and confirm for urself...nxt tym if u have no reasonable thing to say...Pls stay off my posts cos it ain't meant for every person.

Some girls are really very ridiculous and would never cease to amaze me..

I met the girl in my designers shop and liked her..she's pretty any way! Gradually we started getting close to each other...

Recently I took her out to a spot I often take my lunch around my zone...while we where there, her friend walked in with a guy in the same spot that we where coincidentally, the guy drove an rx330 car! immediately this girl saw her friend with the guy her altitude changed...she started communicating with the friend both with eye contact and tru Im chats...I was jst calm observing her...nxt thing she told me she was leaving with her friend cos they where heading same direction with her.....i was marvelled...all the while that we have been there she never mentioned to me that she wanted to go oo! I didn't alter a word...I stood up..paid my bills and left with my friend.

The point is, the girl doesn't really know me that well to really decide wether I had a car or not since we jst met...my house was close by bt she was not aware...which was why I jst walked...I was wondering why should any reasonable girl in this times that a mechanic can even boast with a car still fall for those kinda stuffs..she v been pinging and calling me after the incident buh I already marked her off my lane.

So why are some girls this egocentric?

mployer:

I am not impressed
The cloth is not fine, neither the toilet. I see no class here.

Bro the whole thing is messed...buh it's the whooping cost that got me freaking..

zleemshaddy:
Abeg no be d same shi.t i dey shi.t be4 or her own be gold ni

lol....question for the gods!

Onlinebizexpert:
Money

bro this are people that v gat money; and they dont make noise about it ooo! imagine where they put it into? but here, our celebrities go buy one small ride em no go gree make we hear for em...

Cutehector4u:
Lol she too shit....

lol...exactly my thought..

its very possible, buh the chances of em getting married its often rare...most @ times the guys see it as an opportunity to flirt and take advantage of the ladies...the bad guys though..lol...u know ladies are easily triggered by what goes into their ears so this bad guys..A.K.A "BADOOS" often use the social network as a medium to unleash their potentials on a trial and error bases and most times they end up getting @ their desires which is the reason why almost all the social networks are flooded today.

but on a second note its really feasible; i think even here on Nairaland, i have witnessed testimonies of couples who started from here and ended up getting married. its a two way thing though..all depends on whom u fall victim to!

saw this on a blog and decided to share with us;

In what could be termed the most bizarre spending in history, Saudi dictatorial royal family, king, Abdullah ibn Abdulaziz spent $3,000,000 for his daughters wedding dress according to India Today, making her look like a walking pyramid on her wedding day.

The unnamed bride married a man who already has eleven wives on the side.

King Abdullah who is listed by forbes as a man who is worth 21 billion dollars also gave her daughter on her wedding day a toilet totally made of gold.

Of all the gifts that he could possibly give to her, with all his wealth, he gave her a toilet, although a golden one.

The report did not state the cost of the golden toilet, but it could be in millions which indeed is a peanut to the Saudi royal family.

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Women and money!

Bro that u guys are x's now doesn't mean u are enemies, up till now, am still friends with my x..when ever she have got issues she calls on me and we sort it out...we understood our differences and forgave each other...that's maturity, and she's still in touch with my family and friends as well so I don't think there's anything wrong if she's keeping in touch with em...its a small world bro..so act wise!

Bro don't make it seem as though u are just after the baby, let it be official, inform her that u have plans to marry her; and also let her know that u want your parents to go meet her parents over. The issue so she know how cerious u are, after then u can go on with the other arrangement of getting a house and placing her under good care till she puts to bed. Goodluck!

mesoade:
My parents never did such. .

Good to know bro, buh I believe u have ppl who encountered the picture I tried to paint out of this post, can u share with us?

Parents play most of the major crucial roles in the life of so many people while growing up.

My parents believed in democracy, they let you know good things and bad things and give u good reasons why you should always do those good things but they leave u to make the final decision.

In the other hand, while growing up, I had friends that where victims to harsh parents, they always get scared of their parents and tend to only be good while their parents where around but once their parents where off..they tend to do worse things that their parents can barely imagine.

I have also seen a situation where a pretty girl that was a victim of this kind of upbringing ended up getting pregnant and I have also seen so many of the guys into cultism..

so I decided to bring this here...what was ur growing up like? what category would you rate ur parents?? What where your experience? So far, how has the experience impacted to you? And what is your advice to parents/intending parents on this??

Normally it's supposed to be the guys but logically..its the ladies#

Hmmmm...what if what he wants to ask you is different from what you have got in mind? what if he wants to ask u for s*x...since you said he's shy maybe his shyness has not availed him the opportunity to do that..*my thoughts though*
I advice you just get free with him...make him understand that he can confide in you, don't propose to him...my believe though, it's not as though there's anything bad with it but African men and their mentality on this is bad...they will make u regret ur actions in the near future..

Bro I understand how u feel, its very painful xpeciAlly when u are innocent of the supposed offence.
This is what I do advice you do; set out a special time and invite your friend out on an outing..u can as well go the miles to invite the girl as well...pour out your h@ to them..tell him every truth you know and convince him the more by reconciling the both of em together...God forbid I loose a dear friend cos of a woman! Goodluck..

No matter what he tells u..just move, cos such event is likely to re-occur again in the near future...its termed the law of diminishing returns...u used scarcity to retrieve back you respect in his life but I don't see him as a matured fellow...so just move on!

I agree with point one...its a fact op..ride on!

Indeed..Africa is blessed.

Hollyb: God wil help us in this generation. Morals has really degenerated. You see people mocking those dat still manage to uphold their moral standards. Half unclothedness has now become the in thing now pple have forgotten that cloth was invented to cover our unclothedness and not to show it. Its only God dat can help us

True talk. Dear!

Bro...u get mind oo! am sorry if this is getting @ u, if u are a christian, I would like u to reflect back to the scriptures on this word that Jesus spoke; let him that has no sin be the first to cast the stone' no one could respond to this question, if u are a good bible reader u should know what they did...or u want me to tell u? ok...they all walked away!

Do u know that her likes are rare? How many times have u committed such offense or even one worse than that and told on it? If I where u, I will kneel down apologize to her and also make her the mother of my unborn kids

Imagine if men where to be God, where would we all have been?

Princessmel:

Very good advice, I shall relay this on to her. Thanks

In this case, if she's quite close with God, then I think the best thing to do should be to beckon on God...seek for a proof that shows he's the one! it's smhw..we are humans and not God..for 2yrs and he's still bent, sm1 that used to be a sex maniac before? nd u say it's ok? I doubt...a broken relationship is far better than a broken marriage...it do hurt for smtym bt that of marriage will last for a lifetym...so I suggest she get close to good men of God...find out the main thing from God with proof....then she's left to make her final decision...Goodluck to her!

krall: I never joined this forum because of romance section.
I just created this account for romance section. Just as you just created it for romance section.

Generalfedora

Lol...@Generalfedorah!

Welcome dear...hope u enjoy ur stay here..stay cool!

Lol..bros e don teh we de observe oo...nd if we keep on observing...tins go spoil finish ooh!

Hbd bro..wish u a blast!