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Jennydoris: Amen!

It's really disturbing and disheartening. That people especially women now dress without considering how they will be addressed when they are in the public. Women now dress in rags and they call it fashion.

Yes dear, and most of them keep having broken relationships and marriages, without knowing that they are the cause of their problems, cos most of the guys get seduced and head for the ladies making sure they get em and lay with em @ every cost and once they actualize there agenda they dump them and head for the nxt one.
Most ladies that dress decent, have had lasting affairs...am not saying it's a sure priority bt I think it's a major one!

[quote author=Rommello][/quote]Well said bro...

vizkiz: i aren't scared about the past nor present...i am scared about what the future is gonna be all about

But it's the present that will give rise to the future, I believe that if the present can be curtailed to an extent, maybe by God's grace..the future might just be lucky to be better!

A popular saying goes this way, 'dress the way you wish to be addressed'
But going by what is attainable in the present society, it keeps me wondering whether we won't be breeding full naked people in the near future..if you check through the lanes of history, you will agree with me that our father's and then mothers where blessed, their dressing alone portrayed respect and honour.
This has spread so wide even before the reign of the most popular virus in existence now. There's no exception, both in our so called religious grounds especially in our churches with no person to call any person to order;

If u speak, they 'll give u reasons, reminding you of the century where in now! The ladies walk half unclad or wearing things that reveal every contours of their body, which creates the wrong impression to every guy that comes around them. The guys are not even left out, sagging and showing off their panties; it doesn't make one a big boy or girl..'my thoughts though!
I think we really need to caution ourselves, most times we are the cause of our present problems, the way you dress really tells a lot about you even before you introduce your self.

So it got me wondering, and I had to reflect back to the past, the present and was now thinking what the future will hold in stock for us if things continue this way! But I belive God will help us all IJN..Amen!

Dear....if that Man's wife was to be ur mum, how will u feel to know ur dad is a cheat? If u where to be his wife how will u feel when u get to know ur hubby is a cheat?

There's a special course for any marriage breaker, go through ur bible u ll understand better and also try to learn from the lessons of others, many that went through that parth always had nursed regrets @ the end.

Lovely!

9c piece..more grease to ur elbow!

It's been a battle of the titans here..in conclusion you will agree with me that the two has their advantages and disadvantages..the faithful virgin guys will always be faithful and their affair, faithful virgins in the sense that most of the virgin guys arre not as happy as they seem but I think they have lacked an opportunity to actually unleash what's been in them.

On the second note the non virgins..i think are more fun to be with but also has its disadvantages, xpecially with the unmarried youths even the married men most times still xhibit those character, once u are disvirgined as a. Guy, u tend to sex any lady that comes ur parth..more among young folks that know nothing about self control.

I think the ball is now in the ladies court; which ever one that makes u happy...just do it nd be happy!

shachris03: Matured ladies don't do virgin boys. They are too inexperienced....it's up to them to answer tho. Just saw your moniker and i tot i should say hi.

Lol..u now answering like a lady..i sight u though!

shachris03: Stan Nwa aba. Ladies mostly prefer money. Virgin or not doesn't really matter.

Yes..to the guys, that's our general view for them though..but aside from that, I still believe some of em still got something for the virgin guys.

It's always been mostly all about virgin ladies here, most guys for reasons best known to them say they prefer non virgins to our virgin ladies while some others still prefer the virgins for their own good reasons too.

so I want to find out from our ladies here, do you enjoy or would you like to get married to a virgin guy? If yes, state your reasons!

IBOGIRL1: Scaaaaaaaaaaaam!!!

Lol, baby what's scam? I can't b what I don't even know the meaning.

It's a no for me...I uphold my friends to a very high esteem and I know very much that once such scenario arise...it will definitely cause a problem..if not @ the moment..in the future, and it 'll be a shame for a woman to cause problem between I and my hommie so I think the best thing is to stay off the girl.

OF recent I was faced with this kind of issue, a girl my paddy was so much into but the girl never gave him attention started flirting around me but I had to distance my self from her cos I know my guy will definitely not be happy when he finally gets to find out.

IBOGIRL1: No jhoor,i need pictures here. Ah no wan use fear agree...lol..

Baby I no fit lie for fine girl like u nah...I tell u say the sight de burn camera and that's just the truth and nothing but the truth..even if I lie to every other person...trust me I can never lie to u...

IBOGIRL1: One last proove,lemme c pictures of d hair beneath,d one dat guards ur jeruselem or adonbelivit!! Dat wud bd last confamento and mind u,it must b as thick as sambisa. I repeat,as thick as sambisa and we game.

Sambisa de learn sef baby I swear..seeing is beliveing...d sight alone de burn camera sef, the only way for further proof will. Be for you to come and see it yourself and I assure u...u will have no regret to nurse..

IBOGIRL1: I actually like it when a man's hairy especially when d chest is heavily matted wit hairs. Isnt a cushion for a weary head?? An excellent absorber for those teary nights when all u want to do is just crrrrrrry!!! And an excellent tickle agent for one of those Days u just want to laff laff and laff. Who says i dont like dem hairy,i sure do. Its absolutely a tin i like to look out for.

Baby am hairy o! Just like u like em..U care to lemme in?

Most times u might end up not getting those exceptional qualities u really desire in a lady...but on a second note I see em as a fertile ground of which you can always redefine them to your taste once u are giving the opportunity..make out what you want out of her nd u wouldn't have to look out anymore.

That's the more reason why it's good to educate them on issues like this on time..feel free with them...let them know the dangers they might be faced with once they indulge into it @ the wrong time..feel free with them so they can also be free to ask u lots of questions relating to stuffz like this.

Most parents will feel that hiding such stuffs away from their children will make them a better parents but that's not true...ur sharing it with them on time will enable them to handle it better once the situation tends to occur in future. #myopinion

Definitely am making that list by The grace of God soonest! Amen..

texaco1: This doesn't make any sense. There are countries and many arms dealers that will sell arms to nigeria without the approval of the americans. If this deal was between sa government and the fg,why do they need to pay in cash? A simple bank transfer would have prevented all these problems .why carry cash from nigeria is a private charter flight to sa without any single govt representative to purchase arms for nigeria and without even notifying the sa goovt of your arrival if truly they are waiting and expecting you

They see us as fools nah...they gabbage in whatsoever they feel is wise from their side and expect us to accept it...imagine the flimsy excuse? who said the arm dealer cannot even come to Nigeria here make the deliveries and then be paid here if that is the case? What happened to online transfers? Abi America stop that one too ni? I thought this people should have learnt from their predecessors, of all countries, why should it be SA that is as corrupt as we are that the arms should come from? Lol...I de laff!

There are several questions they need to answer! I thought they will be smart here, they would have denied the jet entirely so the leased company (according to Mr. CAN president) would be held responsible for whatsoever act that they where smuggling out such an amount of money for.

Now they have involved themselves...and expecting foolz to believe on this flimsy excuse?? I wish America will take this up and unveil the actual purpose of that fund cos I trust my country men....they ain't telling us what we need to hear...by now they should have known that we have outgrown all this their old tricks so I advice they stop playing on our intelligence and grow up!

evegran: Op one will feel if you're gonna be asking this kinda questions you should have your pic up or wait, you're fair? LoL! Anyway, I prefer a man based on his personality not his looks. I'm more into personality so looks don't get me, oh I'm not saying look like the beast tho.

This are the kinda ladies we asking God to produce the more for us to make em our wives, ladies that have got values, ladies that understand reality...looks fade...personality leaves even after our yrz here...#myopinionthough

@op, why is it that ladies enjoy lies so much? They h8 to hear the truth...nd when you tell them the truth...it seems u have committed a crime buh once you feed them on false things they tend to believe you immediately, why is it so??

Babe leave ur cousin out of this...it ain't advisable but you can hook up with me let's see how it goes!

Betrayal..

What a world...he could make a whole lot of 2 kids with her, and he still doesn't like her Enof for marriage..and you think he won't make 2 or even more kids with you and still move to the next lady? dear be wise!

malaria: Am not jesus christ abeg

Lol...but you prophess love to him abi? what's the extent your love for him can take you?

softsparkyy: What do we mean by dying for love?
Only then can I answer.

Dear read through my post again, u will understand what I mean!

It's called scanning!

Dannylux: I can kill for the woman but not die for her. How would I prove anything when I'm a corpse? she'd probably start shagging another nigga immediately after my demise so it's a NO for me.

You are really thinking big bro!

destante: Okay don't get me wrong. Don't confuse agape with Eros. Gods love for us is unmatchable, entirely spiritual and divine. Eros on the other hand is physical and with much emotion. I agree it involves sacrifice but be honest, it will hardly get to sacrificing ones life. Eros is supposed to be requited, for both to enjoy. It comes to nothing if one half isn't there no more to relish the love that they have for the person they putatively died for. That's the unreasonableness.

Now I agree with u! This was why I put it to those in the love family nd not my likes!

DollyParton1: When they say true love is sacrificing, it doesn't mean giving your life up for someone. But it simply means giving up things that are not easy to give up, because of someone or doing things that is very hard because u love someone. Giving up ur comfort to make the other comfortable. Giving up dreams for the other person (not advisable, but people do it sha).

Who in their right senses would expect someone they love and loves them truly to die for them? What do I do with my life after my true love dies for me.

Dear I was thinking that when u let out those ur most desired comfort invariably when u relate it with sacrifice it should be death nah!

For instance, am supposed to go to school and I know I love my lady so much and she also desires to go to school buh the finance is not in abundance to support the two...in a scenario where the lady's parents ain't all that handy...then I gave up my studies for her so I could support her! is that not death to my future?

Can you do that to a man you claim to love? Since you won't die a physical death for him?

destante: I think dying for a partner is just a deliberate hyperbolic cliché to show the intense of affection. Though we always have the weird outliers, no reasonable human would do this for a partner.

Reasonable how? What's your own definition of love? Our problem here is that many people who do love fail to understand the roots of love! Some one who truelly understands love knows very much that it's all about sacrifice;

Sacrifice here doesn't mean only death, some ppl can give up their future, their kidney and several other painful acts just for a partner they truelly love and care for, that's those that really know what love is, Jesus dide for our sins cos he loved us...nd that's love too! will u also tag him or God unreasonable? Am just curious and need to know!