Dhotseal:


MR and MRS...that's the name of the movie. But then, na movie o, not real life situation.

Don't really kno..buh if it's the movie am talking about, then she will really learn a lot from the movie!

I think u are making him feel relevant 2 much...why not try this formular: concentrate on urself...take very good care of urself nd ur kids...wear a new look like a fullfilled woman...always put up a smile...don't give him attention like b4 anymore...u only owe him greetings and mayb serve his food that's if he eats ur food..keep on like this...u will kill him psycholgically...forget how stunch he might be forming now..his conscience will definitely judge him. would have adviced yu to watch one naija movie like that buh I can't recall the name buh if mssg made any impac u can pm me so I search for the movie title, I believe it will really help u a lot. All d best!

Adesuyi07:
am very disappointed that some of d pple that commented above didn't read nor understand d response of d woman. if it was properly assigned to him and she has prove of allocation due to d monetisation policy , I think Wike or what he calls himself is v wrong on this. A simple letter like d woman said should've been written.

What do u xpect? When the governor in subject is a thug! Even the bible is aware of this...when the wicked is on the throne, this is exactly what you get...
Instead of him to focus now and continue with the good works Amaechi had commenced already..he is busy fighting unjust and unnecessary fights...four yrz will soon reach and I just pray he doesn't take rivers ppl back to square one...it's very crystal clear...he's not a leader...he behaves more like a tout or better still a thug!

HBD sir...WLLNP!

HBD bro...WLLNP!

Deefuray:
Some women get mind oooo

No be some...na all of em, if urs is yet to manifest just give it a little time..u'll confirm for yourself...even u will be surprised @ urself..all the same God una shaa...

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Don't u have brothers? The guy needs to be taught some good lessons even before u quit his silly azz! I so much h8 guys that beat women..there better ways to sort out ladies than beating em!
On a second note, the best thing u would do for ur self to avoid much regrets tomorrow is to end the affair immediately, God does not give people this kind of gifts, he can never make u cry..i believe this is jst a tip of an iceberg of what u'll encounter if u eventually marry him so it's now left for u to make ur own choice...and remember that u are the one that is going to marry the man and not ur mum..so u alone has the final decision to make....goodluck!

emusmith:


Your opinion is cool. Thanks. We are two different peeps...

9c response..thats the issue..rather than learn from the issue @ hand..they r talking about threads..SMH

Well done bro..u just made my own day!

enkay4love:
U're so on point @ Poster.

Thanks dear..

wizman11:
kkea tanks i tink wat i need is morale boost

Lol...u are d moral boost that u need.

wizman11:
tanks bro but there is a problem am dangerously shy

That's not a problem bro, I think it has a solution; first u need to work on urself bro..i used to be that way..but @ a time I had a meeting with myself...talking to this ladies won't kill...neither will it hurt me...
So I summoned courage, started socialising and before u know I was good...just free urself..socialize, get good books that will encourage u the more..before u know it..u will be free from that stage...wish u al the best bro!

samflexxy:
don't believe in love, at least for now

Ok.

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speechless

Lol..does that tell that ur past xperience has made u speechless? Uptill now?

samflexxy:
Op you're not on point

It's my opinion bro...and I believe am entitled to it, what's ur reason? Let's hear u out..

justscorch:



Marriage no be do or die affair abeg Africans with this marry by all means mentality, if she like make she act mojo persin wen wan marry her go marry her.she looks happy that's what is important, do u too bro n stop castigating

who am I to castigate her? Am not God bro and have no right of condemnation...all I said where mare reality...it's not all about getting married...it's more about staying married; and the altitude won't even stop her from getting married cos their lots of men who will deceive her to marriage jst to taste a piece of her; just like her first marriage...if u really understand love...I don't see a reason why the husband should leav her, no matter what the case might be if there was really any iota of love in existence I doubt if her initial marriage would have crashed.
Take a look @ some other celebrities that have managed to maintain their marriage for this long...u 'll admit that it took em a lot of discipline to really get through...
So pls don't get me wrong...all I was trying to point out is that she should discipline herself...the way u dress..determines how u'll be addressed and also create an impression where every other person is...even in the sight of our dear God..

wizman11:
my first experience was rough so have kept my feelings behind closes doors

Sure bro...just like I acknowledged that fact in my write up, and to be frank with you..I nursed same idea for a very long time..but after much consideration..i had to admit..no matter what...@ some point we all need love..this is a new yr! if u ask me...I will encourage u to give it another try...but first...try and be the best of u...cos u only attract ur like...back it up with prayers...am certain that u'll meet the one that truelly deserve your h@..goodluck

I used to think she was decent, even in the kind of roles she interpreted, not untill I started seeing all this kinda slutty displays...and she still hope to find a man that will marry her and treat her right? they will always see and treat her the person she's portraying herself to be..i pray she finds out on time and make amends though.
we are africans that have got our culture, we must not emulate everything from this whites!

It's something that we all need; though I kno that rough xperience might have pushed lots away from this reality...
I have come to a reality that we only attract our kinds and 2 a conclusion that if we could leave our life styles right..we will avail ourselves the opportunity to meet and also know those that really deserves us!

My thoughts though, what's ur take on this?

emusmith:


I perfectly understand your point. It's not like it's easy... He will help us...

Amen.

in as much as I acknowledge this points as facts which really calls for a change...I also think it should be reciprocated.

We r all humans and not Jesus Christ and therefore @ certain times xhibit those traits of humans...but in as much as we 'll try to emulate these good qualities and try our best to change by the special grace of God...I also urge the ladies to be reasonable in their deeds.

Most @ tyms..it is the altitude of these ladies that brings about most of this reactions from men...but I pray that God 'll help us all this new year IJN... Amen..

kuzee:

you till dnt me,first of all,do you till have any feelings for her,as in do you till love her?

No bro...never had any for her...only felt smtin for the other lady that's married now!

Congrats bro

Very pathetic story I must say...
To a point..i will blame the young lady in question..if u ask me..i do tell u that u where pushed to marry him cos of the fact that u have seen his financial status..

Forget the story u jst told us..how can u jst go into marriage out of pity? For a man of that age? Will u tell me that u do not have any serious date which u where building before u came in contact again with him? Lol..ladies and their blind act of desperation!

So u only got to find out from a colleague in same office oo after ur predicament? Where they not aware of d marriage before the marriage proper? Or was it a ghost marriage? U only got to find out after getting married,had issues and started facing challenges bah?
This is what I can deduct from the whole scenario; the man has been married for a long time but has been unable to give birth to an issue...he agreed with the wife for that alternative..since they where getting old...buh as God will have it..and to ur own disadvantage...the wife took in the same period with u...in summary...the wife has a boy and a girl why u have jst girls...and as human. that he is...he got back to his wife..9os he really loves her very much...I believe twas even the wife that persuaded him to take that option...if u ask me..

Advice: every lady should learn from this episode...patience always pays out well..never be in a haste to reap where u did not sow..
Where I come from marriage is for better for worse...so I do advice you find something doing...overlook him and his altitude..make money and take good care of ur children first...then get more close to God...but first ask him to forgive u for the sin of ignorance...then u can also ask him to bring love to his h@ so he can love u nd ur children equally...he's a just God...I believe he will do justice to ur case..
If u believe in divorce..u can still go for that but do not blame any body for ur misfortune....even ur ppl...should have asked questions, this things have procedures and steps of which if u fail to observe any1...it may mare the future of ur marriage...jst like it's done to urs now...wish u all the best though!

kuzee:

man u neva know what you have until you lose it,am just till surprise,wonda if yuh understand ladies feelings fr men,she's bin wanting to ask yuh if yu dated chi,dat shows she still loves you..you got the opportunity now,weda she has a guy or not..you gotta fetch her if not i will punk you for real..
i de vex..no forgwt say i be warri mofo.

Lol, opportunity ke? Bro no vex, which kin opportunity wey she fit offer me? Abi na cos say she de study abroad? Lol..well if that's d reason...am not the kind of man that sees such as an opportunity...am not doing bad here..have better dreams to attain which if I decide to hook back with her might mare my chances...somethings are better left unsaid..hope i'v done justice to ur curiosity? HNY..still!

emusmith:


One word for her: Insecurity and Low self Esteem.

Girls like that are difficult to be loved...

It's well sha...

Yes..u r ryt..most times I wonder within me how the husband cope, she's the kinda girl that loves to consider only her thoughts..she likes to take control...she's jst too complicated bro..

emusmith:


Anyhow attitude abi?

Yes bro still very pompous and boasty..like say we de compete for anything..lol

emusmith:


Wow! Good old days! Still keep in touch oo! Them say, NA OLD FIRE WOOD NA HIM CATCH FIRE PASS!

Old flames are powerful, bro!

Lol, true..the last time Chibuzor invited me to her child dedication, buh I couldn't make it cos I travelled...still wished her well though buh she still gat that altitude in her!

emusmith:


Your story make sense wella! lol!
You don marry? if not, Nma, will make a good wife, don't you think?

Lol...thanks bro; And no am not married, even @ that d feeling ain't mutual..and besides it's been a very long time now, seems she has a cerious date over there..we jst chat once in a while!

Agony of a frustrated states man, this is the real Nigerian politics Mr. Maku...it's not all about those Noise u made then..@ least u will get to feel rejected a bit..thats what millions of Nigerians has been suffering from the government u gave lots of credits to! I know u will still move back to the PDP buh I doubt if u'll have any more UTILITY...happy new YEAR all d same!

I was a very quiet boy then...that should be in my grade 4, but I don't know why they always place me amongst girls while arranging our sitting arrangements...so then they placed me among three pretty girls; Chioma, Chidinma and Chibuzor..I never knew that the girls had anything for me oo...cos me was one innocent boy that was always on my own; u need to see hw they celebrated vals day for me, they will pack gifts..all sorts of biscuits for me..twas as if they where all fighting over me...bt I never cared and the fight was mostly between Nma and Chibuzor..Nma was more close and more friendly bt I proffered Chibuzor...she liked me too buh she was very pompous and too proud of herself...that was my problm with her..

So one day I brought one of my pictures to school then...Nma took it without my consent..Chibuzor then saw it with her one day and was asking her what she was doing with her boyfriends picture and told her how we prophess love to each other nd how I am so much into her...during that time, after that incident I noticed that Nma was not coming close to me again...she felt rejected and stayed on her own...and I was not even aware of what was happening then oo!

It was of recent, she's now in the united states studying nursing..we where chatting of recent and she asked me if I actually dated Chibuzor then...that she v been wanting to ask me buh couldn't jst do that...
I laffed out loud and told her No..she then told me everything that transpired then...I was really surprised..
Chibuzor still wrote me letters; even after primary school and delivered it through my elder sister cos they went to the same school...she's married now and even has a daughter! lol