 Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy Flaunts His Cars, As He Works Out In His House by stanliwise(m): 11:02am On Apr 30, 2020 |
SangoOlukosoOba:
Money no fit this guy at all.
Fresh he no fresh.
Build he no build
Can't dress well.
Taste sef na 0
Just be looking like Wizkids's houseboy. with your 10mb |
| Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy Flaunts His Cars, As He Works Out In His House by stanliwise(m): 11:00am On Apr 30, 2020 |
Olalan:
Good for him.......but really can some persons be emphatic at such a time like this you show of wealth when humanity is racing for survival. he didnt send nairalander mods and amebo bloggers to carry it. |
| Romance › Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by stanliwise(m): 10:58am On Apr 30, 2020 |
xendra:
nah! I never even had a BF in school, I was too scared. But its something I've noticed we all do, cautiously or not
A person who funicates will preach to another to stop drinking alcohol that it's wrong just because he doesn't drink hypocrisy is good in a way, if not for hypocrisy the world would have gone mad all in the name of everyone is doing something bad. we all gat to correct another no matter what. where it becomes bad is when we pretend we are saints. All in all hypocrisy has it good side |
| Romance › Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by stanliwise(m): 10:52am On Apr 30, 2020*. Modified: 4:24pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Kingarthur21:
what is worse than this? In fact meeting a Bleep boy who bleeps and dumps after a few weeks or months is better than who will use you for years.
Omo,guys bad o, enjoy cooking,washing and knack from girl that he has not paid bride price for? in other words you mean the girl is the victim right? Maybe or maybe not, Two of them are responsible for their own actions. I sha pity the girl sha because me I experienced it life and direct infact at some point I lived closed to them. it was just really a funny thing to think about sha. The boys most times tell them they would marry and you know how ladies like marriage. God go help us. |
| Romance › Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by stanliwise(m): 7:52am On Apr 30, 2020 |
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| Romance › Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by stanliwise(m): 7:48am On Apr 30, 2020*. Modified: 12:10am On Jan 18, 2025 |
Kingarthur21:
Father Lord,may my daughter never be exploited this way...I know I am not a saint and I have a past,but I have never exploited a lady to this extent  |
| Romance › Re: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by stanliwise(m): 7:39am On Apr 30, 2020*. Modified: 4:27pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Jasonjay101:
Please I'm new here on this platform and I just want some advice to clear my mind.
Let me just go straight to the point. My girl that we've been dating for a year plus now just told me a week ago that she lived a couple's life with her ex back in school right from when she entered 300l (4yrs course) and the guy 400l (5yrs course) and I've not been able to get over it.
It happened a week ago, we were together and she saw a post of her ex engagement to his current girlfriend and she started feeling bad, so I asked her what happened and a little bit angry with her thinking maybe she was not over her ex yet, she told me she has gotten over him but she just remembered her past so I try to console her to let go and if there's something she hasn't told me yet about her past that is still eating her up she can tell me. because before now we've talked about a lot of things about our past and we've try to forgive each other and let the past be in the past.
She had told me it was this only guy she had dated and it was the same guy that disvirgined her, I was not bothered about that because I was not a virgin either. She told me she has moved on even before I came and she stayed for close to a year to heal up and all through this time I was asking her out but she never said yes and never told me she was going through heart break.
Now, it's a year and few months into our relationship, she's been a very good girl, supportive and hard working. And now she just told me this, coupled with some lies she has used to cover it up in some of our previous conversations about her school life.
I'm not perfect either and I've had my past which I have told her. I never lived a couples life back in school and it was only a girl I've also had anything sexual relationship to do with.
Why am emotionally down now is because I know what it is like to live a couples life in school, I never lived as one but I know of people that lived as such in school and I know what happens.
Now I don't know if I can forget about this and we move on. I love this girl so much and she has shown to also love me as much and I've tried to forget about what happened but most times when i see her now I tend to always remember and it eats me up.
Do you guys think I can forget about this? Simple answer is you can’t. Long answer is that you can only learn to live with the stake of such thing, you guys promise to be true to yourself and this is piercing you and you have to be true to both you and her. What I can tell you is to be Patient with what she has told you for like 2 months and see if time can heal it, don’t force yourself to forget or disillusion your mind to avoid it. Face it and think it if you must and watch how you remain within 2 months and if you do then maybe you could live with it, if not then the whistle goes. Even if you live with it there are a lot of future consequences to this event, you may also need to live with the children of the event too and even many more of what might tell you later or what you may find. So Bro brace up, if you can run this path then ensure something worth it makes you do it else there is no sane reason anyone should ply that route. |
| Romance › Re: Does Dating A 17 Year Old Makes Me A Pedophile ? by stanliwise(m): 7:34am On Apr 30, 2020 |
Tdstaar:
Currently seeing this girl .. am 25 year old and she is 17 years old .. we both love each other and enjoy being with each other but now people are starting to talk .. should I back out or ignore ? Who have had any experience like this ? Forget all the ripe and unripe you see here, if you have any sexual intercourse with an under age. Na prison you go land o. Moreso I see nothing strange in loving someone younger but it has to be with caution, since she is an under age. Everything has to about the eye looking towards the Agee line. Even by the time she is 18, this does not mean you will now become a werewolf. Left for me I will advise you remain contented with where you and her are at the moment until she get to the age you think she is responsible. As for what other people are saying, you and I know that people will always talk from day one, what matters is weather what they are saying has any truth in it. But OP if your trousers no get zip I advice you leave that small girl alone o. Also if you no get work and na lockdown dey push you, Oya change the door padlock and lock yourself inside wella |
| Romance › Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by stanliwise(m): 2:58pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Adams011:
Hello good people of Nairaland, I really need help from you guys, I've been in a 3years relationship I'm 25yrs and all of a sudden my hopes and dreams with this girl just got shattered. My girl got influenced by her new close friend, because that's juat what I suspect, her new friend is a type of girl that gets money from guys, men with money and cars, I don't know if she sleeps with them or not, when I noticed I advised my girl to please stay put of such a friend with just worldly benefits. The whole thing was like a shock to me when she came clean to tell me she's ending the relationship because I've not been getting enough money to take good care of her, this is the girl you can never think she'd come out boldly to say such thing, she told me if she doesn't show it before she's the type that loves money and loves her guy buying her gifts everytime, she told me I've not bn doing enough to make her stay, just of recent I had little issue with my brand and I've not been making enough money to feed and cater for my personal need not to talk of a girlfriend, this was a shocker to and really broke me, we endured a lot together even when some of my friends advised me to end the relationship with her because they started to suspect a foul play from her, this has really got me heartbroken and I'm afraid this should not lead me into depression, my friends have been there for me ever since, they call me everytime to make sure I get my mind off the memories with her. Now my question is why has some girls turned relationship into a poverty alleviation scheme?, Coz she told me if we don't end the relationship now she'd cheat on me, if she sees a guy she likes she'd definitely go for him and if I discover later on the relationship might end so badly. same way men has turned it into a pussy drilling scheme. It goes both ways |
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| Webmasters › Re: Be Careful of These Scammers on Nairaland-List of Them by stanliwise(m): 1:30pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
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| Family › Re: Have You Ever Lost A Dear One That Makes You Cry Till Now? by stanliwise(m): 1:28pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
SyrusdeHansome:
Have u ever lost someone so dear to u that causes tears to roll down ur eyes each time u remember him or her?
Mine was David.
David was my classmate in JS 1. The most handsome, and one of those brilliant students in my class. David was loved by everyone in the class because of his childish nd joyous attitude. Though initially those attitude created enmity among the two of us our frndship started the day he saved me from being flogged by our nasty maths teacher who gave me a maths problem that I couldn't solve. Since that day we became great frnds nd we were always seen sitting next to each other in class nd working together during compound work. Our frndship was so serious that some teachers thought we were siblings. David was brilliant, selfless, handsome nd childish nd I loved him like a brother. In summary, David died the same week our exams was about starting. He was hit by a reckless lorry driver on his way to his dad's provisions shop. He died on the spot nd rumour has it that b4 he gave up the ghost he muttered the following words, "my dream of becoming a doctor has ended". And since then av always wanted to become a doctor 4 David but the Nigerian factor destroyed that dream. Till today I still remember my brilliant nd selfless frnd whose bright future was cut short by a drunk driver.
Pls I'm sorry 4 the long post nd some of the errors you'll notice. David died exactly on the 25th of April, that's why I brought up this topic. Pls share ur own. In this context use childlike not childish |
| Celebrities › Re: Hushpuppi Buys A Rolls Royce Cullinan 2020 To Keep The Company Of His Wraith by stanliwise(m): 12:51pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
paulolee:
dnt say wat u dnt kno abt who u dnt kno...i neva made dis choice “In the psychology of human behavior, denialism is a person's choice to deny reality as a way to avoid a psychologically uncomfortable truth.[1] Denialism is an essentially irrational action that withholds the validation of a historical experience or event, when a person refuses to accept an empirically verifiable reality..“ Source - Wikipedia Denialism |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Kim Yo-Jong, Jong-Un's Sister To Lead North Korea If He Dies by stanliwise(m): 12:47pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Offpoint:
One thing for sure is that tyrants don't last...
But seriously, Na one Family get NK? nawao and I called Nigerian youths cowards? The don’t practice democracy. |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Kim Yo-Jong, Jong-Un's Sister To Lead North Korea If He Dies by stanliwise(m): 12:45pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
kestolove95:
Who dey fvck Dix girl now abg? That person dey try aswear |
| Celebrities › Re: Forbes: Kanye West Officially Now A Billionaire by stanliwise(m): 12:39pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
seanwilliam:
well I will give you response based on the happening in our environment...
You see these days, so many people go for nursing, medicine and other big courses cos they are lucrative..most dont go for it just for the passion ..
Even in saner climes where most doctors and scientists chase passion , they still make crazy money... importance of money cant be over emphasized
@ the first bolded, most people are potential criminal just that most of them have not seen the 'safe' opportunity... if dem Evans were not caught, nobody would know..
[b]I agree with the last bolded, but there is no way you will make the world a better place and posterity will forget u.. [/b]also most people that won the noble price are still rich people...
If you are not making mone, you are not making sense.. bro make money , no one is going to ask you how you made it except SARS and efcc
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Good health and money is the greatest things you can have.. I agree with the bolded, I see money as a by-product not as the main point of target. If you chase money head on and by all means, it means you love it. Most evil perpetrated in today’s world is majorly because of the love of power and money. Money and power are very intoxicating, it’s get to a point they control you and every of your thought. If you must do anything worthwhile for posterity you must be careful of money. You must see it as a means to an end or a by-product of an investment. But the moment it becomes an end in itself. Then you’re in trouble, it could become your God. |
| Celebrities › Re: Forbes: Kanye West Officially Now A Billionaire by stanliwise(m): 12:31pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Kinjikitileking:
their strategy to sell their stuffs ��.. and it's really paying them
what about Blac Chyna ? Kylie Jenner ,, wiz khalifa wife ,, are they all from the same family what is your point exactly? I didn’t mention all this people you’re mentioning. |
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| Celebrities › Re: Forbes: Kanye West Officially Now A Billionaire by stanliwise(m): 10:40am On Apr 26, 2020 |
seanwilliam:
money was not the most important then..people valued talent/gift over money and also those people were not poor then especially William Shakespeare..
This is 21st century brother, legacy no help anybody.. what's the purpose of legacy without u enjoying the better part of life?
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With money , your legacy lives on .. posterity would remember u...
But without money baba, you go just turn to motivational speaker...
Aside good health, Money Is Life Then if it was money then it means I would love to be like Evans the kidnapper or some drug dealers or gun trader. Maybe I can also kidnap some rich men or I could join child trafficking. Or steal public funds as a politician. I wonder if this was the mindset of everyone, how will people be doctors and scientist searching against covid-19 Did you say legacy is no more reigning? Let me show you list of 21st century Nobel price winners? Legacy means making the world a better place for future generations. It is not about being remembered. |
| Romance › Re: My Facebook Account Was Hacked And This Happened (picture) by stanliwise(m): 10:28am On Apr 26, 2020 |
abbasajao:
Please how can one secure Facebook account from fraudsters? if your phone is stolen then they can reset your password with your sim. Your close friend could steal your account and reset the password with your phone and then sell it. Clicking on link will help the do what we calll phishing and you will hand the your password straight away without knowing. It is called “phishing”. Also a person that has access to your email. The only way to prevent all this. Is to be vigilant( being aware of how people steal password), don’t be paranoid, knowing how it works is what saves you. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by stanliwise(m): 10:21am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Timil:
How sure are you that this is all God wants?.. or is it because the Bible says so?.
No one knows what God really wants, what he wants isn't in the Bible nor Qur'an nor Torah nor any other religious books.
Don't be deceived by those books that were written by men claiming to be inspired by GOD when they weren't.
Any sound mind can sit down to write a book and say God has inspired him or her to write it. OP even you can write your own religious books and people would believe it especially Nigerians so far you hide under the guise that [b[GOD INSPIRED YOU or GOD SAYS.[/b]
God has given us a sense of reasoning and a free will to live the way we choose and make our own decisions.
If God had wanted us to live in a specific way he would have come live with us in earth to guide us or send his emissaries to come live with us so as to enforce his rules/laws to live life. And why should I think you’re not writing your own false epistle, although you didn’t claim it is from God. Remember! there are many shades of Grey |
| Celebrities › Re: Forbes: Kanye West Officially Now A Billionaire by stanliwise(m): 10:17am On Apr 26, 2020 |
seanwilliam:
stop digressing. their way of life is different.. legacy is useless without money.. your opinion I was digressing, also your opinion that “legacy is useless with money” If it was true how did Albert Einstein, Isaac Newton and Shakespeare still remain among us today, they were comfortable people. What is your explanation? |
| Celebrities › Re: Hushpuppi Buys A Rolls Royce Cullinan 2020 To Keep The Company Of His Wraith by stanliwise(m): 10:14am On Apr 26, 2020 |
paulolee:
tanks..m proud to be one since life na watin i kum meet bt no b watin i choose..enjoy d sunday It was a choice you made, it is now the life you live. |
| Celebrities › Re: Forbes: Kanye West Officially Now A Billionaire by stanliwise(m): 10:07am On Apr 26, 2020 |
seanwilliam:
No dey give yourself wahala. Greatest assets a woman can bring to table is money and fame..
There is no legacy better than that...ever! your opinion. Ngozi Nkonjo Iweala had fame and money. She hold a great legacy that can’t be contend with. |
| Celebrities › Re: Forbes: Kanye West Officially Now A Billionaire by stanliwise(m): 9:22am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Monaco2:
[b][/b]
It does not make her a porn star, u said it urself dat she sued the company dat released the tape I mean it is all semantics. Just like when a person picks a phone that falls from a passerby instead of returning it back to them or find the Person who owns it, he removes the sim and make it his own. Atleast he didn’t steal it! |
| Celebrities › Re: Forbes: Kanye West Officially Now A Billionaire by stanliwise(m): 9:17am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Kinjikitileking:
this Kardashians!!
who are they actually,,
have onced watched a reality show of Kardashians
are they from Royal family??
and that Kylie Jenner ,, is she one of them
why are they really popular Answer is complicate but the simple answer is their popularity comes from feeding client eyes with sex and nudes. The proceed of the popularity then help them sell their stuffs |
| Celebrities › Re: Forbes: Kanye West Officially Now A Billionaire by stanliwise(m): 9:15am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Kinjikitileking:
is it online? Google should do a better work for you. I wonder how na sextape Dey hungry you this morning. |
| Celebrities › Re: Forbes: Kanye West Officially Now A Billionaire by stanliwise(m): 9:06am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Kinjikitileking:
been hearing about that for so long
you have the sex tape ?? No I don’t |
| Celebrities › Re: Hushpuppi Buys A Rolls Royce Cullinan 2020 To Keep The Company Of His Wraith by stanliwise(m): 9:05am On Apr 26, 2020 |
paulolee:
na for this lockdown wey bizness no de, even wire boys de hardly c cliants online n anyone wey luckily cashout de manage bar bcoz u neva kno wen d nxt go pay bcoz tinz hard n everywhere dry naim dis guy de tear dis kain bad whip.abi na audio or borrow pose??..mk i enter i.g n twitter go hail am n beg amto do small gv away mk we use wash am naa.. our typical Nigeria youth |
| Christianity Etc › Re: My Experience With The God Of No Impossibities by stanliwise(m): 9:00am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Blakewilli:
Glory be unto the Lord who sustains us.
If God could make 1 man conquer an army of 150 singlehandedly (Elijah), then who can battle the true children of God?
If a mortal could split a mighty ocean into 2 to create a dry passage for himself and his people(moses), then what obstacles can hinder our mighty destinies?
If an Earthquake could occur just to save the servants of God(paul and Silas), what bondages can keep us down?
If a man who died and even buried could be brought back to life(Lazarus), then can death separate us from Christ's love? Ha!
If water could be turned to wine due to lack, then what necessity cant our father provide us? Chai!
Can God ever go back on his word or change? God forbid!
I recall when I swore to start robbing so I could feed. When the day drew close, I couldn't subdue my conscience to commit such atrocity. I remember kneeling down and begging God to just forgive me for neglecting him. Few days later, God came to me in the form of a family member who just took me to his home and fed me for no just reason!
His grace is ever abounding unto us, we just need to work in his ways and with full faith on him.
Why should you bother about what to eat tomorrow or what to wear on Sunday? He is our only trusted provider!
We give you thanks lord for being who you are unto us.praise the lord! Ha- Ha- HALLELUJAH
Bible references:2nd Kings 1 v 9-15
Exodus 14 v 15-22
Acts 16 v 25-26
John 11 v 34-44
God bless First post this Sunday that has made sense since it wasn’t about how people should resume church in this corona era. But was a thankful prayer to God |
| Celebrities › Re: Forbes: Kanye West Officially Now A Billionaire by stanliwise(m): 8:56am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Monaco2:
She did not feature in porn.... she had a sex tape with her then boyfriend ray j n the video got licked, it’s not the same as being paid by a porn company to have sex with professionals in front of camera n crew members, almost everyone ones in a while have recorded themselves n their partners having sex, it’s just that we are smart enough to delete afterwards..... she had a sextape dat was licked it doesn’t make her a porn star.. Call it sextape or whatsoever it doesn’t change the fact that she sued a company and was paid fat check for the sex tape leak. The protocol at the end of the day workedout as a porn sextape. The only differences was that it didn’t follow the right procedures. |
| Celebrities › Re: Forbes: Kanye West Officially Now A Billionaire by stanliwise(m): 8:53am On Apr 26, 2020*. Modified: 12:14am On Jan 18, 2025 |
HeadNigga:
Marrying a former IndecentStar sure paid off. Believe or not, kanye married a good woman. No be by virgin. That those Yeezy kicks are selling like pure water has a lot to do with his wife's fans buying them...yes...the former IndecentStar does not bring just pussy to the table, she rakes in money directly and indirectly for herself and husband. So my dear virgins, apart from your virginity, what else can u bring to the table coz virginity only lasts a few hours after wedding...slaymamas, I also ask you, apart from your wealth of experience in fucking, what else can you offer? I rather have a woman that can bring me good legacy. |
y is it that we humans only call what we don't do sin? But if we do it then its ok