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Romance › Re: How Do I Survive Seeing My Ex-Girlfriend On Campus? by stanliwise(m): 8:30am On May 15, 2019
issylarry:
I know you will always b in support of ladies because you are one.. U might b diff buh most ladies are absurd.The lady was too harsh in all ramification.u sef put ya sef in d guy's shoes..How best do u want to stay focus in dz situation o..
oga abeg leave the lady, the OP advised us so.
Romance › Re: How Do I Survive Seeing My Ex-Girlfriend On Campus? by stanliwise(m): 8:28am On May 15, 2019
Ellaheart1:
I see so many guys encouraging those facing heartache to get over it and stop being sissies. Or even bragging about how quickly they got over an ex, but honestly the truth is there's no one size fits all approach to dealing with heartbreak. We all were not present with you during the relationship, we didn't share your emotions and feelings, we don't know how great and deep your loss is so we can't fully empathize. What I know is, just like every other hardship in life you have to be brave and face it head on, it is okay to feel hurt, don't try to pretend like it isn't happening because that's only a temporary fix until someone else breaks your heart again. It is all part of the healing process , and learning to accept and deal with heartbreak will save you in future because the more it happens, and trust me it will continuously happen cause we are all human, the less likely it is to hurt like the first time and the better you will be at handling it.

it won't always be like this dear and one day you'll wake up and you'll be okay again.

I know you loved your ex and kudos for opening your heart up to feel, in this world where we are encouraged not to care or feel that was a brave thing to do, but now choose to love yourself , take care of yourself and build yourself up to be a person anyone would be crazy to risk losing by any standard whatsoever . In the end it's their loss.

KINDEST REGARDS!
You sound like an agony aunt you know?
Celebrities › Re: Davido Reacts To Zlatan Ibile's Release From EFCC Custody by stanliwise(m): 8:26am On May 15, 2019
TheMoniker:
I live in la where your generations yet unborn won’t have the opportunity to live or be.
stop proving how retardêd you actually are. USA kor, UDA ni. Imposter. mtcheww
Celebrities › Re: Davido Reacts To Zlatan Ibile's Release From EFCC Custody by stanliwise(m): 8:24am On May 15, 2019
ericsmith:
it understandable if corrupt politicians stolen money are ceased n infuse into the economy but ;
Make i ask you, all those money & properties efcc do cease from yahoo boys please where do those money go ,those cars do they later bury them or who are the beneficiaries of the auction.
if all these money gathered from yahoo boiz are not refunded back to the scammed victims then to whose gain is all these excercise.
That is not our business right now, let them tear down all yahoo guys and make life unbearable for them.
Business › Re: Virtual Cards Needed by stanliwise(m): 8:19am On May 15, 2019
Issyonye365:
Hello everyone, i know there are a lot of smart persons on here, can somone please give me a site or link i can generate virtual cards online? I need as much as possible...thank you
what kind of card?
Politics › Re: 9th National Assembly: 469 Members To Receive N4.68bn Welcome Package by stanliwise(m): 7:16am On May 15, 2019
Deathisfree:
We are the animals bro. We can’t do nothing and still criticizing boys that are bringing back our money there looting abroad
Abeg shift jare.
Celebrities › Re: Davido Reacts To Zlatan Ibile's Release From EFCC Custody by stanliwise(m): 1:33am On May 15, 2019
Chaleeee:
Over 80% of rappers in the US rap and talk about dealing drugs. You don't just arrest people because they said something. You must be able to prove it beyond reasonable doubt.

These boys arrested in Nigeria only said Yahoo is good and now they are arrested. Instead of the lazy police force to do their homework and get proof, they will rather arrest you and hope you will do their work for them and give them proof.
Olodo ni yen, which song did American rappers/musician talk directly about drugs? For the record all words of song released uses sensored/slangs word to talk about drugs. No one talk about it directly, if so show me one popular music or video where cocaine or some hard drugs was mentioned or taking in a song?
It can only be said or shown if it passes a conscious message.
Dont come and feed us with ur half baked informations.
Btw I can list rappers that has been arrested/punished because of what they said e.g
Rickross lost his Reebok endorsement just for mentioning rape words in his song.
Go do your homework.
Celebrities › Re: Davido Reacts To Zlatan Ibile's Release From EFCC Custody by stanliwise(m): 1:26am On May 15, 2019
Chaleeee:
If their parents can't be role models to them, why saddle another person with that task?
get lost into the wilderness jare, I know your type, always forming scholar with senseless talk. Do you know the number of youths that listens and follows this people day by day?
Romance › Re: How Do I Survive Seeing My Ex-Girlfriend On Campus? by stanliwise(m): 1:22am On May 15, 2019
vicfy:
I'd rather leave it where it belongs.. there're better n fresher spittle where dt came from. Moreover, what will become of the bottom feeders, if I (the predator) shares from the crumbs meant for em. sad
so just because you broke up with someone now, the person has become your vomit, spit, crumbs. Na human being we all be last last, from vanity we came from, vanity we shall return.
Webmasters › Re: Why Do Big Websites Like Waploaded, Naijaonpoint, Etc Use Sub Domains by stanliwise(m): 1:16am On May 15, 2019
freebeats:
Hello, why do those big sites use sub domain as their main url (web.waploaded.com, web.naijaonpoint.com, etc.)
it shows that they offer many service using their web handle. e.g
mail.google.com, search.google.com etc some site have blog.xxxx.com
Programming › Re: My Journey To Programming by stanliwise(m): 1:13am On May 15, 2019
asalimpo:
That page looks professional almost. I can see a web dev in the making.
what is almost professional about the webpage huh are u being sarcastic or you trying to wash the OP?
Celebrities › Re: Davido Reacts To Zlatan Ibile's Release From EFCC Custody by stanliwise(m): 1:07am On May 15, 2019
ishawlar:
David u r too kind. God will bless u more
which God?
Celebrities › Re: Davido Reacts To Zlatan Ibile's Release From EFCC Custody by stanliwise(m): 1:03am On May 15, 2019
TheMoniker:
grin
The “Hard working youths” won’t like this
Wealth is a threat to them.
I’ve always said it to my friends here in US that Nigerians hate on you once you’ve attained the height that none of their generations won’t reach. The best you can do is to avoid a vast majority of them once you leave the country. They might end up killing you.
Don’t let it surprise you that most hating on those guys are failed yahoo boys who though “they shouldn’t get it if I can’t”
I detest Nigerians and Nigeria passionately.
The only set of people stealing from Nigerians are their tetarded politicians like Buhari, Tinubu and co but they still sing their praises and in their myopic mind, someone collecting from whites is their problem? Lol. Awon oloriburuku.
See police for naija like armed robbers.
sorry to say your write up is a bag of sh*t

Programming › Re: My Journey To Programming by stanliwise(m): 11:15pm On May 14, 2019
paulnewplay:
i'm doing my research and listening to experts.
keep up the research and keep the experts close by.
Programming › Re: Today is good by stanliwise(m): 10:55pm On May 14, 2019
You no well o you for edit the picture to change the date to make your lie a little interesting, the June month of http injector of last year is what you want to trend with abi?
Programming › Re: My Journey To Programming by stanliwise(m): 10:50pm On May 14, 2019
Daejoyoung:
Well you are not far from the truth, but then why is java not so highly favoured for machine learning, data science and Artificial intelligence? Heck python is even more popular for scientific numerical analysis than java these days and for data analysis(which most people work on generally), so my point is that even if you consider java a more advanced language, python has proven to be more practical for most tasks generally and gets you productive really fast.
Consider Assembly back in the days, it was way too difficult but necessary for the Software Engineer than C++ or C, but today very few software engineers would have to use assembly even though it's faster than C and closer to the metal than c or c++.
Also Instagram has python's Django at the core of it's backend, this means python can be used for very large software products(think lnstagram and Dropbox).
Not exactly correct but many point you hit were right. Golang would replace most python project soon. scripting engines have their draw back.
what most company this days do is build a new engine while keep the langiage e.g Facebook, Node also.
Romance › Re: How Do I Survive Seeing My Ex-Girlfriend On Campus? by stanliwise(m): 10:47pm On May 14, 2019
bigpriik:
you are a fool ,so you lent her money after she shenked you in the past .nigga you are even weaker than the op.
Oga must you burn bridges with everyone you have a problem with in past? Is break up a crime? Don't people help strangers they don't know before?
Better grow up and learn to speak politely.
Romance › Re: How Do I Survive Seeing My Ex-Girlfriend On Campus? by stanliwise(m): 10:44pm On May 14, 2019
Nofavorss:
I can bet you’re a teenager or little above 20
Bro you are not wrong at all he may be X age biologically but mentally he is a big baby. I wonder why they think sex has any gain. Anyway sex is what most teens look for as a reason for friendship with opposite sex majorly based on peer pressure.
Programming › Re: My Journey To Programming by stanliwise(m): 10:39pm On May 14, 2019
paulnewplay:
Java is good. It teaches good oop practices upfront. Python and other "easier" languages can inculcate some bad habits which you'll have to unlearn when working on large scale professional systems. What's ur pgd in and was ur bsc related to computing?
Advice: ditch sololearn and cheap android books. Buy /download full books.
you seem to be an experienced programmer.
Romance › Re: How Do I Survive Seeing My Ex-Girlfriend On Campus? by stanliwise(m): 5:02pm On May 14, 2019
Lovelife433:
abeg save dat one for 2face.
I take that as a No. Till then.
Romance › Re: How Do I Survive Seeing My Ex-Girlfriend On Campus? by stanliwise(m): 4:15pm On May 14, 2019
Lovelife433:
this is why is good to have plenty girl friend.
have you truely loved anyone b4? if yes then you wouldn't want to cheat by have external affairs.
Celebrities › Re: I Already Cut Off My Manhood - Bobrisky by stanliwise(m): 4:10pm On May 14, 2019
neolboy:
Bob wey risky.


You amputate your manhood and you are not using crutch

Romance › Re: How Do I Survive Seeing My Ex-Girlfriend On Campus? by stanliwise(m): 4:05pm On May 14, 2019
MissRaine69:
Make that a life lesson.
Do not fish, sh1t and bathe in the same body of water.
I feel you girl, concise, mature and wise.
Better than loads of comments shit here.
Romance › Re: How Do I Survive Seeing My Ex-Girlfriend On Campus? by stanliwise(m):
SLBMS:
Nothing but heart aches with Nigerian girls. My ex..Or whatever she is in tears needed help. She was gonna be kicked out of her house...school fees, problems here and there.... I assisted her with close to a million naira In the space of 3 months...

The day she was to come visit...after switching off her phone for weeks. Guess what she said she I confronted her.

" let me advice you. Go and think about your life. It's am advice"

You see..we live in society that places women on a high pedestal. I never knew this until I travelled out, then I saw how blind and stupid the relationship culture of Nigeria is today. Best way to get over her?

1. You are whay above her league. You are better.
2. Hussle hard and make money. There ain't no sweeter revenge that your ex seeing you a success.

Forget about her. Nigerian woman and girls are a direct defendant of JEZEBEL. They are the most ruthless set of female on the planet. They are certainly not the most beautiful but by far the most materialistic, fetish and wicked. Nigerian women is one of th2 devil's most powerful weapon. Avoid them if you can. I will never in my life dream of dating one much less marry any. Those who do, well...It's between them and God.
When next you give advise, always state your assumptions clearly and ask for correction if possible.

please stop assuming the OP is the victim here. There are 50% chances that OP could be a culprit, he didn't tell us what happened.
Romance › Re: How Do I Survive Seeing My Ex-Girlfriend On Campus? by stanliwise(m): 3:55pm On May 14, 2019
frankdre:
common men!!! don't be chicken hearted, u should know that 90% of all relationships end in the school gate. Its kinda hard, but u have to let go, but i hope u have fuckkked her because if not, U LOSE. You can never satisfy a girls wants on campus, financially, material, sexually and otherwise. A hoe will always be a hoe!!! Ladies are moved with what they see and are easily influenced. So move ahead and get a brand new PUSSYY.The primary aim of being in school is to graduate with a good results. The rest na FUN
something is fundamentally wrong with you.

1.Why accuse girls when the OP haven't told us how they break up.
2. How do you conclude the OP was the victim?
3. Can you tell us comprehensively how sex help us to gain in a relationship?
4. Your advice to person that you want to graduate well is to go and find new pussy

Better behave yourself.
Romance › Re: How Do I Survive Seeing My Ex-Girlfriend On Campus? by stanliwise(m): 3:47pm On May 14, 2019
Odinaka00:
Instead of you to focus on how to kill your enemies with your success, you are here thinking about a girl I probably may never say hello to if I ever come across her... Dude work hard and make money. She left you because you 're broke, don't be pained about it rather it should motivate you more to study hard and hopefully come out with a good result.. By the time you get a good paying Job and start driving your nice car, You go realize say that your babe wowo die because na that time your success go dey attract classy babes for your side
Dont make him the victim here, he didn't tell us why he left the girl. he could be at fault and that could be why the girl left him.
Romance › Re: How Do I Survive Seeing My Ex-Girlfriend On Campus? by stanliwise(m): 3:45pm On May 14, 2019
Drestar19:
Whats happening to the boys of the new generation?..very weak and timid...the next thing you will hear is he went and drank substance...where did we go wrong in grooming this weakkings and sisi..gone are the days were boys were boys..girls would beg for your attention...i bet you are one of those that sag your pants..and spend your days taking selfies for instagram..
sorry, you are not fit for this discussion. I am always blunt about relationships and I claim I don't feel anything but when I met the right person. I didn't want to loose her.... I know some people are very dramatic but then when it is true love maybe your time haven't come.
love of this kind happens in many way
Love of mother to child
Blood ties
Friends
etc
This feelings come with a sense of care and you're so emotionally attached to this people
Romance › Re: How Do I Survive Seeing My Ex-Girlfriend On Campus? by stanliwise(m): 3:37pm On May 14, 2019
spiceadole:
I think say una be supermen. Break up don't pain you guys

As women are too numerous,desperate and cheap.
Oya, drink sniper. Nonsense and ingredients
I smell transfer of aggression here.
Romance › Re: How Do I Survive Seeing My Ex-Girlfriend On Campus? by stanliwise(m): 3:35pm On May 14, 2019
SIR0:
I just had a breakup and now I am having some pretty nasty heartache. This lady & I stay on the same campus and we see many times. Though I have been trying to overcome the pain, but my heart still strikes whenever we cross paths or I see her. I have about three months to finish and probably leave for NYSC this year, still, I wonder how to survive seeing her within the limited time left. It gives me sleepless nights. And this is the period I need to be more concentrated on my studies and final year project. She's not likely to come back as she seems to be in love with another guy already. I really need some relief.

Would I be able to forget about her soon after leaving because the love I have for her is too much?

N.B: I never put the blame for leaving me on her. She is not to blame at all.

Please advise a brother.
Thanks in anticipation.
Let me rephrase your question.
"How do I get better from malaria by sleeping at mosquitoe infested area without mosquito net and all while taking malaria drug"

Answer: You simply cannot do that, either you leave the area or you buy mosquitoes net or lastly chase away all the mosquitoes.

To your situation, only TIME will heal you but as it does you have remove many physical contact with her or lastly "buy a mosquito net" meaning get someone you also care about around (it is important you care about this person except ot won't work). The person don't have live with you but it has to be a person you spend quality time with and develop new affections for. Aside this, the last way out is to kick the girl out of the compound, don't as me how.
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Aigbe Threatens To Sue Blogger Over Her Daughter's Upkeep by stanliwise(m): 7:44am On May 14, 2019
bettercreature:
For what exactly? I believe she is just seeking attention.
To be serious, do u know the negativity of spreading fake news. You may be right since we live in Nigeria, but in saner society false rumor is a very big crime.
Programming › Re: My Journey To Programming by stanliwise(m): 7:40am On May 14, 2019
iHart:
Hello Nairaland,

I want to keep a diary on my journey to programming. I would have opened the thread on the dairy section but I decided to do it here where I can get comments from time to time.

For over two years i have been dreaming of learning Python or any other language that can help me with the projects I have in mind. I have tried severally to learn on my own using videos from YouTube but I always lose concentration.

So last week I summoned courage to register with an IT firm for training and get a personal instructor.

They training will be from wed design to wed development and then Python. The web design is expected to last for 8 weeks, then after I migrate to web development which will last for another 8weeks. ...and the Python. Seems the training will be a long one grin


So my training started yesterday, 13/05/19. I was assigned an instructor who I can say is good. Our first class was pretty good.


We did a lot of story telling, some theory talks and then practicals. In our practical I was able to install an editor, create a folder in my system for the tutorial class, learnt about tags, attributes and values,etc then did some coding, viewed it on the browser and saved. Our class lasted for two hours and we dismissed for the day. My instructor gave me a task to always code or practice for at least 2 hours everyday.


At the end of the day, we scheduled to have three classes a week. Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. But for this week, it will be Monday, Thursday and Friday. The classes could be adjusted to suit our personal schedule as he is also a busy person and I also have other jobs I do.

This dairy is just to boast my morale and help me keep up with the training. If you find time, please drop a word of encouragement for me.

I will be adding screenshots of my training/practice from time to time. For now, bye. My next class is on Thursday.
You have me as a subscriber.
Celebrities › Re: Etinosa Tells Regina Daniels To Be Careful Of Friends Who Can Steal Her Husband by stanliwise(m): 7:24am On May 14, 2019
bluefilm:
I don't think so.

He married her.

And he's still married to his other wives.

Stealing is when you appropriate the man to yourself completely and making him waste all his resources on you while at the same time making him to neglect, forget or abandon his other family.

I don't think this Regina has done that.
STFU [censored]
you didn't know how they met.
You don't know why he married her, speak things when you truly know them

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