₦airaland Forum

EVILFOREST:
Ashawo don take over steering.
Okkk
NEVER marry a lady who sees herself as an OBJECT of mere satisfaction to the men.
Such ladies abound everywhere.
They lack grey matter in their crevices.
LADIES to avoid when considering marriage in order of decreasing severity include:
....hoteliers
....actresses
....waitresses
....seductress.
....air hostesss
....songstresses
....beauty Queen
....female bankers
....female marketer
....dance hall queens.
....female TV Anchorss.
....female combatant offisa
....the “it doesn’t matter ladies”.
....eye catching front desk officers.
....new generation religious choristers.
People will try to put this observation down.
Why don’t you closely observe such yourself..?
Don't say you were not warned.
Most MEN who settled 4 such are yet to find peace of mind.
Okafor's law Is always constant
Better respect yourself !!!!

noni14:
i think their should be a punishment called street beating for this kind of people. 1hour beating if he survives he should thank God.

Danwakae:
That's the reason he was suspended seriously, many people was SUPRISED, his report would be made public soon, me I am.not surprised at all, because we many of his type and even worse in the NANStudents,


I pity for our future children in Nigeria

Danwakae:
Sowere is a thief...

He is a member of the APC and was only looking for RECORGNITION and money, all money made during the election was stolen by him with a criminal report on how it was spent.

Our youths are the most corrupt because they want to make money for toto


All those dirty toto girls will just be eating their money

muyinet:
You are a man, I guess...do you think a father would just abandoned his child of 1yr to such fate? women are known to be very good at telling stories that are not true when it involves seperating from their husbands...never listen to a one-sided story from a woman who is pained. There are more to this story. whichever way this goes, the child suffers more by bringing it to the social media. while the society is bent on stamping out the evil of rape, it should also consider the long term effect on the victim its trying to safe.

Once again...bringing such issues on the social media takes away more from the victim. Any gain such an exposure seemed to have achieved is temporal. The internet NEVER forgets.

muyinet:
How can you be so certain this is the whole story? Let's all be careful about reading/hearing one-sided information to avoid wrong conclusion. It could also be that the husband is angry on why the wife was negligent ...or where was the Mother when a 1yr old child was getting molested?
As a man and a husband, my wife can have no reason at all to leave a 1 yr old alone such that some perverted soul could satisfy their evil desire on my child. The issue of mothers negligence is becoming more prevalent ...just last week a 1 yr old got drowned in a home swimming pool...where was the mother...she responded to that question by saying she was busy making up her face...then turned to lay blame on the house help. I was so angry...i felt like seeing the woman to give her some hot slaps.

muyinet:
No, the criminal can still be punished by the Law without bringing it to the social media. On the social media, the victim will suffer more than she would gain.

Wanity:
What are the police made for

Social media is not the way out my brother

Do you know how many people will use this story against her in 20 coming

Wanity:
Mumu are you happy when you hear news like this on social media? Come on guy

Wanity:
My brother thank you try to see it the other way around women are too stubborn

modestbrowser:
She was sent away because she's destroyed her future even more.....
Imagine how much the little girl will be trolled in school by her pairs as the girl who got deflowered when she was a year old.... Bullies won't care how it happened.
Some things should be left and delt with in the family...

The mother bringing the issue to the world would surely end the girl sympathy.... But will in the future damage her self esteem and probably cause depression..

Just imagine the way they brought the medical report to social media.... At what aim exactly?
For social media to lynch the 7year old culprit?

Issues like this should be delt with within the family.... Nonsense

NaijaMutant:
The soldiers should not rescue anybody we don't know about their kidnap again.


They should go and rescue Leah Sharibu and the rest Chibok girls.

At least, we know about their kidnap

Portsvessels:
I will be brief as possible.
Have been on nairaland since 2006 thereabout. NL has helped me in lots of ways, gaining admission into UNILAG, helping my business even making my first million. Seun is truly God sent.

Have met quite a number of good guys on NL, my personal doctor, even mechanic, yes mechanic.

Sorry for that intro but been appreciative of this platform.

Fast forward I contacted this Bluefly of a guy after seeing his adverts and his astonishing website, I said to myself Yes this guy must be so good. As an African proverb says, if a person is recommending a cloth you first check the one he is wearing. The guy has a good website ( http://blueflydesign.com.ng/) Alas ! Not all that glitters is gold.

Contacted him 13th March 2019, fast response, good presentation, he seems to know what I want, I told other partners, this guy is our missing link. Fast forward he requested for 100,000 for the brief and 70percent deposit . 70,000 sent 28th of March 2019. Confirmation came in few minutes after payment was sent ( thank God he confirmed). Oya let’s move on to the design, WhatsApp group was set up between our team with him.

Oya designer you’ve not bought domain name....story started... I will buy tomorrow, card rejected.. okay ooo. No wahala

After one week Oga no dey pick call once na after 3 times, he doesn’t respond properly to WhatsApp. Oh he might be so busy with coding so I thought.

Domain later bought 1st of April. Thank God it was still available.

Basic questions that needed to be asked weren’t asked. Payment gateway details (nil) site map(nil) color (nil) even Email and phone Number to be used He was just full of excuses.

Okay after calls and all Oga said we will see a preview of what he has been doing so that we can know he is not joking. Good news. Okay when sir. He said Sunday 14th March 2019 4pm. Na so we all glued to our laptop to see our new baby project. All partners were physically in my house so we can review together. Alas Uncle Excuse came again sorry it will be live around 10pm, everyone left disappointed. At least we confirmed twice before the meeting. I cheered them up 10pm is just around the corner now let’s have group call afterwards now. They all reluctantly accepted. I begged Oga please don’t disappoint me again.

10pm came no show again, everyone started pointing at me, Bluefly no gree pickup. After several attempts Oga dropped message as usual “deepest apologies...bla bla preview can be checked now”. That’s nice my guy all sins are forgiven. Everyone went to check the website, OMG it was CRAP guy only used a dead theme, no professionalism, no work done, nothing.

We’ve been waiting for weeks for only theme demo. My head was off. Was very annoyed.

Oga oya pick calls, called several times no pick up, oh he is busy oya send messages, nooo. He is doing you cannot catch me . Oh I see. Oya where are you let’s have a meeting so that I can know what to tell my other partners. Guy no respond, traced the address on his website at 2, Osho Street OPEBI IKEJA , no one knows him there.

Went on NL only to see someone calling him out that he is a thief bla bla. I felt somehow.

I can share alll details of our chats herein. The guy is quite unprofessional, and the poorest of customer service. He doesn’t feel bothered about anything. He misses your call he doesn’t feel the need to call back at least he has gotten his money.

Sent him a message all I want is a refund .

BluntBoy:
I think you need the English class more.

I wrote that you appear to support. I didn't write that you support. When something appears to look like something, it doesn't necessarily mean that it looks like that thing or that it is that thing.

As for human reactions, it is easier to judge people's reactions. It is easier to say "he shouldn't have done this or that".

Although I support that one must run from violence because the law only recognizes the victim (the battered person) even if she/he was the aggressor.

BluntBoy:
Another emotional human being. Bro, take it easy o. It is even people like you who are prone to abuse women.

And as for the highlighted part of your post, I don't really understand.

Perhaps, you meant to ask who beats someone to stupor for being the aggressor

You must watch your words because you appear to be supporting violence.

Bossgirl733:
At least they are look happy that’s all shoo




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BluntBoy:
Let me be the devil's advocate.

You wrote that violence is violence.

But what proof do you have that she was not violent herself?

Second, supposing she was not physically violent, what if she had been verbally violent?

After all, according to you, violence is violence.

Tallesty1:
A lot of things.

1. Attempt on his life.

2. Attacked him with weapon.

3. Grabbing his blockus during a fight/arguement.


And many more.

Only the living break up. You gotta stay alive first, and to stay alive, you've got to fight for it and that includes injuring whoever makes an attempt on your life.

Women have mouth, hand and legs just like any man. They can punch, kick, stab and design your head with a 2/2 poline.


Women are as violent as men and so many of them can give decent hits and knock a man senseless.


The person you quoted did well by asking what happen.

StarUp:
First and foremost, what did she do? Most times people don't ask that question, they will instead start bashing the guy with words... Even a mad man won't assault you just like that... It's possible what she has been doing to him is worse than this(maybe it was compound-payback)...#justsaying

robinzaga:
SHUT UP.

StarUp:
First and foremost, what did she do? Most times people don't ask that question, they will instead start bashing the guy with words... Even a mad man won't assault you just like that... It's possible what she has been doing to him is worse than this(maybe it was compound-payback)...#justsaying

Daejoyoung:
Are you saying c++ is easier than java? I have no experience whatsoever with c++

hopefulLandlord:
Christianity is the most confusing religion. any nonsense can be supported by it. 30,000 different denominations. are you having a laugh?

Nuelstar:
how true is this

Oshin56:
And I'm sure there are many peoples in his family that can't eat 3 square meal a day

bluefilm:
Oga, go an' start your own forum na.

Nonsense people like you can only be giving people useless advice.

If you know what already works, what stops you from implementing it for yourself and taking all the gains and glory na?

Mediocre gbarikwee gi onu dia.

Ewu.

okeniti:
If it's not broke why fix it?

bluefilm:
Shut up.

What other innovations do you want to see on nairaland?

You want seun to set up video database so you can be watching videos on nairaland abi?

Clap for yourself Mr video watcher.

For your information, nairaland is a forum and as long as many users are okay with how it works for them, I don't think a few dissenting voices like yours will amount to anything.

If you're not satisfied with how nairaland is currently set up, what don't you go and start and become the founder of your own forum?

Nonsense.

babyfaceafrica:
abi...see as he chuk mouth for matter...let him create his own.

franchasng:
Nigerians don't have that mental capacity to innovate, neither do we have the culture of maintenance, all we do is create and abondon it to keep running itself while we hope to milk billions from it.

This is why all our roads, schools, industries, agencies, houses, estates, railway lines, transport systems, and everything is in shambles.

Seun ought to have reached out to interested partners to pump in money to get first class coders, programmers and brand marketers to revolutionize Nairaland and transform it beyond what it is.

I have a lot of ideas to help transform Nairaland and position it to bring in more money for Seun and partners, but I know, Nigerians don't regard any other person except the founder of any idea

derahhh:
Hi, I have been in the blues as regards what programming language I could learn..I am currently a Masters student in FUTA and fully understand that IT is the future,I also know that I would make a good programmer but the numerous available programming languages and their applications has been a Major headache as i'd like to have a programming which is in major demand in Nigeria......Please i'd appreciate Professional advices in this regard.Thanks