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Stanleywaxy:
I don't pity the girl one bit . Let's assume she gets married to Burna Boy and she begins to suffer the same violence most women suffer , the same "No violence against women group " will still come out to back her . No one forced her to do what she did , she deserves anything that comes her way .

Shameless woman , just negodu how she destroyed her future and tarnishes her image !!!

stop talking like a complete goat, why did burna boy dig his stuff into a hoe without think of the consequences.
Anyway wetin concern me, price of Garri don increase

The good part of this story is that the police took care of the situation.

u dis news don epp

Frei:
this has nothing to do with ego! pls! My view, my thang!

u tink so, tink again.
To think wisely in life, you have to learn to tink from many angles.
not quarrelin with u though but making u see the implications of your words. we learn everyday.

FanYogo1:
Na Ipad/Ipob people na. Cossy and Afrocandy's people nau. Nna people.

No sense of shame. No be hotels and ashewos plenty for that region? Later dem go say they're 99% lightskin, see as dem black like my sunday school shoes.

You are not different from a complete goat for bringing tribalism into this.

SweetBoyFriend:
Nigerians are hypocrites.

Do you know the agreement between him and his wife ??
Do you know how much you can sell your sex tape ??

In this hard economy, man must chop.

If Na Nicki Minaj now, una go download the pictures and videos and masturbate the shiit out of your brain

psychiatric need you.

emekamigo:
I have been forced to look at this situation again:Let's look at it this other way.What if God is actually saving this good woman from some problems in future?
What if God has reviewed it and found out that this good girl is going to suffer from this guy in the near future if they get married?

or-what if God loves the guy that he actually does not want the guy to suffer from this babe in future?
what if God has reviewed it and found out that this two are not compatible spiritually and are bound to end up tragically?

Or what if the Girl is also being punished for what she committed ?

As at the time they got into each other,was there a medical test to determine if the two are biologically compatible to marry?

There are so many issues going on in the spiritual and metaphysical realm that we don't know except we have spiritual eyes and to see And the laws of metaphysics are still there-And if these actions are in support of a predetermined retribution,curses don't have effect;and for curses to have effect depends on the spiritual level of the curser and cursed but in this situation the girl's curse can never have effect on the guy(Note that she has already soiled her hands with series of abortions or killings ) except if and only if the mother or the father of the girl in question performs some rituals and lays the curse on the guy which hitterto still depends on their own spiritual level.

Just like I said earlier and I still believe that :

A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage either way for the two of them-

Or the guy should actually have gone ahead to marry her and divorce later -

Or waited a bit before proposing to another babe-


Nothing happens for the fun of it,so let it be-I rest my case!

should we sit down and do nothings about things since we dont know what happen in metaphysical and the spiritual

1k001:
How do you suggest he finish what he started? Get into a marriage doomed for failure? Or wait to have kids then break up the family?

The bitter truth is that with matters of the heart one has to be fully in for things to work. His heart is not in it so there's nothing to finish.

There is a wise saying---
"The child that played the evil drum must be ready to dance the dance of the spirit"
He should have taught of all this six years ago. Dont be one sided, may be he is your brother and you feel u should be on his side,atleast he should have returned all the wealth, material possession, apologise and make amend as he could, move very far away for good. but he did none of this. The heart of man is wicked.

1k001:
This is a difficult situation and as is usual with these situations there isn't always a right answer.

Some of my thoughts.

Firstly no one is under any obligation to marry anybody regardless of what has happened. Especially true when there is no love felt. Of course this is unfair in this situation as the lady does have a right to feel like she is owed.
Unfortunately however she's loaned out what she couldn't afford to lose and it's now Impossible to collect on it.

A quick point for the ladies to learn.

Close your legs until he puts a ring on it.

Don't date any man for longer than a year if you're intending to get married one day.

If he isn't ready, break up and tell the guy to come back when he is ready.

You have far more to lose than he does.

For the guy. You have done very bad things. Getting engaged so quick was a jerk move. Ask for forgiveness and seek ways to restitute what you've done (will be hard). Move on with your life, the curses will not be effective if your heart was genuine all along.

Let this be a lesson to men.

ZIP UP.

Break up with a girl if after one year you aren't actively plannng a marriage.

Drastic advice but will save pleny heartache.

I have a problem with you saying that he should follow his heart. which heart?
The guy bit-off too much than he can chew and now what he intend doing is to spit the remaining away after he is satisfied. Let him finish wat he started.

Frei:
damn she ain't too young to be a mother' she's 30' why abort?.... If my sister aborts for a guy four times' damn she's silly!!! Bro its a no-no for me'

It is still hard for me to believe that men like u still exist in 21st century. If u must say no, then return all her wealth, time and money....
From what i see your egocentric attitude is your problem and it is preventing you from thinking from another perosns point of view.

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
I don't believe in curses. Dude, live your life joor, nothing will happen, never marry out of sympathy. This is the same kind of advice that the feminists on nairaland will give if a girl magas a guy for six years and leaves with a rich dude, so what is good for the goose...

you do not need to believe in curses, it all lies in our thinking. I can smell fear in your words
But one thing is for sure everyman deserve to be paid in his own coin.
Most people that say they do not believe in curses,God, heaven, hell ....etc are PEOPLE WHO FEAR THE SWORD OF JUSTICE.

Give her vague answer that wud shut down issue quickly, things like "we have settle it", "i have heard now", or always divert her discussion into very wierd issues and keep the diverting but give her clear answers if she ask the right question but do not stop picking her calls or ignoring her. Also pray that she understands.

29 million is a lot of money to sponsor many student , why just 2?

if only she know what she looks like if only she know what she looks like if only she know what she looks like if only she know what she looks like

Marinza:
Isn't this just someone who likes attention? There are ladies like that I think who enjoy the thrill from how much they can get men to lust after them, you should have noticed it na....

most of these women don't end up cheating though.. What u should be worried about is that she doesn't get molested by one of these men.

Still I doubt it's something she can just change like that. Anyway I could b babbling and shes just loco. My opinion..

you seem to be among the few rational people on this thread

i have to budget this place for comment

AyoolaIgwe:
I am not justifying rape. my comment doesn't even suggest dat. I guess u should check up d meaning of "myopic" so dat u use it correctly next time.
Lest I forget, I tot u should be more concerned about how d menace can be mitigated.

yeah i am concerned, i just needed to get your comment clear like what you just explained.
No crisis

flokii:
not "jungle justice" but justice
how is killing a rapist/murderer jungle justice?
if you kill for no just cause.. then you should be killed
as simple as a,b,c...

No Crisis i get you. but the killing should be done by the law enforcers and not civilians.

AyoolaIgwe:
ur contribution in dis matter is myopic. Rape happens for different reasons. One of which is indecent/provocative dressing. Others include: unfortunate visits to the opposite sex, armed robbery at homes or even in the bus, etc.

I think you are myopic urself, all this you mention are only reasons but none of them are justification for rape and that was what the user u quoted was trying to say

flokii:
I'm sure you'll still defend them when they get arrested & detained asking for evidence/proof

when there's no order, things like this are bound to happen.. somtin you hardly see during military regime cos na death instanta when caught

thank God for PMB.. hope still dey

Are you supporting jungle justice?
What happen was as a lack of insecurity in that place and not just as a result that they do not kill people instantly.
jungle justice do not drive away corruption.

flokii:
I'm sure you'll still defend them when they get arrested & detained asking for evidence/proof

when there's no order, things like this are bound to happen.. somtin you hardly see during military regime cos na death instanta when caught

thank God for PMB.. hope still dey

A you supporting jungle justice?
What happen was as a lack of insecurity in that place and not just as a result that they do not kill people instantly.
jungle justice do not drive away corruption.

What a life, things like this make me wanna go mad. R.I.P

destinygl0ri0us:
not bad but there is this delta girl on instagram she cuter than hem i think she shud go 4 miss nigeria

This girls are beauty goddess, chai

Chommieblaq:
It's just disgusting how some ppl behave, after lynching him, why not hand him over to d police.



I can understand d lynching part, that probably if they don't lynch him, he will settle d police n they will leave him, buh undressing him n dragging him to a terrace (gutter) is purely evil.
No to jungle justice, there is no different between the thief(if actually he is) and the penetrators of this kinda act.

most reasonable comment on this thread.
#TeamSayNoToJungleJustice

seunlayi:
is there no police station around? can't we change the way we melt out jungle justice to people while the real thieves are in ABJ

You seem to be among the few reasonable people commenting on this thread.
when will Nigerians reach full civization.

realestworld:
mah guy d killers don believe say kpata kpata na arrest and bail 9 go end and. And with that tought alone they keep killing people

The believe that justice will never happen if not taken into own hands is wrong and perpetrators need to be re-educated to function in an ever-changing world.
Jungle justice make our security system become more useless and people see no use to to do things in a civilised manner, everyone seek his own biased judgements
you cannot tell me that a man that killed should be treated as a man that stole #500 naira. it makes no sense. Think about it

Raymee:
come, what do you mean? Are you against or for me?

I am against you supporting jungle justice.

Raymee:
This is why I keep saying that, robbers should be killed at a spot when caught because if they are allowed to be detained, their eyes would be cleared with the drugs that high them. An ordinary eyes won't shoot after collecting what doesn't even belonged to you. Even the owner dragged!

i pray u never fall a victim someday.
jungle justices never give the innocent ones the time to prove their innocence.
if you are afraid they will escape justice then that is the problem with our security system.
let us fight to improve our security system
#SayNoToJungleJustice

hedonistic:
Just get lost abeg. Disgusting thing. I hope you have an encounter with armed robbers one day and then you would know what it feels like. Anumanu.

If you kill a theif by jungle justice, you are also a murder, no two way about it.
let us leave jungle justice and fight the government and law enforcers to improve security.

hedonistic:
You're a bastard, and most likely an armed robber just like your father was. You would meet your Waterloo soon. I hope I will be there when you are caught. Would love to personally oversee and actively participate in roasting you to death.

How can a civilised man pray to watch his fellow man roast. i pray we Nigerians would one day reach full civilisation.
#SayNoToJungleJustice

realestworld:
And some fraudsters still preaches against jungle justice!

Must you support Jungle justice to fight criminals. What then are the use of our law enforcers. If you kill a criminal, you are also a criminal yourself because you are a murderer.
#SayNoToJungleJustice