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Srallens:
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Yes..... Cos u are the only toddler in here.
Hope u know ur dad?

Because he don't know someone now gives you the right to be asking senseless questions abi?

GrabHisBalls:
If I want to do my PG next year and at the same time want to have my wedding. A forward thinking person would check the PG calendar for that school. All the information you need for when forms are likely to be out and exam month could be gotten from the school's office.

I know weddings could be stressful and with their closeness, I doubt she had enough time to read her books. You get my point?

I get your point clearly, and I agree also that their are every possibility that she didn't read for that exam.
Personally I feel she went to exam hall with her wedding gown to gather sympathy, so that lecturers will may empathise with her.

BTW what sort of Moniker are you using ?

GrabHisBalls:
She lacks wisdom. Why fix your wedding on the same day your masters exam is to take place? I am sure she didn't read for the exam and will go there looking for who to copy from.

No, wedding dates are fixed far before exam date. so the case should be her exam clashed with her wedding date actually.

Gratefulheart01:
My initial post was that way being aware that the wrong misconception of feminism is one of the defences most rebellious women hide under nowadays or those who end up as single moms for dirty reasons.
Then a woman can live a peaceful life unmarried like u said but it's not very good. We can all live peaceful lives if we run from responsibilities or some sane but demanding lifestyles. You impregnate a girl but wouldn't make her your wife so you don't face all the restrictions or responsibilities of a husband. Although u cater for the kid from a distance but you're free to do whatever you want in peace. Its cool but not ethical. People just walking in and out of marriages like its a boutique; more women embracing single motherhood because they can't respect or be obedient or because they are free in the wrong sense to do whatever they want. They are not hurting me in any way and you can say they live in peace, except that such cannot be ethically sane in a normal society. When it finally becomes totally normal that no one want to endure the responsibility of marriage. Where majority of women end up as single moms and people marry and divorce and remarry as many times as they want. That will never be a sane society.

Anyway, white people will say as long as they are adult and not hurting any one. So I don't have the right to dictate what is right for anyone even if they are wrong. Gay, or lesbian or incest homosexuals or marriage rebellions or divorce maniacs. They are not hurting me in any way and they are at peace with what they do. I'm just only baffled how strange things are gradually becoming normal nowadays.

I understand everything you're beating at correctly.
Incase you didn't see my last post:

Here are a list of failed feminists

Instagram slayqueen,
feminist-strippers,
Doctors who do enchantment surgery.
Magazines owner and music producer.
Bleach cream-makers

The above do feminism for nothing else but business.

Gratefulheart01:
She praises feminism but has a husband and a good home, while the so called fake feminist can't keep a home. The problems is that most people dont know what feminism really is. Feminsim is just saying women are not inferior. It is not a rebel against sanity. Just to correct a view of women as inferior human beings. So, if someone who understands feminism as Chimanda preaches it, its not wrong. That's why her life is sane and very normal unlike the majority of illetrates who misunderstands the term, dem oloshos, slain queens and mannerless single moms who misuse the word and majority of men who think oloshos and single moms are feminists.
That's why I said Chimanda is one of the real feminists I know in my initial post. A real feminist is the best woman a man can ever wish for. A woman who believe in herself, not all these begger oloshos who think its your job to feed their generation and jump from dck to dck.
A real feminists believes in herself, will not give her respected body to the gateman to fxk, will achieve and challenge her husband and so on.

Feminism is one of the words majority of people misunderstand and misuse.

Ok all said and read. Appreciate your effort for a long post.

Now how does Ini Edo fit this picture of a feminist that doesn't want to marry?

Why do you feel woman are majorly their own problem if they are not married?

Is she not living a more peaceful life than some so called married people?

So being married and having children is now a status quo to judge who a true feminists is.

Even chiamanda would fault some of your ideas.
Nevertheless I still understand the point you're driving home, but beacuse people aren't married when due or people who for some reason remain single does not in all it self maje it a hard and fast rule for spotting failed feminists. There are more to it.
E.g
Instagram slayqueen, feminist-strippers,
Doctors who do enchantment surgery.
Magazines owner and music producer.

The above do feminism for nothing else but business.

FireKing:
Come if ur own pikin wey u born dey call porn stars like this will u call urself a proud father or is this d life u want for ur children?. Please, I beg u try and pay attention to GOD..... if you choose this path my friend you will ruin ur life, ur wife own and the family u want to build as a man. Porn addiction will make you hate ur wife becos u will want her to perform like a porn star.Secondly, u will prefer porn videos than ur woman and u will never feel satisfied.... Masturbation will deny ur connection with GOD in so many ways and will find urself cheating on ur woman all the time.....please JESUS LOVES YOU GIVE HIM A CHANCE....... If you are a Muslim please Allah a chance

You're correct with alot of thing, but masturbation does not deny anyone connection from God. That is pure heresy. Porn is a sin not masturbation.

Gratefulheart01:
I always say things that many people dont have the capacity to understand. Its not my fault that I think farther.
If I may ask. What rendered it useless?

Chimada or what?

Most people who follow chiamanda(including me) knows how strong she supports feminism and some considered it extreme, if you later praised her at the ending of your post. Then it contradicts your initial claim of the negative effect of being a feminist.

hhhhhheeeeehhee I just dey laugh

queenxey1:
If she says " I'm sorry" even when she knows she is right, My brother Marry her. Ladies like that are only 15 in Nigeria

Ma is everything alright?

If you think this will go unpunished gather here.

When Nnmadi Kanu said "Nigeria is a zoo".... I was against it. But with what I hear day by day... I don't think he is far from the truth.

FarahAideed:
Hope you know they were rejected for low educational qualification ? One of the was an axillary nurse and the other had 1 month emergency diploma

hmmmmm

mozzking:
how do you know if his mother surfferd while alive, yes he worked for the money, las las all na still work, tho he might have been over paid, and if he has the money he can spend it on anyone he really valued

Did I say the mother was suffering while alive? abi you over-read what I wrote.

Ogaga87:
Don't shade me with your ignorance, you hear..

The governor of Ogun state just declared his asset of over 48 billion, if this was not released to the public now and he start spending or displaying his wealth, fowls like you will start shouting PDP has started stealing again..

The young man has decided to honour his late mom, what's wrong about that... To clear your ignorance, check the US cemetery and see how beautiful it is compare to your abode..

Rubbish person

Usa cementary was the way it is because of the citizens have a good life. A dead man remains a dead man. Honoring the dead is something I understand but the rate at which kogi youth are unemployed and in abject poverty, yet you're a senator there. Throwing expensive burial brings alot of contradictions.
I have nothing against the Mother or the burial, I am spotting a contradiction.

Ogaga87:
The foolish ones with poverty engraved in their soul and spirit will not see anything good in this honour to his mum..

Poverty mentality only gives them the platform to rain curse on anything that is good and that is why money refused to engage them..

Dino well done

please get lost, so a normal coffin would have been a disrespect abi? See, a dead man/woman is a dead man/woman. As much as the burial was properly done it is ok The shenanigans of spending heaven and earth for the dead when the living attending the burial are suffering in abject poverty isn't all a good deal. The positive side of this, is that those who made the coffins will gain and enjoy themselves. But what is very painful is, Did he actually work for this money? Money worked for is spent judiciously

9jaRealist:
Bros, until any of us have been on the yacht, we can't properly assess it's worth...
Nonetheless, you have to actually have N15 billion to have a realistic "taste" of N15 billion.
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I hope you saw my "opinion though" tag was attached to my post. It means that is what I think, I don't know how true my opinion is. I could be wrong. But from the place and angle I am, this is my judgement.

XhosaNostra:
Russia seems like an odd choice. Why Russia if I may ask?
Think positively, anything is possible.

Like I said previously, the cost is what am considering, Many Russian school have flexibile programs for international students. So it is a good option.
But the canada option is what I prefer more.
Anyways have you ever been to any other country aside SA?

Stillthebest:
One thing about the guy. He s hardworking. Call it trash but his account balance isn't trash and that trash has made him wine and dine with leaders in the country. The opportunities some are dying for. Ride on baddosneh...is he not a blessed son in his clan?

stop trolling, demonic politicians wine and dine with kings, robber lodge in best hotels, kidnapper drive best of cars. Should I go on?

XhosaNostra:
True dat. I think I'm only saying it because I haven't taken lengthy studies, but I'm also very driven, so I know once I commit myself to something, I'll stick to it & give it my all. It's only a matter of time as it is my goal to have a good social standing for my own satisfaction, I couldn't care less about opinions.
You mentioned studying abroad, do you have a country you're particularly interested in?

The country of my taste is USA but right now, Canada/Russia seems to be the best choice.
The pay is quite expensive for me right now. But I am on a internship that seem promising to send me there. I just have some task to achieve. And if they fail, I will sponsor myself either ways.
Infact Ultimately I plan leaving the Africa Society.

festacman:
Nigeria's identity is embedded in colour GREEN. It is our official colour. So why demonize our national colour?

I don't support it though. All I am saying is we shouldn't build a mountain of it. People do all over the world. At least for me I am not of that opinion.

XhosaNostra:
Yes, while still in high school I waited tables to make some pocket money, so I learnt a thing or two about customer care.
I actually want to go into HR too. Spot on! My dream job though was to become a criminologist, psychologist or psychiatry. That's my true calling because I like to psycho analyse people. It comes naturally to me. But the time it takes to qualify & become registered is what is discouraging me. I'm not built for time consuming studies. My attention span is like that of a flee.

yea I can relate to that part where the time to learn is really discouraging, but overtime I came to understand that many hypocritical people tends to pay more and give you much attention, the moment they know you're a professional. If your certification is from a recognised institution with great worth, good company are ready to pay triple for just being a decent graduate from a decent institution with additionally good grades.
So from then I just force myself to remain focused and become that so-called epitome of worth as much as possible.
I draw my strength from this school of thought...So if you really want companies, people and etc to take you places, you have to meet some expectation.
Certificatins takes you to the shores of the river, your personal skills helps you fish!

festacman:
The fact that significant number young educated Nigerians blame ordinary jersey for our loss yesterday says a lot about our mentality and creates fear about the future of this country. We should stop this superstitious blame game and accept that Desert Foxes of Algeria were much better and deserve to win.

The truth is that, currently, Senegal, Algeria, Cote d 'ivore, have golden generation of players while countries like Nigeria, Cameroon, Egypt are rebuilding and countries like Ghana, Congo DR have ageing teams that need rebuilding.

Nigeria's last golden generation was 1994 Super Eagles. Winning our last Cup of Nation under late Stephen Keshi was down to the 'crazy' form of Emmanuel Emenike and Sunday Mba at the time. Unfortunately, against Algeria yesterday, we did not have such players to step up or rather the coach's conservativeness made it impossible for such players to emerge.

The good news is that the current crop of young Super Eagles have golden generation potentials in them provided that our greedy sports administrators will work towards that and if a sound coach is hired to manage the players.

it is called jinx, this means the correlation people find in an event over time. yeah there is no technical prove of it. It doesn't mean it isn't as observations. people do it for fun, blame game and all. It is part of human mentality. So shift your judgement and let thing just be.

XhosaNostra:
I see. Well, good luck in your future endeavours. Yes, I do have people skills. Anything that deals with one-on-one customer relations is my forte.

Really? Maybe I didn't say it, but you relate to people well atleast from the little I have seen so far.

Human resource Management or "social Work" would be really nice for you, you know?

AmenhotepZuid:

JEALOUS MINDED BACKWARD TRIBALISTS from the ZOO.

stop trolling this thread

XhosaNostra:
Our education system is no longer good because they have lowered the passing mark, hence some can't even spell. Fortunately for me, I did high school when the passing mark was still 50%, plus I attended a good school with excellent teachers. I consider myself a professor in comparison to today's matriculants & most university graduates
What's your major?

I majored in CS(Computing Science) actually, and my minor was Educational psychology. It was a dream course for me though and my future intention is to work in a big tech firm where I can show my skills, which isn't an easy task down here in Nigeria.

Since you're yet to go further in your education. Then a skill should have kept you busy then.

muyinet:
What a retarded opinion


So those soldier that beats people up because their girlfriend gave them false info are disciplined abi?

A very slow and naive opinion indeed.

To him soldiers are some set of humans whose brains has been re-programmed to act just and upright with no blemish.

GISpro:
Lalasticlala come and see o.

To be factual, Nigerians have no regards for soldiers and I dislike it. Our military is our pride.

And these claims that soldier beat someone are usually one-sided stories.

Truth is too many Nigerians behave like zoo inmates. Unfortunately, soldiers have no chill for yeye behavior and that's why they get pissed off when people do stvpid acts to them.

Imagine a wheyrey onile man in Lagos sold the same land to five people. He tried it with a soldier and that one literally cooked his balls (as I heard). Who's to blame?

Soldiers don't look for trouble. It is civilians that should avoid crossing their lanes and learn to obey SIMPLE INSTRUCTIONS.

Soldiers are the easiest people to live with; dey your dey, they dey their dey. If you must cross their lane then be ready to follow simple and clear instructions.

You didn't make much sense the moment you feign ignorance of what the reality of the matter is.
How many countries have you seen soldiers walking on street?
Why would a soldier stab someone at the first place? is he above the law?
So you mean soldiers don't also just react? Are you talking base on research? or just because you haven't seen one.
Let me stop here.

XhosaNostra:
Looool, now you're just digging. If you must know, I'm not a graduate but I've got some post-secondary education.

Actually I was surprised. how can someone who writes well claim to be uneducated.
To my best knowledge, someone generally referred to as uneducated is someone who lacks enough information on general matters, and have poor awareness of his/her environment.
If not for the decadence of Africa education system. A high school graduate should be considered educated, since high school knowledge contains alot of information as stated by curriculum. But I know from paper that SA has good educational system.

XhosaNostra:
Then go to another country best suited for your needs/temperament. I'm uneducated

The another country would definitely not be in Africa.
Please what is the meaning of uneducated.... Seem I have forgotten?

tintingz:
He probably has issues with anger and mentally unstable.

his only issue is sadism. He likes to kill. simple

XhosaNostra:
It still hurts when it's one's own country though, but I quickly snapped out of it when I realized they would be getting a fat check while I get nothing for my hurt feelings.
It's OK, nothing spectacular.

Always had plans of wanting to come to SA for education(masters) and visitations but really right now I don't know if I feel like it. BTW what is your alma mater?

XhosaNostra:
I just found out now. I really don't feel anything about it. You win some, you lose some, that's how the game goes. Better luck next time & that goes for both teams. They're out there with more money than I do at the end of the day lol.

hmmm, BTW we just do it for the fun tho. How is life over there na in SA?

@XhosaNostra I know you're happy right now that we lost....