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Kapilta:
he did it with tap ins and penalties.

And how many strikers can tap in like he does?
Turn off the light and sleep.

Itooweak4una:
Guy, if i have money i will give to her. I didn't beg nairaland for money. I don't need money from nairaland but job for the said girl

We shall see about that Itooweak4una

Idonweak:
I created a thread a long time ago about a girl who was seeking for job. I explained that she had no one to help and she also has issues concerning her school fees.
This is the thread https://www.nairaland.com/5393677/please-come-here

Well she message me this morning that she is going into prostitution. She told me not to look bad of her that she has no choice. Since no job or helper. I was devastated and tried convincing her but her mind was made up already. I really wish i could help her financially or help with something she can do. Our society is really fucke.d up. Now i understand why most girls turn to prostitution. Nobody wants to help without getting something in return. So sad

Lies from pit of hell, all for clout chasing.
She called you, who the heck are you to start with and why are you important for she to call you and inform you?
Also you deem it fit to bring it here to Nairaland so that you can garner sympathy as if she will be the first.

Now you expect us to tell you to send her account number abi?
The Gullible are here but am not one of them.
mtchew

If it was true she called you then she was only try to rip your pocket open with mind games. tell her to go on.

darol4real:
Those kicking against Tithe should go back to the bible very well. Tithe was God command and i see no reason why we should go against a maker...some of you kicking against tithe, when is time to give offering in your church, you will look for #5, #20, #40 #50....none of you can give offering of #1000 and upward...How can you expand the gospel of Jesus Christ without finance? When Christ came into this world, he didn't talk about Tithe because it was God commandment and how can a son go against the father? For you to understand bible, you will need the Holy Spirit to interpret to you. You can't read bible with your personal knowledge and you think you know bible.

If the church needs money let them ask for it, don't use old traditions, false doctrines and fear to deceive members of their hard earn money.
Happy Sunday

wisdomclass:
Sir, it happened. I can give you my number and meet you face to face to show you dozens of witnesses that saw it that day... Am sorry for late reply

If the need be sir. Please give me an email so that i can forward my number to you to talk one on one.. Thanks for your effort in advance

Don't be fooled.

wisdomclass:
Am writing this out of the bitterness of my heart. Am sad as elf and i just have to pour this out here.

Am a student of the Delta State University. Last session, i observed the activities of some men defrauding innocent students around the school so i wrote an article about it. Just recently, while i was passing the university gate, i saw these men and decided to take pictures to support my write up. I never knew one of them was behind me, he came on me, took my IPhone Xmas, Slapped me and before i knew it, more than Seven hefty men came pouncing on me while onlookers, even students stood watching.

It took the grace of God to leave that place with swollen face. I reported the issue to the police and they are asking I make payment before they take me serious.

I want justice for what happened to me. Please someone should help

You simply have done nothing wrong and don't let anyone lure you into such guilt, your mistake was confrontation, you shouldn't have stupidly done things the way you did it.
You are just pouring out emotion all over the place, you need to calm down and let your head stable.
Corruption has just fought you back, simple question is can you fight it back?
If you plan to to instigate people to fight for you then you must act out convincing enough but sadly almost no one will do this simply because
1. Who the heck are you?
2. Generally Nigeria people are coward and won't fight except it affects them and even at that the still may not fight.

Conclusions.
Only you can take your battles if you wish to fight it, calling people on Nairaland will only give you heart wreck, so here is your answers.

peachysteve:
My brother hustle oo.. make your girlfriend no go blur your face comot for picture

Cheap!
Look like a picture you edited yourself, all for the clout.

chukzyfcbb:
yes, But that is out of scope in this discussion

If you say so.
Op could be lying anyway but he will have to enjoy the benefit of doubt since we are not there with him.

chukzyfcbb:
There is no wifi device that can be accessed within an estate, you are a liar!

Except your estate consist of just 10houses.

Have you heard of wifi boosters and MAN networking?

elyte89:
C as ppu dey advice op to pray.... Isn't it illogical advising/forcing one to pray @ age 35?


Don't u av problems /needs to table to God?


I won't even advice u to pray because of ur husband, rada pray because of ursef, everyone needs to pray including op...


Yeye op

Live this opinion for the wife to make, her husband isn't asking too much in my opinion, he should respect him as the leader of the family.
Also the man should act responsible too by providing.

arinpe16:
Good evening everyone. Please I need your advice.

My husband has been keeping malice with me because I don't pray regularly again (we're Muslims) and he's threatening to divorce me (we only did court wedding and yet to do Nikkah).

He's eats my food but doesn't talk to me. This has been going on for over a year now and it's getting worse. Can I tell his parents? They are strong Muslims and I'm afraid they may blame me more. He also doesn't give me money anymore. I'm tired of his stinginess and he's very insensitive. He believes I'm a devil since I don't pray even though things have changed for the better for him since we met.

He also doesn't believe I can get a husband since I'm close to 35. Please, I'm confused. I don't know what to do.

Behave and start praying the way he wants.

If he continues then he was masking the situation with the prayer of a thing.

Lastly stop feeling sorry for yourself and stop I am close to 35 rubbish, you can't control your husband actions, so be prepared for reality.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
virginity rocks
this tight pu$$ÿ belongs to one person only: my future husband
cant wait to meet you babe

But we know

teamforeveryoun:
I already said it was going to be long, you don't need to point that out.

If am correct, you are saying my characteristics doesn't fit LOVE rather LIKE,,,,,,.

Please. Help a sister,,,what characteristics can make me lovable? Am open to learn.

Interesting.

We Men are moved by what we see. so if you want to make a man love you, you can get our attention if we see you in the light that attract us.


Stop Blaming yourself for his lack of affection for you.
What you can do is to understand


Follow his lead, don't find unnecessary attention especially when he isn't asking for it, let him lead, the more attention he gives you the more you start to follow up.

Accept he his the only one who has the key to change his actions.

Help him if he ask for help and always ask him same way too.

Secretly monitor and investigate if it is beyond what eye can see ( He could be cheating)

**whispers** If you find something don't tell him until you're sure beyond that but before then just knock his ego by asking him strong question "are you sure there is no someone else" or just ask him shocking question like where were you around 3pm and if he denies just pretend like you believe him and don't confess your intentions(because he will surely deny it and flip it back to you).

Warnings: Don't ask this question if you haven't seen any strong fact

USE THIS ATTRACTIVE TIPS TO FIND HIS ATTENTION.

you have to work on your look, dress scene and all, I mean dress like the mood you want to get the HE into. Stop all the wrappers and scattered village girl hair.

Work on shape maybe join the exercise routine stuff and all.

Improve your cooking skills.

Do things that makes you happy.

Stop being so easy to get, make the HE play a little chase around game, just a little.

Hang around with female friends.

Do things realistically, if he says something and it isn't funny then its not funny but if it is, then laugh hard.

Listen to his stories and try tell yours too.

Seek his opinion on personal challenge as relate to job, future plans and other few fantasies (Advice: You don't always have to agree, the idea here is to make you appear feminine)

Reward his good behavior appropriately and punish the bad ones appropriately
and list goes on.

The boiling point is this, being likable isn't same as being attractive always remember this.
You alone really know how to attract this HE.

Likable qualities only make people like you and that's where it stops

teamforeveryoun:
Is it wrong to want to feel loved, ?

Am married with kids.
Working class.
Very funny,
Fun to be with,
Dreamy,
Intuitive
Very curious
About 35-39
And TOO down to earth.

But very very lonely.

**Warning*** This MIGHT BE A LONG READ,,,,MIGHT.

So we were off and on friends and lovers for about 8 - 9 years and somehow, we got married then baby no. 1 came 3 months later because I was already pregnant before the marriage. YES,,,please don't tell me I was already living in sin before the marriage, I was in fact swimming in it ( for all the holier than thous planning to preach up in here, I already confessed my sin so move on to something else).
2 years later baby no. 2 arrived and then no. 3.

We used to be so happy or so I thought. It used to be me and him against the world.

He made so much promises and 7 years down the marriage not one has been fulfilled. Simple and small promises,like he would definitely go back to school and get his degree, he would always make me happy, extended family would never come between us, he would try within his power to make sure i don't shed sad tears and so forth,,,,,simple promises.....

For the record, he has never paid a single bill since the marriage even before because I saw so much prospect in him, and I was willing to cover for his inadequacy, I so believed in him, he had this hustling spirit, was funny, kind and very homely. He truelly was a nice person and I never felt bad denying myself just to care for the family financially and emotionally. Sex was very OK and satisfying, so please, this is not about sex.

Resentment started when I suggested he help fill in the gap when it comes to being available for the kids, since my job takes up more time and brings in more so there won't be so much lapse between us parents and the kids even if we had a nanny who does a great job. Little stuff like drop them off at school in the morning on his way out for hustle, call the nanny regularly to check and speak to them, once in a while do their homework with them and most importantly spend time with them especially weekends and holidays if we can, ( I spend ALL my weekends and holidays when i really can with my kids, don't regret it). He felt it made less of a man, he wants to be out there, fine, but how much is out there bringing in, there are bills to pay, children to feed and general expenses that comes with raising a family. Am not earning millions but it can hold the seams of the family financially just enough, don't I deserve a bit of respect and accolade once in a while from my supposed partner? No, instead I get grumblings that I complain too much and I get angry too easily. Please, why won't I get angry when for example, I go to work on a Saturday,( he is forced to be home because no nanny on weekends) and when I rush back home after work, the house is completely upside down, kitchen is a huge mess, kids running amok and looking like they have been watching TV all day, no food available ( just to help me bring it out of the freezer to defrost before I come, I cook all the family meals) I have to start trying to melt food fast because me am even starving, clothes i put in the washing machine before I left by 5am are still in there, he jumps out of the house immediately I get in, and before am finally ready for bed, sometimes its 11pm and he is not yet back, when he does return he is reeking of alcohol,,,and when I get angry he starts complaining that why am I getting angry? Please, is it fair?
I have begged him severally to get a job but he insists he wants his own business as he can not be answerable to anybody.

He is never home and when he is,,,its either he is asleep because he was out all night according to him hustling or he is on his phone watching facebook and youtube videos. No interaction with the family unless I force him.
All our family outings has been by force from me,,,,,keeps telling me he is not that kind if person but he feels very happy being out on his own.
I have never attended a party or wedding or social gathering of any sort with him,,,he goes behind my back and when I see pictures or the clothes he used, he says it was nothing jare, that he didn't really spend much time there.

He tries to shut me up when we are having a simple argument, he would scream and yell or just walk away.

His family barge into our home whenever and however they choose, he never informs me but I had to take a stand on that as I was slowing losing my home.

Like I said before, sex used to be good but now non existent.

He doesn't look at me,,,,I could have a swastika carved on my forehead and he wouldn't notice.
I have called him severally for talks and all he does is remind of my faults which I honestly accept and try to work on but he never agrees he does anything wrong. For the longest time before we stopped having sex, he had to get drunk or high on weed, and I have honestly told him I wasn't comfortable with that but he wouldn't stop.
God knows I have been patient for years and have nearly fallen into temptations in the past but had to pull myself out before I went too deep.

Am human and I deserve real affection too.

I don't know but in recent times, am really lonely because I don't really have friends or time to even hang out with friends. Asides from my kids that make being alive still worth it, am just lonely.

Is it wrong I wish someone would appreciate me and honour me and I do same for the person because I know it will be appreciated, is it wrong am having that longing?


Please,,,all the WAR ROOM fellows,,,,go and sleep.
I pray.
Am human.

love is different from like.
All your characteristic will only make people like you including the He in your long blog post.
simple as ABC

stupidity:
So this two working class ladies recently moved into the estate. They live together as friends and share bills. Immediately they moved in, I went to do amebor, I educated them on all what they need to know in and out the estate, showed them my house and exchanged contacts. My second visit to their home I saw a Samsung smart 4k TV with which they watch DSTV. So I tuned the TV, connected my WiFi device to the TV(my WiFi device can be used anywhere in the estate if logged in) then I set up a Netflix account on the TV.


That’s how they started watching movies burning my data day and night, they work different hours so the TV is on repeat.


So last night, I used style to chuk one of the girls pin. Told her I’d want to sample the puss. She’s not talking well at the moment.


If I don’t get to sample at least one of the girls, I’m changing my WiFi device password and as well my Netflix account password.

your actions will only end in the friend zone

realestniggah:
Bro change the password if dem no give you chop.... We the fuckboy association of nairaland support you wholeheartedly

They will likely not Bleep him, he is no man enough.

WonderManly:
Don't let rap takes over your head o. Make you no go rap where you surpose shoot. Remember say rap no be incantation. Please you can still quite now and face your music jeje. I don talk my own ooo!

once in the army force, you must serve for a minimum of 10 years before you retire.

Sowore was fighting for a just cause, even though he went about in an aggressive manner. My own opinion is that Sowore should leave Nigerians alone, they were the one who voted in the president and theh were the one who is allowing the decade system which we call leadership and government.
Only a dodo wouldn't be able to understand that Nigerians are not ready for a better life, because if we do, No corrupt politician will sleep with their eyes closed.
Sowore leave Nigerians alone.

NoSidonLook:
thesame broke Churchill, according to Tonto Dickhead

See as the isi agu clothe fit him

Now we know all the rants on social media by Tonto was because she missed the luxury life she was living when she was with Churchill

When she was still living with him, you'd rarely see her on social media...or bothering about endorsements cos the cash was readily available by Churchill

But now all she does is chase clout and beg for endorsements upandan

So much for fake life celebs

Nothing like peace of mind, and freedom from an oppressive and toxic partner

Always chasing cheque. Never chasing bitches

Do you mean you know churchill more than Tonto the former wife?

Kyllahmc:
Op stop abusing the word "Lovers" or "Love".... that two sex obsessed individuals are mingling together doesn't mean they are lovers, it's called lust!
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Let me tell you about Love... Two Lovers will never participate in such bullsyt... Cos Love is extremely jealous, a lover would never share her partner,,,, and love comes with unconditional respect for each other OP!

You certainly have forgotten that some lovers are psychotic. You haven't heard of swingers?

endeavor:
In truth, I've seen all those Nairaland fellows complaining about BBNAIJA are those who don't have Dstv or Gotv at home to watch it.. I know someone who always calls it a rubbish show, but asks to know every happenings in the house.

I have DSTV and still I don't like it. Aside gist and gossip it generate, how do it help me personally? perhaps it is a 24hrs thing that last for 90days, phew.... That is 1/4 of the year.... No not me
Infact Nairaland hompage is the only reason I look it for few minutes.....

versejohn:
in Nigeria??
who will pay them(police)to investigate?

Goverment pay police billions every year. what have they been doing?

martineverest:
just look at hypocritical comments up there....most of those commenters and their relatives actually purchased 'tokumbo' cars and they are here criticising importation of second hand cars

stop being emotional, Nigeria with our oil resources is still unable to manufacture even toothpick and small products for itself, wr import practically everything we used. We are a dumping ground, accept it or leave it.
Whether hypocritical or not, China has dumped almost all there products here.

Justinlean02:
Ok... Na by 1min counting format...

You wicked o!..; D

Magnoliaa:
Did the relationship not work out because of the sex they had on the first date? Or because of something else?

I try not to do that though but if many of guys I know sleep with a girl on first date, what they usually tell me is that the girl is an ashana(loose). Most guys are wired to think this way. Don't try it even if the love is genuine.I warn you.

2019elections:
Who told you they were whites? Even the those who wrote the bible were racists. They didn't indicate there was a black man.

shut your mouth, where in Bible did they also mention whitemen?

cluewebhost:
Why didn't you condemn foreigners for killing endangered whales in their hundreds? Rather you said they rear them?

Now you will run mad soon. I said it was a suggestion, Do you watch Nat Geo Wild? if you do you will understand some people hunt for whales and shark at a particular season. Do the man in the picture look like someone looking for whales in the shores? I see you're trolling and if you still continue I will troll with you too.

cluewebhost:
Google the meaning of victim mentality and compare to what I said.
Don't throw words you don't understand about.
Did these people say the whale was dead?
Im a proud Human doing my best to be the best.
I don't care about black or white or bla bla

The fact you're digging racism into my intial post for condemning people eating a whale carcass means your first thought was that I was against black.
And that is victim mentality.
Condemn a blackman if he does wrong, and do same to anyone. It is not racism

Ugosample:
don't mind that guy

he is one of those pseudo "pan afrixanists"

Africans are poor hungry and destitute
because a thin layer of middle class and a thieving elite exists on the continent does not change the fact that out people are hungry


eating read stuff washed ashore is only done by hungry hopelesss and destitute I
people

the ones hunting in the water are hunting for fun at a particular season
they know what they are hunting (not extinct)
and they are definitely not eating dead stuff

do we even know the animals that are at risk of extinction in NiggerArea?

do we know the condition of stuff before eating it?

and he is talking

You are right bro!
Although we should condemn the Op for that foolish comparison he has made. Instead of him to explain to public what was wrong, he was busy comparing Black vs white.

cluewebhost:
https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/baby-whale-washes-up-beach-7936434.amp

Your victim mentality is still killing you. Didn't you see the link you sent me was a living whale washed to shore?

Why are you looking for every way to bring black vs white in my discussion.
I also condemn the OP for such picture he posted above, instead of pointing out what was wrong, he too was doing white man and black man comparison and foolish MOD pushed it to FP

XhosaNostra:
Good to hear you're back to your virile self.

Well, we're the exact opposite of each other because I have a hard time taking down pills etc. So usually, I just let an illness run its course without medicating myself. Yesterday, however, I had to try.

Haaa, that means your endurance is realy strong then, I hate being sick because by nature I like being active and moving. I just don't like to fall sick for even a minute.

cluewebhost:
Why do you make excuses for them and bash your own people? Please Google who rears whales and let me know. Did you ever read Moby Dick growing up?

I am only making a suggestion bro, Sharks are endangered as much as I know.
Stop this victim mentality. Maybe others are doing what you said not me.
I am condemning eating a carcass of an animal that was washed to shore of the sea and all of a sudden, everyone started to feed on it.
Even you yourself, can you eat a carcass of dead cow you find in the Bush?
Wouldn't it be better you kill the cow yourself and eat?