Golden147: Good afternoon everyone.. Please I'm kindly in need of advice... ignore my typing ERROR.. There's this girl I love and I want to settle down with her. She's still in school while I'm still in school too. She's 22 while I'm 24 nd also in final YR and we both love each other..my mum has supported me to marry her. I proposed to her and she said yes...I plan going her house next month next to start official martial rites but I'm afraid. Here is my reasons
She's the only girl and the last daughter in a family of 5boys. Ever since we started dating, she's in 100l then, all her school burdens are on me..I take care of her and mine own...with this people around who knows about our RELATIONSHIP ask me to marry her to avoid story that touches the heart..which he has accepted , her mum nd dad have accepted it too. My major concern about this girl is that those his brothers are not willing to do anything, istead the came asking me for small small money when I'm back, knowing fully I'm just dating thier sis....most times the my girl always feel ashamed of her brothers nd keep cursing them. The can't even call her on phone unless she calls them...nd the will keep asking why she didn't call them all this while knowing fully thier sister is in school nd not working.
I have thought about this over and over again, how do I marry from a family that can't even assist in anything...I know marriage is not always Rosy, what if something happens tomorrow nd I needed thier financial support..the can't render to me. I discussed with my mum nd she told me I'm marrying thier sister who is well trained nd not the brother..that I can decide not to give them money again... But I'm very sad over this. It's only the father and mum that acknowledge I hay been trying to see their sister through school expenses, including food and wears. I discussed with my woman, she started crying, saying she knows her brothers are such a disgrace, telling me how she may commite sucide if I didn't marry her... She cried that she can't visits her house again... that her only hope will be to start prostitution which she can't see herself do that nd that's why she is going to commite sucide if I eventually leave her, all her social media handle is full with my picture, including her profile pictures.
Please what advice do you have for me.... should I let go of this girl, I don't mind letting go all I have already spent...I just want to make sure I won't regret the marriage tomorrow...I have already discussed with my mom nd we plan on going her house officially by August ending..but I'm still very worried.
Calitoscassius: Husspupi was arrested in Dubai, besides, the Americans would have gone to Nigeria and picked him up anyway without nigerian govt's consent.
Oh! That is due process?
So the Nigerian Embassy should not have been notified?
Did the USA follow due process when Hushpuppi was arrested. Was the Nigerian embassy notified prior to arrest.
Was the Pakistani government aware of US undercover when Osama was killed. Did they follow due process which demands them to have notified the Pakistani government.
Y'all need stop all this gibberish and know we talking about a Nation.
Fahdiga: Nigerians are eagerly expecting the UK government to impose heavy sanctions and seize UK properties of officials of this despotic regime coupled with visa ban
Who will lose the more. UK sanction its own gold mine. Who does that?
""...that ye may bear fruits..." Must have a heavenly meaning! What fruit is Christ speaking of? What Nature of fruit is heavenly in its meaning and scope?"
Righteousness2: What a Gracious time to be alive and witnessing Endtimes Biblical Prophecies live in our faces.
From Wars and rumors of wars, Earthquakes in diverse places Pestilences, Famines, Fearful sights, Signs in the Heavens, Floods, Etc all the Puzzles are Falling in Place, Just as JESUS said it will be.
Friends/Foes, The Preparadness of your Soul for Eternity should be your Topmost and most Important Pirioty.
Ezewuzie01: Okeke the impostor . The latest court order will be submitted to Inec tomorrow and their legal team will take action. If Inec is confused, they can go to court to ask which judgement they will obey but they must remain impartial. Prof Soludo is well prepared to take Anambra state to greater heights as our governor.
advanceDNA: Where did U get the idea that the birth place of a person overrides the other citizenship?? On what grounds?? Quote the international law and where u got it from..
Becos a lawless nation like Nigeria wants to punish a person, u now want to assume his dual citizenship doesn’t exist?? Well done
His dual citizenship exist. And both countries have a right to him without interference. Nigeria has same right as UK does.
advanceDNA: The guy has dual citizenship...is that not in your dictionary..
And I believe in such scenario, the birth place overrides that of where he naturalized. Nigerian owns him if debate was to come to the table and has every jurisdiction to prosecute him "WITHOUT" foreign intervention.
kense88: A tout you are, a tout you will always be, just like malam malami. You are questioning the legality of a British citizen, been able to employ the services of a British law firm and you want us to believe you are ok ? Are you even worthy to leave among humans ?
Hello, he is a Nigerian citizen too and hold a Nigerian passport. A Nigerian citizen by birth.
thebosstrevor1: Kanu is a Nigerian by birth, he is from Abia state and holds a Nigerian passport.
So what consular service does he wants. The DSS is right for rejecting the form.
The type of adjournment kanu will receive in his case will pass Major Hamza al-Mustapha own....before you know it, he would have spend 12 years in dss custody until a presidential pardon is given by some lenient presidency.
[quote author=Zazamulah post=103862265][/quote]Mompha is a business guy too. He runs Bureau de change. Hushpuppi is into real estate, as a claimed by their personal self.
chukwuibuipob: Truth is BITTER a d BITTERNESS EMBITTER LIFE.. There is nothing like damage control.Watch out for those HOPELESS pastors to sing another tunes..If indeed dey got SACKED over money.They probably dipped their fingers I'm the honey pot
The whole church growth gimmick is all about MONEY
No once cares about church growth if remittance is complete.