Politics › Re: "Seek Out-Of-Court Settlement With Nnamdi Kanu" - Ohanaeze To Buhari by Staphylococcus: 5:16pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
Never!
Kanu must be killed.
Buhari has nothing to lose. He is not seeking re-election.
He should kill Kanu and nothing will happen.
And now that Big Brother Naija has started, when focus is in the program, Buhari can just kill Kanu peacefully, and send the menace to hell |
Sports › Re: Fethi Nourine: Algerian Quits Olympics Rather Than Take On Israeli In Judo Match by Staphylococcus: 5:15pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
dan9ice: This same Isreal that God fought for No nation can destroy that country oo God's own country Why can't same God give them money Seems you don't know it's one of the poorest nation in the middle east. The US feeds the country. Let America stop feeding the country and ordinary Kuwait will bombard it with missiles. Can Israel even finance a war. Can't you see how they were screaming for weapons at the height of last crisis. Stop hyping the shot hole. It's just America's presence in the Middle East that's keeping it alive. |
Car Talk › Re: Car Washer Wrecks His Client’s Car After Driving It To Buy Food (Video) by Staphylococcus: 5:06pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
When you village people have an appointment with you, they can never miss you.
If you like pray and fast all day, you will still get fvcker.
Best way to stay clear, just avoid their wrath. |
TV/Movies › Re: Bbnaija 2021 SHINE YA Update, Videos and GIST by Staphylococcus: 3:16am On Jul 25, 2021 |
Story begins! |
Politics › Re: Deji Adeyanju: Tinubu Will Be Worse Than Buhari, Runs Lagos Like Pig Farm by Staphylococcus: 1:37am On Jul 25, 2021 |
udemzyudex: Atiku is 100 times better than Tinubu. List Atiku`s track records. |
Family › Re: Help! An Unwanted Pregnancy Is Ruining My Life. by Staphylococcus: 1:04am On Jul 25, 2021 |
Priceless007: Hello Nairalanders,
It's a long story, but I'll try to keep it short and to the vital points. Please endure the length.
There's a girl i met at a theological college in where I was studying to become a clergyman and also learning a skill under the civil engineering department of the college. She was my junior in the course, as I was a year away from graduating from my first course, while she was just a fresher. She was always having issues getting through her courses and projects and would always ask for my assistance since I was the course rep in that department. It was forbidden to have any intimate relationship with your course mate or anyone in the college for that matter, the penalty would be expulsion. But unfortunately for me, out of sheer lust and seduction on her part, and gross indiscipline and lack of self control on my part, I got intimate with her and we ended up committing fornication during one of our semester vacations. And it just happened once, of which out of deep regret and remorse I confessed the matter to the college Admin when the next semester resumed. We were panelled, after which I was suspended, while she was expelled.
During this time I was learning a skill sponsored by the college, of which I use to get paid some weekly stipend. After I was suspended I was also stopped from continuing my apprenticeship, because I was not to associate with any of the students or lecturers in the school while my suspension lasted. So I was without a job and without a source of income since I wasn't yet mastered on the skill. The condition that was given to me to resume my studies and apprenticeship was that I should go and get married before I could come back to college, so as not to be tempted to repeat my error. But I wasn't ready for marriage whether financially or any other wise for that matter. So while I was contemplating my next move, this girl came to me that she was pregnant, that she needed us to go and see her parents. I told her I had no money neither was I ready to father a child at this point in my life. I pleaded she should give me time to think about what next to do. Two weeks passed, and I called her to enquire about her welfare but her number wasn't reachable, I decided to go to her place, but I was told she had travelled a week ago to go see her family. A week later, I received a call from a woman telling me she was the girl's mother, that her daughter came home with a pregnancy, and she asked me if I was responsible for the pregnancy, I answered her in the affirmative. She then asked when I was coming to see her family. I told her I wasn't sure about coming to see them that I needed to speak to the girl first. She said okay, then later that day the girl called me, and I told her to come back for us to talk deliberate on the way forward. When she came she told me her parents (who are by the way divorced) will not accept her nor the pregnancy without me coming to see them for marriage arrangements.
I explained to her I wasn't ready for any such thing, that I have a calling to answer and a course to finish, that what happened between us was just a stupid and careless mistake that has been as a setback for me to achieve my goal, and that I was ready to overcome the trials and get back on track, and I explained to her that before then I had neither dated nor been intimate with anyone for over seven years, and so any kind of relationship or marriage was not even in my nearest future plans, and besides, I didn't even have a job, not to mention having enough money to embark on a marriage plan. She said she would never accept such excuse, that I should look for whatever means to make sure I come see her parents before her pregnancy becomes obvious. She also said that she needed money to move her belongings back to Imo state where her family resides. I agreed to raise some money for her. I went to do some menial jobs and raised some money, about ₦20k, which I gave to her and she traveled back to Owerri. From then on her parents kept calling and pressuring me to come and see them for marriage arrangements. I told them I was going to come, but just to introduce myself to them as the person responsible for their daughter's pregnancy not for any marriage arrangements. But they disagreed, that if I wasn't ready to come for marriage that I shouldn't bother coming. I pleaded with them to give me enough time to look for money to come and see them, but they instead started threatening me with court cases and arrests, at one time they brought the girl and some soldiers to my family house and harassed my family members including my mother.
So I later traveled to Benin city to go look for money. After one week of my arrival in Benin, I lost my phone and I couldn't retrieve my number. I lost connection with them until I got back to Uyo where I got her phone number from a friend of hers. At this time, I was told that they came to my house several times with police officers claiming I raped their daughter and impregnated her then absconded. At this, I established contact with the girl again and she told me that I should not bother her that she wasn't in the mood to talk to me, I kept calling her but she often ended up abusing me or we often times ended up in quarrels, so I left her alone for sometime.
Two weeks ago I related the matter to one of my distant uncles, who advised me to gather some money and go see her, I called her and told her I wanted to come and see her before she puts to bed, which is expected to be sometime next month (August). But she told me that she still stands by what her parents had said, if it's not for the marriage issue that I should not come, that I should rather send her the money I would use in coming so she can use it to buy the baby clothing and buy some hospital requirements before she puts to bed. I called her parents and they told me the same thing, and said if I don't come for the marriage agreement before she puts to bed, that after she's delivered of the baby I should forget ever coming, and should never mention that I have a child anywhere not to mention coming to claim it ever in the future. And that I should just forget about her and the child.
The issue now is this, I am a bit frustrated because I seem to have lost everything at the moment because of this issue; my calling, the skill I was learning is gone, I have no job aside the menial jobs I do at construction sites which isn't available regularly. Now the little I have saved so far, I am contemplating on whether to use the money to pay for my skills training and continue with it and start my life afresh and forget about her, the child, and her parents, or use the money to support her in her hospital requirements for her delivery. Because I don't want to be seen as abandoning her when she is in this condition, and I also don't want to give up on the child, though I'm not capable of taking care of the girl and the baby right now, and probably, I might end up getting married but not under my present circumstances. I know I've made a grave mistake and this is the consequences for not being true to myself and my calling, and I deeply regret it, and I've suffered for it in any way I can possibly imagine, but I also need to put my life back in order, because right now I'm so devastated that I'm contemplating terrible alternatives to survive the storm, I'm at a very critical moment of my life and I just feel like giving up on life altogether. Please I need your help and advice on this issue. Thanks.
PS. Please if anyone is willing to teach me any skill, I would be very grateful and willing to learn. Send money to her for delivery. Play that role. You have to. Your child will be bring you luck after arrival. I am not merely talking. Come back here to give a testimony after the arrival of your child. |
Crime › Re: 300 Nigerians Languishing In Italian Jail For Mafia-Related Offences by Staphylococcus: 12:32am On Jul 25, 2021 |
nograv: Yeah Buhari is Fulani and his leadership has been abysmal..
Let's not even talk about the garbage leadership of Abacha, Babangida, Shagari and Buhari as a dictator..
Clown, feigning ignorance won't change the truth that whenever Northerners have ruled the country went backwards..
OBJ paid off the Paris club debt..
The economy grew under Goodluck.. Name one positive development under the leadership of cattle rearers and Islamic fanatics from the Sahel..
There is a reason why the Ashanti and Benin Yoruba banned Fulani and Hausa from their lands..
As I said you simpleton, if Nigeria looked like Japan advanced and developed. Would our people have been scattered to the four corners of the earth to live like beggars in foreigners lands
In truth it is Southerners who have borne the brunt of poor Fulani and Hausa leadership. Having to leave en mass in huge numbers whilst the lazy Northerners took what was left of the carcass of Nigeria for themselves.. So it's Fulani's that took Nigeria backwards... Keep heaping your problem on a tribe. |
Politics › Re: APC Sweeps Lagos Council Polls As Results Trickle In by Staphylococcus: 9:14pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
No news
It's normal |
Crime › Re: Cult Clash: Man Beheaded In Ilaro, Ogun (Graphic Pictures) by Staphylococcus: 9:00pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
Patrioticman007: The Nigerians of today hate truth, as such let them end each others progeny, in the name of Jew man & Jew girl. You have not seen gang wars trust me. Come to North America and witness gang wars. Under 17's. |
Crime › Re: Cult Clash: Man Beheaded In Ilaro, Ogun (Graphic Pictures) by Staphylococcus: 8:58pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
What is the scores please.
And who is leading... |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Staphylococcus: 8:14pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
Finally. Nigerian youths brains will be switched-off for 3 months.
This is the best time for Buhari to kill Nnamadi Kanu and Sunday Igboho. It won't have a ripple effect.
Guys be busy watching BBN |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 33yrs, ND Holder Without Job Experience ;any Hope? by Staphylococcus: 8:04pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
Their is always hope. It all depends on you. |
Crime › Re: Suspected Kidnappers, Robbers Arrest In Kogi (Photos) by Staphylococcus: 7:53pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
See long porks
They won't even be sweet. Very unhealthy things |
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Naija Has Started... by Staphylococcus: 7:46pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
Exactly.
Brains will be switched off for 3 months.
This is the best time for Buhari to make cogent moves. No one has his time now. |
NYSC › Re: Any One Going To River State From Lagos For Batch B orientation camp by Staphylococcus: 7:42pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
Nonwa Gbam Tai |
Crime › Re: Divine Hanachor: Missing University Of Port Harcourt Student (Photo) by Staphylococcus: 7:39pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
Get a police report and approach her network provider. You could get a clue from there. |
Crime › Re: 300 Nigerians Languishing In Italian Jail For Mafia-Related Offences by Staphylococcus: 7:33pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
nograv: The product of decades of failed Fulani leadership in Nigeria.
Had decent leaders been in government these poor souls would have been in gainful employment in Naija..
Mtchewww…. As others have said since they have turned to crime, we have no use for them back home.. Still blaming Fulani? Damn! |
Crime › Re: Obituary Of A Private Security Guard Killed By Armed Robbers In Uyo by Staphylococcus: 7:24pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
And am sure his employer did not give him a life insurance.
May his gentle soul rest in peace. |
Romance › Re: My Fiancee's Anger Issues by Staphylococcus: 7:14pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
mario22: My fianceé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. I have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).
She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. I don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.
When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . I tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in the middle of the road.
That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go to the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she makes rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.
I Love her but the anger issues is killing. To won't live long with such a lady. That's a short life span you are dating. If you love your life, run and never look back. It will only get worse. |
Career › Re: The Factory Worker Who Went From ₦220k To ₦35k/month by Staphylococcus: 6:44pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
Who read this novel? |
Crime › Re: 300 Nigerians Languishing In Italian Jail For Mafia-Related Offences by Staphylococcus: 6:41pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Sunday Igboho: Full List Of Yoruba Leaders Assembled By Ooni Of Ife by Staphylococcus: 1:48pm On Jul 23, 2021 |
ablejesus26: Chia they have tried for igboho,next time make him no dey run mouth against the leaders of the land. Being a freedom fighter should not make you loose yourself and respect for elders. That is the point. You nailed it. |
Politics › Re: Angry Man Who Attacked Super Falcon Unmasked He Is IPOB (pic and name) by Staphylococcus: 4:54am On Jul 23, 2021 |
One could easily tell from the shape of his head. Hausa hardly have this kind of head.
And with the way his eyes is bulging out of his skull, he is definitely IPOB |
Politics › Re: Cultists Attack Ogun APC Campaign, Kill Two by Staphylococcus: 4:51am On Jul 23, 2021 |
Vickyvice: Anywhere u see A p c it's tears and blood Very true! APC governs Rivers, Bayelsa, Akwa-Ibom, and Anambra. |
Travel › Re: NAF Acquires Super Tucano Aircraft (Photo) by Staphylococcus: 4:48am On Jul 23, 2021 |
Perfect time for ESN to make problem. We need to test the efficiency of this aircraft. |
Celebrities › Re: Obi Cubana: I Started Dating My Wife When I Was Living In One-Room (Video) by Staphylococcus: 4:45am On Jul 23, 2021 |
Same with me too.
Met my wife when I was staying in the forest. We lived inside the forest for 5 years before we relocated to a farm near a village. The kinsmen in the village had to build a hut for us and gifted us with 5 plots of farm land. |
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu Fires Radio Biafra Broadcaster, Ekpa by Staphylococcus: 4:41am On Jul 23, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Anambra 2021: Accord, The Only Alternative Party For Ndi Anambra' - Alexreports by Staphylococcus: 4:37am On Jul 23, 2021 |
Someone has been smoking marijuana .... |
Family › Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by Staphylococcus: 4:15am On Jul 23, 2021 |
116 times |
Sports › Re: Real Madrid Unveils Alaba With his Nigerian Father And The Rest Of His Family by Staphylococcus: 1:57pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
DaddyRochie1642: Alaba doesn't look like his Dad  I am the biological father. |
Properties › Re: Three Nigerian Immigrants Died After Jumping From 10-storey In Marseille France. by Staphylococcus: 6:27am On Jul 22, 2021 |
Too bad |
Celebrities › Re: Angela Nwosu Receives A SUV From Her Husband, Austin Nnaemeka After Delivery by Staphylococcus: 6:22am On Jul 22, 2021 |
tillaman:
 Me sef na sex therapist na but all these women just come for late night booty calls none of them don buy me bicycle  Congrats to you Angela Nwosu Stop fvcking useless things |