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Go to Codedruns, na dem full there dey charge #300k for sex. I wonder whether some people actually pay them that...

That's why I tell people, if it's not your time, nothing will happen to you. But if it's your time breeze fit blow and you just die.

Lightangel65:
Did a toddler just crack a joke, I guess fools don't know they are fools, that's what makes them fools

I know you are frustrated but instead of you to seek wisdom from me, you are insulting me a legend. Well if you continue with this, doom and catastrophe awaits you. Ciao

khia:
So who made this thread based on lies and deception? Who made this thread from pure hatred, pain and stupidity? I would think your brothers were smart enough to see that this boy is in a lot of pain. The op has been seriously hurt by a black American woman and this thread is his way of striking back. He needs a therapist to help him through his pain.

Lol so kingsteve calmed you down with the other moniker, you resumed with this one. Well you are still missing the point. You could have told us that quite true, there are some crazy AA ladies out there but not all of you are that way. By doing so you could Have convinced us that the above statement is true. But no you keep attacking everyone in an uncivilised manner thereby vindicating OP.

pDudd:
Delete it why na?

It is an educational thread. It is educating and enlightening. I am being objective as opposed to subjective.

Khia is just blowing hot because I'm exposing what happens in the AA community that many people know but refuse to talk about because of trying to be politically correct.

It's good you enlightened some people because a lot of guys are trapped in their web. You just get luck say you treaded with wisdom otherwise na another story we for hear. As for me I've known them for long.

khia:
You aren't any different than other guys, you have the nice ones and you have the pigs like the creater of this thread and his goons.

You know if you had comported yourself from the the start, someone could've considered your case but with your razz attitude attacking everybody, even the nice guys will be running from you right now.

pDudd:
Hahahaha. End of tori.

That is why she is here. She is hunting her next prey.

And you are spoiling market for her. Lol meere ya ebere.

khia:
Stop lying, when did I say we detest Nigerian guys?

Lol you like us then. No wonder. Case settled

We know how they behave even before OP opened this thread so Khia picanto or whatever you call yourself you can head back to wherever you came from, there's no point defending your ill-mannered sisters. You claim you guys detest 9ja guys yet here you are trying to launder your image before us. What an irony.

Lightangel65:
Continue ironing dresses for ladies, looks like that is your career.
I wonder what a woman rapper can have that the MGTOW's don't haveq

You are missing the point but I don't blame you, you could have suffered worse fate than that. That's why you are going your own way.

If you want something serious, tell her you do. If she refuses, make love to her and move on life is not that hard.

I have been seeing a lot of threads about the MGTOW movement and many guys supporting it while the ladies are ranting. However men shouldn't be going their own way just because they are loosing the game; they just need to change strategy so they can win the game.

I was reading one thread about the stupid things people have done for love and I couldn't help but shudder at what I read there. I was thinking a lot of people have the kind of heart I have but I was wrong. The most stupid thing I have done was to iron a dress for one girl I was chykin that year. Las las she no gree for me o, but I found out that she wanted me to break up with my then girlfriend before she can give it up. Lol not after all the lies she told me. She tried to cause trouble bw us but I was smart enough to handle her perfectly.

Pdudd my guy just taught us what it should be. If he hadn't gotten a vasectomy, he would have come here to cry about how one akata babe is ruining his life. He simply beat her in the game. So guys if you have any questions, ask o before one girl go use you catch cruise and you come here and be forming MGTOW.

khia:
No, you are the dumb one. He said white men risk their lives going to Compton to be with black women, in a community he said is very dangerous therefore he will be risking his life as well, but he probably lives there.

Yes dummy I know a vasectomy can be reversed, my point is black American women shouldn't be that important to him to get the surgery. It would make more sense to seek the women he adores instead of the ones he hates.

I don't care who he screws it's the filthy lies he tells.

This doesn't make sense. Your teacher must have had it tough explaining things to you.

Small time this one go dey argue with elders wey im suppose dey greet “good morning sir ”

Chai. People make una pray so that you wouldn't end up with a bad spouse. But Op you know say without money in marriage problems must come. It only takes a real G to keep a woman in check without cash. So be a real G.

Biglittlelois:
If men are meant to have more than one gf, why do they come here to create whining thread of how their one gf cheated or broke up with them? Why?

Well those guys don't know the intricacies of the game. But I'm here as a Lionel Messi in the game to teach them, only if they will listen. For the guys you can refer to my previous topic. Ladies that topic no concern you so dey your dey.

IamDavids:
You are ridiculously ridiculous!

There is nothing that can justify cheating in a relationship.

Stop creating Hypothetical situations and giving flimsy excuses.

Cheating is bad! Biko!

Oga I'm not being ridiculous, I'm being realistic. You are the one living in fantasy. If you think what I'm saying is not real you need to go out more. Cheating is not right but its a reality we are living with.

dawnomike:
@Op, you have really tried... I wish you were to be a lady

Abeg o, I prefer to be a gentleman.

Sometimes when guys complain here, I wonder how hard it is to find another girlfriend. My guy that love you are feeling is a thing of the mind. Find another girl and watch how the feelings will start developing all over again.

xendra:
so you are not at home??


Corona everywhere and this one is still thinking relationship

Lol Corona will go and relationships will continue. Besides the place I work is on partial lockdown, so I have time for Nairaland for now.

As a guy, I've had a fair share of experience in the dating game. The first rule is have the looks or the cash. Having said that the guys that actually fall into this category is just a little fraction of the population.

So ladies you see that that fresh guy or rich guy you are admiring has the attention of a lot of other ladies. So you now do the math on his chances of not cheating.

So unless you guys are ready to give “the other guys” a chance, be ready to share because those guys that fit your spec are limited in number and a lot of ladies are out there.

derealj:
Op, you dey form Jagaban naa abi? Lol I actually agree with some of your points especially. No. 5 and No. 10. That's the reason why at a point this section was full of complaints from the guys. Only if they will learn.

Well it's not everybody that goes to war that will return safely.

ikh777:
Ubunja Junior

Sorry Ubunja is failing number 3 rule

I have been following Nairaland for long now, and I have noticed the war going on between the guys and the ladies here. I'm here not to join the war but to give the guys tips on how to win this war. It's not every thing a lady says that you reply. Having said that. I know some people will come here to say; “in this corona period” but then corona will pass and we will return to the pitch. So these few tips will help you to overcome the female folks. Take this from a veteran in the game.

1. Most guys think that if they spend on a lady, automatically they have right over her. Well unless the lady is a professional olosho, you can only have that thought in your mind but don't show it because once you do, you are already losing the game. When you go out on a date, don't give her the impression that whatever you are spending on her is because you want to have sex with her but just have it at the back of your mind. After the date if she wants to go home then send her home, trust me you are ahead.

2. If you don't have good looks make sure you have the cash otherwise you are not getting the chics you desire. When I entered the University I had four girls crushing on me once. One was calling me her husband at one point (sure green light). I flirted with her for a while but lost interest at a point. I later broke her heart when I ended up with another of the chics. I didn't have money then but then be the judge. Mind you when I ended up with the girl other guys have tried but lost. Sometimes good looks works better.

3. Never at any point show them hatred but be assertive. No matter how handsome you are most ladies can never tell you their mind even if she's dying for you. (There are few exceptions shaa). She can only show you green light so you can pick it if you like her. I was once approached by two young ladies when I was in my finals. Omo see chykin I come dey blush. But I didn't pick it up because they were so young. What I'm saying in essence is Good looks will bring girls to love you, money will make it seem they love you.

4. If money is your style, then be prepared to keep it coming. I was friends with benefits with one lady using Iphone seven that year. I didn't buy the phone but I knew guy who did. Sometimes we will be resting after a session and the guy would call her and quarrel will start. I go just dey my dey o. I can't kill myself. las Las the guy go buy gift why me go send sweet words.

5. Never get emotional when you guys are not that deep yet. Some guys once a lady calls them sweet names, they loose their senses. No be today I start to hear sweet names but if you want my heart you have to prove yourself. Also never compliment any lady too much no matter how beautiful she is. Make your compliments subtle. If it's too much, then she knows you can be manipulated.

6. In serious situations, always mean what you say. I was making out with a lady once and she got a call, She picked the call and was taking much time. Being that I was in her house, I dressed up quickly and as I was about to leave, she was signaling me to wait, I told her I needed to be somewhere and that I wouldn't be back that day. She gave me six missed calls. After that she didn't try it again.

7. A lady that doesn't want to visit you wouldn't. But don't pressure her. Once she gets to know you well she won't even hesitate. I had s*x with a lady for a long time in her house before she gathered the courage to visit me. One was posting me for long but I didn't pressure her. The day she got comfortable, she doesn't even call me again before coming. See wahala.

8. If you are depending on good looks only, just have it at the back of your mind that one day, you might loose her to a rich guy. But don't let that bother you. More are coming. Also don't argue much with a lady, just give her good romance and she will be good. If you are angry with her, give her space.

9. If a lady tells you she has a boyfriend, that doesn't mean you shouldn't shoot your shot. Most of the times, that's a defense mechanism. But if she becomes too resistant, backout immediately and proceed to the next one. No time. Also never tell ladies the entire truth. Withhold some information about yourself and also upgrade certain aspects of your life verbally but don't over do it.

10. Las Las, remember that any girl in your life is a phase, don't take it too personal. You might not end up with any of them, just do your time and see if it'll work out, if it doesn't move on. One guy once told me she saw my girlfriend in a hotel with another guy. I didn't even confront her but was more careful. Today I'm no longer with her. Shit happens.

Note: All these didn't come without heartbreaks and disappointments, but they added to the experience I have today.