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dayokanu: OP,

I agree with you, What nonsense. How can a fellow human (sorry I mean lower human or sorry Lower animal) be disobeying you The Lord and master of Lagos and Ogoja. An "ORDINARY WOMAN" for that matter just because you dignified her by marrying her. Just like someone who bought a pet dog.

The best thing you can do is get a gun and wipe out her whole family and community for having the effrontery to raise such person(I mean lesser human) who can disobey you

And for your temper Its a good thing you have a temper. I know several Community Banks who can pay you good money for your temper.

Can i ask, How do you display this your legendary temper when you are in front of your boss, Your dad, a Soldier, or governor Fashola? I bet you slap any of them who annoys you.

Thats the type of people we need in this country?

Join a Political party so we can vote for you in 2015

Shalom!!!!!

Oh my days

Finally caught up with your diary alos! Haven't read your diary line by line in weeks. The way you express yourself without holding back just makes me laugh and I picture reading your diary like you are having a conversation with me.

Authentic G's gist..kikiki..lips sealed

How's jennoti now? Very scary description\narration you had there. I hope she's fine.

And good to know your dad is fine now. Omo daddy e.

Jekyll & Hyde:
[color=#000033]*Shoots her and apologizes to Oga TM*[/color]

Kikikikiki...

Sorry bizbloke, I share the same sentiments..shoot me too..

I'm really scared for this last poster kenyatta. She needs thorough counselling and support and I can only hope and pray she gets it. Reading through her post on this thread, I had to go through her former topics and I read a topic of hers seeking for advice on her low self esteem. She is still in this hopeless relationship because her self-esteem at the moment is almost irredeemable. Please she needs help.

Kenyatta, please do not go into hiding, let people help you in here PLEASE!

Hahahaha..nice one bizbloke..the 1111 comments will forever crack me up. Best race ever..lmao..

byvan: I got married as an undergraduate in my second semester yr1 but I knew my handle academically before I took that decision. it wasn't easy handling marriage, baby making and schooling but it was what I wanted.Coping wasn't a walk in the park but I carried my stress with dignity and graduated with my peers.Imagine what is like going to class with kids,thank God I was mobile,yawa for gas.I saw the path I chose as an adventure,i was determined to succeed as all watching eyes were almost sure that failure is imminent .I have so much to say to you but I have to go for school run,later........

byvan: The major factor you should consider is the type of man you are getting married to,what is his attitude towards education?is he a graduate?How important is education to you? It's most unlikely for a graduate to want a drop out as a wife,thus he ll be more supportive than one who has no regards for education.Do you intend to have babies before or after school?how brilliant are you academically?do you ace your courses effortlessly or are you struggling with them? Please think about these points before I comment further,am quite busy but your topic really caught my interest,i ve been there.......

I just had to re-quote this poster's first 2comments. She shared her experience and she did not in anyway sugarcoat it or sell to us that it was rosy. Poster can pick a few from what she went through and decide for herself if she's brave enough to do so, because at the end of the day, it is her decision!

Byvan also asked her a few important questions in the 2nd post, so I don't know why some people are making it seem as if she's urging the poster to go dip her hands inside fire or she's trying to make poster see marriage as the ultimate goal.


Again, she shared this..

byvan: Coping with pregnancies in school wasn't easy, neither was it fun, i read and wrote exams through morning sickness.I once missed writing three papers because I was down with hyperemis gravidarium,oh yes,it can be delightfully frustrating. When the second baby came,i still had to handle the pregnancy and my toddler.i didn't hire a nanny because I feel parents are the only ones that can really care for their kids.At some point hubby had to be with the first baby,he single handedly baby sat my first child all through my remaining stay in school while I took care of the 2nd.

And

byvan: If you are going to this, just make sure you are tough enough,e no easyooooo!!!!Be sure you are doing it with the right person and there are no trust issues.


Please note that having kids in school is not advisable for someone that is struggling with academics,there are times I virtually had only a few hrs to cram my entire note because baby won't sleep for me to read ,i pray to God to retain what I crammed and he always does

She has simply told us her 'survival' story. It is not a must the Op does the same. If Op decides to follow her footsteps without evaluating herself, then its her own cup of tea.


Anyway @topic, I'm out of school already, but I wouldn't have gone into marriage as an undergraduate. I know what I went through as a single lady, trying to survive and ensuring I graduated with a good grade and I don't think I'd have coped with being married in school not to talk of having kids. Yeah, that's me. So, Op, do you .

sholay2011: @SOM!!...I see you oh

Was waiting for it to hit fp before passing my comment.

...Even though the story made me cringe a little, I enjoyed it as a 'layman' cos it was well written

Nice effort

C'est moi:
Bev on Jara.
She said she was not aware that she had spilled so much about her family and friends,that sometimes u just forget cameras are watching and it feels like u are just gisting with your friends.She said wen she got home,her mum scolded her for saying so much and has forgiven her.Helen too begged people especially those she talked abt to forgive her.Helen is funny sha....she said to bev wen she gave her the jara pillow,'Don't give Angelo o' and bev replied that Angelo is over there and Helen replied,'May he never come here'.
Just thought i should chip this little part in.

That angelo part was hilarious. I laughed so hard ehn. Beverly was still 'fresh' from the bba house when she granted the interview, she was still dealing with what people thought of her which I think explains her sober mood. Apart from the angelo talk, the way helen was asking her ques and the comical jaras she was adding just made the interview fun. Lol

sexytabhi: Lol bev with some of her mumu ways , she said it is just a style so helen laughed it off.

Helen is one helluva crazy n funny presenter. She said she imported the gloves from SA and asked if beverly was representing okada peeps with the gloves and bev laughed it off. Helen also Said charly boy must be happy with her and beverly replied that she's the female version of charly boy with the glove style and hers is purple while charly boy's own is black.

Overall, the interview was interesting, bev looked so innocent, pretty and unusually calm.

homesteady: Was it only the briggs family that brought a kid?
Another family brought one young boy, but they did not go far!
It is not only the kid that determines who'll win, but your performance through out the show! the briggs family performance through out the show was outstanding! Except their hip hop dance!
If you like bring 5 children oh! And your family can't dance, you'll be evicted

Thank you o. I don't understand why people think joy alone made them win. If joy was really good and the rest were poor, they wouldn't have stood a chance at all. Wasn't the clement guy good? Dosa nko? As far as I'm concerned Joy just gave them more edge cos she has an endearing personality which is what a family also needs to buy the heart of those who want to vote for them with their money. We can't deny that the rest of the family were good too and they had a lot of 'wow' moments. Even their final performances were on point.

As for enweribe family, most people wanted them to win cos of big flo or whatever that dude with an attitude that stinks name is. He was the 'xfactor' in their family as well.

If we want to talk about a family that had it all, then I'd pick the ekado, just like the eghove last year.

My top 5- briggs, ekado, ebenezer, ebute and dosa!

And Yeah, my best family won, my votes did not waste.. . Briggs-eloquent, humble, endearing personality and excellent dancers..

Did I say the 2families I didn't want to taste the money at all were ibrahim and nweribe? Cos they were both overconfident and 'fialess'..hahaha..

homesteady: LOL! The boy is very annoying! And he likes giving long speeches!

Abi o..with his rural swag and unpolished accent. .. Winning no be by rolling of head

Okay, enough of my badbelle..I'm glad my fav family won

L Blessing: Thank God it wasn't Enweribe. That. Chukwuebuka guy is damn proud. The only reason I watched the finals is cos I wanted to see his sorry face. I achieved my aim

You sef see am. The dude has attitude. Everything na beef.. They are fearless.. He has no team spirit. Apart from the fact that the briggs are good, they are like-able and have audience appeal, not even joy alone.

Voted like crazy..kikikiki..thank God say na 10n..

I love them all, sotom, terry, mummy and joy! I no sabi uncle.

I'm happy...

Na ibrahim own funny pass..kikiki

BRIGGS!

Yayyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!

My votes did not waste!

Kikikiki..ibrahim 5th oo..I said it!

4th - ikumonien..

That was cheating na.. Just a few seconds of dance by muyiwa n janelle..I was about to make jest of muyiwa's dance steps, but they covered his black as3s

L Blessing: I'm not voting. The Ekados are out

I know how it feels..but the briggs are good too.. Dint you enjoy their performance tonight ..don't mind homesteady, vote briggs

homesteady: That's what I did! I voted 8 times for ebute and twice for briggs!

I meant in favour of briggs


*still voting briggs, no splitting for me *

Dannyxy: STATE OF MIND! STATE OF MIND!,let it be said that on this day i told you that OCHONOGOKO LOVES YOU...

Haba, love bawo. Ochon crushes on almost every female here..his words, not mine

And We all know ochon is the resident cunny coward ..but we love him for who he is

ToyinDipo: Ochon, you better watch out.

Nice one! Keep doing your thing..I dey your back well well!

Oya, ochonmoi and maria, roll over yourselves

ToyinDipo: Ok, I see the conspiracy

Even if I didn't 'like' you before now (our paths haven't really crossed), I like the way you are handling maria n ochon.. Say no to conspiracy and bully

Ochon n maria, you both are sick ehn, your pushy comments are cracking me up. Keep having your fun.

Dannyxy: er er em,from a psycological point of view,it's very obvious you don't like too much attention focused on you,you are introverted,you like privacy,and you are also shy...@toyindipo you can start with the highlighted maybe jst maybe you can win heart,nd thank me later.

Introverted - big yes
Don't like too much attention focused on me- yes
Like my privacy-yes
Shy-probably not.

Why do i think you've probably read a few posts in my diary

....you are right all the same

ToyinDipo: I know you are a brave guy, who likes to save the best for the last. But seriously, come out clean on this; You like C'est Moi, Yes or No. Don't worry, it won't appear like you are getting back at someone

Nice one, don't let him (or maria) change the subject of tonight's matter and shift the attention to you.

Mariarocks: LWKM!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Taaa SOM go take the pm route. That girl.. I sabi her kind

Maria, wetin I do you tonight na..

Dannyxy: oni oju sha,it's very obvious she doesn't talk much in real life,4get all diz fronting

Er er em..eraborate *in nat's voice*

Mariarocks: StateofMind is a shy girl but u won't know it because she covers it up with wickedness . Na under G things she likes

Lol, You no well o. What makes you think I'm shy and wicked

ochongonoko: Wow!!. There you have it folks, a new couple in town

Toyindipo and stateofmind toySOM


SOM, please say something to him. Don't ignore him, he has proffessed his love/crush to you

Lol, you are such an instigator..

I like the way you handling ochon jare, @dipo..he keeps running away from what majority do, picture uploads, crushes, he knows how to shift attention from himself but can so push things for others.. Oya, carry go ..

homesteady: but now I don't know which family to vote for! Briggs of Ebute

I know you love ebute..but vote for briggs.. or vote 80-20 in favour of briggs

I predict briggs and ebute sharing the 1st n 2nd position, and either way is cool by me.

How I want it... Briggs, ebute, ikumonien, nweirbe, ibrahim

How it may turn out.. Briggs\ebute, nweribe, ibrahim, ikumonien,.

I sha know ibrahim aint winning this..

Yeah, I agree..I said it yesterday that they are my top4. You don't wanna know how much me n my siblings beef that ibrahim family!

gengen118: I wonder y d judges evicted d Ekados tonight. Am still tryin to figure where diz guys went wrong. Sentiment aside dis family was d best tonight (imo).well I wish dem all well. I really like d ekados cos I feel dey r d best in dis competition

You are right, they were the best tonight, though they havnt been consistent but they improved greatly. I also agree A bit of sentiment was involved. Ekado perfomed so well I even thought briggs would go for them when they called them together. I almost cried for ekado, cos those guys are good. Even osas got emotional. But then, it is what it is.

I tried looking for a reason, so I thought maybe they judged with previous performances, but when they chose ebute over ebenezer, was like oh well, I really cant say if the judgement was based on tonight's perfomance of previous performance, I mean 'past glory' or just sentiments.

Jekyll & Hyde:
[color=#000033]Hi, StateOfMind.[/color]

Hello bizbloke

ochongonoko: I've been seeing you "peeping" countless times. Why have you deserted me/us. Miss your presence *face palm*

Lol @ deserted..and yeah, I've been peeping o, just lazy to reply..hope you good..