Celebrities / Re: #AFIJFW: D'banj Takes Over The Runway At Johannesburg Fashion Week by Stellamariss(f): 8:14am On Oct 09, 2018 |
JasonScoolari: Lol, and she's pissed off already.
No hard feelings baby. ok |
Celebrities / Re: #AFIJFW: D'banj Takes Over The Runway At Johannesburg Fashion Week by Stellamariss(f): 8:50pm On Oct 08, 2018 |
JasonScoolari: Have I offend you with my comments? Sorry dear, I am not here to please anyone with my comments.
If you don't like any of them, furck you, from the bottom of my heart. Go Bleep urself onye ara |
Celebrities / Re: #AFIJFW: D'banj Takes Over The Runway At Johannesburg Fashion Week by Stellamariss(f): 7:40pm On Oct 08, 2018 |
JasonScoolari: The second pics will leave some nairaland girls wet. ....Lol, D'banj dick long pass Nairabet slip. when will u get sense ,,just asking |
Celebrities / Re: Rumour Of Ambode Buying Mercy Aigbe A House Trends On Twitter by Stellamariss(f): 11:34am On Oct 08, 2018 |
nepapole: :So ambode is her big god. lol this pics got be laughing |
Celebrities / Re: Toke Makinwa's Response To Fan Who Begged Her To Buy Jamb Form by Stellamariss(f): 3:40pm On Sep 25, 2018 |
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Celebrities / Re: Lexine Yobo First Paid Modeling Job (Photos) by Stellamariss(f): 7:31pm On Sep 24, 2018 |
emperorblog: *While your mother is praying that you should have a long life, you're in your boyfriend's house shouting ''ohh yes baby kill me''* � � � God is watching hahahahhaha una go kill me |
Celebrities / Re: Efemena Okedi Is Dead! Ras Kimono's Wife Dies by Stellamariss(f): 7:16pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
gaby: Wow...R.I.P ma'am...
Mariah Carey's song comes to mind here:
I can't live..if living is without you I can't live, I can't take this anymoreeee...
I'm very sure she must have been telling the legend Kimono, " Baby, I can't live if living is without you", while they were together.
It is well....
Let the Rumba styleeee continue in heaven....we'll meet you guys up when our time is come and we all shall be doing the gaga shuffle together...
Enjoy my siggy gaby: Wow...R.I.P ma'am...
Mariah Carey's song comes to mind here:
I can't live..if living is without you I can't live, I can't take this anymoreeee...
I'm very sure she must have been telling the legend Kimono, " Baby, I can't live if living is without you", while they were together.
It is well....
Let the Rumba styleeee continue in heaven....we'll meet you guys up when our time is come and we all shall be doing the gaga shuffle together...
Enjoy my siggy RIP to her |
Family / Re: ........ by Stellamariss(f): 6:40pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Joyfulgal:
Wow thanks. You are far too qualified. I wish I could help. Don't give up. thanks |
Family / Re: ........ by Stellamariss(f): 2:07pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Joyfulgal:
Wow thanks. You are far too qualified. I wish I could help. Don't give up. OK thanks |
Family / Re: ........ by Stellamariss(f): 9:57pm On Sep 22, 2018 |
Joyfulgal: Good morning everyone, Let me start by saying I am not a perfect person. I will try to be as honest as possible. On the 29th of August I got a nanny. Here's a brief description of her. She claims to be God fearing, around 50 years, separated from her husband, has 5 kids. She calls me daughter and I call her mama/mummy.
The first three days she came, she was sick , but was treated (malaria ). Two weeks into her stay, she complained of body itching note she has a room and toilet to herself. Drinks good c - way water and bathe of course with clean water. Diagnosis was allergy. Just yesterday, she started complaining of neck pains. When she told me her age, I told her at this stage, she needs retirement but she says no one to provide for her needs. Meaning she needs the job and salary. She will be paid #30,000 monthly. Remember she's a stay home nanny.i provide her meals and medicals and may occasionally buy her clothes.
She lives with me and hubby. My hubby washes his clothes and car. So the only thing needed from her ìs a nice meal at the right time. I also told her, he doesn't joke with his meals. The first week,we had issues with her . She forgot the egusi at home and went to the market. Sure there was issues. The meal wasn't prepared on time. Two days later she messed up moimoi, it was on a Saturday after long hours of waiting for the meal , she served a meal that was half cooked. Hubby told her to cook again. And left the house angrily. I returned and ate the meal and also complained that the meal wasn't properly cooked.she said it's my tongue. I was bitter with her. Can you serve a visitor what you gave us or sell what you gave us? Her response was, she cooks and sell moin Moin and people don't complain. Ok I knew we were in for it. First week, I usually stay with her in the kitchen and guide her on her to prepare our meals. The following day Sunday, I told her hubby will go to church later so u can go for first service and return to prepare lunch. she returned from church(RCCG that closes before 12pm) few minutes to 2pm. I calmly told her,if my husband returns and his food is not ready it won't go well. She responded loudly that she's angry with me.i didn't bother to call her to find out her where about. I told her I see you as an adult and believe when dealing with adults things should go smoothly. Lunch was served by 4pm. I told her, if sincerely you see me as a daughter, you won't be doing all this. That passed. She kept a straight face.
God knows I have been trying to make her happy. I tell her to take a walk when she feels like. Give her money for snacks and ice cream. Make her feel like family. Watch tv together and allow her retire to bed when she feels like but the electronics must be properly turned off. Don't wake her up when I need to do some chores in the early hours of the day. I play ludo game with her when free and engage her in long gist to make her happy and don't feel lonely.
HERE IS THE PROBLEM I told her, soon I will connect the dstv to her room but she can flex with the tv and dvd now. But when she needs to watch the almighty android tv in the sitting room I will help her turn it on .The tv is complex, requires update and to know when to connect it to ups /stabiliser. Yesterday afternoon called me, I was sleeping and honestly my phone was on silent. When I woke up, I went to her. She said there was light and she was calling and I didn't pick and she wanted to watch tv. Later in the evening, with our epileptic light, light came and off course her usual routine, please turn on the tv I did. PHCN struck around 10.21pm. She came knocking but I was in the convenience. When I came out, I didn't see her. So I went back to sleep. Remember no issues yesterday.
This morning, she requested for a meeting with me. Here was the discussion Mama : I take u as my daughter, when I notice some character I don't like I have to tell u .maybe when oga comes the three of us will sit and u will tell me where I have gone wrong in this house. Your attitude towards me, I don't understand. I have noticed that on four occasions when I call, u don't pick(even days she went to the market ) i always return her calls.yesterday I knocked u didn't answer. That this suffer work when person dey do." She don tay for this job" .e be like I dey find person to replace her or she fit go.
Me: is that all my offence ? Do I wake u up early morning to do chores? I allow u wake up at your time. What do u think u do in this house? Sweep and mop once a week, go to market and cook and wash only my clothes and wash the kitchen utensils. What else? I have been a housewife and working class for some time now. It seems u are tired of this job or you are bigger than it. Please give me one week notification. I respect u so much the reason why I will stop here, had it been u were younger, I would have hit u real hard for all these u have said.
My observations medically fit:40% A good cook: 30% Keeping the house clean:30% But I intend to keep for some time until I have exhausted all options. I know she needs the money/salary. Tendency of her poisoning food is low or bringing in armed robbers or kidnappers is also low.
Please I need help on how to manage her or make her happy. I have been interacting with her as a family member and I think over familiarity is raising unnecessary issues. Please drop some tips for me.
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madam pls am interested in dis kind of job,,I just finish my ND and I need where I will work so I can get enough money and continue my HND pls if u still need a nanny or house help am available.. so I can continue with my education.pls reply me,,thanks |
Romance / Re: "No Man Ever Get Severe Stomach Ache From Not Having Sex" - Nigerian Doctor by Stellamariss(f): 5:20pm On Sep 22, 2018 |
wezzyjasified:
Whats your own??
We all know say na lie but na our tactics be that.
Leave us.
lols |
Romance / Re: The Highest Amount To Spend On A Girl For First Date Should Be ₦3k–facebook User by Stellamariss(f): 5:55pm On Sep 19, 2018 |
Wilfredpat22: What stops the woman from paying for the guy on the first date and create a Good impression.
Honestly we ladies are useless u too are stupid,,, stop the stupid comment, because i know u can't do what u just mention |
Romance / Re: The Movie 'acrimony by Stellamariss(f): 1:58am On Sep 19, 2018 |
don't know y me no like the movie..so boring to me |
Romance / Kiss by Stellamariss(f): 3:07pm On Sep 18, 2018 |
Hello my good friends, pls I need a job within Anambra state,Awka precisely..am on my one year IT don't want to stay at home ,,if u have anywhere u can hook me up pls reply ASAP |
Romance / Re: Am Confused: What Can I Do To Win My Husbands Heart Again? by Stellamariss(f): 2:21pm On Sep 18, 2018 |
u are really a wicked woman,,do u even have conscience at all? |
Romance / Re: Lady Tells God She Need A New Phone, See The Epic Reply She Got From A Man by Stellamariss(f): 6:38pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
BiafranBushBoy:
I just went to your profile and saw wonders!
How long have you been in this begging business? I guess it is booming for you! is that u can say..thought u have a lot to blab |
Romance / Re: Lady Tells God She Need A New Phone, See The Epic Reply She Got From A Man by Stellamariss(f): 1:43pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
BiafranBushBoy: Lol
Useless female beggars everywhere. If that guy had sent the money to her, she would have bought the phone, used it to oppress the next person sitting close next to her.
She might even go on her WhatsApp status and claim;
"Hardwork pays"
Lol... Beggars everywhere, not willing to work for their own bills. really ?anyway ur moniker says it all |
Romance / Re: Here's An Example Of "Na Dem Dey Rush Us". See Babes Sha. (pic) by Stellamariss(f): 1:40pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
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Romance / Re: Guys, Be Honest by Stellamariss(f): 1:21pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
LuciferKristi:
The emboldened is a myth. Its not of the mind anything. Johnny acts of his own accord sometimes & there's nothing you can do about it
I've had embarrassing erections in awkward places like church, infront of a grandma, facing clients, in a banking hall etc without even thinking or seeing anything sexual.
However, the woman pig in OP's picture cannot come close to me. Nothing turns me off faster than rubbish fat in a woman.
nonsense |
Crime / Re: Man Spends Two Years In Prison After Taking Neighbour To Hospital. Photos by Stellamariss(f): 9:17pm On Aug 15, 2018 |
LuciferKristi: Why is he smiling?
Is he aware Buhari is now President?
I give him three weeks, he'll be begging to go back to jail. lol |
Celebrities / Re: Jada Pollock Flaunts Her Family - Mother, Brothers, Sister & Son With Wizkid by Stellamariss(f): 4:24pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
Demgohearword: Wizkid is nacking fine girls abeg... Omo ojuelegba. Guys hustle o, na person dey knack Otedola daughters. If you hustle well e fit be you, e fit be me, we fit dey knack obama daughter sef Guy to knack a fine girl is it award? |
Romance / Re: Soo Depressed by Stellamariss(f): 9:48am On Aug 14, 2018 |
OgaBuhari: Stella marris do you remember me? The guy on whatsapp group that studied together during jamb last year.. Whatsapp me sharply 09064553219 I'm also studying library science I still have ur contact sef...nice meeting u again |
Romance / Re: Soo Depressed by Stellamariss(f): 7:45pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
greyham:
I'll take this as a compliment
Good for u |
Romance / Re: Is It Safe To Let A Guy Suck You During Sex? by Stellamariss(f): 7:19pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
samysmoothfresh: [/quote] [quote author=samysmoothfresh post=69645162] seriously this got me |
Romance / Re: Soo Depressed by Stellamariss(f): 2:44pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
greyham:
Weird as this may sound, you need intense penising to get this off your head and focus on the future
Thank me or curse me, it's up to you u are really crazy..pervert |
Romance / Re: Soo Depressed by Stellamariss(f): 10:27pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
CreamyBanana:
sorry. don't think too much about it. work hard to make up. i like you already so i won't disturb you with my nonsense again. Thanks dear |
Romance / Re: Soo Depressed by Stellamariss(f): 9:27am On Aug 08, 2018 |
CreamyBanana:
i won't leave you alone until you are happy again. i will make you happy. am happy but whenever I remember it..it hurts so much |
Romance / Re: Soo Depressed by Stellamariss(f): 9:01am On Aug 08, 2018 |
CreamyBanana:
abuse me, i no care. i just want you to be happy. sex dey cure depression. you don't know? sorry for the abuse..bye |
Romance / Re: Soo Depressed by Stellamariss(f): 8:30am On Aug 08, 2018 |
Xinzu: You fuggin ugly, why won't you be depressed? Thanks for that 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Soo Depressed by Stellamariss(f): 8:29am On Aug 08, 2018 |
CreamyBanana:
is not the end of the world. what you need now is a good pounding from me. it will remove the depression and make you think straight. depression will make you tired of life. it is bad. onye ara |
Romance / Re: Soo Depressed by Stellamariss(f): 8:11am On Aug 08, 2018 |
eddyghali:
Just write through HOD, before its too late ok |
Romance / Re: Soo Depressed by Stellamariss(f): 7:47am On Aug 08, 2018 |
Karleb: young woman, kindly go to your department and lodge your complaints, your C.A wasn't recorded. Do it before it is too late. OK thanks |