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samkay12:
Well..

Girl's first response might be to say "Serves him right" but really what dumb rapist will stick his johnson in his victim's mouth.
That must be a pretty stupid idiotic Rapist

On the other hand there must have been a "rush of blood to her head" and she bit it off as an act of revenge for something he did to her in the past. Then she starts screaming Rape Rape for some sympathy.

If he was a Rapist then.. No comment from me..
If he wasn't.. then.. It's just.. sigh!!

I think I'll stay away from BJs entirely.. Better safe than prick-less

mtcheww.... Birds of the same feather.

amtheone:
@edywife.

Pls dont be offended ohhh. I want to know how this young lady can be helped. Can money be raised for her to start a business? Even though she made a mistake, I think she actually needs help.

I would really like to contribute financially towards helping her.

Actually,i sorted for loan from LAPPO (40000)bt was turnd down on the basis that i was young.
If i dont get help financially, i might succumb to my family's threat. Pls if there is any1 who can link me up with a job or with a loan to start a small business will be duly appreciated

Oya come and solve the puzzle.

salsera:
IF this is true. There is nothing virtuous about it.

1. He dated you in secondary school at 14years at his own age of 25years!!!
2. What do you mean you had sex at 18years? Or you think because he didn't penetrate with his p#nis means it was not sex. Cos if nothing sexual happened in those 4years then why do you still call it a relationship.
3. Why do you feel you feel you have disappointed your parents. If the relationship was legit for 6years would they not expect marriage.
4. Your baby daddy is 31years so what did he expect would happen. Was he looking towards you clocking 15years dating before belle go enter.

I seriously suspect your relationship
Cos if I heard a 26year old started to date a 14year old then he started as a paedophile. .

first,must there be an evidence of sex be4 it is calld a relationship? If that's what u think, then u are wrong. I was a virgin at that time and was nt ready for it.
Second, i had finishd schl by 14 he met me.
Third, i felt so cuz she(my mother) wantd a better life than this 4 me. U can't imagine a single parent that had been strugling 2 cater 4 her children only 4 her daughter to be pregnant at a tender age. It's worth to be disappointed about

edwife:
Now you making me feel bad,please stop crying.I really feel for you,enough of the blames.I want to help you.

What do you think you can do,what are your plans? what is your boyfriend saying?

if i can get a job before the baby becomes obvious, i would be very glad

Freciprocal:
This might be one of the toughest decisions you may take in your life...

Do not be scared.... You are not alone.

Your decision has already been made by you, what u need most is Encouragement.

Many Ladies like you have been thru this and come out victorious. I just pray you Love your guy very much, and don't see him as a hindrance to you attaining your goals.

The deed has been done my dear... don't look back. People would call u names, don't mind dem. You would give birth safely and still gain admission next year!

I will put you in my prayers and I urge you to be strong. God Bless you my dear!

perry2020:
[/quote][quote author=Freciprocal post=35207004]This might be one of the toughest decisions you may take in your life...

Do not be scared.... You are not alone.

Your decision has already been made by you, what u need most is Encouragement.

Many Ladies like you have been thru this and come out victorious. I just pray you Love your guy very much, and don't see him as a hindrance to you attaining your goals.

The deed has been done my dear... don't look back. People would call u names, don't mind dem. You would give birth safely and still gain admission next year!

I will put you in my prayers and I urge you to be strong. God Bless you my dear!

thank u love. May that feeling of love and concern u have for me always bring u good tings in life

edwife:
Then now you are forced to grow and be a mother instead of being in school and pursuing your dreams.

I am just a bit upset with you,you just 20!

Okay i hope you read the rest of my post,get something doing no matter how small.

Beg your mum and manfriend for a capital,no matter small the amount-you could start by there until the man responsible for your pregnancy get to his feet.He needs to start planning.

i've disappointed every one that kept their faith in me. Than k u so much. I cant stop sobing as i type. May God bless u abundantly..

edwife:
What do you mean by training you to be a virtuous woman? Where was your mum in all this? Isn't it suppose to be her job to do that?

then she was having health issues.

angieberry:
From the title of your post, it sounds like you want to keep the baby. Don't let anyone force or coerce you into doing something that you don't want to do. You're not the first person to get pregnant during a period of financial constraint, so I'd advise you to keep your baby.
Is it that your bf does not have a job or he's just going through a bad phase? Can't you set up a little business for yourself? Can't you beg you mom and sis to help you out? And it's never too late to go back to school
I'd tell you to go with your mind. Since your intuition tells you that something bad will happen in the future if you go through abortion,pls don't do it.
Better to suffer the pains of hardship now than to suffer the pains of childlessness tomorrow.

no financial help from them if i'm going to keep it

edwife:
I could write many things here i have in mind but let me just restraint myself because what is done id done.But girl truth to be told you have not try at all.

i have always told him to be careful being that he was much older and more experienced.

LadyFiona:
Keep the baby and get a job.

Your Mom and sister including the " guy " missed another vital option --- marriage.

At 20 and 31 years, both of you should get married and slug it out together.




You started frolicking at 14 years, you're one baddass ooooooo.

actually he was the one that trained me to be a virtuous woman and he didnt have sex with me until i was 18, that is 4 yrs of relationship without sex

Saraha1:
Pls keep calm. Just hold on for some mothers on this forum to advice you, but know this, for no reason should you abort that child. The deed has been done, what we need now is the way out.

pls what do u think is the way out. Cause im nt financialy bouyant now not even my guy

vfactor:
Na to keep the pikin na. We don't always know how the future will turn, but its good to do the right thing. Its gonna be difficult for u, cos u put the cart before the horse. But with a positive attitude u can overcome it. Genevieve Nnaji is a good example!



By the way, I hope u now see why u should wait till u re ready to marry before dating....

yes, i see it now. I dont knw if God will forgive me?

Freciprocal:
Ok

please advice me in the name of God. I beg of you.

I write this with tears because I'm in a delima right now. Please help me out before i do something sucidal to myself or my baby.
I'm 20 years of age and my guy is 31. We've been dating for 6years now. Three weeks ago, i found out that i was pregnant. I told my guy and he said i shuld keep it. But my elder sister and my mum wouldnt let me keep it on the basis that i havent gone to school ( tertiary) and i dont have any business doing at hand. And worse of all, my boyfriend isnt fianancially bouyant of taking care of himself not to talk of another extra 2 mouths. I'm having this feeling that if i abort it, i would face the consequences severely in life. Please help me nairalanders. This is for real.

donmalcolm21:
Orishirishi

Banza!

Airforce1:
I hate to comment on threads like this

But you've already done that

jnrbayano:
With office as comfortable looking as this, one wonders what his home will look like.

abi ooh!

mightycrown1:
he is not coming now, maybe in 4 century to come but now noway

U cant be sure. Just ask 4 forgiveness 4 what u said. He is definetly coming like a thief in the night. Just be prepared, that's all there is to it.

mencade6:
you mean you have been avoiding the sweet pleasures in this wonderful world? Why naa

Truthfully I have, but it has not been easy i tell you. Like I said it has only been by the grace of God. It's rare to see a lady keep virgin hair and not fixing any weavon or attachment on it. And it's also rare to see a lady date only one guy. Most times, they tell me I'm too young 4 dat (I'm 21) and i shuld enjoy life but when i disagree with them I get booed, teased or lookd down on. I only need God's grace.

mencade6:
do u think u will enter heaven?

By the grace of God, I will and I must. i cannot miss the new paradise for the pleasures of this wicked world.

I suspect voodoo in this cuz it's occuring for the fifth time in the same spot.

When would all this stories ever end I'm so tired. Lord Jesus, please come quickly. I love you Jesus.

hardywaltz:
E be like say mesef I go follow trek...

God forbid!!! On top wetin?

1.Peter Biaksangzuala- India
Died from spinal injuries that occurred as he landed awkwardly while celebrating a goal.

2. Endurance Idahor - Sudan
He died in the ambulance. Autopsy report revealed that he suffered a circulatory collapse from a heart attack.

3. Akli Fairuz - Indonesia
Died after colliding with opposition goalkeeper during a match

4. Piermario Morosini - Italy
The cause of death was cardiac arrest.

5. Marc-Vivien Foé - Cameroon
Collapsed while playing. The cause of death was hypertrophic cardiomyopathy.

6. Hrvoje Custic - Republic of croatia
Collided with a concrete wall during a game against Cibalia and died in hospital 5 days later of severe head injuries.

7. Miklós Fehér
Cardiac arrest caused by hypertrophic cardiomyopathy while playing against Vitória.

8. Antonio Puerta - Spain
Collapsed during a match against Getafe C.F.. He died later in hospital after several cardiac arrests. Autopsy revealed arrhythmogenic right ventricular cardiomyopathy.


Pray for the protection of future ad upcoming football stars because death is inevitable.

EfemenaXY:
Another his 'n hers thread.

But I've got to admit a lot of what was posted here is true. Annoyingly true. For those to whom some (or all of these) are applicable, pls make the necessary changes.

abeg tell them my buroda. Most of the men kicking against this thread fall under one or two categories due to that egoistic nature the op talked about. I'm shaking my head for you guys. Nonsense. Mtcheww

I didnt knw he was married, and i had been waiting all this years. Mtcheww

Spending hours with the mirror

J0nyb0y:
Why does every damn news on Tonto makes front-page??

abi oh my broda, u sef follow me see wetin i dey see on top tonto matter

He never even enter, he don dey show im colour

Story 4 d gods