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I bet you are, but haters will soon arrive.

you cannot bribe for love, date a lady who has something doing, relationship is not a poverty elevation programme, foolish men still learning the hard way.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Jenny it's ok..these kids ain't worth your response tho..
As you can see the OP is nothing but a baby boy who doesn't even know what's he's saying..

he knows, he is simply telling we guys not to date a jobless broke ladies, relationship shouldn't be a burden to either party.

Jennyclay:
And who told you am not making my money?? Have I begged you for money before??

You guys are always quick to throw tantrum at ladies, and you called that freedom of choices??

You and op should grow up.

if you already making your money, why don't you ignore the thread, the thread is not attacking ladies, is about guys making the right choice when going into a relationship, congrats if truly you work for ur money, at Least your kind won't be a liability in a relationship.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
You think if your pops acted in such a rude manner to your mom@ you would be here spewing this garbage?
ninito you ain't gat no experience you are just speaking from some nonsense theory your fellow kids told you..

Now little boy pick up yourself and swallow this nonsense you posted up there..
chico no eres inteligente..

please move, I don't know if you are a girl or a boy, but let me let you know something, both gender are open to the same opportunities of making it big in life, women are no longer deprived as it was back then, so if you are a girl and you are allowing your gender makes you feel worthless then you must be archaic. also if you are a boy, know that no girl will take you serious if you are jobless. rubbish entity.

a tenant today might someday become a landlord, hope you will be reasonable with your tenants the same way you want your landlord to do to you. note, every investment is for reason.

Jennyclay:
Africans (especially Nigerians) don't know how to celebrate Valentine's day.

In European countries, Roses stores would be so filled up with customers, everyone getting flowers for their spouses.

But here in my father's land, Hotels and motels would be so filled up, every rooms are booked already.

Nigerian men aren't romantic and it's bad, Nigerian men sees sex as food.

Even on Christmas, Easter, independence.. Infact any given holiday is an opportunity for them to have sex.

Nigerian men change!!!!!

that's what most girls subjects themselves to (only thing available to offer).

if you call them sex object, the will defend their stupid self

village people, e no skid for another place, but for lake.

oga we all have a dream we wish to accomplish, if your dream towards marriage is to marry a woman who has no baggage, dump her, don't give up on your dreams. you will be proud you did this sooner.

imagine the level of money ritualist, all because of greed.

ngel0v3:
I'll keep it simple please.

I'm a passionate guy.

The kind that enjoys sex ONLY when the woman in front of me is really enjoying it too.

Kind of lonely tonight.

And I need a girl who is also feeling same.

So are you in Uyo and want to have a little fun tonight?

Who knows... we might like it so much we try it again another night lol.

I wish I could convince you to relax your safety concerns. But I trust ladies know how to "sense" an idiot from a good guy.

Moreover when you call me, or flash at all, you can ask all the questions in the world you wanna ask me.

We can meet somewhere first, so you can confirm my handsomeness and confirm how safe I am.

I just want to have fun tonight.

Here's my number: 08168049285

ntin

Kobojunkie:
God, the one written of in your Bible and the very one who created marriage, never said any of that which you claim above.

So again....God has absolutely nothing to do with anyone who serves others only sometimes, let alone a one who is no better than an unbeliever.

e Don do nw, make e rest.

oga, wetin no want work no go work, person don tell you say, this relationship cannot work because you are not in a good department (animal science). those F genders lack nothing to say even if you tick all the 12, when them tire you go hear excuse till you cannot can.

Kobojunkie:
God has nothing to do with anyone who serves others only sometimes, let alone a one who is no better than an unbeliever.

understand different English, duty and non- duty, a woman takes Care of the home, even Bible and Quran records it. a married man can wash plate because he eats from plate or to assist the wife, but is not is sole duty in the home., religious bigot.

Deegee7788:
Because u too is an ATM and anybody can come and dribble u because u can't control ur third leg


Simple

you just confirmed what the op said, let's end the debate. thanks, we love you.

YinkaOlusesi16:
Truly men are also helpmate, but not to be washing plate.

is not your duty, but sometimes you can do it, same it's not a woman duty to bring money in the house, but sometimes they do it, you don't listen to everything a man of God says, so far you not breaking God's law, a man of whatever shouldn't direct your life activities.

bendaniel1616:
But you don't have to be insultive, ok thanks I appreciate.

some men self, you don dey fantasize how you go take Bleep her already. see curiosity, you even brought it here to clear your doubt, oga go home and apologize to your wife, imagine.

bendaniel1616:
I understand the meaning of dear , but some people really gives alot of meaning to it , I've see a case of a married man
Posted her female friend and addressed with dear , and caused a serious fight in the home ,my question is "can a dear just be use for anyone" . If a jealous husband see that kind of word on his wife phone he might react ...The topic is to enlighten ourselves more .



quote author=immortalcrown post=110063686]Don't you have a dictionary? Before we advise you, tell us what you think "Dear" means.

You are obviously a pervert trying to create a problem where there is none.

Oga go and sit down, nobody will tell you what you want to hear, we can only tell you the truth, you think she's into you, or she is developing a feeling for you, oga, dear is just dear.

The are proud of it, a Nigerian girl motive when dressing or making up is only to attract a man, and the purposely dress seductively because the only thing they can offer is sex after sex.

MadeINchenzen2:
If you are intelligent u should know that's not his first marriage. He left behind a second wife.

do you read at all? if you do, do you understand what you read?, now kindly read the post carefully again, and give yourself a knock when you understand it.

kwantinue, na de eleventh year life go sweet pass, Nigeria go come dey like Dubai, even market women go de flex millions, money go yakpa, any small thing person put hand, na joy, , girls go yakpa, na dat time one more year go dey flash you mind. for your mind 12 yrs long. omo fear Satan.

Lasunray01:
Good day nairalanders. My first time post in 5yrs.

Will try to summarize the issues and seek sincere advise please.

I’ve been married before but got divorced within a year due to genotype issues(it’s a long story). So I remarried 2yrs after and with a child now, and that’s where my issues started from.

I know I have some bad sides too which I’m trying to change, which is flirting with single ladies, and this has caused multiple fight with my wife.

Whenever we have this fights, not physical, just verbal, but in her anger she breaks virtually anything around, cups, laptop, speakers etc. she can be madly angry. I’ve warned, petted her severally to desist from this act especially infront of our kid...but she won’t. It’s getting worse by the day. Now she reports me with blackmail to her parents and friends making me feel I’m the worst husband in the universe, calling me unprintable names. Calling me weak cos I don’t beat.

Now the advice I seek, we are planning to relocate as a family abroad this year, but I’m really scared. I can actually go alone, but would prefer we all go together since I have the means. But I’m scared if I won’t regret my actions to take her along with this her character. What if I get jailed or lose custody of our child abroad, because she’s a master in blackmail. She can turn simple issue overboard.


Sorry for the long epistle. Just had to pour out my mind. Constructive criticism is welcomed.

Thank you

have not read any line about you desisting from your dirty act, can you repost this some month after you have avoided flirting with single ladies.

jaxxy:
If u actually followed or read any of my posts u will see I mentioned she was wrong bt the boy is even more wrong for attacking his mum or trying to kill her.

U don’t do such to ur mother. Ur mom who trained u? Do u know if the father abandoned them b4 she left and married again??

He’s a very stupid boy.

oga you started by asking if that should be is priority, which proves that, to you a son knowing his father is not that important.

jaxxy:
Ohh so this is a guys vs ladies competition to u?? We have serious problems with our clueless youths.

I thought I asked you to avoid this thread, your sense of reasoning is not qualified here, can't you follow post about ASUU strike and the likes.

MadeINchenzen2:
Lemme explain.

Chances are you can marry your dream lady as an average cute young adult guy than a rich man in his 40s or 50s


I can categorically tell you that time is of essence to men just as it is for women when it comes to marriage.

Truth be told... most men who got married after they must have acquired so much wealth @ their 40's 50's did not actually marry the woman they really want, but they married a woman who agrees to pay less attention to their age but sings along to their chorus because of his money.

Not so many youthful adult lady will agree to any marriage proposals of older rich men, unless she's Regina Daniels...


A woman who knows her onions would regard a man, not because of his money but because of some more important factors that can make her marriage and kids with him thrive.

Marry early so that you can raise your kids early enough to some reasonable stage in life before your maker calls you to the other side.

A man got married at 50... his first child was 10 when he was 60, he died at 65 when the kid was 15... and kid was just in J.S.S 3... He left behind a pretty 25 years old widow who has now suddenly acquired his wealth...got re-married to a younger dude... and they lived happily ever after

all I can say is that this thread is driven by a foolish person, users beware. married at fifty, died after 15 years, left a wife of 25 years old who has a fifteen years old son, whom I think she gave birth to at age 10, follow this thread at your risk.

this girl will soon die, cus she broke a sacred law of buying expensive gift for a boyfriend. chai, poor lady. if you don't get it forget about it.

jaxxy:
It’s more than a typo I don’t know the reference ur trying to make.

like I said, when you grow up you will know a lot things, including the reference am trying to make, just be patient, the thread is for matured adult, keep-off for now, we love you.

sandra50:
You don't know how long I was with him..yes I spoke to him about it and he said it's only a woman that makes marriage work..I can't say every here.

madam, even Allison madueke married at 39, and she is still married and happy, just be careful, and cut-down your standards a little bit.