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olabrad:
When you wear indecent dress like panties and bra on the street, that's assault and harassment of people's eyes and minds.

It's good if harassment is met with harassment!

Later una go dey admire "saner climes".

Shey this one no be skit ni.
That's assault and harassment.... Just because say we wan correct anyhow behavior nor mean say make we become animals too.

Tell men who turn their heads and salivate when they see indecent dirty girls to be disciplined. I turn my eyes away in disgust when I see most of these creatures poorly dressed in the name of fashion, but na those kain ones una dey tag "sessy" and that's why dem dey continue.

If you have to be naked to feel beautiful and free, then it's a mental illness that should be starved, not validated by catcalling and attention giving.

Final Verdict: If this is verified as NOT a skit, those guys should be arrested.

merits:
Dildos it sell faster than any other things try it and thank me later

Haaaa... How na, I wan take explain say I dey use my holy hands carry rubber preeek go deliver give women nau.

Your 5k is about to go down.

As someone said, these survey sites that pay are often so secretly guided by these survey people, that they won't "cast" it.

Also know that its a small form of yahoo sha. Real international companies are paying to get real world data from customers for products, drugs, public opinion and una dey poison their collected data with fake submissions.

Secondly, surveys don't pay a living wage my guy. Best to just go find way learn one kain small thing even if na to dey do design with AI for people.

But then again, in this life, low risk, low reward. Tell am say you get Proton VPN or Windshield. It's free.

This is someone who has always been toxic and disrespectful to me,but whenever I try t walk away completely from her,i always find myself going back to her

Looks like you believe that you don't deserve love and happiness. Looks like there's a void in your life that you're trying desperately to use this relationship with her to fill, even when the relationship is unhealthy.

My guy, Love is like the Sun, if e Rise from the East, e go also Set for the West.... But it appears that you are the only one rising and setting the sun all alone in that relationship. At what point this thing you think is love that always makes you go back to her when when she treats you poorly, will one day turn to something so evil and dark that you either hurt yourself so terribly if not fatally.

Heal my man.

No matter how much you love a person, you must first love yourself more. So ask yourself, why will the "affection" you have for someone causing an affliction in you?

Then It's not love, looks like Stockholm Syndrome - you have become accustomed to the toxicity, it drives you - the new drug. If so, what you need is to take a break from her... Think about it as soon detox.

You cannot find happiness in any human being, except first through yourself.

Oldhead:
Brother , I actually Dey on my own , doing my thing and don’t ask for nothing. I don’t disrespect them in anyway , but they just don’t like that the fact that I don’t do crowds and attending functions and party cus it’s not my thing. I get panic attacks easily. Funny thing is, they’ ve actually witness some episodes. My anxiety always kicks in when I stay longer, when a function just starts , I’m good and all calm and even vibing sometimes, but after 2hours max. The anxiety kicks in and I make a move to leave. then I go greet my uncles and aunts to say my goodbyes, the next thing i will hear is” everyone is still here, why is it only you that always leaves first, you are too proud blah blah. How do one start to explain to a Nigerian that about mental illness called anxiety disorder and that people actually suffer from it? Especially illiterates like them? If only they know the amount of mental courage I have to summon to be there alone. I will exercise , meditate do all sorts just to prepare myself mentally, but still yet my anxiety gets the better of me. And my family is a very large one , I’m not even lying when I say no month goes by without someone celebrating something. I’m happy about the milestone been celebrated, but those occasions are always hell for me. And I can’t even boycott them. I must attend because I’m the first son of my mother, the first grandson from my mother’s side too. Sorry for the long post man, I just needed to vent. Thanks.

Phew....I understand. You'll overcome my Chief. First son here too 😅

Stay well and safe 🙏🏾

This is not a thread where you show that your IQ proves that zero is actually a number.
Be objective in your submission and comments. Respect other people's view and counter with facts and logic

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Ladies and gentlemen, let's have an honest, objective and respectable conversation about our Fatherland.

IS NIGERIA REALLY A DIFFICULT COUNTRY TO GOVERN?

We know the stats when it comes to Nigeria SOURCE
1. Nigeria - the "self-acclaimed" Giant of Africa
2. A population of more than 240 million people
3. The average age of the people in Nigeria is roughly 18yrs old - means we have a very young and vibrant population
5. We have a diversity of culture, faith and language
6. We are blesseeeeed with natural and human resources

But we can all agree that maybe we've not been lucky with the crop of leaders that we have had since WE GAINED INDEPENDENCE. But then again aren't our leaders also from among us?

So let us discuss.

Oldhead:
You are lucky to actually have family members that knows this about you and are okay with it . Mine that are always looking for faults already , has said that it is pride that is doing me. I’m really tired of extended family honestly.

My Brother, na how you take arrange chair for parlor naim your visitors go take siddan put.

Extended family will always say what they want to say. Me, them don say I wicked, get strong head, etc.... but themselves know that when it comes to being responsible and dependable na me too, so they just accept my "boundaries".

Also, move out as early as possible if you're still living together.

Shey una know and can see the logic in the fact that...

People who sponsor electoral violence, pre-campaign thuggery and intolerance to spread agenda can equally sponsor banditry and terrorism.

I did not mention any name. But reason am.

Why are you guys attacking OP's point.

I personally run a business, and one of my mantra is "I must enjoy working with a customer, and I must make sure the customer gets the maximum value from the Investment in my service"

...so what that means is YOU DON'T SAY YES TO ALL CUSTOMERS just because you want to be "busy" - this depends on the kind of business off course, and I'm not talking about provision kiosk business either.

1. Those customers that say "it's just an ordinary this or that na. It's not even hard to do" - These ones try to devalue the service you want to offer them so they can price you low like okrika (ben down select).

I straight up say, thank you for your interest in our service, but maybe we'll work on another project some other time", and I bounce.

2. Those ones who talk to you anyhow just because they have made an initial deposit - I don return deposit for this. The way i work, before we start, we draw a contract and then I give you a time line - excellent work takes time, so provided I'm still within the agreed delivery timeline, let me do my work!

3. The ones who are bad debtors - they tie down your profits and sometimes personal funds spent to deliver their projects and they will not pay until you go low and talk to them with fire and brimstones - best to avoid them.

But generally, the way you carry yourself depends on how the customers approach you and relate with you - but be respectful and honest and your own customers will find and patronize you wherever you are.

bukkani:
What about a girl who is always rude to her elder sister, as in talking to her elder sister anyhow, but when it comes to her boyfriend, she will be humble and kind, and she will be so so sweet when it comes to her boyfriend. What do we do to such a girl? A girl who is rude to her sister, as in, is not rude, but she's just, she doesn't have good speech

That gentleness she's showing to you now is what they call Theatre and Performance Arts

The girl in question has bad character, but she has to audition good girl vibes to you... But if for any reason you guys now become "familiar" with each other (long term relationship or marriage) then you'll understand why they said "familiarity breeds see finish".

Now, I understand some elder siblings can be a handful too, but if you have good upbringing or common sense as an adult, you'd know that it's better to just walk away than talk rudely at your senior.

I'm well into my adult life by now, I can't even call my elder sister (3yrs age difference) by her name 😅 - I naturally put "Sister X", let alone talking rudely to her.

NotOfThisWorld:
Women like this want other women to be single mothers like them. Go on FB and you'll see many single mothers in Nigeria looking for husbands. Nigeria must be the single mother capital of the world because why is every other woman there a single mother or babymama? Some will have kids for different men. Some will boldly say it's married men they want now. Why would you want to go after another woman's man? Anyhow country with anyhow people. Everyone's after their own selfish interests.

Anyways, no sensible person should listen to someone whose wig is approaching her eyebrows . The last wig I bought was over $900 and that thing shedded like crazy, not to mention the lace was rubbish. I've been loc'ed for years now and never looking back.

$900 wey you for sofri take do better website for my hand eh 😁 #JustKidding


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@Bolded Just as the saying goes, "Misery Loves Company" - they mask their sifia pains by these "sad failed feminist activist" BS online or publicly, but in their silent moment they wear their regrets and shame like a raincoat on a rainy Wednesday evening in September.

I'm resisting the urge to curss you ogun Sir.
Like, with all due respect, shey ogun dey kee ______ Sir?

So you have not been able to wipe out insecurity for the past 11 years since you inherited it - Epa Buhari was PDP?

Following...
Thinking about it.

And above all...
MAKE SURE YOU ONLY ACCEPT THE FLAWS THAT YOU CAN TOLERATE EVEN WHEN YOU'RE ANGRY.

It's easy to get all excited about the I'M GETTING MARRIED SOON.

Right from the dating stage, start to set the ground rules about the rubbish that you will NEVER TOLERATE. Also don't try to TRICK the person into marrying you by BUYING THEM HEAVEN AND EARTH and expecting them to have common sense of prioritizing the family needs over their own.

Leave office Jobs bro. Focus on your freelancing while job hunting passively.

Go on TikTok, Instagram, LinkedIn, comment on people's posts in pages, groups and feeds where your potential customers hang around... Reach out to then directly and pointout areas in their current setup that you can improve, overhaul or set-up for them.... Ensure your profile shows lots of social proof of your skills though.

Refine your portfolio again - look for design ideas on platforms like Behance or Dribble or eben Pinterest - the current one already shows AI, and doesn't speak well about the effort you put in how you present your skillset.

If you've been submitting the current portfolio, there are a lot of stock images in use that doesn't show what you day they do i.e your graphics design projects doesn't lead anywhere.

Also, performance - the image you used on your hero section is too large in file size - convert it to .webp format, and should not be bigger than 200kb.

Don't be tired, it's the life of a hustler. All the best to you.

Youngsheldon:
I left this space for a long time because of Helinius... I've forgotten his username....his support for Tinubu makes me wanna puke all the time. I left for my peace of mind. Please has he repented or I should log out again

Block - Seun in his wisdom, but partial kindda - allows you to block people without reasoning faculties for atleast 3 weeks at a time.

This is not for the Nigerian populace sha.
I'm not yet convinced about the logic behind taking a joint loan where if one person defaults, then I get affected.

If for some projects we need to take a loan, we'll take our loans individually and combine the money for the project.

The only joint thing I'm up for is Joint Family Account 😁 - I don dey raise the bill for my babe and e don pass second reading.

Fharahyiola:
Your business sounds great. What has been your biggest challenge so far?

Thank you, yours too 😁

The normal thing all businesses face in a declining economy... Most prospects delay committing to new solutions/strategy because of the other rising cost of doing business.

But thankfully, we've been doing well with referrals from our previous clients who we've delivered excellently for.

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Quikmedia9ja:
I use at less 20GB weekly. Data is now part of our everyday life

Spent 300 for every 1GB

Get the MTN Momo App... I get mine at 200 per GB. It's daily though

Okay, you did make some good points.

"The context of your industry and target customers will determine the product of technology that makes sense to adopt into your business process".

In your Mark story, you were a bit vague about what industry Mark was in, but if you say 90% of his customers don't have a phone, then I suppose his customer base are in remote areas - villages.

However, as someone with a personal interest in getting website clients, as I do with my clients, we first DEFINE the goal of owning a website.

1. Not all websites exist for customers buying products on. Many website are for brand awareness, local search visibility and also building authority on a platform that you own - think about a place where you blog industry insights without your account being banned.

2. No matter how great any technology is, its purpose will be abused when used in ignorance No, that babalawo in that corner in your street will not write a python web scrapper that scraps all your information from the web, pass it through ChatGPT and use it to read Ifa to you. No, a vulcanizer doesn't need a website. The Iye selling foodstuff down the street doesn't need a website.

The guy who buys and sells from village market to urban areas MIGHT. The Businesses who frequently bid for contracts WILL.

Like I said, vested interest 😌

Oya.... Now back to the post.
Interesting Insights 😁😁

Blaizeless:
Guy, you don shame me oo.
When she chose to run for an office, that drunkard wasn't there and was not even invited. As the ogogoro drinking drunkard that he is, he will respond to what wasn't made for him.

How many of una get mind for the Edo State sef?
How many of the Edo people don stand up the way this woman stood up, before VDM emergence?

Let me use one of our virtues as an Edo person to answer you (We hold ourselves in high esteem).

I don't do keyboard warrior-thing online. Mr. Wike beat the drum of meant for mad people, and she danced to it. There's nothing honourable about that. And she 'invoking' Edo to imply 'courage', there's nothing courageous about dancing in the mud with a mad man.

Image123:
Were you not numb and even supportive of Lamidi when he was ravaging the South East? Show me your post asking for standstill then.

Ohgun dey kee you?

We have become so numb to the death of our citizens 😭😢

The primary purpose of government is to ensure the security and welfare of the people.

But no o, all that matters to them is 2027 presidential bid.

The country should be at a standstill right now.

Mariangeles:
I think Obavoh is a realistic fiction writer that leaves his audience guessing whether his piece is real or not. (And he writes too well for someone whose character resides in the rural area)

And to make matters worse, he doesn't engage his audience, leaving them confused, or to make of the write-up whatever they would.
His consistency is commendable though, I'll give him that.

His life/fiction is like a series.

Haha... The man is as elusive as a fox.
You've given a perfect summary about the World's 8th Mystery - Obavoh. 🤣

Nelochukwu:
Haaa this one was a scammer from day one milking obidents funds account in her care. Iz all about d money

Then e good as she lose the primary. Let her face the mirror so she can see that she's just the same as the monsters she sees in other politicians; who are ONLY JUST AS CONCERNED ABOUT THEIR OWN STOMACH AND WALLET INFRASTRUCTURE.

Let's see if she stays loyal to the Party.

Dogalmighty17:
And like the dog that he is, Wike will reply her.

Lol.... shameless people they both are.
Zero composure.

And I used to hold this lady to some degree of esteem. But seeing this one, coming down from such high a pedestal to play the politics of shyte slinging on Twitter is a silly thing to behold. And Madam, commot Edo state for your mouth - in Edo state, we are action people, we nor dey do cho cho cho.

Seun should be proud o... just as I'm sure they are proud of you.
I hope to one day use my marriage as a way of inspiring others about the beauty of a God-centered family.

frankblinkz:
I'm asking because of my ex who left me last year, she took my daughter along and blocked me off, so I'm seeking legal means to get make me have access to my child and equally support her welfare.

NB: I'm not dragging custody of my child, she's 3 and needs to be with the mum.
But I feel blocking me isn't ideal, cus she opted out of the relationship since I can't meet her outrageous needs anymore.

So I will seek your advice before proceeding for legal agreement with her.
My business is slow at the moment, but I can still send the least 25-30k monthly for her upkeep, but I heard human rights will be the one to give me a figure for child support monthly.

Is that true?

Note: I'm not a legal professional.

But with the case you've just shared, I'd advise that you find a means to rebuild a CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP with the lady and try to appeal to her conscience, so that you can be a part of your child's life. If you say you should pursue other "legal/forceful" means, you already have a lot of points against you, with which she can use to either completely cut you off from the child legally, or you be forced to pay certain amounts in child support (I don't know if human rights or ministry of women affairs do this tho, I think it will be based on your financial strength).

Points against you, since you said "ex" - I assume you guys were just dating, not legally married?:
1. She can say she left because you did not fulfill your promise of marrying her under which pretext she had agreed to bear a child for you.
2. She can say she left because she no longer felt herself and the child were safe around you
3. She can say you abandoned your responsibilities to herself and the child and she can justify that by the fact that you've not found any other means to reach out to her since the last year she left - her relatives, friends, etc.

So you have to play a smart, and maybe long game to be a part of the child's life. She blocked you on digital platforms, but I think you can still warm up to her with a new number, or through a friend, or through her friends, or through her parents, the list is endless. But you must go with patience and readiness to tolerate her initial gra gra of refusal - you are doing it for the child, not her.