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angelboy01:
Bro this thing don happen many years ago o. And no be say I be simp. I bought it so we could talk and meet but I noticed she just changed ontop phone wey I buy. Naso I collect my thing.

I just dey joke my Oga. Simp nor go even get mind collect the phone na, him go say she go change and love am back.

Na who deserve something dey get something. No reward for rubbeesh.

angelboy01:
Exactly I have done this same thing for a girl before. The girl sef na 19 catch them young type. I sha managed to beg her to see me, I collected my phone with style and removed her SIM and I bounced. She hated me till I left that area but each time we saw after that I was always happy and she was always filled with disgust but what do I care. If that guy doesn't collect her phone he will be laughed at and when she's with her friends they will table his matter. Note* He can tell the lady he wants to take her out to eat somewhere cos she might be a bit smart. When she puts her phone on the table then that's when he goes ahead or he can tell her please help me to write this number down and that's it.

Flesh and blood did not reveal that to you meehn. Go and simp, i mean sin no more. 😅

Person wey nor get functional fashion sense na asphyxiation dey keel am.

Before you pick style for catalogue, try ask yourself... I get the body for this cloth style?

If nor be say them dey craze, nor be since when Baba even dey alive them supposed add am for the Hall of Fame?

Man brought a different type of vibe and spirit to the game.

It's simple - tell her y'all should meet and go out. When you see, collect the phone, give her her sim card and bounce.

I still don't understand how you all give people things they cannot afford on their own, without them even contributing into its purchase - later na you go con still dey complain shey she's entitled, when na you tell her say you dey buy love and infection affection i mean.

Government of Statistics.
How's Nigeria's Cost of Living compared to UK and US? How about quality of life? How about value of life?

There's even a thread on frontpage now with Omomo Ghana here saying we should get better so that we'll stop coming to their country.

It's like Lastborn in the house saying make their senior brother go learn work so that e nor go dey come disturb Lastborn for data Subscription.

Following to learn.
Following to learn.

Dem supposed dey screen all these content creators before paying them for likes and engagement - see wetin adult dey talk for camera.

But for now it's not a priority abi?


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Seun, this your new ad pattern is terrible. Placing it after the first comment or main post is a very bad place it.

After the page navigation is better. Abi you lose money for crypto?

I be don hands up for politics matter...
Because in a really sensible world, what moral standing does APC even have to field their incumbent candidate in the coming polls?

But it just so happens that 8 years means nothing to these politicians - provided I don't "be a one term president". Even if I'm overwhelmed by the responsibility of being President as it is beyond me, I will contest.

We don't have shame at all in these parts. From the elites to the low.

(Let it be known that Ohgun wee qill you, if you quote me and talk anihow).

Check my signature sha. I sabi work finish

turawaa:
Summary from the Above link:

If the man wanted a supportive woman, I'm sure he would not have settled for the woman. The woman didn't become a lazy ass woman overnight, the man must have seen the red flag at the early stage of the relationship that she is mentally lazy but love blinded him and he ignored the red flag. Now ,he has to pay the price for the red flag he ignored. God will give him the strength and muscle to keep providing for his family.

You've said it all. 💯💯

God abeg o... You wan remind them about one more avenue them go use take use big straw drink the remaining money wey dem don tiff?

Have you seen their performance with other on-earth projects and their woeful results? Amaweh na space

UnknownQueen:
In one sentence, tell me what the discipline of those days ever produced in today's parent?

Abi no be the Children of those days who are now parents dey say NOoooo you shouldnt discipline or cane my child for me..
If these present day parents say No to that style of parenting or discipline, let them be..
Stop looking for whose child to cane or discipline when you can simply give birth to a truck load of children and discipline them however you like..

Okay, i agree with you.

Drsnives:
What's is this?
A lawn court abi tennis court

Well, its a court where balls can play 😝

Idaytesj29:
Why are you concerned beyond normal? There is prison all over the place to take care the problem. They will be kept away, the system will tell them they can't escape accountability

I'm concerned because, I'm vested in raising my own kids in a society where being a GOOD CHILD is not seen as weird.

By the wayz our prisons don't do nothing other than cage and criminalize them more.

UnknownQueen:
I don’t have any problem with disciplining a child or raising them to become responsible and well-rounded. Where I take issue is with people like the O.P who are quick to say, “this isn’t how it used to be” or “we never did this in our time,” as if things should never change. That mindset ignores a simple truth, change is constant, and every generation faces its own realities.
Interestingly, there were no phones back then, yet today many would argue that phones are one of the biggest influences, most times negative, on this generation. If we’re going to reject everything new, then that should be included too.
So O.P, I’ll challenge you to stop using a phone as well, and please don’t claim you only use it for the benefits only.

Wetin concern phone concern, lack of respect, immorality that now reigns supreme, the utter lack of shame, the zero sense of responsibility and consequences?

I, being the OP, didn't say there were no riffraffs in our time, but I'm telling you, in the house, street and community i grew up in, children understand that ANYONE CAN DISCIPLINE YOU - but do parents these days allow that? Have you not seen reported cases where parents actually go and beat up teachers in school (and I'm talking about for simple things like, punishment, or canning on the hands, or being scolded).

Maybe you're a teenager, you'd have seen the evidence of the decadence in what we call children these days.

Selah.

kiddaz:
Some of you guys na wah. You have been dating this same girl for God knows when and you knew her personality all along. You have been working on getting married recently, meaning you have accepted her for who and what she is and now you're asking us these questions for what exactly? So na when wedding plans done reach you begin remember her flaws? You better carry your cross oga. None of them are perfect you have found the one that you can enjoy her goodness and also mange her witchcraft side. Hold am and stop looking for ways to run away. It's too late for that now. You shall and you must marry that girl

Too late keh. OP tell you say them tie am for village say him must marry the girl or him go die?

The thing is, man eyes dey clear when it comes to making really serious commitments - i love you, and big yansh feeling dies down a bit - marriage is equivalent to Post-Nut-Clarity.

OP should actually talk this out with his girlfriend sha. Me dey chop my babe money o - not as much as I give her though, but it sets the ground rules for reciprocity.

If he forms odowgwu provider, the girl will only believe he has to work harder when things are going south, rather than invest her own money in him or the family.

Just so you know, the thread below is Exactly what you're setting yourself up for.

Take your time to read it.

https://www.nairaland.com/8631753/wife-isnt-adding-value-life

Selah

brain54:
Ok. I'll get the lawn mower for you...👣

Only the armpit 😭

I actually find body hair in females shexy 🤭🤭

Maybe a little bit of environmental sanitation on the one in the armpit and she's cake 🤭

All, na the same. The man has whiz, and wits. He's the CEO, the others who think they have the skills, but don't have his wits and guts are LESSER THAN HIM.

It's very shameful to hear this coming from a tech industry, I be think say we as Tech people get sense normally.

Jakarta:
I was at a family meeting last week, my aunt's ex was threatening his son, that he will break his leg or his arm whenever he visits the village.

That the boy is not giving him money, he is not using him as an agent either in yahoo or when he bought a land recently. Can you believe this boy is just 17 years old, and dropped out of secondary school 2 years ago. How I wish family allow me that day, I be wan give the man serious beating.

You can imagine, that right there is an example of a failed father. How can such a father serve as a role model to deter the son from such criminal activity?

You wan break e leg because he nor dey use you as agent for yahoo? Abomination indeed.

Till today, if you can't show a record of how you come about money (job or skills), my mum nor go touch whatever you give her, let alone lay demands.

I was watching a video on YouTube by one wise Nigerian, and he maid one quote

"We're pampering children into stupidity" - Dr. Charles Akpoki

Come to think of the moral decadence of the kids and young adults today, is it really far from the truth? Teens these days do not even have a sense of responsibility or consequence - they have zero respect for authority.

Whe we were growing up, it was not like this with us, there used to be a saying then that "na one person dey born pikin, but na the whole community dey train am" - but these days, you can't even correct a child before their parents rain on you like hawks.

Where did we get it wrong? What can we do to remedy the situation, or atleast the nezt generation?

Share your thoughts.

Are these not pressing issues?

Without stating which of the people have or do not have sense, judging the possibility of a relationship lasting because of gender difference and age gap is not feasible.



Character always determines; never age.

Because, Olodo say get rich or die trying.

The bookworm mostly dream or have their head filled with hype that they'll get first-class and get one non-existent or high-barrier-of-entry job.

But in real life, that's not always true - family background plays a higher role about how soon a person hits wealth much more than bookmatics.

Dummy OP and your lame attempt at sensational headline. The woman is not a prostitute, the evangelist in his known uncivilized way of preaching didn't call her a prostitute either.

As heard in the video, he said, "women who dress like ashawo - are prostitute", which he probably stated in the face of the woman, or pointing in her direction.

And of course, if the woman's husband was there, the headline would have been "Nigerian man, removes the teeth of an evangelist with uppercut"

People who boast about failing at something, or beat their chest for an action which was a result of bad decision (marrying for all the wrong reasons) ARE NOT A REASONABLE source of advice against the institution of marriage in this case.

And what happened to shame - if this is true. That your go-to-cope-strategy is to come online and lambaste the institution which made your birth and the "father's house" you're running to possible.

MrSly:
Yes I mean million. Of course OP does if not he would not be disturbing us here with the details.

😅 Well, it's one thing to have 7 million to spare; and it's another thing to spend it when it's avoidable - OP's delimma is a punter's wet dream "I had unprotected sex that led to the abortion pregnancy - will the universe be merciful on me and make the first child AA with all certainty"...

...and he has brought it here so we can tell him, yes, the child WILL NOT be SS, so he can show the Love of his life, so they can play the gamble together"

MrSly:
You are right. It comes with a reasonable sum but 7buk or less can do that for a baby. They can even choose triplet and reduce the average cost per child.

7 buck in dollars?
I inteprete buck as thousands.

If in millions, at 7 million naira per child conception (not including pre/post natal care for mother and child) - I hope OP love this lady to the moon and back, and she loves him to mercury and back - and I hope OP is a big man.

All the best to him sha - What do people talk about in relationships before unprotected intimate moments without talks of genotype coming up?

Greatzeus:
The child has more chance of being AS than AA or SS.
Possible scenario= AA AS AS SS each with 25% each.
So your theory that the chance of being SS is high is wrong.

And you have scientific proof that the kids will be born in that order?

You think say biology na the genotype drawing of Secondary school?

MrSly:
Your first submission is not true. The chance is merely 25%. However, once can guarantee the occupancy that would take effect first.

Again, your second submission is not true. If the child isn't SS he can marry the lady and use guided childbirth where they can determine the genotype of the subsequent children. They can decide to choose AA all through.

Your last submission is 100% true.

Statement 1: Your quoted 25% is just statistics - and statistics works with average. Don't quote a number as if you've studied biological makeup to confidently assure if of a 1 in 4 chance. Of which the 1 in 4 is probably going to be 1st birth.

Statement 2: This guided childbirth is definitely NOT cheap. And you should ask op for his ability and readiness to fund those tests and so on.

Lemme read. Gimme a minute

The advice up there about taking a chance has not really given you a picture of the responsibility that comes with any decision you take.

1. There's a very high percentage that the child will be born with Sickle Cell; at what point, you MUST be responsible for that child - their pains and glory.

2. If the child turns out to be AS; will you go ahead and marry the Lady, so you guys can atleast not have kids again, or it's okay that she becomes a single mother, since you'll like more kids without the gamble.

3. How many months into the pregnancy is she? I hear there are BIG MAN tests that you can do to confirm the Genotype of a child invitro (inside belle). This is a more sensible gamble.