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A virgin female doctor?
Hehehehe.... Asin, not to sound ignorant o... I guess there are tons of females who go through roughly 7years of medical school, 1year of housemanship, 1 year of youth service, around 3 years of junior residency...

Well, to return to your query... It could really be that she was ashamed, but I think she could have brought up the truth that she already had premarital sex before and doesn't want to do it again, without revealing anything about the abortion, and without claiming immaculate abstinence...but alas.

As you said, you like the way she carries herself.... Now I want to hope you rushed marriage preparation because of her value as a woman, AND NOT BECAUSE OF THE ILLUSION OF RETAINED HYMEN?

If the hymen was all you cared about, then I guess you should look for another resident doctor whose hymen is still resident in its natural position.

But if you want to marry her because of her personal qualities, see how you can forgive her LIE, but know that something built on a foundation of lies, already has a k-leg.

I wish you the bery vest.

Lovelink1991:
It is what their faith says. Some may share testimony from here

Like I said.... "Intelligence level" is directly proportional to the class of men they'll testify about.

One thing women of this "Intelligence level" don't know is that, you cannot attract high value men if you have this kaind of rabbit hole mindset.

You cannot pray a man into being in love with you which will now translate into a marriage proposal - you have to attract a man with your good qualities, character, lifestyle and sense of personal responsibility.

Obavoh:
Once the Bandits are defeated by the special grace of God, I will move back to the village with my Family.

Special shoutout to my wife who has been supporting me through this struggle. She has been so strong, caring and hardworking.

She started fried Groundnut business and has been supporting the family generously. She would cook and serve us without me bringing 1kobo and she doesn’t complain because she understands.

I love you my Angel.

God bless her real good.
You see a man doesn't really want much - just an angel that knows how the time is and can adjust to the realities.

Don't worry my Good Sir, may God prosper your business so you can bounce back stronger even in the town.

Also, if you guys have spare space in your house now, you can still start rearing birds for meat and egg too - maybe plant a few things like pepper and stuff, those little things add up.

Are you saying we should pretend that the person's account number is not in the transaction receipt?

That you cannot actually just click on the transaction on your app and see the information, or get your account statement, or go to your local bank and get the information.

Or you mean, you'd prefer to go and meet her so that she'll know and thank you in person for bringing the money?

Get her account and send her the balance: Add in the narration, your phone number.. hope she calls, and explain via phone, else your conscience is clear that you already sent her the money.

Very laudable initiative.

I'm applying to state my interest in the CSR project. I've maintained a helpful presence on nairaland, which can be verified by perusing my profile.

If I'm selected as one of the beneficiaries, it'll serve as a boost for my business while also assisting me professionally to pursue skill building in motion graphics (After Effects and premier pro).

If I'm selected, I also promise to give back to the nairaland community in one way or the other.

Cheers and thank you.

Unless the said woman actually has FINANCIAL INTELLIGENCE, don't give her jack about your finances.

Do you see the quality of the women in your examples? Not urgent 2k, sub for me, I'm hungry women.

So nobody fit pour speeet on OP's head?

Is this not the thing we're saying that ohghun should kpai any man intentionally sleeping with a woman who is currently under another man's house (born and cohabiting with the husband).

What does the locust beans that people add to soup do?

Adds a distinct taste, especially in draw soup. There's also this thing that they tie in dry plantain leave - called "ewarie" in Benin tongue, it adds this nice acquired taste.

Think vanilla flavor.

Kaczynski:
Are you tripping?? Who says systems does not pay ??


I don nearly show you my paycheck because of this.

Hehe, keep the paycheck boss.
The statement is not whether it pays - of xourse it pays, there's low supply of the engineers in that field to service the small demands for it.

The statement said - how many opportunities are there for system programmers? What's the barrier to entry for entry level/juniors?

Lol... Normally, you will learn the hard way, when you don't hold your children to a HIGH MORAL STANDARDS 😝

OP has big mojo to go to a night club, but be like the sense nor too big hence bragging about it that he's taking pictures of people just chilling without their permission and putting it online.

What if the girl changed her seat because she thinks say you per per_ver__t for staring at her upandan?

Fiscus105:
You guys cannot feed mouth, let alone family, and instead to accept reality, you will be jumping from one social media to another, shouting women are surplus, women are wicked, marriage not favour man. What an irreplaceable way to defend oneself!

A responsible man comes to this world not only to be successful in career wise but maritally. If you are not running from stress that family pressure might bring, where is responsiblity in you?

The realities of the time requires that marriage be a partnership.

The model of marriage y'all still insist on for men is one where Women were more or less just home makers - give birth to children, manage the house, assist in the farm work, birth many children that will also assist in the farm work as they age.

Today, women are much more ambitious and career driven, which is a beautiful thing and men are not requiring them to just sit at home, birth children or assist in farm work (nobody wants a burden - men and women alike) - so it also should be reasonable that women assist in a new way - don't bash men who take time to settle down with someone who can AUGMENT their efforts when there are so many women who just want to be TAKEN CARE OF JUST FOR BEING A WOMAN.

PerfectStranger:
Apparently, those are the kind of men y'all females want. A man who cries due to rejection from a lady. It's even a shame for you to have such a man as a friend. #spit

Bless you my good Sir.
You saw through their gimmicks.

Good for hobby projects - people who are hoping to dedicate time towards something that will pay the bills will naturally gravitate towards web and mobile - that's where the demand is.

Isn't she too young for that? 😏

Well, she most definitely had a tiring night before - maybe Bridal shawa? Because, unless she micromanages people, a bride usually does not have to do anything as she'll have family and friends plus vendors that will be around to make sure everything is in order.

Let sleeping bride lie jare 🤗. Happy married life.

nurey:
Relationship is about compromise. If you cannot compromise and give freely without expecting something in return, you are not ready for a relationship.

God loves a cheerful giver

Why is it the man that is EXPECTED to do this "free gifting without expecting anything in return" compromise?

Isn't love a relationship between two ADULTS?

Unless you're being sarcastic sha... Otherwise, dem dey talk about lowering the bar, and you just kuku bury the bar.

Some of them have. And it's good for them when they learn the hard Way.

Gospell:
not really, here’s another post from 2012 by another user

...humans through their self-annihilation curiosity will cause or accidentally release something that leads to an outbreak.

Generally, humans through their self-annihilation curiosity will cause or accidentally release something that leads to an outbreak.

So, just a lucky guess.

Anything done irresponsibly always causes problem. Betting is a very volatile trade, where nothing is in your hands, not your illusion of head to head Analysis.

The more you compound odds, the higher the odds are against you winning.

The problem with people who lose so much is that TRYING TO RECOVER LOST BET.

He can swap the addiction/betting problem with a more healthy thing... Or gradually wean himself off of it.

Maybe doing ajo where he has to pay a monthly contribution for savings, then set a fixed monthly budget for bets - if he wins, good, if not wait till next month.

But above all, DOES HE THINK HE HAS A PROBLEM, OR DOES HE THINKS HIS LUCK GO SOON SHINE.

Owning a car is like a dress that's perfect for some occasion, but an overdressing for some other occasion.

Convenience == High Cost
Inconvenience (Bus) == Low Cost

I new buy the sim card o abeg.
Small constituency projects una norva do, na company wey employ thousands of una citizens una wan revoke.

So we go get more unemployed people to dey give 30k for online praise singing ba.

Bobbyrayzor:
How far brother, abeg me sef dey do sporty...incase you do game abeg you fit drop am for me..

Hehe, baba I no dey play o.
I no get the mind for sporty risks.

weezydee:
Men and brethren, I know the money is little and almost intangible in this present economy but what biz or venture can I venture in to be getting little returns?

Online or physical.. your suggestions are welcome.

If you're in an environment where you have access to people in school settings - do any of the following:

Girls Target Audience
1. Buy and sell perfume oil (small 25ml bottles)
2. Half Bale of 1st grade Jeans Trousers or Tops - a.k.a Aloko, a.k.a okrika

Men Target Audience:
1. Buy Packet Shirt in bulk and resell
2. Buy tablet from Temu (bought one discounted at #78k) - resell for #120k+

If by invest you mean, put the money in something:

Low Risk
1. These fintech apps do pay like 1 naira or some kobo for daily saving.

High Risk, High Rewards:
1. Weekend games in German or Turkey Leagues - over 0.5 goals on two games can give you around 15% returns in 90mins

maasoap:
Because Seun and other Nairalanders asked or encouraged people to come on Nairaland for diagnosis and treatments, lol.
The good thing is that if you are scared to approach hospital and you come to Nairaland first, people will share their past experiences relating to your current issue. That may help you to relax. And people will definitely encourage or advise you to go to hospital. Nairaland is not a bad place to start

That's not how diagnosis works.... Early detection is key for all forms of illnesses.

Looking for other people's experience to calm you down is not wise - do you have the same biological makeup as the other person, the same environmental factors?

I already said what I said. A doctor's examination can not be substituted for with public opinion, and encouraging people to keep requesting for "dem say dem say gbongonishe suggestions" by putting it on frontpage is dhumbh.

erniok2:
Some if una dey overthink things. So what do we do with reddit. It's a forum for crying out loud.

A word has been said, and the wise have heard.

MarkNsukkaBread:
Was it Seun that advised to come here instead of going to the hospital?

Guess under whose authority it was placed on front page.

You really think that small abadabidi disclaimer Seun puts on the footer completely indemnifies him? Dey play.

Until the day dem go add Seun and Nairaland as defendant for 2 billion naira lawsuit, e eyes go clear.

Nairaland is not a platform for seeking medical advice. People should be encouraged to go to the hospital FIRST, and not seek differential diagnosis from non-medical keyboard warriors.

It's usually those who come into power by riding on freedom of speech and right to protest THAT DO EVERYTHING POSSIBLE TO STIFLE FREEDOM OF SPEECH AND ERADICATE THE RIGHT TO PROTEST.

RillJ:

Small issue na! Just let them know and insist that you are not cool with front seats. Did that a lot those days until them kuku begin free me!

E go con be like person dey rebel against authority na. Make dem just dey reward my punctuality with the freedom to sit where I like.