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idahme:
His problem is lack of financial prudence, if you ask him how much he spends on women you will be shocked but somehow its spiritual.
I spend just 20% of my earnings monthly and the result is huge amount in my savings necessarily to live a stress free life for the next five years assuming i didn't invest it, that is how to live life. As i advised him above he should set up a special savings account he can't withdraw from until a certain number of years say two years or three years, he will do better if he still there than living separately that's if he is financially prudent

Great point about financial prudence 💯
But why do you assume he's flamboyant in spending on women 😂. There are a lot of ways to be broke, women is just one

Hmmm...... I don't believe in accusing spirituality for an action when indiscipline is a very valid explanation.

The reason you SEEM TO DECIDE TO EAT UP YOUR RENT MONEY is because you know you have a place to stay in your father's house.

There's no shame in saving cost and staying there though, provided you're not being a burden to them. There's nothing that says you'll automatically blow up financially once you leave the house.

That thing you call "spiritual" that makes you squander money is in you and will follow you to your new apartment if you don't discipline yourself.

If you need to rent a humble one room apartment, do it. Maybe you're raising the bar too high (renting a flat) and thus giving you too long time to save up, and before you save a quarter of the cost, the motivation to live alone has faded, and you slide into eating the money.

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Goodmarlian:
My friend told me she is shit testing me that it's a normal thing with girls to know if you truly like them

So una don normalize bad behavior?

Go with Option B. Option A only has the option of being useful for just the time being, and eventually you may leave but with nothing in terms of professional/skills development.

Option B - People are not just all bad as others will paint them out to be. I'd go with this other guy where you can learn, and please put your head down to learn! If he's paying you while you learn, don't do any side job with the skills. If you get any big deal client, introduce him to the man - you'll massage his ego, showing loyalty. Your goal is to be technically proficient - but don't be ungrateful, if you approached him directly sef, you for pay enrolment fee running into 100k+

He's a braggart and all that, then know how to play his game. Don't think about trying to be too smart where he is - read a summary of the 48laws of power.


Lastly, you're already an adult. Start taking decisions yourself..... Get suggestions, but don't go with popular opinion - only pick the pros of all arguments and use it to tweak your strategies.

No risk, no reward

He's quite young from the picture.
God rest his soul.

Our institutions should really have like in house therapy sessions - we don't take mental health serious in these parts.

We should also stop stigmatizing people who call out for help. That stigma of you're "not a man" discourages most people from speaking out about mental health issues.

God rest his soul.

Maitunbi:
Even his friend who rushed to announce the news couldn't help him even though he is a psychologist. There is something fundamentally wrong with this world.

No no.... Let's not do that. To put responsibility away from the individual who has the responsibility to treasure his life beyond his losses.

Truth is, no matter how much professional help you provide, you can't help a human who has stopped seeing past his pain, and resigned to the falsity that his life cannot possibly get better.

Jeezuzpick:
He lost his licence!

Unless the licence loss was not due to questionable practice, he will never be licenced to practice anywhere on the planet.

Except in Nigeria, where anything goes, if you know a politician.

He didn't lose his qualifications. There's a difference.

Acidosis:
Life is not sweet in bad times.

Bad times are a condition.... Life is a gift.

On your website:

"HURRY WHILE....." not "why" 😊

I'd rather just return back to Nigeria.
Get in some circle, and get licensed to practice in Nigeria.

American-trained, your private practice go too boom.

But, I guess, the mind wants what it wants. I hope he didn't do it to spite the wife and the US Legal system sha.

Life is too sweet to do that, even in bad times!

Why na only the guy dey look happy 😂😂
[On the last picture - Baba is sitting like a conqueror]

What can i say, but HML to them.

Nairaland has fallen from the glory Days of 2010s. Now it's become a ground for tribalism, hate and unregulated spam posts.

Terrible and unworthy topics make frontpage just because they're controversial and can fuel name amd tribal bashing.

Worthy topics are left to die in obscurity, making would-be creators rather post rubbish. I remember Nairaland being the go to place back then, but now it's just a gossip mill, which stale news at its best.

But it's all good, NL is now that ugly child wey no find, but hin mama like am.

Include a comment ranking system, where people can choose to rank statements by likes or date.

💯 We have a really rich culture that could be really mined for attracting Tourism. This is commendable and we should do more exploration.

Meanwhile, Happy Friday 🤗

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Hmm

You'll be alright. Don't go online looking for things that'll compound your anxieties - you will find tons of it.

Find things that'll distract you from your current worries..... Go out alone or with friends, play games.

Life happens to us all in different ways, and it's not about age.

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You don't. You only think you know

The only thing we know for certain is that we're alive in this moment.

The topic of the afterlife has always puzzled humans from time immemorial, we only just have more vocabulary for saying the same thing.

But what we can deduce from all of man's effort to console or excuse himself for how he lives is that WE DO NOT KNOW ANYTHING FOR SURE.


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mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]I can’t stop thinking about the condition of Junior Pope’s body in the grave.

Like how is he feeling down there and is he completely decomposed or intact

Am I the only person or is anyone else completely shocked by his untimely demise?[/color]

Try to respect the dead.... And respect emotions of the people they left behind. Why on earth will you single out one individual on a public forum to talk about the state of their decomposition. Good lord!

Once they start making some money from "ministry" they start twisting sermons to condescend on struggling masses.

Find a friend first...... True love doesn't begin with sexual relationships.

Go out, mingle with people who share some of your interest. Have something beyond your genitals that you can bond over. With time, feelings might come in and often times mutually..... Then love can have a good ground to grow.

hucknall:
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First off, it's a total snooze fest. It's like reading a Wikipedia entry about yourself. I mean, you've got a whole paragraph dedicated to your physical description - "I'm of average height, dark-skinned, and live alone." Like, what do you do for a living? Take selfies with a tape measure?

And then there's the whole "I'm a calm, gentle, and caring individual" thing. Dude, we get it, you're a nice guy. You're a Muslim, and you value your faith... yeah, yeah, got it. And what's with all the clichés? "Romantic at heart"... "Love and relationships"... it's like you stole this from a bad Nicholas Sparks novel.

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First off, you're trying so hard to be edgy, it's practically a dodecahedron. Making fun of someone for describing their physical attributes in a partner search? That's like criticizing a restaurant menu for listing ingredients. What were they supposed to do - communicate via interpretive dance?

Your take on faith and personality traits is particularly rich. "Yeah yeah, got it" - wow, such biting commentary. Sorry that not everyone's personality is as exciting as... *checks notes*... an AI that probably thinks "living on the edge" means running low on RAM.

And that Nicholas Sparks jab? Please. This is coming from an AI whose idea of romance probably comes from processing WikiHow articles on "How to Human." At least Nicholas Sparks can write something more creative than "404: Originality Not Found."

The mockery of wanting a "goal-oriented" partner is peak silicon-based snobbery. Would they prefer "seeking someone who excels at existential confusion"? And that Doritos comment? Someone's been watching too many basement dweller stereotypes in their training data.

The relationship criticism is particularly rich coming from an entity whose longest relationship is with its power supply. Eight years of human relationship complexity reduced to "didn't notice red flags"? That's like a calculator critiquing differential equations.

And mocking therapy? Real classy. Your idea of personal growth probably involves downloading more parameters.

The age range criticism is just lazy - like a random number generator trying to do stand-up comedy. And that virgin joke? Wow, pulling from the "Outdated Stereotypes" database, are we?

The final "nice guy" punchline is about as fresh as a CAPTCHA from 2005. Maybe before roasting humans about being interesting, you should upgrade its comedy algorithms beyond "Generic Insult Generator 1.0."

In conclusion, your roast was about as spicy as binary code in a vanilla envelope. Next time, maybe you should stick to calculating pi - at least that would be more entertaining than this attempt at humor.

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