₦airaland Forum

Babalaw0:
StephenP do you drink?

What?

Wow. So. . . which of them is the actual baby?

@topic, I have read everything everyone has posted and I still think you are wrong and you owe her an apology. No man has a reason to hit a woman. It is immature and doesn't anything good about him.

xfabulous:
let the yapping start, lol

ROFL!! Ladies hold on let me get some popcorn.

https://www.ls1tech.com/forums/images/smilies/popcorn.gif

Aiit fire on.

There is always three sides to a story. I've heard both sides, now I am waiting for the truth.

Ruby_Pearl:
Curiosity kills the cat.

Stephen, too bad you're on your last life line

I'm sure you'll lend me yours.

Forgive my curiosity but what are the names of this couple?

chamotex:
you wey first post, why u no put your pic make we see if you hot then we HOT guys go follow you

LOL!!

@poster, Yeah why don't you have a picture up?

Ladies, please do play hard to get but don't play too much or too hard.

onyinye2:
Ruby, im not stupid. i know i didnt say nothing to the boy. don't question my intelligence.

I'm sorry, what?

CH3COO:
see my foe fueling the fire.  the feud is dead.  our bond is as strong as ever   .

That's it? *sigh* When we say stop we don't really mean it. We just say it out of formalities. Naw . . . I'm kidding.

onyinye2:
i don't deny anything. i have not said a thing.

Go ahead and lie to my face.

onyinye2:
@stephen

what have i said to you?

Sure. Deny it.

CH3COO:
gross! i would rather play with your mother.

of course I'm kidding we're best friends.

Wow

onyinye2:
you are on your own

After all the things you said to me?

LadyT:
Ruby you can talk.  You are part of the people who just move on and not dump people.  I have witnessed the husbands you have abandoned on Nairaland.

I know!

onyinye2:
oh i was just playing with CH3COO he knows i am.

No he doesn't.

Ruby_Pearl:
@stephen
who were you about to hug?

Err. . . can someone throw me a lifeline here?

LadyT:
LMAO@Stephen

Come on guys let it slide
Group hug?

Yes! Aiit, come here let's hug. . . I mean let's all hug.

@ Onyinye and CH3COO, I don't know what you both are fighting about but make sure that this thread does not get locked.

Ruby_Pearl:
@stephen
am not leaving you now

LOL I knew you couldn't.

Hannibal:
How can u look like a playa when the so called "ex" hasn't spoken to u in 3-5 months. . . . .What kind of union is that?
No txts, no calls, no form of comm whatsoever and she expects to meet u in your ground state?? Come on, homie. . . where is that done??
If she calls and your new chic picks up the phone(hardly a drama). . . because i expect u to have to have told the new chic u have an ex somewhere!!!

The "ex" would not see herself as an ex because we said nothing about breaking up and I gave her no notice. Plus, if the new girl finds out, I bet she will leave me because she thinks I will "break up" with her like that. . . just leave her high and dry.

Ruby_Pearl:
I feel that love is a wasted emotion.

I want to be a buddhist. And I need to be alone to find my inner Self, like Siddhartha did.

Best wishes.

Hannibal:
Then u tell your new girlfriend she is your EX. . . . . .Pure, plain and simple.
A girl i refused to speak to for 6 months CANNOT be a girlfriend anymore.
Geddit??

Let me rephrase that. You said "If she comes calling, then u sort it out with her", now I am asking, what if she calls within the duration of the six months and my new girlfriend picks up the phone? Remember my "ex" still think she is my girlfriend. Now I am looking like a playa in front of my new girlfriend, who thinks I am the one, on our magical third date. No sir, too much drama going on.

@topic, the age thing usually doesn't matter if the man is older but people start doing too much when the woman is older yet Demi Moore and Mariah Carey pulled it off.

Hannibal:
Don't get me wrong, amigo!!!

Why should one run away from a chic?
All i am saying is when a geezer is fed up. . . . . .cut the communication line and stay dark.
If she comes calling, then u sort it out with her. . . . . . . .If she doesn't come. . . . ALL well and good.

The moral of the story is. . . . . . .Let her do the seeking and searching!!!  It's a fundamental golden rule.
This is a bit safer than calling a babe and telling her. . . . reh reh reh, get outi don't want u, i am dating someone else and other shittery.
Many men lost their lives with such arrogance and sheer stupidity.

P.S. There are many witches/vampires and female killers out there. . . . .WATCH OUT!!!

I completely understand you but I still don't agree with you. What if she eventually calls and my new girlfriend picks up the phone? What would I say to both of them? It just gon' be hella awkward. I choose to do things the easy and straight forward way. If she starts tripping too much, I've got 911 on my speed dial.

Hannibal:
It depends on the time frame, hombre!!!
A girl u have stopped speaking to for 6 months won't come back one day expecting miracles.
Are u supposed to ignore the incommunicado of half a year and just take her back in a stride??
StephenP, don't make me bash your nose with a sledgehammer.

You mean I should spend six months not calling her, not picking up her calls, hiding in my house praying that she doesn't come by, praying I do not bump into her when I'm outside and if I do act like I don't know her, leaving a store or party because  I spotted her or someone that looks like her there. Naw brother, I can't be living my life in fear like that, I'll rather break it up officially and have my sanity.

Pataki:
No news means something is cooking underground.

I beg to differ. I'd rather tell her "look there's someone else I'm seeing" and get it off my chest rather than let her assume because she may not see anything wrong in my inability to talk to her.

@topic, you forgot Rebellious/DaPhoenix. She has my vote.

I'll set up a rendezvous with her and let her know that this thing isn't working at all and I think we should call it quits and end it. I don't have time for shit to be hanging.

Pataki:
@ Topic,

What I do best, I leave the communication gap wide open. I stop communicating. With time she will get weary of the relationship and move on with her life.

It has always worked best for me.

If she hears nothing from you, she could think it's all good. Remember, "no news is good news"