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onyinye2:
well i play sports and i only cry if like i know we could have won but the other team just came with it. Or in track when i know i could have gotten a better time if i pushed a little more.but i wait till i get home. not when im in the midst of my team mates and coaches.

Ok . . . I don't know how else to say this so I'm just going to say it, that question was actually directed to the dudes.

Hannibal:
Of course, not!!

You haven't got to the extreme yet, there's still hope for change.

@ the fellas who put sports before their women, do you cry if your team loses a major game badly?

tope2000:
I'm glad you did because i just decided earlier not to have ya first child anymore  
between
_{loving your nu pic}

Well I guess you won't see me cry. I know much it will please you.

_{Thank you}

onyinye2:
Yeah my cousin, she gave birth to two twin boys. Her husband was crying more than she was delivering them.

He's happy because he's finally got two sons to carry on his name after he has gone . . . _{lol, I'm playing}

I really wasn't looking at the religion aspect. I was just thinking about it in general and was wondering if it was a taboo.

tope2000:
Oh so that day, you would rule out only weak guy crys

I guess. Ok I take that back. Only weak men cry all the time.

dreeldee:
that i concur but if you think only weak men cry, then wait till you see what will make you cry, then see if men cry only in decades or daily

I think I know when next I might cry. That will be when my first child is born and it will be tears of joy.

chika98:
Only real men let their emotions show. Quote me anywhere!

Only weak men do.

onyinye2:
Stop lying like a rug. You same men who claim to not cry will cry the loudest and the most dramatic like when a mother takes away candy from a toddler.

That's the truth.

The Sly:
I didn't hang up. . . . . .Seriously, It was network problem.  

Even a baby would know you're lying.

tope2000:
I think its only real men that crys, i respect any guy who isnt stuck up in his ass to think its stupid for a man or woman to cry.

I don't think it's stupid but I just don't cry because nothing has ever been that serious.

chika98:
Real men cry .

Once a decade?

@ Sly and Hannibal, we are talking about a woman who's your girlfriend not the maid. It's disrespectful to hang up on her.

tope2000:
numbed my black ass

For real though.

onyinye2:
Oka it is a very lovely song. so quiet you. It really touches me.

LOL I'm not judging you.

tope2000:
so what happens if they become sober get drunk again??

I don't know, it has been successfully numbed  

stillwater:
@ stephen

Naa, I can't cry over things as trivial as birthdays, I rarely celebrate it so why bother

I guess.

onyinye2:
You are so silly. But on the real, i wouldn't cry. i would be upset and angry but i wouldn't shed a tear.

Ha! You cry when you hear a song. That's the lowest one can possibly go.

Chat2MeBac:
Stop this your denial jare,  

LOL I'm trying to push you ladies towards reality. Many men block their feelings and senses by getting drunk and I am in no way encouraging it, I'm just saying.

onyinye2:
I cry when im truly disrespected.

So you'll cry if he forgets your birthday because that's mad disrespect isn't it?

$$Rhino:
your cousin's cousin is kind of distant

I figured.

Chat2MeBac:
Crying is just in our nature, But I still insist.MEN cry more. But the chickens wont admit, Olodos

Rare sight.

blue-sky:
i cry all the time for the silliest reasons, i cry when im happy and when im sad.
just yesterday i was crying because some woman lost alot of weight in 'the biggest loser', a tv programme, i was soo pleased for her.  

Now y'all are talking.

onyinye2:
I wouldn't cry. He doesn't deserve my tears.

You're just saying that. Don't worry like Alicia Keys, I won't tell your secrets.

ibkaye:
it's something to get annoyed about, but not cry  

From annoyance it graduates to tears. Then we see you later and ask why you are mad and you say what? "Nothing."

LadyT:
Please we females can cry over anything depending on the time of the month!

I have been known to cry over soaps and cry when I lose debates.

I even cried when I was hungry and sick and he didnt seem to care.

Sometimes I want to slap myself over the crap I cry about

LadyT, that's why I love you. You don't front.

stillwater:
Who cries over stuffs like that?

So it's your birthday, you wake up feeling like a new person and your man doesn't call you, doesn't send you any gift, nothing at all. Lie to me and tell me you wouldn't cry?

onyinye2:
I don't think i know chic who will cry over a birthday, anniversary, maybe. That last part has me at a lost.

If she's crying cause other girls are trying to get at me and or there are rumors about me and other women and she happened to find out.

DaPhoenix:
Many of them don't feel anything; they are dead inside.

LOL!! Dang you ladies always be coming at us foul. That was hella mean. We have feelings too.

@topic,
if I'm the reason for her pain like I forgot her birthday or something of that magnitude, I feel real bad and I'll apologize and try to wrap her in my arms and comfort her, you know, try to get on her good side.

if she cheated on me and I broke up with her and she's crying because she feels bad for what she did, then I'll tell her I've forgiven her but I just cannot be with her. No emotions here.

if she is crying because she's scared or doesn't know what to do, I'll feel like I have to encourage her and show her I'm there to support her whether she succeeds or not.

if she's crying because she's insecure, well, that's just too bad. No emotions here.

DaPhoenix:
Seun can ban me for all it's worth. I don't give a shit.

Ok, how about for me?

Hannibal:
DaPhoenix n Onyinye. . . . . .Stop this childish kizzacks.

They're cool.

DaPhoenix, c'mon now. You're gon' get banned again. Let it go, please?

rampant:
hehehehehehehehehe   stephen na gi lu nwane ya nwanyi oooooo

It was an innocent question.

onyinye2:
Hell yeah it is wrong. Even if the dude was the last man on earth i would rather die single and a virgin then to marry him.

Was that necessary? Naw . . . I'm playing.

gabe_logan:
i'm sure you are thinkin about doing it, right?

Just answer the question.

I believe with every relationship, there is never a balance. Power sways both directions. Sometimes, the woman needs to be submissive and chill with the 30 and other times, she'll be in power with the 80. Now, if a woman is constantly "hell bent on 50 and above" I don't see how that is going to work. It doesn't necessarily take anything away from us but our selfish pride just wouldn't let that happen and that's the why we were built.

Is it wrong for your cousin from your mother's side to marry your other cousin from your father's side?

Where do people get all of their random BS facts from?!