₦airaland Forum

First, guys if you are going to write a lot in your post, please use paragraphs when you write. It makes your post look a whole lot more presentable, easier to follow and it does not hurt the eyes as much as this one does.

Back to the topic, I don't get it, you didn't know whether or not you were going to marry him but you went on to have his baby? That to me, was a mistake unless of course you are looking to getting money for child support and stuff like that. Also, if you don't trust him well enough and you think he is trying to play you just for a visa, I suggest you follow your head and cancel the wedding and talk to him about your fears before you start saying "if I had known. . . " because by then it will be too late.

@topic, Men just don't go round having sex with every woman they lay their eyes on.

CH3COO:
don't let the government in north america catch you toasting me. i'm not legal yet. wait till i turn 21.

18 is the legal age . . . unless of course if one is 16 and the other 17, or one is 17 and the other 18.

@topic, ROFL *wipes tear* She never liked you in the first place but like Debo said, go ahead and object so that she can embarrass in front of everyone there.

gabe_logan:
@ poster

na so u fine wey girls just dey pursue u up and down??

I guess.

gabe_logan:
back to the topic,
i think the quote is correct. drawing from my extensive experience (both personal and witmessed), whenever women intend to cheat or cheat, they usually make up lame reasons or excuses (the most common is he was cheating on me so i had to cheat) but the urge to cheat in men is congenital. it is almost impossible to find a man that will be totally faithful.

As opposed to cheating on him because she thinks he cheated on her, why didn't she just break up with him? They say two wrongs don't make a right. Like I said before, I think the percentage of women that cheat in a relationship is higher than men except the women don't get caught but we do.

davidylan:
the difference is she at least has a husband . . . as for Onyinye . . .  

LOL may I borrow sistawoman's words and say "invented"?

sistawoman:
should i invent a boyfriend to talk about?  When asking questions or commenting on things in my life who exactly should i say said them or who should i say i did them with?

Should i have said "is that why some man i know said to me shut-up your mouth.  or maybe because i have a husband (opps there i go again with that word) i should just never reply because no one want to know that i have one.

We are just saying you just calm down. I mean I have nice abs but I don't go round saying "so one day I was looking at myself in the mirror and one of my pacs moved"

Ruby_Pearl:
Woah, the day my husband says "shut-up your mouth" in a non- joking tone, one of us will spend that night in jail o

and we all know who she will be . . . LOL

CARUSO:
na only u wey go first get husband!!ahn ahn,

my husband said, my husband fuc.k, my husband suck, my husband eat, my husband nairaland!!lol

if the guy see the rate wey u dey take promote am here, he go kick u comot oo!!

davidylan:
hehe i think say na only see am.
Sistawoman na wa o . . . there are plenty women here with husbands too you know. We don't need to know his every move. Thanks

LOL She reminds me of Onyinye. My boyfriend did. . .

I guess.

I don't know about the rest of the fellas but I love to save because it gives me a sense of financial security. In fact, one of my biggest fears is begging for money. Though sometimes I give in to my wants and just buy like the one time I bought my Zune even though I had and still have the iPod Touch.

Women know when to stop talking and listen.

Girls just talk.

DaPhoenix:
You really missed me bad.   I'm sorry, sexy.

Apology accepted. Welcome back.

Ruby_Pearl:
~tears~ see love!

@post
I agree, so are we going to throw a party?

LOL!! What kind of party?

DaPhoenix:
aww . . . I was in a phase where I wasn't feeling Nairaland no more so I left, now I'm bored and back here.

For like a month though? Dang! I got scared that something had happened to my beautiful lady. Why didn't even log on to your IM?

DaPhoenix:
As much as the looks like a female bashing thread, I will not trip over it. I disagree with the quote too.

Damn! I thought I lost you love. Where you been?

back to the topic, on the contrary, I'm just speaking the truth. If it looks like I'm bashing women, I'm sorry.

Sure some men cheat but I am done with women being all hypocrite and bashing us. If a woman said she was cheated on, other women would say "Oh he is a bastard." If she said she cheated on him, they would turn round and said "You go girl, your boyfriend was thinking about it anyway." Naw . . . it's time to flip the script.

A woman appreciates a man at all times

A girl looks for ways to tear him down

Gamine:
I know girls that are attracted to only Guys in a Relationship

they wont even look at single guys.

They all need deliverance, reason will not help them!

True

kadijen:
stephen a woman can withstand a naked man,but a man can hardly resist the temptation when he sees a girl naked,so?

What happened to your ladies from "Sex and The City"?

Plus, that's just a stereotype, we can control ourselves if we wanted to. Some ladies will want to sleep with a dude even if they are fully aware that he's got a girlfriend . . . and I'm living proof.

kadijen:
neither does it make a man better too

when one aint comfortable in a relationship,why not zoom out,instead of jumping from pillar to post

I know. . . But now I can't help but think that women probably cheat more than men. I was in a store like 2 days ago and I saw this one girl with her boyfriend down the aisle. I noticed how she was taking several glances at me but trying to play it off so that her dude doesn't see her I guess then they walked past me and she got real close to me without touching me. After like 2-3 seconds I looked back and caught her looking back at me and looking away quick. Now if her boyfriend wasn't there, I'm sure she would have tried to get at me. So all that talk about guys cheating because they want to is BS, the ladies are now in the lead.

This is one of those quotes that portray women as the good and pure while men are just bad in everything. I think that all in all, cheating whether one needed a reason an excuse to cheat or just wanted to cheat. So it doesn't make the woman better in any way.

"Women need a reason to cheat, men just need a woman" That has to be the dumbest quote ever. _{C'mon when there's Vivaladiva and quickygirl looking for dudes though they are in a relationship?} Granted, our sex drives are visually connected but that doesn't mean that the moment we're in a relationship, we go out and cheat with the next thing in a skirt. We need reasons to cheat (like the one time we begged you wear that sexy Victoria Secret lingerie and you refused because you thought you looked too fat in it . . . jk). Seriously though, everyone needs a reason to cheat. So to this, I scream false.

What do you nairalanders think?