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Romance › Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached? by StephenP(m): 10:52pm On Jul 01, 2008

syren:
Of course not, that would be fighting a losing battle I just let them be

LOL! Keep denying it.

Romance › Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached? by StephenP(m): 10:51pm On Jul 01, 2008

Dakore:
and what kind of girl do you think you would attract. well, birds of the same feathers flock together. it's not necessary to give this kind of advice to someone who doesn't think the way you do and is not a "bad boy."
I don't think there is any such thing as "putting on a bad boy facade" or "just acting like one" . either you are or you aren't.

please leave the good ones alone and go enjoy yourself abeg.

Every dude's got a little bad boy in them . . . it now depends on whether they wish to turn it on or not.

Romance › Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached? by StephenP(m): 10:44pm On Jul 01, 2008

Mesmerize:
Leave Stephen alone na. wetin?
Not same strategies work with all women. . he may be right, he may be wrong, as long as the tactics works with him, wetin concern una?

@syren
abeg, leave him jor be4 his [b]Rebellious [/b]comes after ya, now you dnt want to mess with that

ROFLMAO!! Rebellious doesn't trip like that.

Romance › Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached? by StephenP(m): 10:41pm On Jul 01, 2008

@HR, No you don't. But you'll sure stand out from the rest of the dudes with "confidence" who spray her with compliments and start cheesing just because she sent a text.

syren:
Nope, not for mature women at least, you should be strong and confident but not a bad boy, I don't trust em.

and you feel like you can change them, right?

Romance › Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached? by StephenP(m): 10:33pm On Jul 01, 2008

davidylan:
Abeg someone should explain this "bad boy attitude" to me again? Does it mean hopping on one leg (aka bouncing), tying du rags under a cap, dressed in sagging pants, using words like WTF, acting like you havent got a care in the world even though you still owe child support, being rude and arrogant?

What really is it? I'm willing to learn.

None of the above. It's quite complex mainly because it is not completely defined. But it's all about your swagger.

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=146832.msg2447578#msg2447578 date=1214947707]Maybe when i was 12 grin

the fascination with bad boys comes with inexperience

my taste for bad boys ended when i realised they were all full of BS

a guy with the confidence to approach me straight up is a huge turn on[/quote]The "bad" boy would definitely approach you with confidence

syren:
Lol, who told you this secret Stephen, do tell

Ain't it true?

Romance › Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached? by StephenP(m): 10:24pm On Jul 01, 2008

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=146832.msg2447552#msg2447552 date=1214947242]not necessarily _{(i know i you're trying to bait me)} grin

a woman with any confidence will not fall for all that bad boy crap. . .[/quote]It is no secret to us that you women love bad boys, yet you women deny, deny, deny.

Romance › Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached? by StephenP(m): 10:19pm On Jul 01, 2008

debosky:
definitely won't work on a 20 stone female yokozuna like yourself - only dressing up like a big mac can catch her attention

LOL

[quote author=Negro_Ntns link=topic=146832.msg2447533#msg2447533 date=1214946942]Stephen is having a recall to the time back when he started dating, lmao Dude, you are lucky women approach you. The rest of us work for our gains. grin

[/quote]ROFL!! I wish.

Romance › Re: Why Cant Guys Be Faithful by StephenP(m): 10:13pm On Jul 01, 2008

Got it.

Romance › Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached? by StephenP(m): 10:11pm On Jul 01, 2008

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=146832.msg2447505#msg2447505 date=1214946541]lol. . . what kid of girls are u approaching? 12 yr olds?

dude, u impress me less and less every day sad

[/quote]you know what they say . . . you can't impress everyone.

Romance › Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached? by StephenP(m): 10:06pm On Jul 01, 2008

davidylan:
Oh boy. What can i say? If no be say you be fine boy . . .

seriously they like stuff like that because it keeps them on their toes.

LASIEFAIRE:
Tom Cruise meets Genevieve Directed by Chukwuka Nosakhaire

hahahahaha

Romance › Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached? by StephenP(m): 10:01pm On Jul 01, 2008

LASIEFAIRE:
What movie was that again, i keep forgetting.
Tom cruse been dey the thing , gosh.

LOL!! When you remember, tell me.

Romance › Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached? by StephenP(m): 9:39pm On Jul 01, 2008

well now to answer the question, if I'm about to approach a lady I like, I automatically turn on my bad boy attitude. Walk up to her, a little teasing here and there, flirt around with her, whisper some sweet nothings and then wander off (where she can see though) and talk to other females. Now she's wondering if I'm thinking of her and by doing that she's thinking of me. After a while, I go back to her and talk to her again, get her number. Then I call her later that night and briefly chat with her and make her feel me and what not. Then I won't call her again for 2 straight days just so that she really missed me and I apologize and schedule a "make-up" date.

Romance › Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached? by StephenP(m): 9:21pm On Jul 01, 2008

[quote author=jek_kad link=topic=146832.msg2447312#msg2447312 date=1214943540]d key word here is hurt,y should he soak himself in alcohol if his ego is not hurt,tell me

he should just waka as if nothing happened naw,why d alcohol?

u guys should just be truthful for once

_{all liars will go to hell} grin

[/quote]lol

Romance › Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached? by StephenP(m): 9:17pm On Jul 01, 2008

[quote author=jek_kad link=topic=146832.msg2447285#msg2447285 date=1214943224]if only d guys will be truthful to themselves for once ,we all know that when a girl refuses a guy ,it hurts his ego no doubt
[/quote]Naw . . . he'll easily fix it with some alcohol.

Romance › Re: Why Cant Guys Be Faithful by StephenP(m): 9:08pm On Jul 01, 2008

lady bam:
@ poster.

and to your question?
Actually,most guys are faithful.

but majority are unfaithful,and you know why?

Romance › Re: Why Cant Guys Be Faithful by StephenP(m): 7:43pm On Jul 01, 2008

[quote author=jek_kad link=topic=147040.msg2446895#msg2446895 date=1214937644]nollywood sweetie this story of urs will really make u rich if u take it to nollywood

not valid enough[/quote]Not valid enough? She reading medicine in school so it's easy for her to know which drug that will make him unconscious. LOL

Romance › Re: Why Cant Guys Be Faithful by StephenP(m): 7:39pm On Jul 01, 2008

[quote author=jek_kad link=topic=147040.msg2446857#msg2446857 date=1214936933]no body is disputing that fact stephen

but wtout that guys bleeping manliness d cousin wouldnt have been hammered,d tool for d hammering and shagging came from d guy ,so both of them r just plain stupid[/quote]No . . . the story could have gone like this:

So he was there like a good man waiting for his girlfriend to come home. The cousin saw him looking all groomed and loyal and decided that she must have him on that day. So she tried to seduce him but he resists her advances. Then she brought a bottle of coke and offered it to him. Unknown to this poor fella the bottle was drugged and it knocked him out. When he opened his eyes, he aw his girlfriend's cousin bouncing on top of him and as soon as he held her butt to pull her away, his girlfriend walked on him. Thus, making it look like he was having sex with her.

Romance › Re: Ladies, How Would You Want To Be Approached? by StephenP(m): 7:29pm On Jul 01, 2008

Show her some paper and she's all yours _{jk . . . jk}

Romance › Re: Why Cant Guys Be Faithful by StephenP(m): 7:27pm On Jul 01, 2008

I don't see anyone except iice blaming the cousin. I think the cousin is also at fault for having sex with her cousin's boyfriend.

Romance › Re: Can You Use A Pregnancy To Trap A Man Into Marriage? by StephenP(m): 8:15am On Jul 01, 2008

Wokeyim:
@ TOH
There is really need to pity whomever gets involved with me; who knows, it may be your brother!
@ Onyinye2
Yeah, Double-strapped means the guy wore two condoms. Sometimes it even pays to be triple-strapped!!
@TOH
Don't be scared. I aint ready yet trap a guy with a prego, but am saying if it happens, the guy gotta have no choice but,

if it happens, pray he's not like me.

Romance › Re: Can You Use A Pregnancy To Trap A Man Into Marriage? by StephenP(m): 8:01am On Jul 01, 2008

You can but you shouldn't.

Jokes Etc › Re: Kiss Me by StephenP(m): 7:58am On Jul 01, 2008

naijababe2:
@poster
Go suck on a frozen pineapple.

if you're gon' insult him, can you please come with something strong?

Romance › Re: All Women Are Attractive - When A Man Is Drunk by StephenP(m): 7:31am On Jul 01, 2008

@topic, naw . . . not it all cases.

Jokes Etc › Re: What Is The Koko? by StephenP(m): 7:29am On Jul 01, 2008

gunpoint:
@stephenP
u ol' durty asshol
wetin carri ya mind go "behind" na??

ok . . . anyway in winter, they are an hour behind Nigeria.

Literature › Re: Write Your Own Very Own "drabble". by StephenP(m): 7:24am On Jul 01, 2008

StephenP:
I raised my glass to drink. I let it sit on the tips of my lips as my mind drifted into a jungle of my untamed thoughts. To the outside eye I lived a perfect life. I worked at a successful advertising firm and lived with my wife in a beautiful two-bedroom apartment on the upper west side of Manhattan. To the outside eyes we were a model of what many wished to have and looked upon in envy. All heads turned towards us whenever we were together at a social event. My hands always held on gently to her waist and her hands to mine, as if we were inseparable. Her beauty lit up any room and my charisma was just as igniting as her allure.

I tilted my hands to take a sip of my drink. The cold drink rushed down my lungs as the tears came flowing down my eyes. She was to blame as much as I was, but I took full responsibility. I absent mindedly lowered my hands and released the glass, but it missed the table and shattered upon the hardwood kitchen floor. The scene resembled a Shakespearian tragedy as the red wine made a river that flowed away from my feet and the shattered glass were like droplets of snow. Even my pain was a masterpiece.

To be continued.

continued

She walked in and allowed the silence to welcome her home. I remembered the days when we'd raced each other home. She usually won because her job was only 15 minutes away. Sometimes I would leave work early just to beat her home. The best part of my day was the exciting feeling I got right before opening the door because I knew she was on the other side with a pea coat on and nothing under. But now, it seemed like life had morphed into a strange darkness and no amount of light seemed to remove the gray. So many things were the catalyst - Life got harder, more demanding, schedules changed, problems rose out from the night and silence became our comfort. The love remained strong, but unused, waiting for time to heal the open wounds.

She entered quietly into the kitchen, she glanced at my shadow, but she kept her head moving in the same direction as her feet – towards the fridge. I sensed the silence bugged her because she asked, “How was your day babe?” but she received no reply, “ I was hoping you would make some of that spaghetti that I love or something like we agreed this morning cause I’m starving” she continued. I knew that she was secretly hoping that the silence would end, yet I spoke not one word or made any movement to acknowledge her presence or voice. In frustration, she slammed the fridge and walked towards me and started to yelling at me, telling me how upset she was about the way our marriage was going, telling me if I wanted her to leave I should tell her, after all the door was wide open.

definitely going to be continued

Poems For Review › Re: Love Poem - All About You by StephenP(op): 1:49am On Jul 01, 2008

I'm not. Just saying it as it is.

Romance › Re: Caught Chief Brides Maid In Bed With Husband by StephenP(m): 9:27pm On Jun 30, 2008

ok . . . ok.

@topic, too bad.

Romance › Re: Caught Chief Brides Maid In Bed With Husband by StephenP(m): 9:17pm On Jun 30, 2008

tope2000:
i still need stephen to clarify that

Naw. . . she's my head PR officer

tope2000:
lol
how u take no?
stephen u have a STALKER OO

I know! She said so herself. lol

Mesmerize:
@post
Dnt date men like [b]StephenP [/b]o. . u see, [b]Tope2000 [/b]is his 20th "friend" on this forum. .

No comment.

Romance › Re: Caught Chief Brides Maid In Bed With Husband by StephenP(m): 9:04pm On Jun 30, 2008

tope2000:
lmao
im sure him dey fine na

Yeah I'm fine. wink

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